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igbonla: So obvious you are not married! You can sleep on the same bed every night and not talk for days!

Abeg don't Bite me!!! I said my opinion and u don't have to agree with it.
And for ur information I am married so calm down when u re responding to people that don't think ur way.
I am married and I can never have separate rooms becos its harder to keep malice that way but since u re a malice professional then u can sleep beside ur spouse for days without talking. Seems u must be really good at doing that.
In my home, we trash issues before going to bed. I wonder how some people sleep well knowing u re angry with the person next to u.

3 months and u re already facing this. Its too early in ur marriage.
Although for some religious reasons, some men do not sleep beside a woman during her menstral period but I am more surprised because u didn't notice this before u got married, the signs are always there.

Ask him if u have done something wrong to warrant the urge for privacy. And love making shouldn't be only when he wants it. We re no longer in the stone age abeg.
Try talkin to him about it but pls avoid getting angry in the process. The last thing you need is a fight or disagreement.
Ơ̴̴̴̴͡.̮Ơ̴̴̴͡ if u can talk him to letting u sleep in the same room except on occasions when u re on ur period which he might not be comfortable with.
God will Ơ̴̴̴̴͡.̮Ơ̴̴̴͡ u thru.

Why don't u calm down till more episodes are out.
I heard season 3 episode 1 is out but haven't seen it yet.
Don't worry, we re all eager to Ơ̴̴̴̴͡.̮Ơ̴̴̴͡ what happens next.

Its a NO for me. I need to cuddle up with hubby every night so I would never think of seperate rooms.
If u sleep on the same bed every night, its almost impossible to go to bed angry.

Serious matter.
he should go and Ơ̴̴̴̴͡.̮Ơ̴̴̴͡ a specialist just taking drugs wouldn't solve anything.
Plus he has to find other ways to please u sexually if he is indeed a one minute man.
Cheating aint good at all so its beta u allow the man to go but encourage him to Ơ̴̴̴̴͡.̮Ơ̴̴̴͡ Specialist.

majekleo: @ OP: why the sudden silence? hope your phone hasn't been stolen as warned earlier by the security officials , we are waiting for updates. -Ije Oma nwanne .

Seems like his phone battery is DEAD. Just when I was beginning to enjoy the whole rail transport thingy

Women are trying. I totally understand this feeling because I have been TTC for a while but u should not allow ur pain get to the point that u'll avoid pregnant people.
Instead of that when my friend's kids are around, I silently pray for mine.

Definitely there are times u re down and on such days I cry real hard. I thank God 4 my hubby, that's my SUPERMAN he knows how to make me smile.

There was a time I registered on every TTC website that I Ơ̴̴̴̴͡.̮Ơ̴̴̴͡ but I have calmed down and I just have faith that God is just special packaging my descendants

The only prob is when family and friends decided to come with their own wahala. I can remember a close friend telling me that it is when I have children that am truly married. Such words really HURT.
People act like they know so much bout ur problem when they know absolutely nothing about the emotional torture that u go thru.

People around those TTC should pls be
considerate and should be careful of what they say to this people.

Women are trying. I totally understand this feeling because I have been TTC for a while but u should not allow ur pain get to the point that u'll avoid pregnant people.
Instead of that when my friend's kids are around, I silently pray for mine.

Definitely there are times u re down and on such days I cry real hard. I thank God 4 my hubby, that's my SUPERMAN he knows how to make me smile.

There was a time I registered on every TTC website that I Ơ̴̴̴̴͡.̮Ơ̴̴̴͡ but I have calmed down and I just have faith that God is just special packaging my descendants

The only prob is when family and friends decided to come with their own wahala. I can remember a close friend telling me that it is when I have children that am truly married. Such words really HURT.
People act like they know so much bout ur problem when they know absolutely nothing about the emotional torture that u go thru.

People around those TTC should pls be
considerate and should be careful of what they say to this people.

Easier said than done.
I grew up in a house where u do all laundry by yourself so if I sincerely don't expect my MIL to expect me to wash her undies but if she does no wahala.
I'll grab my latex gloves, get the undies and throw it inside the washing machine wit lots of dettol

ko si wahala

Seriously is this supposed to be an issue in the house?

Sebi he saw it on the day he signed it
I feel there's more to this story jare. Maybe ur friend wants to file for divorce or something and so his lawyer needs it because I don't Ơ̴̴̴̴͡.̮Ơ̴̴̴͡ any reason why this should be an issue

Anyway, the marriage certificate is usually handed over to the woman by the marriage council.
Am not sure my husband has seen ours after the day he signed so am wondering why this is an issue.
Your friend should not give himself hypertension over nothing.

