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raumdeuter:
One man for Ibadan wey him wife stabbed to death, dem jail the wife and later Ajimobi gave her state pardon, she don travel out. The guy wey die don finish

Bro that's why anything violence my hand no dey. If we can't package it and enter boxing ring and make money let's shake hands and go our merry way. Obviously that one no even apply to woman so I no dey engage any woman with propensity to violence. Me sef no dey do pass myself.

People no dey read news na why. If you know how many women dey kill men everyday you will have healthy fear for them. Thinking an adult can't kill you is crazy to me

DissTroy:
The lure of free money is a higher motivation to risk it all and damn the deterrents as Flutterwave proved until they were caught.


There's a loophole which can be exploited. You can register the company in the U.S. to get VC funding from VCs like Y Combinator, then register the parent company is some nontransparent haven like Panama or even Nigeria.

For example, say I am Tony Elumelu building a fintech SAAS and a startup around it. I can register the company name in the U.S. as, say, UBA. Once I get funding, I can register a parent company or holding company, say Heirs Holding, in Panama or Nigeria. Then siphon funds through Heirs Holding and it wouldn't be illegal.
Even Y Combinator allows this.

Many of these fintech companies have parent companies in countries with nontransparent regulations.

OPAY, for example, has a parent company. Moniepoint has a parent company. These parent companies are mostly not accountable to most regulations.

Even the top tech news platforms laundering the images of these fintechs have parent companies or holding companies where the board is sketchy.

Tech Cabal, the biggest tech news platform in Nigeria and West Africa, has a parent company/holding company called "Big Cabal" and that's where the information trail stops.

It's deeper than you even realize.

Wonderful. The more you look the less you see.

Is Opay not Chinese? I don't really know much about Moniepoint but I know Opay has chinese connects

donjazzet:
You have a contradictory nature. I'm confused that it's you making this point.

Thank God you too you know you're confused. We are making progress. Where I contradict? Did you see me support Greenwood? Didn't I tell you I'm against violence?

Suggesting he does not remain unemployed doesn't mean I endorse violence. Please show ability for complex thinking

Emaprince:
You are joking anyway.

It's tough to be a man...but it's the best feelings to be man still.

Working. Making money and being a provider is cool. A man is not designed to be the recipient.

Chopping woman money no dey sweet. E no go hard am to remind you.

If I get a favour from a woman, I dey return the favoir in multiple folds. I hate to be indebted to a woman.

Chopping woman money dey sweet oh. No think am. The important thing is to hold your side as man. And also play your part but any woman that thinks she would get with me and not kick back some dough is out of her mind.

I would join the monastery before I mess with a stingy woman.

Chopping woman money when you have nothing is the problem. Then you become a dependent

My tailor 14 years marriage with his wife she never buy am handkerchief. I'm like how do niggas live like this?

Itsrm:
I always tell men. If you lose your job and stay at home all day, the least you can do is take care of the house, the kids and even cook before your wife comes back from work.

But our men for obvious reasons no dey ever gree. They still want the poor woman after working all day to cook for them, take care of the kids, wake up early, prepare the kids for school, cook for them while they sit down at home all day doing nothing.

Na yeye pride. Pride with empty pocket. Even some men the way they regard looking after their kids is a bit odd unless you're unsure of the paternity you should be willing to do everything but breastfeed the child if need be. That's your seed

Make yourself useful if you're not bringing money and scheme for ways to bring money not even about the woman but for yourself. I don't even send all this provider talk I just know I need money to function. Even without woman or family you're still going to need money

Emotionss:
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In the eyes of the law and feminism you are right to have looked your jobless,broke and depressed husband but in the eyes of culture and religion you are extremely wrong....

Your husband is depressed, ashamed and angry with himself and life for his inability to get a job and provide for his family.

And instead of encouragement, understanding and patience, you decided to lock him up for two days as a result of his depressed outrage.

Did you report him to the family elders ?

Did you report to your pastor or any family members or family friends ?

You could have used the police to threatened him but instead you went for outright arrest.

There are more effective ways to handle such situations but I believe you wanted to prove your superiority over your husband as the Bread winner of the house. I am 100% sure your female friends suggested and encouraged you to go to such extreme....

One thing I can assure is that by locking him up in the worst stage of his life, you have succeeded in destroying your home and marriage. That man will never forgive such inhumane and disgraced treatment from his wife....

If her father was Commissioner of Police would he put a finger on her. Let's not defend nonsense please.

In many countries he would be locked up so forget all these family elders, pastors talk. I'm a man and the truth is a lot of us need to do better.

