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Marriages of today, attention is placed on the pre and the wedding than in the post wedding.

Months, years down the line, quarrelling, abuse, infidelity and selfishness would take over.

Chai...

I have attended several classes on forex and i can't still claim to be a pro on forex.

Forex pays to those who know the market intricacies, but you know now the nigerian factor, because it pays A, everyone jumps into the game and gets burnt in the process

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Your details are very false, the whole of northern Nigeria can never be 20 million or less.

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The ozubulu massacre wasn't a Fulani or northern Nigeria thing, it's a we we thing, till today the drug baron is still a king and revered

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The southerners are not united, Igbos and Niger Deltans even though highly homogenous still don't have one political agenda. How many politicians in the south east are revered, how many of em have the good interest of the Igbos in their heart, how many of them are presidential materials? What we have are bunch of vagabonds

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The southwest is not wholely united due to differences of religion, but on a large-scale better than the south east and south south combined, at least they have a leader in Jagaban, as much as I don't like the guy but his antecedents speak for him. Taking time to nurture and build his political dynasty is what impresses me about him, malign him all Yiu want he has paid his dues.

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The north is homogenous, no matter their political differences have one conscientious objective " No matter what, don't weaken our power" A northerner views a fellow northerner as a brother and is willing to assist him. A lot of northern politicians have large followership which even makes it difficult to wrest power away from Buhari come 2019

Self consciousness is gradually setting in, people are gradually knowing who their enemies are.

Killings upon killings have been made in Benue and taraba states perpetuated by the Fulani herdsmen terrorists accompanied by threats of more mayhem, no army was deployed to fish out the terrorists, but just one reprisal attack on Fulani herdsmen in gboko and truckloads of soldiers have been sent.

Any other nigerian other than an Hausa/Fulani is a second class citizen

lonelydora:
CHAIIIIIIIIIIIIII WHAT A MIRACLE.
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Alex Ekwueme died and in 1week Oko in ANAMBRA STATE has street lights everywhere, In 1week d bad road from to Ekwulobia to Oko has been reconstructed, in 1week the walls of Saint John Anglican Church (ie the church next to ekwueme's house) has been rebuilt, in 1week a field filled with air conditioned tents has been mounted just in one week!!! IF THE DEATH OF PROMINENT MEN ESPECIALLY THOSE IN THE GOVERNMENT WILL SAVE THIS COUNTRY , THEN LET MORE ....

My prayer: Father lord, there are many roads in the south east that needs attention. so my God pls take note these individuals are still alive
(1) Chris Ngige
(2) Ken Nnamanni
(3) chinwoke mbadinuju
(4) Sullivan chime
(5) ezeife
(6) Jim Ifeanyichukwu Nwodo
(7) Rochas Anayo Okorocha etc
I did not say u should kill them oh but we need our roads to be done. Ndi ara

Bros I second this your prayer, walahi I no go lie if their death would bring the greater good, make dem go meet their creator

Alex Ekwueme died without knowing that his daughter failed woefully in the political exams she took.

The good generational leaders are gradually going extinct, leaving behind the rotten gluttonous selfish leaders who are mortgaging the future of this country

Abeg which kind chairman dey sleep for shop? Omoh na that guy kill e self.

Besides this could be a scientific way of clearing someone without raising eyebrows, how was it established that it was a power surge, cos it could be arson after all he is a chairman and would have those eyeing his post

Alariiwo:
Wetin PMB do this igbo woman no good atal..

After sweating with Chibok and co. They gave her nothing. Not even bone to hang on her neck.

Madam Oby ndo o

Chai bros you are very wicket, infact You are a wicked somebody

The north centrals have been able to decipher who their real enemies are.

Before the storyline have always been painted that the Igbos are the real problem of Nigeria. A country/Individual that doesn't learn from the past is doomed for failure, as much as Ojukwu is maligned, the ideals he fought for remains unfulfilled till today.


I can say unequivocally without fear or prejudice, the north is the biggest problem of this country, substract the north and see how the rest of naija would develop.

It is a bitter truth

If the allegations are true, naija is hatching a dude that would be more terrible and dangerous than the infamous Evans.

