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FamilyRe: My Experience With A Wrong Partner by abadiru: 12:14pm On Nov 17, 2021
Your case us very touching and I pray God heal your wound. Aside that you want to express your feeling, what else do you need that can make you get back to your feet
CareerRe: Should I Chase The Money Or Focus On School by abadiru: 5:06pm On Oct 25, 2021
Hmmmm. My brother don't quit your study nor quit the business. Since u are already in 300L on 5 years course, to me you are almost done with the course.
The best decision is to devote less time for the online business and manage it with your study.
At the end of the day you don't have to loose anything on the two if you apply good time management on daily basis.
Just reduce your social engagement that has no positive addition to your life.
Plan your time very well between the your study and side run.
Thanks
kayode69:
Dear Nairalanders,

My name is Kayode Sherif, I'm a 300L student of a state university in the country studying a 5 year course.

Last year, (during the lockdown).... I was hell broke(so broke I couldn't even feed)

I had heard of this online business, but I didn't have any guidance on how to go about it, AND I didn't even have money to buy the course available for it.

I decided I was going to find a way to buy the course, so I took a job as a fuel station attendant (I worked there for 6 months) I saved up some money.

I bought the course and started studying and implementing all I had learnt, day and night...

It was as if nothing was working "I was desperate! I wasn't making money."

But I kept on...

Finally this year, I got the breakthrough. I got my first payment.

Fast forward to today, I have been making at least 250k in a month but I can't keep up with my school.

I'm thinking of terminating my school but I don't want to make a decision that will affect me for the rest of my life so I'm seeking for your honest opinion.

Should I quit school and focus more on my online business?
FamilyRe: I'm Getting Married But I'm Not Happy by abadiru: 11:02am On Oct 25, 2021
That will be life bondage for you because you don't want to cutoff a union you already regretting before entering it.
It's not too late to cutoff such relationship unless you are in for biggest risk of your life that may result to death if care is not taken.
Follow you mind to quit such relationship now and let everybody with contrary view go to hell.
It's better to be a single than married to wrong person. Be in a wrong relationship is like be in hell on earth.
I'm re oooo
Warrior14:
I will be getting married in 3 weeks time but I'm not happy
I'm getting married to a man who has beaten me two different times. I'm getting married to a man who is heartless and doesn't know how to love and treat a woman right. I'm getting married to a man who does not have a mind of his own.

I'm getting married but I'm already thinking of divorce.

I'm overwhelmed! I'm physically strong but I'm weak.
Just don't want to wake up from my sleep so I won't have to continue with this marriage plans as I can't stand the shame of calling off the marriage at this time.
RomanceRe: My New Girlfriend Went Back To Her Abusive Ex Boyfriend by abadiru: 10:52am On Oct 25, 2021
Maybe she enjoys the beating, if that is so there is nothing you can do to that than allow her to enjoy her life while the beating last.
22o62021:
We bonded so well together, she is an NYSC member. She told me that she has a boyfriend but she has called off their relationship because the guy has beaten her twice. The first time , the guy did it in front of his mother to the extent that she lost a tooth. And spent days in the hospital

The second time the guy slapped her because she told him that he comes home late.
She said the guy is a serial cheat, she has caught him on different occasions.

They dated for 6 years. But the guy will not accept the break up. Their families knows each other.

I have her the love she deserved, pampered her so well. I told her that I know she will go back to the guy one day, she said nooo I can’t do that.

One week after I said that to her. The guy was calling and pleading. She stopped picking my calls. I stopped calling her.

I sent her a text to know what is going on. She said it’s not what I think.

I said fine. I deleted her numbers and move on.

This is to say that most girls are confused.
I think they prefer abusive men but on the internet They rebuke them.
EducationRe: My project supervisor wants to take credit for my research work by abadiru: 10:41am On Oct 25, 2021
You don't need to disturb yourself for two reasons:
1. Since your supervisor is including your name on the publication.
2. You are not the one to bear the cost of the publication.
Meanwhile, on the issue of the correspondence contact on the paper, it's normal for him to put his contact in case of any correction and other thing that may require his attention.
Your supervisor is been honest with you, because some with change few things on it without carrying you along and you will not know.
Remember that he must have done major work on the project before thinking of the publication.
PropertiesThe Secret To Successful Property Investment by abadiru(op): 11:42am On Nov 01, 2020
In many cases, family and friends do ask me: what is the secret to successful property investing? They equally demanded further to know how start-up investors will build wealth from property investment.

From the first day till today, my response has always been straight on their opinion that; there is no secret. But, to be a Successful Property Investor, you must know and follow property investing rules like any other business.

To me, it’s a system that has stood the test of time for many centuries in the property investment market.

