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TrebleChamp:
Palliatives from Govt don land 😁.

Party of poverty chai. Come be like Communist China under Chairman Mao

obainojazz:
Chat GPT try for this one 😎

I will remove sluggish Riquelme insert Fernando Redondo

Boateng has come seen and conquered. No be by playing for donkey years in irrelevance. Schurrle and Bender brothers all retired at 31.

2 CLs, 2 Trebles and a World Cup.

Boateng made the most of his prime winning everything winnable

In other stories what's with the Pavard and Gravenberch business? Are they staying or going

Ellexy:
What did he do wrong here? Did he insult his mother or grandfather here? Stop judging people unnecessarily. It's a free world, learn to tolerate and accept people as they are.

Burna Boy has never told you he had good character before so I don't know why people are even wasting their anger. In fact it puts everything in proper perspective now, if he fit run this one for him grandpa and mama presence why are strangers expecting better

sod09:
That is my point
When the incident happened hermoso said she didn't like the kiss, then after she defended the man using emotions as excuse only for her come out in full force saying the man should be punished
That's just someone confused right there, the foolish man didn't help himself too by insulting those who called him out but he's apologised
What else do they want, if he want to have anything to do with her will it be in the general public

We will soon reach talking or looking at the F gender will be tagged molesting

Sometimes as men our excesses sef dey give these women rope to hang ourselves. In these days and times that man should have known better.

And let's be frank, can he hug man like that in the name of excitement.

We saw what happened with our Akwa Ibom brother Ime Udoka unto under G affair. You just gotta know the rules and play accordingly unless you go explain tire

BlueRayDick:
Okay good.

Do u know why I asked u what it is called and the source of ur information? It is becasue I saw a misrepresentation in ur post and I wanted to know if it was ur source that was wrong or u were the one that innocently or knowingly misrepresented the fact.



It is a taboo in Yoruba culture for a son to have a sexual relationship with his mother. So when I saw ur post above talking about a son inheriting his father's properties , wives and his own mother; I knew that is one strong misrepresentation of facts.

Please modify ur post, there's nothing babaric in a family member marrying a widow. Almost all major tribes in Nigeria had such history in their culture.

Lmaoo. It's DonJazzy again

Olowunl01:
Who be non state actors? Bloodless coup happened next door, you guys want us to go do what exactly in Niger? Preserve and Restore democracy right - like we are practising democracy. Niger has always had its issue - Nigeria has too many problems right now, you think war is cheap?

PS: We already have ISWAP and Boko Haram so whats new? Herdmen UGM nko? Their closest kin are all saying no to any intervention, only people in the south dey shout for intervention.

Lessons will be learned

What is Putin cooking?

Anyway these jokers can invade Niger if they want. Just pray that Russia is not at their back else the thing wey una dey find. Una go see am

UnfairLife7:
wife don't beat their husband.

Don't let me flood this page with women killing their husbands abeg. You don't have to pander to women to prove points

Mrbllymer:
Online marriage counselors, she didn't ask for mind opening though did she?
No sensible person judges based on a side of the story, that's why courts mostly hear from both sides before giving judgment.
Most will likely paint a narration to suit their side of the story. Not in support of him being lazy or beating the said woman though.

Then she's in the wrong place. I wouldn't advice my sister if I had one to stay with a drunken man beating her to a pulp. At that point I will question her intelligence.

Maybe she's lying and maybe she's saying the truth who the fvck knows. Women lie too but we can't pretend there are not numerous men out there battering their wives

I am going solely off her story. If it is true then getting the man is the least of her worries, he needs to get himself back

Let's say he injured her. I just want to know who will have had to pay the hospital bills?

I don't like seeing emotional men that don't think and use logic. If you're upset that you don't have a job it can always get worse, you're healthy, you're not destitute, you still have your wits about you.

Wasn't it Solidstar I saw the other day roaming the streets aimlessly on the internet yelling at whoever the fvck knows

Is he the first man that will lose his job? People like that is why Layiwasabi said broke niggas are homicidal.

