₦airaland Forum

Just like here on Nairaland — the only thing about it is: people will be quick to deactivate their account when they feel harassed or haunted online and go on to sign up a new account thereby increasing membership.


Almost less than half of Nairaland members are alternate accounts or multiple accounts users.

Prior to this new policy — In the long run, Twitter (X) value will increase due to increasing membership which will attract more ads placement on the platform leading to more profit.

Elon is a smart business man.

He fired 80% of Twitter staffs when he took over and now utilizing the remaining 20% to achieve the X goal. He also figured those 80% staffs he fired were hired to police Twitter and enforce censorship which was irrelevant if your trying to promote free speech.

Good Job Elon.

For men:

Never make one woman your source of pleasure and even if you do. Never let her know about it and even if she knows about it, do well to give a nonchalant reaction to all her threats about breaking up with you.

Meaning, Never potray a scarcity mindset around your woman.

Failure to adhere to this. She would ruin you.

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For women:

The greatest hack to make a man commit to you or get him to do things for you is total submission. Submit to him good enough and suddenly ghost him or block him, if he doesn't appreciate you enough and watch what happens next.

Send your kids and you stay back.

Support them from here; Invest in them and let them know they are your retirement plan for the future.

Back home here — Engage in businesses building Materials, cement etc. I didn't say business but businesses.

Prison break series

"It's better to be a king in the village than being a peasant in the city." This was the quote Don Jazzy told Dbanj who insisted on kissing Kanye west A$$ for international record deal instead of growing Afro beat back home. This disagreement ended Mo-hits records. Today Don Jazzy is more successful.

If you earn in dollars and also earn good on your regular bank job. You doing far better than 60% of Nigerians. And you get to enjoy the slippage difference of dollar over naira exchange — as at today naira to a dollar is 820 in the black market.

Just invest wisely here and you would be good. Even if you do bad in investment, your constant dollar earning would afford you the opportunity to try out other opportunities.

On the flip side, when you eventually japa and begin to earn say 3000 dollars monthly, there are taxes to be paid and other expenses and in the process, you will be slow to build wealth, it will take you years compared to when you in Nigeria enjoying the Naira dollar slippage difference.

If you single, finding a wife there would be difficult except you japa-ing with your wife.

Oga stay back and secure your future here, save in dollars, invest with naira and stay ahead of the market here.

The reason why infidelity is on the rise is because of how the dating market is structured.

Women want more resources for less sex and men wants more sex for less or no resources. It's hard to reach an equilibrium hence, the market will remain a stalemate making a man adopts scarcity mentality.

What that leads to is infidelity and promiscuity whereby, a man gets into any pusßy available because it's difficult to always come by one for less resources, so when he is easily presented with one. He go knack.

This is a WRONG decision.

Increasing more supply of currency into the economy further weakens the currency and continues to raise inflation.

It means too many money in circulation chasing fewer goods. The money will be worthless as the price of commodities will continue to sky rocket. (Let's hope we don't end up like Zimbabwe, where bread was sold for one billion).


To cushion inflation:
1-Raise interest rates.
2-Re-peg the naira to dollar.
3- Raise tariffs on imported goods that is produced locally.
4-Impose heavy Tax on big corporation and utilize the funds to support SMEs.
5-Use the susbsidy funds to assist Dangote kick start his refinery, let's begin refining locally ASAP, then after that focus on using future subsidy fund to fix the Nation's refinery.

Nigeria is headed for a financial armageddon if CBN continues this sort of backward policy.

Precious101c:
Spending my life savings of almost 35million to build 10self contain apartment for rent, now my money has finished and I haven't completed the house. Am even struggling to eat now meanwhile I have 35million worth of uncompleted building , not rentable.

Sir, learn to set low aim and ambition, achieve it before you set higher ambition. You would take lessons from previous journey, then grow from there.

You will bounce back sir

UyaiIncomparabl:
Club Cubana is the answer. I worked there. If you have ever been there or clubbed there, then you'd understand how making thousands could be easy peasy in one night. I could make as much as 500k on a weekend. Then, I was like LAPO to family and friends. If you met me then to borrow you 1M, it would be readily available.

I was a teenage girl, naive and impressionable. I felt everyone had a good heart — like me. I would always help anyone who came to me having money problems. Anyone. I'd make sure you live la Vida loca as far as you came to me for help and I know you.