Let’s get into details with this link

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FamilyRe: Time To Divorce My Wife? by abadiru: 6:02pm On May 05, 2020
In addition to what the writer said , try as much as possible to reset her brain without divorce. You can raise little cash to maintain a room self cointain somewhere close to your office , use it to relex, medidate and pray but not for keeping girlfriend in any way.
Take a decision to sleep out for than 4 days in a week ,most especially when she started her trouble.
The most important aspect of it is to use the room productively because that is when u can proudly say you won.
Thanks

quote author=bukatyne post=89149605]

You realize that the error is all yours for not choosing well.

For that, you are half way there.

You mentioned that you married in the Church: brother you know that except adultery and I will say abuse, you can't divorce your wife.

You have tried counseling, reporting her to family etc. etc. and it has not worked.

Now, I want you to try changing your reaction to her attitude. You have been married long enough to 'predict' her actions/inactions.

She forgot your birthday, fine. Celebrate yourself. Go out with the kids, go out with your friends etc.

She tries to keep malice, apologize and move on.

I know it is hard, it is abnormal even however you need to build a shield in your heart so that her attitude doesn't get to you anymore.

Don't beg or cajole her to 'change' or 'be better' or whatever: you are telling her that she has power over you.

Thank God finances are not a thing: treat your self, go on vacations, do the certifications or courses you wanted to. Channel your emotions into the things you have always wanted to do, pick up new hobbies, go to gym and workout youf frustrations etc.

And prayers work: if not for her to change, for you to be whole mentally and emotionally.

It is well.[/quote]
AgricultureTme 419 Cassava Tubers For Sale by abadiru(op): 3:30pm On Sep 01, 2019
There is cassava tubers mature and ready for harvest on 5 acres of land in Agbowa, Ikorodu, Lagos.
Interested buyers should contact the seller on 09016715655.
Linking a good buyer can equally earn you thank you commission of 2%.
The stem will be disposed at a very cheap price for interested buyer too.
Awaiting your response
TravelRe: Itakpe-Ajaokuta-Warri Railway Station Under Construction by abadiru: 2:28pm On Dec 01, 2018
This project was started by PDP on paper. Lol
Thank God the project was started by performing President and his able Team on the site and will soon be completed by the grace of God by them.
AgricultureRe: How Many Plots Of Farmland Can 250k Buy In Your Area by abadiru: 12:23pm On Sep 23, 2018
I can get 5 acres for you at 50k per acre in IGANA, off Igbo Ora in Oyo stare
AgricultureFarm Land For Sale In Igana (oyo State) by abadiru(op): 3:12pm On Aug 21, 2018
We have 20 acres of farm land for sale in IGANA (OYO STATE). Interested farmer should contact the seller on whatsapp / 08026875166.
PoliticsRe: "Nigeria Is Better Without The Igbos" - Alaba Ajibola, Babcock University Staff by abadiru: 10:11pm On Aug 18, 2018
Please, there is information from a reliable source that this guy is no more a staff of BABCOCK University. Our investigation revealed that he left BABCOCK University 2 years ago. He is not in any position to speak on behalf of the school for any reason and his statement is strictly his personal view. I think the BU management will release a press statement on this shortly. Thank you
FamilyRe: "My Wife Wants To Bring Her 7-Year-Old Girl She Had Before We Met To My Home" by abadiru: 7:20am On Aug 06, 2018
If u truly love her and she is very loyal,supportive and she never hide her past situations on this for you, the best decision for you to appreciate her is by adopting the kid with good documentation. Train the kid as yours with other kids and wait for the fruit of ur labour by the grace of God.
FamilyRe: "My Wife Wants To Bring Her 7-Year-Old Girl She Had Before We Met To My Home" by abadiru: 7:16am On Aug 06, 2018
If u truly love her and she is very loyal,supportive and she never hide her past situations on this for you, the best decision for you to appreciate her is by adopting the kid with good documentation. Train the kid as yours with other kids and wait for the fruit of ur labour by the grace of God.
author=NairalandFAYOSE post=70017696]pardon my blunders.
I was aware she has a baby before we met but still continued the relationship because the baby is with the father. she told me it was a mistake and the guy's family doesn't support their relationship. so they went their different ways while the guy kept the baby.

when we started, I found out she's humble, hardworking and she's everything I ever wanted in a woman. so we got married 4 years ago and have a 3 year old son and 2 beautiful twins (just 3 months old).

now the problem started when she went to church and her ex brought her 7 years old daughter unannounced. that he's married now and can't continue taking Care of the girl.
she called me from church and told me. immediately I told her not to bring a child thats not mine to me. she now took the baby to her mom and came home to meet me with my kids.
she has been begging me since to allow the baby in our home because the mother gave her 3 days to come and take her baby from her.