And I'm not one of those that even believe a man must be provider and traditional megedefegede but he should at least be bringing something while the woman also brings something.

PastorFire4Fire:
Nobody is asking her to leave her marriage but the question is, was the man like this from the onset? He lost his job and he is depressed. Why not help him talk to people about getting another job and let him see your effort on that.

Na wa. Are we talking about a boy or a man here? She a woman needs to talk to people to help him get another job? Lol abeg nau. Ok let's say he had no woman. Will he not survive?

Life is not easy my brother. All your life even for your church have you seen any ministry that cater to widowers?

Women get their own for body 100% and can be very problematic but we can't keep coddling to foolishness from our kind either

liveLongNprospa:
Is it okay to insult him? Or does he deserve some form of respect for his relationship with God?

Any adult still believing some other living being is his conduit to God is beyond redemption tbvh. I don't care what no Nigerian or American pastor has to say about nothing unless it's their field of specialty

Mrbllymer:
She didn't ask for validation or your narration about the said man. Provide a solution of how she can get her husband back as the deed has been done.

Validation? You think I care about validating anybody.

Oga I'm opening her mind to the fact that he might not be a husband worth having. Cannot be broke, unemployed and a drunkard that beats their wife. That is too many struggles for one person.

There might be no solution

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If the husband was a millionaire would she have called the police on him ?

She could have used the police to threatened him. Make him take an undertaking never to lay is Hands on her again.

She could have taken the children and move to her parents house pending on when the husband puts his life in order....

There are many effective ways She could have used to TEACH the husband a lesson. locking him up is not one of those ways unless she is no longer interested in the marriage... by locking him up she has unintentionally destroyed her home...

I can assure you the husband believes that his wife locked him up because he is jobless, broke and depressed and nothing you tell that man will change his mind. You can't imagine that level of resentment that man now have towards the wife...

As I said earlier by locking him up especially with his current financial and unemployment status, she has unintentionally destroyed her marriage.

Nigeria is the only country a man will get away with this foolishness and you know it. If the husband was a millionaire you say? You've not heard of millionaires getting locked up? His millions make him above the law?

Nothing like she could have, he could have not beaten her and smashed her phone. Try that suggestion. What type of drunkard is that? In my drinking days I used to throw up and sleep not beat people (assuming her story is true)

Maybe the home is meant to be destroyed cos that is not a rational and logical man, remaining with him is probably not in her best interests anyway.

That husband is a foolish man and we need to drop this he was broke, depressed angle. If he has resentment and not disgust at himself for the past two years he's failed his family then he's doomed and perhaps he should be left to his fate.

Theflint1:
This was always the most annoying part of betting for me. Those days I took football betting seriously, I used to spend entire weekends combing through leagues, multiple browsers open, all in a bid to get the perfect set of tickets, only for one or two games to mess it up. And I couldn't pick games on the fly like a lot of persons did, cause in my mind that was basically me setting money on fire. Also it helped that I hate wasting money....can't be a good gambler if you're not comfortable with feeling like you're wasting money.

You would bet like this when you're desperately in need of money. When I used to bet regularly the amount of money I had was inversely proportional to the time spent combing and 'forecasting'

The only time you will really spend a lot of time and be under pressure is when you don't have and are idle. When you're busy you won't have time.

Sometimes you even check the next day cos you're occupied

Olowunl01:
Chief - In the Abroad you still have to do all these + have Money; hence with the ongoing Japa wave; alot of couples are facing issues - adjusting to the new realities is causing big problems in the home front which most especially the Men never factored.

Maybe because I no grow up with househelp or sister sha cos I don't see any big deal in doing domestic stuff. If I no clean my house shey na Addo, Biden or Tinubu go come clean am?

A lot of niggas don't know when to drop their shoulder and get down and dirty, sometimes you just have to stoop to conquer. Changing diapers for your own child and doing your own laundry should not be some horror movie for you.

It's why I don't even buy into all this traditional talk nonsense cos no woman today is traditional. When you enter settings where the woman can also make her money forget it.

