andromida:

A married woman needs her space sometimes. She needs to own her own home without interference from anyone. I think that's what the op is worried about.

thank u my dear, they are just making it seem as if the op doesnt like her MIL

kasheemawo: did u think before u type this garbage? Learn to treat ur mother in-law the way u want to be treated by your future son's wife

is she treating the woman bad now? haba! she just doesnt want to live with her every day every hour for more than 365days is it bad? and yes i will not even dream of spending more than 2 or 3weeks at a time with my children when they are grown talkless of my inlaw cos i knw it will be choking.

Ab025: Na wa o, I wonder wat kind of marriage people do nowadays o, wat is wrong wit ur mother-in-law comin to stay wit u for a year? What are u scared of? Has d woman ever been wicked to u before? If she has, pls just tell us becos it seems to me that u re d one that has a problem here afterall u neva told us that she has been harsh to u b4......!!

So, u mean I can't call my mum to com and spend like a year wit my wife and 6months old baby? U women must be silly atimes o....except u and d mum have issues or always quarell, then u can be scared, bt right now, I tink u re d one who doesn't like d woman, infact I tink d woman should be d one here complainin here to us on NL that her son wants her to stay wit u and she is scared of u...!!

If u hav a real reason why u dnt want to stay wit ur mother-in-law, tell us let us know, as far as am concerned, my wife and my mother are goin to be d most special women in my life and they must always spend time together and my wife must always learn to respect, cherish and accomodate my mother, afterall, dis is my mother we re talkin about.

And if my mother is treatin my wife bad, no matter what, I will see to it that I handle d matter.

But I won't stand and hear my wife tell me that she won't spend time wit my mumsy wen am away for a year and we hav a 6month old baby

Ladies, mothers are veri important to men, and just becos we marry u doesn't mean we wudnt go to them wen we need them or that we shud cut off our ties wit them. They re always d number 1 lady in our life except wen they f**k up big time, deal wit it.

who says she doesnt want to spend time with the woman? didnt u see where she suggested 4 days a week? some men self, since u love ur mother so much why did u even move out from her house in the first place? y didnt u just marry ur wife into ur mothers house na. smh

Afam4eva:
Lol...Some things are best avoided.

ha... afam my brother, i gave two options na, y u come pick only one? the second option was if she couldnt do the first.

Babz temmy:
I av a 5months old baby and he feels i would need help with d baby

now this is better. a reason.

he wants his mum to stay with to you to help with the baby, thats ok. u just have to treat her like u would treat ur own mother and i doubt u will have a problem with her. respect her, even if she does what u wouldnt like, just close ur eyes and count to ten. besides it just temporary.

or

if ur mum is available and u still don't want ur MIL to come stay with u, u can suggest to ur hubby that ur mumsy would come stay with u instead, and help wit the baby. explaining to him that its not cos u don like his mum but just cos u dont wanna walk on ur toes all the while he is away

Afam4eva:
Let's not make it more difficult than it already is. We don't wanna steer the hornet's nest. Imagine if the mother finds out that she questioned her husband's intention to bring her mother to stay with her. That will spell doom for her for 1 year.

funny, so she shouldnt ask at all? so asking y a decision is made has become questioning her husband's intention? anyway am not married so let me not pretend that i knw hw marriages walk. the first tin that popped into my head when i read the OP's post was WHY? and am sure the same question would pop in to anyother person's mind that reads her post.

y does ur hubby want his mum to say with u? is she sick or invalid? or r u pregnant? or sick?

or is it that he doesn't trust u enough to let u stay alone, that he needs his mum to monitor u?

first find out y he wants his mum to move in. if there is no reasonable reason, maybe u should suggest that u will be visiting her every weekend or something like that.

bottom line, u need to knw his reasons b4 u can knw what to do.

i don't knw about other families but in the house i grew up, my dad washes his own clothes, infact he hates it when someone does his laundry likewise my mum. thus everybody washes their clothes themselves, whether by hand or machine. the only issue is ironing which anyone who is free can do, whether mumsy or popsy

yung_reezy: yes i know october is a long time but my understanding is that it usually takes a few good months before the process is completed.

dont let any one discourage u, if u are called for the test, go and Putin your best, unless it this situation is different, it will take a long time for the recruitment process is final.

just put in ur best!

walearoy: It keeps telling me your cv must be in MS word or PDF format. And that was what I uploaded. What do I do?

make sure ur file extension is .doc or .pdf and try again

submitted sucessfully got an id. i think the traffic is high, thus some things not loading well, cos am trying to apply for a friend and its not loading the submit button. even when i just submitted my sucessfully.

applied sucessfully

ItsModella:
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_JmA2ClUvUY

This video never gets old. They are able to understand their gibberish

i wounder what they are talking about, with all their demonstrations

i guess this is a case of na who report first.

and i dont beleive the man neva cheated, he should say the truth and stop forming saint.

Toaskarity: Im not trying to bring trouble here but can someone look at that list, igbo names on northwest, northeast .... seeing their names on north central & southwest can be imagineable cos of lagos, abuja or jos.. then look at southeast no none igbo name maybe few akpan or something like that which I think maybe south south...
I lived 70% of my 18yrs in nigeria btwn onitsha & asaba and the rest 30 in lagos nd abuja.. I never knew a good no of igbos live in those areas
Also that their DOB in the public is unecessary. Address or an assigned number could be better

the list isnt done with ethnicity nor state of origin nor place of residence, but location/site of business. so if a hausa man chooses southeast as location of the busness, his name will appear in south east not north east.

