Just this morning i worked till very late into the early morning.
On turning on the radio to cool fm (lagos) by 3am, the presented (amaka aka maxi) was talking of ladies demanding recharge cards fromguy the barely know.

She so much attacked these ladies that only guys were calling.
Even as a lady she made it known how cheap it is you ask a guy for call credit barely a week you met him and then you condemn him when he demands for sex within that same period.

For those who can go to coolfm 96.9fm facebook page (I havent been there though)
to read really harsh comments from both the guys and the girls on the topic.

The good news is that this same topic will continue 1am tonight on the station.

So my question here is nairalanders is it okay to demand for a recharge card from a guy you met within a week?

To me there is no problem asking a friend 4 a favor nd if he is financially ok den whts ur stress, u ask him 2day doesn't mean u we ask 2moro nd u never can tell d lady might b of help 2 d guy some day.
But y ladies all d time? dont tell me guys dont demand 2, because i hav a male friend who always ask me 2 send him recharge card nd i send because he is my friend.
I see no reason y anybody should call a lady cheap because she demanded 4 recharge card pls. If u dont hav d money just tell her u dont nd she wont kill u! Is a free world.

If you read well the guy isnt an old friend. He is someone she just met. i.e, barely a week or soo.

They covered all these things and believe me even maxi being a lady was realy irritated at such attitude.

ojis j: To me there is no problem asking a friend 4 a favor nd if he is financially ok den whts ur stress, u ask him 2day doesn't mean u we ask 2moro nd u never can tell d lady might b of help 2 d guy some day.
But y ladies all d time? dont tell me guys dont demand 2, because i hav a male friend who always ask me 2 send him recharge card nd i send because he is my friend.
I see no reason y anybody should call a lady cheap because she demanded 4 recharge card pls. If u dont hav d money just tell her u dont nd she wont kill u! Is a free world.

barawo

@ojis
I don't need a prophet to tell me you are one of such girls that begs guys they barely know for recharge cards,shame on you for your defence,please grow up,if any girl asks me for card I quickly delete your number not without telling you your sorry penurious life history. Common criminal according to GEJ

ifihearam: @ojis
I don't need a prophet to tell me you are one of such girls that begs guys they barely know for recharge cards,shame on you for your defence,please grow up,if any girl asks me for card I quickly delete your number not without telling you your sorry penurious life history. Common criminal according to GEJ

YOU ALL SHOULD TUNE INTO COOL FM 96.9 RIGHT NOW TO LISTEN TO SIMILAR TOPIC.

ifihearam: @ojis
I don't need a prophet to tell me you are one of such girls that begs guys they barely know for recharge cards,shame on you for your defence,please grow up,if any girl asks me for card I quickly delete your number not without telling you your sorry penurious life history. Common criminal according to GEJ

YOU ALL SHOULD TUNE INTO COOL FM 96.9 RIGHT NOW TO LISTEN TO SIMILAR TOPIC.

ifihearam: @ojis
I don't need a prophet to tell me you are one of such girls that begs guys they barely know for recharge cards,shame on you for your defence,please grow up,if any girl asks me for card I quickly delete your number not without telling you your sorry penurious life history. Common criminal according to GEJ

YOU ALL SHOULD TUNE INTO COOL FM 96.9 RIGHT NOW TO LISTEN TO SIMILAR TOPIC.

Sincerely speaking, it's cheap.

'mide eniafe:
Sincerely speaking, it's cheap.

Coming from a lady,
I give you a standing ovation.

Don't you guys get bored with all these threads?

Mynd_44: Don't you guys get bored with all these threads?

Maxi ran tis topic on cool fm 96.9 from 1am -5am.

Dotun ran this same issue from 10am -12noon.if they don't get bored why should I?

acidtalk:

Maxi ran tis topic on cool fm 96.9 from 1am -5am.

Dotun ran this same issue from 10am -12noon.if they don't get bored why should I?

Cos they get paid for it and you don't

Mynd_44:
Cos they get paid for it and you don't

Who said I don't get paid?
Ask Seun and Mukina?

On a serious note, truth be told isn't it worth advicing them to stop being cheap?

ojis j: To me there is no problem asking a friend 4 a favor nd if he is financially ok den whts ur stress, u ask him 2day doesn't mean u we ask 2moro nd u never can tell d lady might b of help 2 d guy some day.
But y ladies all d time? dont tell me guys dont demand 2, because i hav a male friend who always ask me 2 send him recharge card nd i send because he is my friend.
I see no reason y anybody should call a lady cheap because she demanded 4 recharge card pls. If u dont hav d money just tell her u dont nd she wont kill u! Is a free world.

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tellwisdom:

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You are a very badt guy.