So for me I'm not a beast of burden we will both contribute to money and whatever house chores I no send, the idea that you will sit pretty and do nothing in big 2023. E better make I be Reverend Father. That one will not fly.

The hack is you need money to survive as a man anyway so understand this but stop dealing with non contributor women. If I see Soft life, My money my money, his money our money. Piun. Speedy Gonzales. Certain lingo you should know this woman is a bad market

You just gats apply p!mp principles. Be with a woman that is comfortable and understands she has to contribute, that's the problem a lot of my married mates faced settling down. No savings cos their wives don't contribute nothing and your boys sometimes have to come to borrow money from you. And you're just there like omo if this is your marriage I'm Gucci fam

DeadPresidents:
For me, the reason i quit gambling was very simple—in gambling you’re losing regardless of if you’re winning money or not.

How? Well, the time investment is the most expensive part of gambling. The time you devote to thinking about potential matches to bet on. The time you spend analyzing teams and making predictions. The time you spend watching games you have no business watching just because you bet on it. The time you spend coming down from the high of celebrating a win or to overcome depression from a loss.

Gambling is the biggest time thief. I figured out that if i used just 30 mins improving my coding skills everyday out of the time i was wasting gambling, i would make compounding gains and that was what i did.

My only regret is a nigga i knew who refused to stop and is currently 30+ with no plans of moving out of his uncle’s house while his juniors have started families and achieved success elsewhere

This thing especially for people that play that demonic virtual. Baby soccer, Artisans and all blue collar workers. That time you will waste chasing losses. Using money for jobs and cooperative to play and digging financial holes everyday

I always say. Don't rely on betting for income. It's very unlikely you spend that much time gambling when you have other financial sources. That time is the real problem. When you are not making money from elsewhere you will surely spend more time gambling

DissTroy:
It used to be. But where else is better and safer for underhanded financial dealings if not Nigeria?

Opay registered its parent/holding company in Nigeria just 3 months ago as OPAY HOLDINGS.

2 years ago it raised $400 million from (mostly) U.S. VCs at a $2 billion valuation even though its financial records weren't really subjected to public scrunity before that.

Piece of cake. Register as a U.S. company, get millions of dollars in funding, then do business as a holding company registered in places with lax regulations.

Welcome to Sub-Saharan African fintech ecosystem. Exploiting loopholes.

What will happen to that OJA babe like this? Who go hold her wrapper? I heard her mama na the HR 😂😂

Nigerians will have to start keeping money inside roof or septic tank at this point

Maybe when bodies start popping up like those crypto guys that have been dying anyhow that's when these people will learn to stop messing with people's money

donjazzet:
Well, maybe we're not far off from each other.
I'm of the opinion that he has to be held accountable for his action, that doesn't necessarily translate to him being unemployed forever. But the most important factor in justice as I said is "admission of guilt".

Right now, we are still at the stage where some people are outrightly saying that the dude is innocent. So far as that stance stands, it means justice and fairness especially is still elusive. I guess this is where we are divergent In views since we both accept that domestic violence is unacceptable.

But to be very clear, let me ask you this question very clearly;
From your own personal perception, do you believe that Greenwood did physically beat and assault his partner?? Do you think he was violent to her Ina my way?

The problem is you're being emotional about this matter and that's why you lump everyone together.

I am not one of those that defend men whether right or wrong and I've told you before that he has displayed unhinged behavior so yes I don't doubt that he could and would have put paws on her or even worse.

My argument is if he is not going to jail let him be in the position to provide for this woman and the child that is now tethered to him. He is 22 and No amount of righteous indignation will settle her Bills. Neither her supporters, feminists and all of una cannot use outrage to buy food in the Supermarket like Ighalo said. So at 22 what we should be looking for is changed behavior which is the best apology of all

raumdeuter:
It will be hard to see a woman that will be okay with that arrangement, All that cook take care of house and clean is no substitute for money in the eyes of most women

Actually nothing is a substitute for money, not even fidelity, nor other room skills

There's just something about a woman feeding a grown man that gnaws at their souls. If you like be a gourmet chef that one no consign them, e fit be her work husband she go use dey catch cruise.