Can't be unemployed, drinking and still beating your wife join. She's not responsible for your misfortune

raumdeuter:
Even Osinachi sef join

Na so e be oh. And nobody wan know, if e kill you feminists go say na self defense. I don forget that man wey the wife use hot iron burn him chest burn burn all him body when them come back from trip

The Osinachi now she don die for nothing. Who knows where them throw the useless man

CrystalTiger:
Marriage or Relationship wey dn reach violence level, make una go una separate ways..No go troway your life/freedom out of silly anger..

This December go make am 6yrs one of my guys dey inside because of this shit..Worst part, na still awaiting trial and babe go dn become manure since..

See your life and freedom na like egg. You no suppose dey use am play at all. See Tory Lanez now. Wetin dey so serious about woman wey you no fit leave am dey go your jeje way?

If e dey stress you dump am. I once had a babe and I noticed each time I was with her I was acting out of character. Whether deliberately or by accident she was always pissing me off, her papa na retired commissioner sef so no be say I fit try nonsense

But she was so unbearable. We had quarrel over the phone one final time and going to 6 years now we have not spoken to each other since. I don know if I marry this one if I no kill am e go kill me.

DissTroy:
Actually, African , SubSaharan Africa in general have that slight taint.

Another reason Y Combinator insists founders seeking to get VC funding must register their companies in the U.S. before Demo Day so they are subject to regulations.

Flutterwave was complicit too (mostly money laundering) between 2019 and 2022, but after they were fined heavily and severally in the U.S. and founders made to appear in court, they buckled up.

Other VCs like the Boabab Network don't insist on this so the companies escape regulations. And they are hawks too preying on founders with stringent conditions.

Our systems are weak. Even giants like Access Bank commit fraud by making unsanctioned deductions from accounts.

As Africans lack of accountability is our bane normally

If you no dey registered and answerable to the US I no fit do any business with you oh. Spri spri English no dey move me. I no care whether you be man or woman, woman sef dey thief

Wasn't it last year Almighty Zenith bank that was removing people's money left, right and center last year. Make God just dey help person. Ecobank wiped another person's pension the other day. Crazy things are happening

Itsrm:
And you don't think its even more motivation for her to continue spoiling it when you have issues with her. Like, whats the worst you can do? Lock her up. This kind of carrot and stick approach in my opinion does not work on adults.

And I'm curious, what if your kids spoil your Laptop/Console? Will you lock them up?

She will keep sleeping inside cell. Or I dump her altogether. I don't tolerate even abusive language, e get how woman go follow me talk you go dey on permanent ice. I don't play that. I no dey fear dey by myself oh my guy

Kids are kids, that's a different story. I'm talking of an adult deliberately damaging my property. It is better to nip unhinged behavior in the bud. If Christian Obumseli did that he would still be alive today

Itsrm:
Honestly, I can't even think of any reason why I'll do that.

If my wife spoil my laptop or console I fit lock am up. Shebi na so Andre Rison look till Left Eye burn him house.

Na stupid man sha truth be told. If her brothers were Jones Brothers, Vitaly and Vladimir Klitschko or Jokic Brothers I'm sure the man would have kept his hands to himself

The man is a childish man if he can't accept the consequences of his actions and she is better off without him. Not all situations are worthy of salvaging. Some bridge you let it burn.

BRATISLAVA:
Preach.

The extent they can go to justify their proclivities in others is an eyesore. Imagine where they feel he has a reason for beating her, yet they don't feel he should be imprisoned, because hurting another person against the law is not a big deal? Even if he killed her you would still read that type of daft comment.

The way some people have integrated into society is worrisome.

The thing is anything intimate partner violence is always very dangerous. We've seen fathers kill sons, sons kill fathers, husbands kill wives and wives kill husbands.

If a night or two in the cell is the hard reset you need never to repeat it again is it not a small price to pay for everyone involved?

If she's a bad woman you go to court and divorce her. Nothing is by force for this life. No law that says you must quench inside marriage

BlueRayDick:
But people do lock their children up . What do u think about that ?

If your child does what can make them lock him up in the real world is it not better he gets a shock to his system early so he can course correct?

There are many people today that not sleeping that night in cell has drastically altered their lives.

victorazy:
From your connotations your just a boy. This conversation is beyond your comprehension. I think I've given you a maximum attention.

You dey fear cell or cemetery? Beat your wife nau. Ahn ahn e hard?

BRATISLAVA:
What else to expect from poor, angry men? Their only entertainment is sex and beating up their women.

He's a stupid man. If you have the liver to beat up your wife why are you now scared of cell?

Everybody should be able to keep their hands to themselves. Even me I no dey tolerate abusive woman whether verbally or physically so I don't expect a woman to do so either

victorazy:
For your info, am married for 6yrs
I can't beat my wife BUT there are many ways to beat woman.

Your just a boy no worry u go understand better in future.

You're a fool. You can try it now and see how they will turn you to a mummy inside cell. What a m0ron.

izzou:
[color=royalblue]I have not questioned the character the woman.