I had an admission to study in Finland, and then I got duped of over 5Ms by an agent. Sadly, this person was introduced to me by family. Till now, I don't know her whereabouts. I doled out uncountable monies doing giveaways without plans because I felt it would always be there. Even my parents were no good.

Do you know what it feels like to have over 9M in one minute and be stark broke in another? Sometimes, I sit and stare forlornly and just think I have nothing else to live for. When I tell people I'm depressed, they laugh at me and call me bipolar or make jest of me about being depressed. You don't understand it, mate. Like another Nairalander said, maybe I'm just still very weak and playing cowardice to snuff life out of me. Or maybe, I'm still very undecided. Time will tell.

Mind you, I have things going on for me but I can't forking move on. I hate everyone who I ever was there for. I hate them. I regret every forking thing I ever did for them. 😭. Maybe, I just had too many expectations. Just maybe. But, why should I not? I forking cared for them. Why shouldn't I?

I'm sorry about the epistle.

Damn girl.

I feel your pain. You should have atleast read the "48 laws of power" and see through human deception before being manipulated for your will.

I want to reach out to you to discuss more. Would you be comfortable if i take your number here?

In Drake's voice.

God's plan.

When you are comfortable in life and have eaten atleast a slice from the pizza of success. You would stop taking life and your ambition seriously provided your future has been secured financially.

That was what happened to Simi.

In stoicism, we know it as: Excessive comfort brings about mental degradation.

Fryx:
Genuinely throw yourself into confusion and make her confused that your own confusion is more than hers.

She will get worried that you don’t know what you want and make the efforts to be logical.

Once she is in that stage, strike up a meaningful conversation, and you will know her for real.

It’s always work for me. Try it.

If this works for you — fine. However the best way to get Intel or elicit Information from a person (either male or female) is the Socratic method.


Socrates was known to have perfected this method and it's been used today in interviews, police investigation, psychologist etc.

According to Socrates: First, let them know you know nothing. Then tell them to tell you about what they know.

After they let out their knowledge, quiz them on every detail they consider fact or truth about their knowledge.

Do this rhetorically on every "detail" till they reach emotional outburst or admit their ignorance but remember your aim is to learn from them. What you actually learning from them is the extent of their ignorance in relation to your own. When you do this with various people, you will eventually stumble on the Truth along the way.

This genius way of thinking was the reason Socrates was regarded as the wisest and most educated man who ever lived as his idea brought about modern day education. It was called academy then though. Even the oracle of Delpha proclaimed Socrates to be wise, he still doubted the Oracle.

In summary, the message she is trying to get across is: Men are polygamous by nature, however if you as man decides to be willingly monogamous with one woman, you either lacking resources to cheat or your wife/girlfriend must have edited your masculine gene in the underworld.


For some reason, she is 60% right.

Arsenal were title pretenders

babaYIBO:
I’ve been dating this girl since early last year when I was still serving and she’s really into me. She doesn’t bill me unless I purposely send her something. And we occasionally hangout a lot too.

By mid last year, I brought her home to meet my mum and some of my siblings. My mum likes her so much and she would spend time with me in our house.

I finished my service around September last year, and I started hunting for job. I was taking online classes etc..

So I got a job earlier this year, and the pay isn’t bad. Only my mum knows how much I’m earning and few friends. My girl doesn’t know.

Now, I’m likely to be getting a pay rise this month.

I’m also planning to get married to this girl next year, hopefully, she’s been a good girl even when I was jobless.

I don’t know if it’s okay to let her know my salary range. Although I’d not be telling her specifically the amount.

Is this a good idea?

Never make that mistake man.

There are things you don't tell a woman. Ask yourself; How does her knowing your net worth or gross worth improve your relationship with her?

Sadly it don't, instead it will only stir up her greed and entitlement.

Things you keep secret from your woman

*Your finances ( how much you make)
*Your dark past
*Your insecurities
*The extent to which you love her.


Trust me, when you reveal the above; you would pay darely for it, because those are the information they need to manipulate you.

lovediehatelive:
I met this pretty homely girl sometimes ago.

She was reluctant the first time I toasted her and won't want to date me. However, I persisted till she succumbed.