God forbid!!!

This Naija eh!
Something that needs to be scraped, they now want to extend it. Totally unfair.
They re just wasting people's time and by the time this corpers are done, organisations will say they are too old.

Its simply nature or let's say thats how men are wired.
If a man wakes up without it dat one na GBESE

Sooooo guilty of sleepin with my phones close me because its my touch light n alarm clock

Sleepin wit other people's spouse, if anyone does that then he/she should be ready never to wake up again

1. If he is cheating
2. If am ill. Abi he wants to kill me for my mother.
3. If he turned me down the last time I was in the mood its payback time

Anyways its wrong to turn ur partner down sha. Cos I can't imagine been turned down

Fussbot: wow!ur mum must be a 'strict' type...i mean u were spsd 2 be pampered cus of wat she went 2ru b4 she had u na....wel, a stubborn child lik u gives mama no option..lol

Very strict woman o. She was a teacher but funny enough she doesn't beat her students. She normally reserves her energy for us back at home. Anyone that messes up get the beating of his/her life.
That was the only way she knew to correct her own.
Now, we re best friends and am so lucky so I don't ve any marks on my body

Fussbot: lost count..stubborn gal..lol

Very stubborn and na u I take am resemble. but my mum loves me soooo much.

It look her 14yrs b4 she had me so she had to make sure I wasn't spoilt.

Big Hit!
Representing Yorubaland.

Yes. I was beaten a lot of times. I have lost count sef but it has not made me love my mum any less.
Mama mi, I love u to bits.

I still chewed gum yesterday. I can't help it when I Ơ̴̴̴̴͡.̮Ơ̴̴̴͡ Orbit in the traffic or supermarket.
Hmmmmmm
Have to start closing my eyes
But what bout chewing gums that they say is good 4 the teeth. Does it mean we re been deceived
Or we re taking care of our teeth at the risk of getting really SICK.
God have mercy o.

Guilty as charged!
Guilty of the drinking Cola. Tried to stop some time ago but was only able to reduce my in take.
Chei! I need divine intervention

The post is too LONG

Anyway to the question. YES. As long as u define ur relationship. I have a male friend that we ve been so close for ten yrs and still counting and I can say it we have never had sex.
When I was gettin married a lot of people assumed I was gettin married to him but we re just best of friends.
some friends jokingly even call this guy my chief bridemaid at my wedding.

A man rarely picks fight or hold grudge like women so its makes it almost perfect and we advise each other.

TUPAC all the way

Hapi Birthday MYND. Many hapi returns

How can ur Gf expect u to pay for a lavish lifestyle. Must she always wear something new or will she die if she doesn't.
Ladies, if u want to wear something new to every occasion that u attend pls use ur own money to buy it.

Even a wife should not always expect her hubby to pay except u know he has a HUGE bank account and u re sure he wouldn't miss a few thousands missing from his acct.
I love aso ebi but I don't buy something new for every party that I am attending. That WILL make u bankrupt.

And pls let's not turn ourselves to laibilities
If u have to ask ur man, it should be once in a while and he will gladly agree but asking all the times makes u a parasite.

And pls while we re busy buyin brazilian hair, gold and lots of cloths, let's remember to encourage our men to own a property

Its a good thing na or are u scared of something.
I am also like that, its like something attracts them to me and I love kids so much. Can't help it when I am around them. Funny enuf I don't have kids of my own yet but been around these kids gives me so much joy cos there ve pure hearts and are loving.
Believe its so lovely so don't be scared.

Abeg advise ur folks to deport her to the village asap. Abi u want to wait till when she tries to poison ur parents.
This village babes are usually wild even at very young age. Ve had experienced enuf evil from those village champions. They are not to be trusted.

If u have accommodation prob and ur in laws have an empty house, why not.
I said empty house ni o.

No way!!!
I wouldn't even want it done to me not to talk of my children.
Its crazy, barbaric and dangerous to the child's health.

Crazy woman, the same boy that she carried for 9 months and she is sleepin wit him. Now preg, she needs to get her brain checked.
And there are definitely beta ways to eat the fruit of ur labour than getting pregnant for her son.

Acrobatic sleeping
Restless sleeping

This is soooo heart breaking. They deserve a death sentence. A 6yrs old girl. Totally unfair

Aha! Warrisdis
I sincerely thought there was a question to be answered until I opened this thread.
Very annonying.
Mschew
And yes Seun, we need smiley for angry wit steam, shut up, whateva and hiss.
Tanx