I am simply saying she indirectly ended her marriage, and wants to fix it back. It cannot happen like that.

Even as friends, if you lock me for cell, our friendship can never be the same.

I am not saying the man is good. I haven't said that. I am saying you cannot spoil everything, and wish it goes back to how it used to be.[/color]

Well that is a chance she has to be willing to take.

I'm a man and I will not tolerate physical violence from women not even damage to my property, that is why I avoid obnoxious insufferable and aggressive women that will question my masculinity because me I will call police for you. I don't care

If you're a friend that did something worthy of sleeping inside cell then you deserve it and changing is your only redemption. Perhaps the woman should be more open to the relationship ending if the man still expects coddling for his bad behavior

victorazy:
Sharap!!!!
What do you know, what have u seen.

Don't you know that whoever arrest you is your enemy.

You're a foolish man. If you like beat your wife. You will sleep inside cell and they will tear your yansh brokeback style. Idi0t

izzou:
[color=royalblue]So, is he supposed to come home and be normal now?

She should have just divorced him the next morning.

You cannot smash a ceramic vase, and want to fix it back to its exact state.[/color]

He should have known that before pouncing on his wife. Let's be for real. As I dey even to fight fellow man in 2023 I would want financial incentive, Jake Paul no get two heads

So the idea of beating up your wife is very bad, you can always leave. You're not the first man in the world to lose their job you should take your frustration out on the world not your wife. If you're lucky to find a decent woman that can hold down the forte while you're scrambling to get your shyte together the idea of beating her is insane to me.

If he can't humble himself and accept accountability then he is better off living by himself

Verokeena:
I have never ever nortured such thought.. I have endured countless insults and provocations..

What else could I have done.. ? Like I said I regret my actions but I just wished he had never touched me or raising his hands to the kids.. saying he doesn't even know if the kids were his.. since he lost his job it has been one issue to another.. but I try to see through his eyes .. to understand what he is going through..

I do not have excuse for my actions.. I just need a solution

Thanks for your contributions anyways

You did the right thing. A man over 30 abusing alcohol while unemployed is seriously joking with his life. I drastically cut down my alcohol intake the minute I said Hi to 30 (the risk factors are just too many to ignore). That time he's wasting drinking can be used to find gainful or any employment.

I'm a man and if a woman whether wife or girlfriend damage even my laptop and PS4 I will call police for you never mind physical. I have no shame. Women can kill men too. Never mind Man vs Woman. So you did the right thing

He needs a wake up call. From maybe a male figure he respects. Or an ultimatum from you. Life is not easy for anyone but facing it with clear eye is still your best bet

izzou:
[color=royalblue]Marriage is not for the faint hearted oh

Person open eye, lock him husband for Nigerian police station [/color]

https://www.nairaland.com/7812688/guilt-locking-husband-up-two

She did the right thing. Clearly the man needs a hard reset. If he wants to be a professional fighter him mate dey for UFC. I heard Kamaru Usman is doing fighting promotion in Nigeria, let him join one, can't be broke, drinking and still beating your children mama.

KingTom:
Meanwhile sources say that the club is being urged by fans not to reinvest the transfer funds gotten from the sale of Greenwood on another player, but rather donate the proceeds to women's rights charities. I think that's a step in the right direction

Of course they want them to be given free money

Typical shitfvck mentality

seankafor:
na so Patricia liquidate and rugged him investors come convert their Bitcoin to Patricia shitcoins

Na so De game dey..

They're all scam oh. Person wey run this one now e no worse pass who play Sportybet? Do you know how many Nigerians have lost money in these so called Fintech and investment companies everywhere.

donjazzet:
Funny enough I have an uncle who has consistently played bet for years with quite a strict personal discipline.

What he does is that every single weekend, he uses 10k to play no more than 5 odds. Just 3 to 4 games. Every single week. No matter what, he doesn't play 2 times even whether the first game cuts or not. And he's has been quite a "success story". Later I would share the screenshot of his betting history. Sometimes he would win 2 weeks in a row and then lose like 5 time, he's won in a whole month 2 times in like 3 years. That's 4 weeks straight.

And he really does enjoy the thrill. Very few people will have that kind of strict personal discipline to overcome the temptation of just sticking to that odds and that amount every weekend.

It's really just sticking to what you can spare and don't view betting as an income source. Your uncle has a good strategy tbvh.

The truth is there's nothing you do in excess that is not bad. We all have our vices, some na alcohol, some na woman, some na betting.

The truth is the wins are sweet. Something about sleeping to 200 cedis in your account and waking up to 10000 cedis e dey hit different

akwesenana:
If you prove too stubborn, they lock your account for one flimsy excuse, eg. replicating other bettors games.