She's everything I want in a lady. She didn't want to visit me when we started dating until one day I promised that I won't touch her.

She visited and was so graceful that I thanked the heavens for sending my soul mate to me.

We discussed a bit and I made her feel comfortable because she was really uneasy.

As promised, I didn't touch her. She felt so free that she rested her head on my chest.

The urge to kiss her became so strong, but I resisted.

What's the use of spoiling things now when she can be mine forever?

She later left and we became really close from then.

I was happy because she's madly beautiful yet so down to earth.

I was thinking she is a virgin but I needed to clarify.

So one day, I used talk to bring talk and stylishly told her a bit about some rough life of my past for her to feel uncomfortable.

She later opened up to me about her first kiss and how the guy went on to have sex with her even though he promised her nothing will happen.

She was 19 years then.

Since then she stopped visiting guys and is no longer in contact with the guy.

She swore that she hasn't kissed or had sex since then.

Now she's 23.

The thing is I really deeply love this girl because she's just exactly what I needed. But I promise myself that I will marry a virgin and nothing else.

My love for this girl is beginning to affect my thinking.

Should I ditch her and keep looking for a virgin?

Or should I continue with her?

I'm planning to see her people this December.

My guy:

Sex first before relationship.

If you commit to her without sex, she has that leverage over you and risk hoarding sex till after marriage or worst still, manipulate you with it.


Your first show of weakness is letting her know you deeply in love with her. And now you want to adhere to NO SEX. Dude wake up.

Listen Son. After sex and the post-nut clarity, you would make better decision to be with her or not.

Billionaire game.

Money is just an instrument and measurement of power at this point for them. Not a survival means.

As a Chelsea fan. This is sad. Horrible.

Aigbedion141:
Omo! Was a gambler for 4years only GOD knew how he manage to pull me out.
Now I'm into womanizing spent over 300k within 4months.

I'm extremely tired and saddened, And always remorseful! I regret everybit of my actions after chyking olosho (Hookup, hoe).

Once I'm broke sex doesn't cross my mind.
But the moment there is enough capital my mind is filled up with different theories of sex style.

Initially I started it to kill depression, boredom and shyness.
Now I'm addicted, as a knowledgeable man I'm aware it will obstruct my pathway to success and it's diminish glory and destroy destiny.

I'm very willing to stop and will be very grateful to the advice i will be receiving here.
Thank you to everyone who contributed and to everyone who read.. love always.

If you lack discipline to curb your excesses in life. You would pay for it.

Number never lie. Either you running at surplus with finance or running at deficit. It all has to do with your personal decisions in regards to consumerism.

Clearly your problem is lifestyle inflation. And the end point is DEBT!

Cut down on your excesses by budgetting and be strict with your budget. If possible, stay on a budget until the day that you die. It will save you a whole lot of trouble. Not only money trouble but lifestyle trouble.

This man was really handsome till his old age.

Rokiat:
It’s not just about sex but some women are truly irreplaceable.

Some of my exes stay salty and in my inbox begging me to come back 8 years later while my current man stay obsessed.

all your ex and current are low value.

Slavic Russ

Long life Vladimir Putin

Donbass is Russia

Crimea is Russia

Taiwan is China

We now in a multipolar world. The U.S should get used to this new reality.


When it comes to fashion, we talking about the French.

When it comes to food, we talking about Italian.

When it comes to technology, automobile industry and physics, we talking about the Germans.

But

When it comes to WAR, we talking about the Russian.

Napoleon and Hitler couldn't defeat her; 31 countries (NATO) are so scared of her that they joined Forces to weaken it.

Slavic Russ.

God1000:
I think Saudi Arabia and Russia are purposely doing this to spite Washington, Biden should withdraw all US troops from Saudi Arabia and place sanctions on them

This is a political move

Placing sanction on Saudi Arabia would seem like putting the nail on the confin after the death of the US petrol Dollar.

U.S can NEVER, I repeat "NEVER" sanction Saudi Arabia. Even China, U S can never sanction China like it did Russia because China holds most of U.S Treasury bonds.

Any sanction on those two countries would kill the U.S Dollar and the ripple effect will hit the U.S economy like a disaster.

I feel bitter not because your wife can't conceive but for her having the guts to still manipulate you with leaving if you get another woman pregnant.