A rehabilitation program should be set up for that guy to rewire his orientation else the notoriety of his crime is still in hibernation and would be felt by the innocents in the future...

iammee:
Nigerian men shld help dere women look good too, dey shld not kee dem with too much work.

Hahahahaha this is the most ridiculous excuses I have seen in recent years. So doing their domestic duties as a lady is now what make them add fat even in the most unlikely of places.

Putting on weight mostly come from eating and eating calories without burning out same through workout or physical activities.

The truth is that it looks like there is this unconventional agreement between married ladies in Nigeria that for you to look happy in your marriage, you should add three times your original size so that people would acknowledge your husband is trying

iammee:
Sir u don't know d difference between fake and original body.

Hahahahaha abi, but her faking it and spending thousands of dollars in getting this size means there is a consciousness to look good after birthing three kids.

Outsides the boobs and booth, what other fake spare parts is she flaunting

I am seeing the positives, after having three kids can still workout, burn fats and remain sexy.

If it's in Nigeria, most ladies with three kids would have big fat and ugly and would have been so round like one stack of beans bag.

Nigerian ladies work out, burn that fat after childbirth, still try and see if you can remain that sexy lady your husband married, it's healthy, it's safe

It is pictures like these that send Nigerian ladies to haywire.

After looking at this pictures, they would be convinced that to be beautiful they have to peel their melanin off.

Whoever is Manning Chelsea board are fools, from signing morata, bakayoko.

All the worse number nines in premier league history were linked to Chelsea, from crouch to andy Carroll, to Ashley Barnes to now Giroud, dzeko.

Where did it all go wrong, Mahrez is there, Lucas Moura was available which to be is a better improvement to William and Pedro combined.

If Chelsea with this lackadaisical attitude still manage to be first three, that's to me like a trophy

Chelsea with all the wastage of morata, batshuayi and Pedro combined wants to upset Barcelona, that's more like believing even Buhari is given another chance that things would get better

sarrki:
Ooooh My President

Nothing Good will come out of Babylon

They have made up their mind not to vote you come 2019

We also have made up our mind to vote you no matter what come 2019

Bros I be think say you repented after the benue massacre, what happened, abi is it only during violence and bloodshed does the sense of humanity enter you

mapet:
1. First off, there is nothing wrong in transporting gas to the North. What is important it is put to good use. If plants are built in many places and they can be supplied gas from anywhere. If we can solve the inequality problem and fix Niger Delta, we have enough gas to "feed" the Niger Delta and send to the North.

2. To disabuse your mind, Nigeria sends gas through the ELPS - WAGP line from Nigeria Delta up to Cote d'Ivore, Russia sends Gas all over Europe

There is nothing wrong, does it make economic sense? Nigeria because of the abundance of wealth at its disposal waste enough resources which is regrettable.

Why not talk about decentralization of power supply and generation than arguing over frivolous issues

This national grid nonsense is killing Nigeria, why should electricity be nationalised

Why wouldn't Nigeria practice true Federalism, sub division power generation and distribution to regions and uses local materials unique to the environment to power the turbines. Why should a gas pipeline be made to transport gas from Niger Delta to the north to power a gas powered turbine just because of one Nigeria; why should electricity be lost while transporting electricity from kanji dam to the south south, when gas is readily available.

Sometimes I ask myself what's wrong with Nigeria, why do we love making things difficult for ourselves. Donald Trump is right after all, here is a a complete shithole, the African race is a liability to the rest of the world.

All our leaders know is loot and loot without even adding any value to their subjects. Ask yourself what value have Buhari added to the country, nothing and the nonsense continues

2018/2019 would surely be interesting

Nigeria's anything but buhari would surely send them into another four years of much suffering.

Kwankwaso is a younger buhari, same old shit, same tribalistic and nepotistic fellow, troublesome and there have not been clear antecedents just like buhari.

I would even prefer el rufai to this horseshit cos el rufai even though nepotistic and tribalistic have antecedents and resembles one who would support development

Hahahahaha this is Photoshop coupled with the fact that this is a joke

But on a real sense am sure a buhari as an ex general would not back out, he go still push ahead with his re-election plans

It is now left for Nigerians from across all divide to ensure that they come out enmass to vote out this nepotistic, tyrannical president cos sure he is still going to get block votes from the north. Those people are too sentimental yo distinguish right from wrong...