Exactly why I tell people to chill. These bookies are not out here for you to make money oh. If they had their way nobody would win a dime

BlueRayDick:
I know na; I dey always see am.

I always shake my head when I see people hyping him all up when he wins cos I know it’s just a pool of funds. The few times he wins, he gets all the money every other person has staked on his previous games which he also lost .

When people say Ekitipin don kill bookies , I just laugh at them cos he’s only getting paid from the proceeds of those that have lost his games consistently and have given up

He kills them simply means he makes them alter and readjust their strategies. They actually take out options just because of him

I think the key thing people need to understand is that these bookies are actively involved in making sure you fail. They're not happy seeing bettors win and will try all tactics fair and unfair to deter future winnings that's why you really shouldn't hinge your hopes too much on it as a means to survive.

The truth is everyone has their vices and economy is not helping matters but people need to understand you're fighting people that actively want you to fail so be smart about it or avoid altogether

BlueRayDick:
He's actually not running scam, he just chose a specialization and took the gambling highway.

I used to know one man like that, a man who is maried and his first born was already in the university that time. He is a professional gambler who plays pool, Baba ijebu and bet9ja. I heard the man usually has at least one tokunbo car in his garage he is yet to drive. So if he starts going on a losing streak and almost going broke; he will sell that tokunbo car and he's so sure before he finishes spending the money on staking he would've won back enough money to buy the car and even get back on his feet on the street.

I only pity those who do not have his deep pockets and want to emulate him. Its those people u will see lamenting say sportybet don collect their house rent

I don't recommend his style for most people. O ma lule. You will run down walahi.

I have a friend I keep warning I hope LAPO no go come carry am one day. I won't leave country wey I dey to come help am oh.

His betting style is actually very sensible and he doesn't play that nonsense they call virtual soccer, anybody playing that one is doomed as far as I'm concerned. No money wey you make and win you can never use it to do any better thing. Your village people have won

I look at his options. He doesn't put those pesky useless 1.01 1.2 and other poverty odds. I rarely see him pick anything less than 1.4 and people don't understand it doesn't matter the odds the bookies only need you to be wrong once so that whole 'safe odds' is a myth

This FIBA basketball World cup coming now I already know he's going to cook something. There's another dangerous nigga Mr Banks. The damage he did that pandemic time with tennis. I was seeing niggas win 4k odds, 8k odds

larride:
This is important.

No amount of responsible gambling awareness can defeat gambling addiction.

My roommate in school used his school fees to play virtual (bet9ja virtual) and lost everything.

If not for his aunt who came through got him, he wont graduate with us. The day he paid his school fees after graduation was the day he stopped playing bet in total.

Lmaoo anybody playing Virtual is finished. No hope for such person. In my old neighborhood I saw a nigga use money for his wife's caesarean that his sister sent to him to play Virtual, I seen a nigga drop his car keys, I've seen a nigga win 1m and lose the 1m and owed 600plus

Even if you thief my wife I no fit pray virtual addiction for you

BlueRayDick:
I've been following the guy for like 2-3 years now. The 50m 2x was an outlier jare.

What people also don't take into cognizance is that he has a tech start-up that fetches him money which is actually where he gets the funds to stake. The guy has really used his popularity to influence his way into money. I can bet if he was just a normal guy who earns decent salary and bets the way he does, he would've gone broke a long time ago. Especially when he goes on those losing streak

That nigga get grace sha. There's people with money that are not as fortunate as he is.

The thing is when you win big you will have capital to use and play around. From his story it's still this bet money he used to do his startup. Abi where you think say he see money? He has very good head on his shoulders,

These last two months I've seen him win 50, 38 x2 and 21m. Somebody sent him a game of straight draws like 7 and he won that 38. So do the maths. There's zero chance he can have staked even 20% of that money

This is why as normal omo boy you gats respect yourself and know your own level

afrodoc2:
Interesting. Well i can't really argue with you guys as you people are OGs in the game. I don't understand how you can consistently beat the odds like that. Gambling, betting, crypto, and all the versions of MMM are things i never go into.

It's not that hard when you follow and understand the Sport honestly. It's not what I recommend for everyone but if you have reasonable money to spare and you're not a degenerate gambler I don't see the problem with putting your knowledge to use and making money out of it.

Better to dash a bookie my money than one girl telling me to come and pay her rent for obough that's for the whole community

BlueRayDick:
Yes he does.

And he doesn't win consistently like that o. He loses well well; people just focus on when he wins

It's not that he doesn't lose he loses well but you see ehn. When he wins all the losses instantly wiped. If you win 50m 2x. Think of how many 50k it would take to make a dent on that 50m. And what I've come to realize is niggas like that will win again. This life who get money go dey rich dey go who poor go dey poor dey go