The thing I always say is don't even factor woman, understand that you need money just to survive even by yourself. Always think what if I stayed alone and had no woman.

The truth is they want it all and even then they still want more. If you like make you knack am pass Lexington Steele if you're lacking in money she will still look for where to compensate

raumdeuter:
One man for Ibadan wey him wife stabbed to death, dem jail the wife and later Ajimobi gave her state pardon, she don travel out. The guy wey die don finish

Bro that's why anything violence my hand no dey. If we can't package it and enter boxing ring and make money let's shake hands and go our merry way. Obviously that one no even apply to woman so I no dey engage any woman with propensity to violence. Me sef no dey do pass myself.

People no dey read news na why. If you know how many women dey kill men everyday you will have healthy fear for them. Thinking an adult can't kill you is crazy to me

DissTroy:
The lure of free money is a higher motivation to risk it all and damn the deterrents as Flutterwave proved until they were caught.


There's a loophole which can be exploited. You can register the company in the U.S. to get VC funding from VCs like Y Combinator, then register the parent company is some nontransparent haven like Panama or even Nigeria.

For example, say I am Tony Elumelu building a fintech SAAS and a startup around it. I can register the company name in the U.S. as, say, UBA. Once I get funding, I can register a parent company or holding company, say Heirs Holding, in Panama or Nigeria. Then siphon funds through Heirs Holding and it wouldn't be illegal.
Even Y Combinator allows this.

Many of these fintech companies have parent companies in countries with nontransparent regulations.

OPAY, for example, has a parent company. Moniepoint has a parent company. These parent companies are mostly not accountable to most regulations.

Even the top tech news platforms laundering the images of these fintechs have parent companies or holding companies where the board is sketchy.

Tech Cabal, the biggest tech news platform in Nigeria and West Africa, has a parent company/holding company called "Big Cabal" and that's where the information trail stops.

It's deeper than you even realize.

Wonderful. The more you look the less you see.

Is Opay not Chinese? I don't really know much about Moniepoint but I know Opay has chinese connects

donjazzet:
You have a contradictory nature. I'm confused that it's you making this point.

Thank God you too you know you're confused. We are making progress. Where I contradict? Did you see me support Greenwood? Didn't I tell you I'm against violence?

Suggesting he does not remain unemployed doesn't mean I endorse violence. Please show ability for complex thinking

Emaprince:
You are joking anyway.

It's tough to be a man...but it's the best feelings to be man still.

Working. Making money and being a provider is cool. A man is not designed to be the recipient.

Chopping woman money no dey sweet. E no go hard am to remind you.

If I get a favour from a woman, I dey return the favoir in multiple folds. I hate to be indebted to a woman.

Chopping woman money dey sweet oh. No think am. The important thing is to hold your side as man. And also play your part but any woman that thinks she would get with me and not kick back some dough is out of her mind.

I would join the monastery before I mess with a stingy woman.

Chopping woman money when you have nothing is the problem. Then you become a dependent

My tailor 14 years marriage with his wife she never buy am handkerchief. I'm like how do niggas live like this?

Itsrm:
I always tell men. If you lose your job and stay at home all day, the least you can do is take care of the house, the kids and even cook before your wife comes back from work.

But our men for obvious reasons no dey ever gree. They still want the poor woman after working all day to cook for them, take care of the kids, wake up early, prepare the kids for school, cook for them while they sit down at home all day doing nothing.

Na yeye pride. Pride with empty pocket. Even some men the way they regard looking after their kids is a bit odd unless you're unsure of the paternity you should be willing to do everything but breastfeed the child if need be. That's your seed

Make yourself useful if you're not bringing money and scheme for ways to bring money not even about the woman but for yourself. I don't even send all this provider talk I just know I need money to function. Even without woman or family you're still going to need money

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In the eyes of the law and feminism you are right to have looked your jobless,broke and depressed husband but in the eyes of culture and religion you are extremely wrong....

