Princeparix: and then comes THE ARROW OF GOD

And then we talk about the arrow of God

Mynd_44:
And then we talk about the arrow of God

wen things fall apart;d center can no longer hold and then comes the arrow of God>chinue achebe>sweden 1997

Mynd_44:
And then we talk about the arrow of God

wen things fall apart;d center can no longer hold and then comes the arrow of God>chinue achebe>sweden 2002

Princeparix: wen things fall apart;d center can no longer hold and then comes the arrow of God>chinue achebe>sweden 2002

No longer at Ease before Arrow of God - I think.

The guy just play the fast one & the op falls for it. Just serve as a lesson to others becareful during NYSC must guys are just looking for bleeping partners.

Give him a break, a very long one at that! And while at it, take time to polish your English. . .might be one of the reasons he asked for a break

OP, by any chance; are you a graduate?
if the answer is yes, then NAIJA schools are apologies.
By interpolation, if my understanding is right, I go with Kitty Kat
NO GUY WANTS A BABE THAT DUMPS HERSELF ON HIM. The fun is in the suspense.

Ishilove:
Good heavens. . . *shudder*

@op, no offence intended dear, but are you sure you are a graduate? Your atrocious grammar points to the contrary

NUC should as well ban regular studies in our universities, because its obvoius that the system is in a terrible mess and as a matter of urgency needs to be revamped.

Maryspeck: I meet him 4 month ago, we are both a corper serving in the same same.although we av a little corel before and we just settle some weeks back before he finally said he is no more intrested without any excuss

When would ladies ever realise that Corper/NYSC relationships are mostly parole runz? There are some unwritten codes people live by these days and girls need to be streetwise. NYSC relationships are mostly meant to while away time, it ends faster if/when you have offered him the "pot of gold" and he is not impressed or he has hit another bigger and sweeter corper jackpot!!!The truth is he has moved on and he is just not man enough to tell you. He would surely come back after he gets tired off potting the new hole but remember girlfriend he would leave you again! One more thing, please improve yourself....that "corel" could break any solid relationship.

Heck: OP, by any chance; are you a graduate?
if the answer is yes, then NAIJA schools are apologies.
By interpolation, if my understanding is right, I go with Kitty Kat
NO GUY WANTS A BABE THAT DUMPS HERSELF ON HIM. The fun is in the suspense.

That she made some mistakes typing does not mean she's not a graduate and I wonder why we Nigerians act like we make no mistake, most especially those that have been able to leave the country to another country, even those that travel to Ghana would come say something about grad in Naija like they are better.

And for the OP, your relationship is probably too fast for him, I know how some ladies can be when it comes to getting married, you met this guy only 4months ago and you are prolly pushing him to do what he is not ready for. One thing I want all ladies to know is that, that we are dating does not mean we can get married. And if you are pushing him to marriage, I should tell you that you still have a whole lot before you, you'd still meet alot of people in life and they would definitely admire you, so why the rush ?
Make a guy want you and not force yourself on him cos he wont even appreciate that.

kitty kat: This is the one of those times u shd blv a guy and play along.

If a guy says he needs a break for any reason, don't even argue or beg. Just give him a break and a verrrrry long brk. Also don't wait for him to come back to renew d relationship. At this time 190's advice will come in handy. Move on to d back up. If he comes back, u can accept him if u want but don't go jumping into his hands.

The last thing u shd do is to go worry urself why he needs d break. He may or may not be honest abt it and frankly its non of ur biz. Whenever he sorts himself and comes back, u can always say welcome to mummy or kick his sorry arse to d curbs.

Another time u shd blv guys is when they say the are not ready for a relationship or that they no longer love u

So fcking well said!

Maryspeck: I meet him 4 month ago, we are both a corper serving in the same same.although we av a little corel before and we just settle some weeks back before he finally said he is no more intrested without any excuss

1. i MEET him 4 MONTH ago
2. we are both a corper
3. Corel
4. we jst SETTLE
5. without any excuss (excursion nko) #moonwalkingwithmy hands

Madam poster,ur story is nt complete.am very sure u are disturbing him 4 marriage or money.and again,are u sure u are a graduate b/c ur english here is very dirty.finally,if d guy need a break,let him be.must u force urself to a guy?so madam,find ur square root!

Ishilove:
Good heavens. . . *shudder*

@op, no offence intended dear, but are you sure you are a graduate? Your atrocious grammar points to the contrary

HOW MANY TIMES HAVE I TOLD YOU PEOPLE ABOUT NIGERIA'S FAILED EDUCATION SYSTEM!!!

Why are you surprised?

Ishilove:
Good heavens. . . *shudder*

@op, no offence intended dear, but are you sure you are a graduate? Your atrocious grammar points to the contrary

i was abot to ask d same question

Maryspeck: I meet him 4 month ago, we are both a corper serving in the same same.although we av a little corel before and we just settle some weeks back before he finally said he is no more intrested without any excuss

As a guy, i will love to tell you sincerely why a man will want a break in a relationship;
- you've been too much allover him that you interfere in some of his other interests e.g studies, football, music or anything you don't enjoy with him
- when he sees your unclothedness more often than he sees you dressed.
-he must have been hearing enough grammars from Patience & you may be choking him with more.
-most guys love to play with the foot anything that will come down to the foot level; balls, orange, cans etc including ladies.