#hope ave cleared d air

i won but am not gonna take it. ave been tinking about it. am not ready to start a business

the result is out, u guys should go check ur names

let me try

Whats ur spouse
-shoe size - dont knw, neva tot abt it
-height - 6' 1"
-Best sleeping position - face up with hands on balls
-best colour -
-first bathing step - sits on the toilet sit for 20mins minimum
-parents/peers pet/guy name - oman
-most used phrase -- ukwu wey nti (hips that have ears)
- best song - ndi ara, phyno n olumide. @least for the past 2months
-worst habit - forgetting everything. wont be surprised if he forgets his name
-ideology of life - there is alittle bit of good in everyman

at the end i dont blame them (lag pips) for nt coming back to comment.

lumideezle:
STFU what are you ranting about? from your post I can tell you are one of those lazy skunks waiting for one rich chief to come and sweep them off their feet. I am sorry for you. I can also tell you are rude nd cultured if not u no go get mind abuse man like that. A word of advice get a life and stop looking for a maga to hang your life problems on. I laugh in Chinese cuz dem go continue to use and dump ur lazy behind

at first i actually wrote an epistle for u, but on a second thought i erased it. as they say in my place when a man argues with a mad man he is often mistaken for one.

i guess because u managed to make ur first thousand, u think u are the best thing that happened to women. i dont blame u, i blame the girls that made u feel that way.

qwerty: Its's not abt paying 4 d app ok. Lots of pole dnt ve access to a credit card. Or own a gt master. Card..... and besides free is the point

to each his own. dont complain when pple then to by-cot payment for ur services

dowjones:

See ladies, theres is one sure way of leaving the singles league and it is being REAL !
as plain as that sounds its very difficult because women are generally wired to be FAKE and nothing turns men off than fakeness.

Stop forming for the guy you like, this isnt the 80's. Pretending to be a "hard catch" only puts you in the crowd of "nollywood" girls everywhere.

Be a FRIEND to ur boyfriend. Men VALUE women they can relate with. When you roll in the same wavelenght with him, he will rather hang out with u than with his friends.

when you get to his house, EAT AND EAT if you feel like eating. Men find good appetite seductive! Be real always

There is no harm of telling a man you like him. MEN RESPECT WOMEN WHO DO THAT...(i notice only butty and exposed girls do this). Asking a man out will not guaranty a sure relationship but the guy will refer you other guys (i speak from experience)

The list is endless..the koko is.. IGNORE IGNORANT PEOPLE LIKE THE OP! Being rude, fake, calculative or hard to get doesnt guaranty love. It only triggers the "player" side of a man!

Pls my sisters..its not mathematics..its not luck! Be real. One love

dont mind the op, so if i like food i should hide it and wait till u marry me b4 i eat? so when u marry me i will then start d eating and u will start the complaining that i have changed.

Joe50:

are u a developer?

must i be a developer? is the op rightly said these apps are not expensive, paying 75cents or 1dollar is that much? this is less than 160naira. far less than a bottle of beer.

am not stopping anyone from getting the apps for free. just do it with conscience. seeing that its someone's sweat.

Kgdavid:


lol.............. lol.......................

why so serious? lol

dont get me wrong, am a career woman and i had housewife and a working woman as a mother at different times. trust me none is easy.
i totally hate it when pple who have little or no idea abt something badmouths or looks down on anyone doing it. a house wife is work n its own. a working wife is double work

Emekayoung:
Why interceding on another person's behalf,i think they've stolen alot frm us,just like ipads and iphones that u must pay before downloading any app,i mean its crazy.

again, dont get me wrong. no body has stolen anything from u. hw can what u dont have be stolen from u? btw most of the droid developers have both free and paid apps. they develop some for free and sell some. afterall man must wak.

oga no vex ohh, i wan ask one question
if u are a droid developer, and people are geting ur aps for free hw would u feel??

i think its quite unfair to d developers, if they choose to sell let them. besides there are tones of free stuff, y the need to fruad?


again, no vex

see their mouth, call housewives jobless. op let me ask u one question. can u do half of what a 'jobless woman' does? yeye unappreciative man.
u expect to be fed, cleaned up after, well clothed, healthy, healthy and well fed kids. yet u say the woman is jobless. God punish u!!!. may u neva come near me or my sisters or even my enemies.

tomoro if the woman is working and very busy, its the same lot talking trash here that will still come here and complain that their home is being neglected. or if she becomes very successful its the same low-self-esteemed hediots that will come and talk trash.

nonsense.!!!!

because u have 9-5 and she doesn't does not make u better than her. neither does it make her useless.
in-short, y dont u find a nanny, a cook, and a cleaner, a dry cleaner, a teacher. and pay then each for their services. so we will knw ur wife is actually jobless.

and to ur frnd that is complaining. garbage in garbage out! its the way he treats his wife determines the way his wife treats him.

again NONSENSE!!! smh

i dont get it, how does snapping refuse dumps becomes dirtiness?
u go snap dustbin? are u expecting the refuse dump to be neat?

for those that have test in owerri, just go through this tread form page one to d end. if u do i dont think u will fail.

polipompom:
d world economy is goin cashles dsn't mean pple wld no longer b employed. D essence of cashless policy is 2 reduce d quantity of raw cash pple carry about, ease d payment process thru POS terminals nd reduce d security risk of carrying raw cash.

polipompom u get my question very well, am just asking cos i need this job as a permanent thing. not as a manage job.
btw going cashless would also mean less workers in d banking sector. its just d same thing as machines replacing human labour.

that sunday's rain was just to heavy. the havoc it caused ehhh.