This can happen to anyone more especially when one has cardiovascular issues but the way we are wired in this country is that someone somewhere which somehow might be innocent in some ways would be blamed(unto Village people things ) would be blamed for the demise of this enterprising young man.

But I hope sha the death has nothing to do with Lagos politics sha, cos African man voodoo na digital

davidif:
Kanu has done all he could? You are talking as if marriage is a one way street? This is not some generous donor to poor peasant kind of relationship, this is an institution created by God for goodness sakes. No wonder so many marriages are terrible in naija; its because a lot of people see it as a sort of financial transaction and not a convenant.
Marriage is supposed to be mutually beneficial to both parties and not about some rich donor looking for someone to give him kids.

Thanks for all the above-mentioned points, I understand em with clarity and there are truths found there in, a quick question, what do Amara want ?

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davidif:
Wrong! A man shall leave his father and mother, brothers and sisters and cleave to his wife and they shall become ONE FLESH!!! What is it about being ONE that you people don't understand? It means that no one should come between you and your wife and that includes your wife. Do you people even know anything about loyalty or what it means to have your wife's back or defend her honor? If you don't, please don't marry abeg. Don't punish the poor girl biko.
No wonder a lot of marriages in Nigeria are just loveless. Wife just stays with the husband because of the stigma of divorce not because he loves him. Your wife does not come after your family but before them.

Bros you are just ranting and know nothing, Kanu had done all he could for Amara who was nothing before he married her, given her a career, kids and a luxurious lifestyle of money and fame which most ladies dream of and am very sure kanu's wealth must have rubbed off on her family also.

There is no way in Africa, a man completely abandons his nuclear family because he believes he's married, let's be realistic, so Amara coming online to blast her brother inlaw because of match tickets is very stupid and immature, if you don't see the wrong there, I do

Amara is stupid in a million years to do that, and for the fact that she has not come online up till now to seek forgiveness and apologise for her rant means she has self serving ego which is even more dangerous than her uncouth tongue.

The more reasons I tell rich dudes to marry from rich homes, if you can get a humble girl from a rich home, the probability that she would remain humble and respectful is over 90% while that poor humble girl might be humble because of condition, give her fame, money and power and you would be surprised by the tigress she would become

There are things one may not enjoy doing but because of pressure from wifey, parents and in-laws may decide to yield to.

If left for me na to carry ma wife go court registry with a few friends of less than 20, after the registration carry them go house for light refreshment but the truth is that I know am dreaming cos bae deserves something classy. There is no way in a million years I wouldn't yield to her pressure in the long run.

No matter the wrongs, calling out family business on public domain is the most "wronged thing to do"

Family business stays within the family, besides sometimes these girls don't have any respect self, how can you call out and disrespect your brother in-law who is miles older than you are.

I may understand her grievances,but it was the responsibility of kanu to sort his issue with his brother. Besides Ogbonna is his blood, suffered with him, Amara only joined when the fame and riches came along and might not know the underlying reasons why kanu condone his brother.

No female on earth called a wife can make me abandon my siblings, my parents never in a million years.

Amara how have my disrespect

Danchoco:
Must the gallons be yellow....if not let talk business.......

hahahahaha this is funny,

Where are you based, i dont deal in shea butter but stay in the north where it is in quantity and can get you contacts.

How do you want it

The establishment of a cattle colony is not the problem, the problem is the resultant effects that would accrue in the next 50 to 100 years.

What would happen then? These Fulanis would have been settled, brought their extended families to live and dwell in those colonies, establish a recognized leadership e.g emir of Abia colony, the next thing is to legitimate struggle for expansion of territory, if that fails then comes the jihad to forcefully expand their territories and the bloody mayhem would even be worse than what we presently face.

Ask our Ilorin brothers how dey take get Emir of Fulani lineage in a region that is Yoruba. It's dates back to centuries ago, it all started with a visit and giving land as a form of hospitality.

All southerners should be weary of this policy, the resultant effects may not be a sweet story in the end