nairalanders pls I need your advice on this. those it make sense that I take the baby while the father is out there enjoying his life.[/quote]
AgricultureRe: Livestock Feed Production Made Easy by abadiru: 8:41pm On Jun 25, 2018
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AgricultureRe: Livestock Feed Production Made Easy by abadiru: 8:39pm On Jun 25, 2018
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AgricultureRe: Livestock Feed Production Made Easy by abadiru: 11:00pm On May 12, 2018
[08033058845 Biodun

quote author=Nicogen4us post=56058127]Morning house and happy Sunday.
Due to what the economy of our country is telling everyone at all levels and how the youths are sourcing for alternative means of utilizing the resources we can lay our hand on in our various location to make end meat. Trinity farm now what to use this opportunity to train interested individual in the skill having mostly in the area of livestock Feed production which will cover feed mill and feed processing for various animals such as Poultry, dog, snail, rabbit, grasscutter, catfish, pig, cattle, etc.
The training will start on a whatsapp platform.
kindly indicate by dropping contact to be added to the group.
on the platform we shall discuss the following :
-what is feed production and livestock Feed production
-Importance of Feed production
-Feed milling requirements
-Techniques of Feed milling and production[/quote]
AgricultureRe: Livestock Feed Production Made Easy by abadiru: 10:58pm On May 12, 2018
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CareerRe: See The Only Four States That Have Insurance Cover For Workers by abadiru: 9:36am On Mar 25, 2018
Osun governor has done his best in all areas in the state. Many are just criticising without knowledge of what is happening but supporting most civil servants that are losing extra corrupt income from the good internal control system put in place for the benefit of osun citizens.
ogunsbanjul:
Even Osun state that some people use to insult the innocent governor. This is serious. What of my brother Fayose state? Hunnnnn just making my contribution oooo
CareerRe: See The Only Four States That Have Insurance Cover For Workers by abadiru: 9:29am On Mar 25, 2018
Is it corporate slavery or individual nonsense?
"American accent for a job" in Nigeria soil. Let's wake up and promote ourself for us to grow.We can't grow by throwing away all good things about our nation to embrace foreign substandard cultures.
noupzy:
looking for someone that has good American accent for a job contact me ASAP jchats@yahoo.com
AgricultureRe: Secure Your Farmland, Poultry, Properties With Solar ELECTRIC PERIMETER FENCE by abadiru: 2:25pm On Mar 09, 2018
Plz I need quotation to secure like 20acre with just barb wires and pole to 08026875166 or abadiru@yahoo.co.uk .thanks
Willie2015:
Pls send the cost of securing an acre of land(4000sqm) with just barb wires and poles to Willie201520@yahoo.com
AgricultureRe: Vegetables Plantation In My Compound by abadiru(op): 11:54am On Feb 20, 2018
I am particular about sun not able to penetrate the plant bcus of the roofing
Dottore:
Start with yam and Cassava. After all it's a farm house
AgricultureVegetables Plantation In My Compound by abadiru(op): 10:38am On Feb 20, 2018
Good morning members: Can I plant vegetables inside already roofed bungalow without cealing but with only slate roofing with good irrigation system?
RomanceRe: Christian Man & Muslim Lady From Kogi Who Met On Facebook Set To Wed (Photos) by abadiru: 1:26pm On Dec 17, 2017
Where is the Muslim lady in question?
RomanceRe: My Neighbour Is Showing Me Green Light Despite The Fact That She's Married by abadiru: 10:52am On Dec 07, 2017
What is it going to cost you to get a reasonable decent lady by your side to plan with you?
AgricultureRe: Livestock Feed Production Made Easy by abadiru: 12:52pm On Dec 01, 2017
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AgricultureRe: Yam And Groundnut For Sale by abadiru: 2:20pm On Nov 29, 2017
Pls call me on 08026875166 I am interested in ur product
Foreign AffairsRe: Slave Auctions In Libya Mockery Of Africa – Ghana President, Nana Akufo-addo by abadiru: 10:44am On Nov 29, 2017
Is it to tweet that should be a good leader's priority on this issue or to work on way forward to stop this madness. Non of people condemning our president for not tweet knows how a good leader should work or act on such issue that is affecting his citizens.Empty drum make ..... .Sincerely, this mad people treating their Co Africans this way is because we don't appreciate ourselves and we don't value what we have as an inadividual and collectively
FamilyRe: My Wife Is Adulterous: Advice Needed-long Post by abadiru: 11:00am On Nov 26, 2017
Hello man, you need to forgive her this time around since she has forgiven you in the past
Secondly, she need to agree with you that she must deactivate all her social media accounts as the first condition to start a new trust marriage.
Thirdly, you too should not cheat on her as a condition to be good head of that house.
Thank you

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