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Realitycheck007:
Good day,

Good people of nairaland, I am new to the thread so please bear my mishaps. Nairaland was Introduced to me by a colleague of mine at the office yesterday. So i said i should seek your advice on an issue bothering me.. Back to the topic.

Name withheld, My fiancee has been my girl for over 4 months now, and by early next year am thinking of taking it to the alter by God's grace but here is the problem....

On 3 or 4 occasions i have invited her to spend the night at my place, she do agrees but the problem is she over sleeps. She would sleep from 11 till 7am, A working class lady. I dunno how to tell her again, Cause i told her jokingly she laughed about it and said Is It my sleep. Imagine marrying her and she wakes by 7 or 8, Were is the time to take care of our kids nd d home I.E, Preparing breakfast and bathing the kids and also preparing for her work hour..... Please Nairalanders, Your opinions will be highly welcomed.

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GavelSlam:
SARS should continue its work.

I am a law abiding citizen who has never been treated badly or falsely by SARS.

They've always been in operation and appear to be even more effective than ever.

There's a lot of room for improvement but SARS must stay.

Acidosis:
This shameless ediot has started again?!

Libya is a Muslim dominated country with over 85% Sunni Muslims. Why are the Sheiks, Imans, and Sultans not talking about the evils Libyans do against our Nigerian brothers?
Where is the Sultan of Sokoto, what about the Emirates in Kano? Why are they mute? Why can't they save the innocent "One-Naijerian" brothers in the hands of their Libyan Brotherhood?

Why must it be the Pastors taking blames for the inadequacies of a nation that has been ruled by the Northern powers that be?

Whoever employed this ma d man as a radio station worker has committed a crime against humanity. People like Freeze shouldn't be heard when they talk.

Iruosonobrugwhe:
This German don hammer for this country sha......Thank God for him

ikp120:
Tell that woman wey dey rant for there to go and fvck herself!

Leave the lady and face the man. He wasn't forced to marry her. He decided to do so.

IgboAmakaa:
God yoruba elders are shameless ....u mean they came to collect their bride price


WAS it not both of them dat enjoyed the one year nonsense marriage ?......why will they shamelessly want there bride price backback


After using her and her fame u still shamelessly came to collect bride price back


yea we Nigerians will only blame the women why the men walk free.....nonsense human beings


my advice to Toto dike is that he should change that his son's name to Dike....to hell with the fuccking marraige




stupid elders with no shame

luvinhubby:
You can take a man out of the street, but can not take the street out of the man.

It still shows on her.

dukeprince50:
SARS can't assault his brother for just having 3phones, there is something we are not getting here, there was a news sometimes last month in how a boy was sentenced to death for stealing a phone, they hid the reason that it's an armed robbery. ask the boy what he did, not 3phones, stop spoiling the name of nigerian justice.

BiafranBushBoy:


This is the reason a lot of people quit Christianity for Atheism. How will God answer the prayer of this hypocrite that wouldn't forgive an offender!!

Stupid pastor with stupid congregation deceiving them to enrich his pocket!!

I know only one reasonable church in Nigeria and that is "Deeper Life Bible Church"

Nonsense!! did she ask for forgiveness and the pastor refuse to forgive her?God forgives only when one ask for forgiveness and turn away from bad behavior.

AuroraB:
Exactly!
Doesn't he have peeps to advise him

notthefakemaree:
Chaii but where is lalasticlala self. I just watched the video on IG. This is bad and I heard good reviews of d school

EfccBoss:
His bad shape of head + her bad eye

A minute silence for their kids

mummyson26:
I know efe go dey sample dis bisola girl

alexistaiwo:
I did not bother to read your epistle because your coming here to seek validation shows that you are not matured and responsible enough to make life decisions on your own.


If you are advised to marry and it works out well.
It is for your benefit alone (abi you want to share her with us)
And if it doesn't work out
It is your cross, you will carry it alone.

So please Bros. Search your heart well.
Therein lies your answer.

Rant over

ObiOmaMu:
A Nigerian photographer, Olaseyi Arisekola took to his Instagram page to call out a staff of UBA for allegedly sleeping with his sister's husband, sending him nude photos and also trying to break their home.

He shared a photo of the lady and a message he sent to UBA concerning the issue. He also said the nude photos will be released before the end of today. He wrote;

"I have been trying to reach out on social media but little response was gotten. I hope you find time to understand, investigate and let the world know my story.
A UBA staff obviously seen my sister's husband account decides to go after him and they had an affair. Now my sister home is broken(though wife and husband are settling back fine now) because the staff knew he is married even though she is now claiming otherwise. We even have the nude pictures she sends to him which we will upload soon.
It was reported to UBA first thinking their policy doesn't support that kind of thing especially a staff tapping rich customers . Mr Razak Shittu from UBA called us and told us that they will investigate the matter that we should send the nude pictures to him, we did. Only for him to call us back and say the lady have been interrogated and confirmed she had the affair but (in his word) "we should let go, that she has been given a formal warning and that we should forgive, because if they sack her and my sister husband decides to marry the lady, who would loose my sister or the lady". can you imagine that statement, shouldn't that be our headache? And after I told him this thing has destroyed my sisters family with two kids, he said 'if I don't listen to him we should go ahead and do whatever we want. I want to believe that's his opinion and not of the bank,but it doesn't matter again. We would go ahead and upload the nude pictures while tagging all bloggers, as well as screen grab our message to UBA and their responses.


If contacted I will give the exclusive story,
thank you.
#uba #husbandsnatcher #ubadtaffnudepics #ubadtaffnudepics
This is the UBA staff picture that was sleeping with my sister's husband while @ubagroup refuse to do nothing, and He name is ................., Mobile House branch at Ozumba Mbaduwe. Funny part is that she's a reverend daughter in a Methodist Church @unitedmethodistchurch, @tonyoelumelu hopefully you will take the right step as one Mr Razak Shittu in UBA who reached out to us cannot be trusted. Therefore I have decided to involve the media. The naked pictures she shared to the husband will be released before today ends. By the way I don't need anything from anybody @drdetola . #husbandsnatcher #ubadtaffnudepics #ubascandal #ubastaff.
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http://www.lailasblog.com/2017/03/nigerian-man-calls-out-uba-staff.html

realmey:
Hello NL

I visited my father-in-law sometime in January this year
We had certain conversation that included him asking me to visit him either on a weekly or monthly basis

Hmmmm,it didn't go down well with me,though i said nothing so it does not look as if i'm disrespectful.

I made up my mind it was not going to be possible as ordinarily i felt he was trying to control me;i didn't bother visiting in February as i already decided to visit at my convenience.

I really don't know if i am wrong,pls ur sincere advice

Guseh:
Ami... Okun oo.