If she loves you, she should reach a compromise with you to either try surrogacy or get another girl pregnant, while you keep trying with her. She is being manipulative with love and you too blind to see it.


To cure PCOS, try getting rid of belly fat and drastically lower blood sugar and ensure her biles are functional. If her biles isn't functional, it wouldn't enable her produce the optimum amount of estrogen.

But bros, if I be you, I for don give one girl belle outside, rent house for her and tell your wife after the girl don born. You no go spend reach that 2 million self. Don't be blinded by love son.

To love is to suffer and you suffering now.

I have never loved you, you are alone in this relationship.

Get him "Niacin" and get him to socialize more with people. If possible, get him a job or enroll him for jamb lesson or learn a trade.

Ensure he takes that niacin drug (one capsule per night) as that will keep him mentally balanced. In worst case scenario, 2 capsules within 6 hours interval.

He would be fine.

70 years old man!

Your mumu never too much?

obedience4:
General Armageddon, has been sacked to deputy commander.. I thought he was the one destiny to led Russia into victory.

Wagner and the Russia military dragging propaganda victory in SALT city..

I have never seem a military structure and organization so poorly done as the Russia military.
A over hype Soviet era trash..

He wasn't sackes neither was he turned deputy.

Due to the large scale of operation and potentially opening a new front, Putin deemed it necessary to hire another commmader alongside Surovikin. Surovikin and the new guy are both 4star general.

obinna58:
It’s your likes that accepts suffering as a way of life
No man will want to be rejected by 9 out of 10 ladies remember there’s possibility you can get 10 of 10 ladies

Scoring 1/10 in test is a total failure

He is actually right.

Rejection is part of life.

You opined that no man will want to be rejected by 9 out 10 ladies.

It's very possible sir and it happens. This isn't a matter of "no man will want to ....", that's a mere wish. Reality is savage.

I believe with tips he is acquiring, along with his experience gain, he would gain confidence quick to mitigate risks and lower number of rejections. Nevertheless,10 out of 10 rejections is very possible when you doing everything wrong.

Iloveu778:
I'm more of an introvert, am always indoor most times I don't socialise much.

So over the years I discovered I don't really know how to talk to ladies at all, Infact I got scared when I see beautiful ladies for no reason.
So I decided to start socializing and start asking girls out.
The first one I asked out today, Just look me from down to top and hissed.
Am average looking though.
I felt bad smh, I just want to ask those who has been in the game for long how it is ?
Is that how girls behave ?

Funny but here are some tips.

1. Don't be swayed by this girls' redudant attitude, simply put — rejection. It's better to be rejected than to regret later not making a move.

2. Truth of the matter is: it's a game of number. The same way you approach this one unsuccessfully today, if you keep up like this every now and then, at least you would be successful with one.

3. Kit up — Dress good. Not necessarily expensive clothes but decent outfit. Along with well kept hair.

4. Conceal your intentions: The moment you stopped her; she already has an idea what you want (her pušsy), so it's up to you to come at her with an intention of being friends and not just straight up — you like her. However after friendship is established and numbers exchanged. You can now begin to signal your interest.

5. Pull back after you signal your interest following constant communication after 2 weeks or a month. If she reaches out to you. Then you in business, if she doesn't then you playing yourself, and she's just leading you on. At that point, Just quit and go hunt for another girl.

6. Learn to be slick with your tongue like lesbians and lawyers. If you don't have an idea. Go study Tbag pattern of talking to convince people in the movie prison break.

7. Never make her the focal point of your existence and treat her like your junior sister after you have gotten her.

8. Always hit on women everywhere you go just for ego boost. Be careful as some will be way out your league.

9. If you can make a girl laugh, you would have successfully completed 50% task to take her to bed, the other 50% is your verbal intercourse.

10. To override these whole step 1-9. Just make money. Get a car and appear rich, that same girl who looked down on you today would be the one to come introduce herself to you tomorrow.

Hello house,

Good evening, it's been quite a long time we heard from Dru23, I hope he's safe, and who hears from him offline?

From a concerned follower.

This would only prevent people from saving huge sum of money in the bank when they know It will be a mountainous task to take out the money when needed urgently, (especially business men who need huge cash to run their business), in other words — the whole idea of cashless policy will be defeated if these set of huge spenders refuses to keep huge cash in the bank.