Maryspeck: I meet him 4 month ago, we are both a corper serving in the same same.although we av a little corel before and we just settle some weeks back before he finally said he is no more intrested without any excuss

It is this sort of grammatical constructions that has led him into wanting a break, i would too, if i were to be in his shoes, dayuummm........

Omolola1: Give him a break, a very long one at that! And while at it, take time to polish your English. . .might be one of the reasons he asked for a break

I think you may be right.

I dont blame the poor guy jare, who wants to end up like our retardeen presido with a "gbagaun!!" for wife?
would have done same if i was in the guy's shoes

"I need a break" can translate to either of the following: 1. I'm bored with this relationship and need some excitement. 2. You're stalking me and getting all up in ma grill. 3. First, you introduce me to your girlfriends, then your sister, now you want me to meet your ma, next, we gonna be going for introduction, I ain't down with that. 4. Your GBAGAUN is causing me serious embarrassment, I have to end this while I still have my reps (most likely). Either way, bottom line is, he's not into the relationship anymore, and you shouldn't be either.

May he is up to smtin bt i must advice u nt to beg him 4 wot so eva

Omolola1: Give him a break, a very long one at that! And while at it, take time to polish your English. . .might be one of the reasons he asked for a break

Lol, missy! Nicely put!

UN will soon start suspecting Nigeria of having nuclear facilities due nuclear emissions from atomic grammar in our airspace. Just sayn.

pls u guys shld relax. I dont think its wrong 2 ask 4 a break. What if the girl is choking him, or he is nt getting what he thought he wld 4rm d relationship. What if the girl has some ugly characters nd have refused 2 change? There are some girls that wld just be all around u 247 nd wil nt give u space to do anyother thing there re some guys that do nt enjoy that nd hence ll ask 4 a break. I think she is even lucky to have a guy that will be open enough 2 ask 4 a break. What u ll do is look at what happened b4 he asked 4 d break nd correct it (in case he comes back) nd my pple do nt b quick 2 pass judgement on hearing one side of a story lyk this.

Maryspeck: I meet him 4 month ago, we are both a corper serving in the same same.although we av a little corel before and we just settle some weeks back before he finally said he is no more intrested without any excuss

Sorry gurl, while at it, are you perhaps in anyway related to Dame Patience Jonathan, it does appear to me that she is slightly better than you in terms of english grammar.

And for the hop-heads that use any opportunity to spurn graduates of institutions of this country, it might be a wise thing to caution yourselves a little. some have seen both sides of the divide and really and truly, given same circumstances, some guys out here will definitely come better than some of you, so let's just keep these things real. You are who you are, whether u studied and graduated from here or elsewhere. IMO

Guys please I also have a similar issue..I want to break up with my Gf but I don't know how to say it without hurting her..she really loves me and I love her too..but we keep quarreling this days.its not like am seeing someone else already..but I think my happiness and peace as a human is more important than any relationship,and I believe same should apply to her..so guys pls how do I tell her without hurting her feelings or looking like some user..cos we both planned to maake it work into marriage..but now we fight over any little issue...!

U may nt kno,he is avin som1 else somwere n he as achiv wht he wnt frm u, so may jus apeal to him 4 d reasons,cos he may jus wnt 2 kno hw ur lov is n wht wil be ur reaction

lorenzos1: Guys please I also have a similar issue..I want to break up with my Gf but I don't know how to say it without hurting her..she really loves me and I love her too..but we keep quarreling this days.its not like am seeing someone else already..but I think my happiness and peace as a human is more important than any relationship,and I believe same should apply to her..so guys pls how do I tell her without hurting her feelings or looking like some user..cos we both planned to maake it work into marriage..but now we fight over any little issue...!

How about you open a fresh thread and not derail this lady's thread. She needs all the pieces of 'advice' that she can get out here.

yemstok:

₪☹ hard feelings o!
1.What "corel" is it corel draw?
2."We are both a corper"
3."Serving in the same same"

Are you really a graduate or ure just faking it?

4."I meet him 4 month ago"

phemybof: U may nt kno,he is avin som1 else somwere n he as achiv wht he wnt frm u, so may jus apeal to him 4 d reasons,cos he may jus wnt 2 kno hw ur lov is n wht wil be ur reaction

Here they come again.

Guy can you in a sentence paraphrase what you are trying to say. make it comprehensible to the owners of that language. Na wa oo

So what's the problem?

Maryspeck: I meet him 4 month ago

Ok..

Maryspeck: we are both a corper serving in the same same

You are both A corper? Ok...

Maryspeck: although we av a little corel before

Corel draw? Well carry on...

Maryspeck: we just settle some weeks back before he finally said he is no more intrested without any excuss

Well with your high gbagaun levels, I would guess the relationship has been highly injurious to the boy...

I would run too...I would run very far

jhydebaba:
4."I meet him 4 month ago"

Ahan! u can imagine how injurious her grammar wud have been to the guy.....if i were to be in his shoes, i no go ask for a break. I go ask for a CRASH!
Pathetic blunders from a corper.....na wah o!

...move on too