Not ok

recharge card in this 21st century? Thats the height of poverty. I hate teln my siblins to send me card, let alone a guy i just met. Nt good seriously

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ojis j: To me there is no problem asking a friend 4 a favor nd if he is financially ok den whts ur stress, u ask him 2day doesn't mean u we ask 2moro nd u never can tell d lady might b of help 2 d guy some day.
But y ladies all d time? dont tell me guys dont demand 2, because i hav a male friend who always ask me 2 send him recharge card nd i send because he is my friend.
I see no reason y anybody should call a lady cheap because she demanded 4 recharge card pls. If u dont hav d money just tell her u dont nd she wont kill u! Is a free world.

Seems you had a dyslexia when you read the OP's post. He said someone you just met.

angiemartinez: recharge card in this 21st century? Thats the height of poverty. I hate teln my siblins to send me card, let alone a guy i just met. Nt good seriously

You reminded me of a girl that demanded N2M from me 3 days after we met. Very funny!

acidtalk:

Who said I don't get paid?
Ask Seun and Mukina?

On a serious note, truth be told isn't it worth advicing them to stop being cheap?

In economics, a market consists of two parties: the buyer and the seller.
One cannot exist without the other so if you sat women should asking for recharge cards, then you need to tell guys to stop sending it to girls too

Princeparix do believe that "in life;we live by d rules-we die by d rules". But we need to break sum of dis rules to survive{is our nature}.
We all would surely answer dis question d way we deem fit, bt 4 me>nawa o>i do send and sumtyms decline[dats d sincere truth

i believe dat lady is cheap.Dat shows d level of hardship.

ojis j: To me there is no problem asking a friend 4 a favor nd if he is financially ok den whts ur stress, u ask him 2day doesn't mean u we ask 2moro nd u never can tell d lady might b of help 2 d guy some day.
But y ladies all d time? dont tell me guys dont demand 2, because i hav a male friend who always ask me 2 send him recharge card nd i send because he is my friend.
I see no reason y anybody should call a lady cheap because she demanded 4 recharge card pls. If u dont hav d money just tell her u dont nd she wont kill u! Is a free world.

the poster said is it okay to demand for a recharge card from a guy you met within a week?and not your friend,hope u are not among those parsimonious fellow

Princeparix: Princeparix do believe that "in life;we live by d rules-we die by d rules". But we need to break sum of dis rules to survive{is our nature}.
We all would surely answer dis question d way we deem fit, bt 4 me>nawa o>i do send and sumtyms decline[dats d sincere truth

Giving isn't the big deal most times.
The problem is them using the term "mugu / maga" when you were only pitying their poverty stricken state.

I do send recharge cards to my female and male friends once a while even without them demanding. I might just have the instinct they aren't so financially bouyant that period and I will just send to them. They always are very happy. But not some hungry girl I am just knowing.

kilimanjaro:
Seems you had a dyslexia when you read the OP's post. He said someone you just met.

There's one girl on my BB contact, just barely a week plus of chatting she told me her bis will soon expire so I should help her out.

I cam out straight to tell her I don't do such. I very well know this babe is TOTALLY broke. But guess what, she didn't go off for a second because another 'maga' probably gave her the money.

acidtalk:

There's one girl on my BB contact, just barely a week plus of chatting she told me her bis will soon expire so I should help her out.

I cam out straight to tell her I don't do such. I very well know this babe is TOTALLY broke. But guess what, she didn't go off for a second because another 'maga' probably gave her the money.

Now that's the spirit, if anyone asks for something that is against your principle, say you can't give it. It is so simple

Mynd_44:
Now that's the spirit, if anyone asks for something that is against your principle, say you can't give it. It is so simple

Trust most of of naija brothers. They will always to to act big and create a fake "mr rich and nice guy" they go behind and start complaining and abusing the lady.

acidtalk:


Trust most of of naija brothers. They will always to to act big and create a fake "mr rich and nice guy" they go behind and start complaining and abusing the lady.

They are the ones that get themselves in poo and then they start complaining later

mehn this recharge card issue has always been around. everyone ,guys chicks even children ask for something. say u go to see someone who has a kid,if the child asking u to buy biscuit, ice cream or a toy do u complain about it on a social forum?. u go to see ur homie, he asks u to buy him a drink, do u complain about it on a social forum? i have always said that if u are not ready to meet the financial needs of a lady then don't bother asking em out cos believe it or not they will always demand for something. even u who is going after her wants something too ,so why are u complaining . guys we need to stop behaving like women, if u dont have simply say so. noting is free, not even freedom. u have to give something to earn it.[/color][color=#770077]

nomsochris: mehn this recharge card issue has always been around. everyone ,guys chicks even children ask for something. say u go to see someone who has a kid,if the child asking u to buy biscuit, ice cream or a toy do u complain about it on a social forum?. u go to see ur homie, he asks u to buy him a drink, do u complain about it on a social forum? i have always said that if u are not ready to meet the financial needs of a lady then don't bother asking em out cos believe it or not they will always demand for something. even u who is going after her wants something too ,so why are u complaining . guys we need to stop behaving like women, if u dont have simply say so. noting is free, not even freedom. u have to give something to earn it .[/color][color=#770077]

Did you say give recharge card something to earn love it?

beggin sum1 u hardly no 4 recharge card?! very UNCOOL