Your husband is depressed, ashamed and angry with himself and life for his inability to get a job and provide for his family.

And instead of encouragement, understanding and patience, you decided to lock him up for two days as a result of his depressed outrage.

Did you report him to the family elders ?

Did you report to your pastor or any family members or family friends ?

You could have used the police to threatened him but instead you went for outright arrest.

There are more effective ways to handle such situations but I believe you wanted to prove your superiority over your husband as the Bread winner of the house. I am 100% sure your female friends suggested and encouraged you to go to such extreme....

One thing I can assure is that by locking him up in the worst stage of his life, you have succeeded in destroying your home and marriage. That man will never forgive such inhumane and disgraced treatment from his wife....

If her father was Commissioner of Police would he put a finger on her. Let's not defend nonsense please.

In many countries he would be locked up so forget all these family elders, pastors talk. I'm a man and the truth is a lot of us need to do better.

Can't be unemployed, drinking and still beating your wife join. She's not responsible for your misfortune

raumdeuter:
Even Osinachi sef join

Na so e be oh. And nobody wan know, if e kill you feminists go say na self defense. I don forget that man wey the wife use hot iron burn him chest burn burn all him body when them come back from trip

The Osinachi now she don die for nothing. Who knows where them throw the useless man

CrystalTiger:
Marriage or Relationship wey dn reach violence level, make una go una separate ways..No go troway your life/freedom out of silly anger..

This December go make am 6yrs one of my guys dey inside because of this shit..Worst part, na still awaiting trial and babe go dn become manure since..

See your life and freedom na like egg. You no suppose dey use am play at all. See Tory Lanez now. Wetin dey so serious about woman wey you no fit leave am dey go your jeje way?

If e dey stress you dump am. I once had a babe and I noticed each time I was with her I was acting out of character. Whether deliberately or by accident she was always pissing me off, her papa na retired commissioner sef so no be say I fit try nonsense

But she was so unbearable. We had quarrel over the phone one final time and going to 6 years now we have not spoken to each other since. I don know if I marry this one if I no kill am e go kill me.

DissTroy:
Actually, African , SubSaharan Africa in general have that slight taint.

Another reason Y Combinator insists founders seeking to get VC funding must register their companies in the U.S. before Demo Day so they are subject to regulations.

Flutterwave was complicit too (mostly money laundering) between 2019 and 2022, but after they were fined heavily and severally in the U.S. and founders made to appear in court, they buckled up.

Other VCs like the Boabab Network don't insist on this so the companies escape regulations. And they are hawks too preying on founders with stringent conditions.

Our systems are weak. Even giants like Access Bank commit fraud by making unsanctioned deductions from accounts.

As Africans lack of accountability is our bane normally

If you no dey registered and answerable to the US I no fit do any business with you oh. Spri spri English no dey move me. I no care whether you be man or woman, woman sef dey thief

Wasn't it last year Almighty Zenith bank that was removing people's money left, right and center last year. Make God just dey help person. Ecobank wiped another person's pension the other day. Crazy things are happening

Itsrm:
And you don't think its even more motivation for her to continue spoiling it when you have issues with her. Like, whats the worst you can do? Lock her up. This kind of carrot and stick approach in my opinion does not work on adults.

And I'm curious, what if your kids spoil your Laptop/Console? Will you lock them up?

She will keep sleeping inside cell. Or I dump her altogether. I don't tolerate even abusive language, e get how woman go follow me talk you go dey on permanent ice. I don't play that. I no dey fear dey by myself oh my guy

Kids are kids, that's a different story. I'm talking of an adult deliberately damaging my property. It is better to nip unhinged behavior in the bud. If Christian Obumseli did that he would still be alive today

Itsrm:
Honestly, I can't even think of any reason why I'll do that.

If my wife spoil my laptop or console I fit lock am up. Shebi na so Andre Rison look till Left Eye burn him house.