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RomanceRe: My Wife Has Set A Timetable For Sex For Me. What Do I Do? by Abifarin16: 8:24pm On Aug 24, 2023
Offpointng:
Reason why I tell young men like myself, Dont allow Love becloud your senses of reasoning. Trust me the sign were always right there, you were just blind to it

I used to have what you'd call an Ex then, Same way OP describe his wife was exactly who she is. Twinkling annoys her and she immediately changes it for you, hugs from the back esp when she's in the kitchen immediately changes her mood and get her so angry, Simple romance like hugging (common hugging) she'd push you away, You can't have a healthy and Intelligent talk with her, Always defensive and hardly apologises, Any Play other than the use of mouth to call each other Big head is a No No for her, Loves sleeping like some descendants of Koala, So boring and everything bored you can think of. Firstly, I thought all these happened cuz she's still a Virgin at that age, but I've got Virgin friends that we play and have lotta fun without having sex and are not so boring like she is. Later Got to find out that's just who she was, not cuz she's a virgin or something

So that faithful night we were all loved up on chat and we chatted till she wanted to sleep and told me we'd chat the next day, so we said the lovers Good night and went to bed. But before I got to sleep, I told myself I'm so done with this girl. Normally, she always expects I do the Good morning text first or the Good morning call all the time. But this time, woke up and din call her or text her Good morning, I went bout my normal day activities like she never existed. All those time till in the evening she never call or texted until I uploaded a picture of Myself and my guys chilling bfr we replied the status and of cuz some Rude Bullshit text, I read and din reply.

She called me that night bout twice and I din pick nor returned the call, of course she took to WhatsApp again forming boss lady, I made sure i read and din reply and went to sleep putting my phone on flight mode incase she wanna disturb my sleep with calls.

Oooboy I dabaru that girl head cuz we had no fight the night bfr, we chatted so cool and was even talking bout marriage plans grin next day she kept calling and calling, pick for where. took her sis phone to call me unknown to me I picked, my people come see cool broken voice that I've not heard in months. I immediately cut and blocked. Any she took to crying on VN telling me if she's done anything forgive me bla bla, But nigga man's mind was made up. She got into depression and every effort her, her friends, her family made to reach out to me, I blocked em all. I moved on. Well after so many months I'm glad to let y'all know she's still single cool cuz I doubt any guy can be patient with her like I was

So Op the signs were always there, you just turned blind eyes to em.
Could she have been a victim of one form of abuse or the other that made her so uptight?
PoliticsRe: Nigeria Air Force Acquires 18 Attack Helicopters From US, Turkey by Abifarin16: 1:11pm On Aug 24, 2023
OyeofIkoTuN:
We need this one in Igboland....about 50 of them before we stop sit at home..
Tell Simon Ekpa or MNK to buy for u guys if u really mean business.

one of our condition...Atleast one fat pig is collecting billions for terrorist act and pipeline security.

Simple.
PoliticsRe: Ondo Youths Reject Igbo Politician As Council Caretaker, Storm Street To Protest by Abifarin16: 1:04pm On Aug 24, 2023
Kalakulu:
Na the few stupid Igbo women wey dey marry Yaribaa I blame sha, if the GRV haven't taught this senseless women a lesson, then it's pointless drumming it into their skulls to stop disgracing themselves. I think it's time Igbo communities across the entire SE start ostracizing and banning families who allow their daughters or sons marry yorubaas, when there are far better tribes in the South South they can marry from if they have to go inter-tribal.
Ostracize them who cares. Can a Yoruba person be made a caretaker chairperson in the East? You want people to accept what you cannot accept.
IF the Wife of your state governor was Yoruba una go gree vote am.
PoliticsRe: Ondo Youths Reject Igbo Politician As Council Caretaker, Storm Street To Protest by Abifarin16: 1:03pm On Aug 24, 2023
Kalakulu:
Na the few stupid Igbo women wey dey marry Yaribaa I blame sha, if the GRV haven't taught this senseless women a lesson, then it's pointless drumming it into their skulls to stop disgracing themselves. I think it's time Igbo communities across the entire SE start ostracizing and banning families who allow their daughters or sons marry yorubaas, when there are far better tribes in the South South they can marry from if they have to go inter-tribal.
Nonsense talk. Ostracize them who cares. Can a Yoruba person be made a caretaker chairperson in the East? You want people to accept what you cannot accept.
IF the Wife of your state governor was Yoruba una go gree vote am.
CelebritiesRe: Burna Boy Under Attack For Insulting Afrobeat, Wizkid & Davido by Abifarin16: 12:11am On Aug 24, 2023
He didn't lie now. Na just women, money cars most times then they sing. Burna Boy atleast has something meaning to say Every now and then. If your song don't talk about real life issues that people face, but it's feel good music all the time, he is talking to you.
Do you remember fella for feel good music or that he challenged the status quo, even in society, politics and government. But when money come it's impossible to talk about whats really important to the common Man. When Timaya came it was then Don kill then mama we were hearing up and down. Now money Dan enter, na as e dey pain dem e dey sweet us we dey hear.
SportsRe: I'm A Beautiful Woman And I Want To Start A Family— Francisca Ordega by Abifarin16: 10:23pm On Aug 23, 2023
Gestures:
Men are truly the prize
But they don't treat men like they are the prize.
PoliticsRe: Wike Inspects Rail Transport Project, First Official Assignment by Abifarin16: 9:18pm On Aug 23, 2023
22o62021:
It's like wike us now the new president

Make person hear word
He would equally do well as president. Nigeria needs tough hands that's the truth.
Foreign AffairsRe: Crisis In Niger Republic by Abifarin16: 9:01pm On Aug 23, 2023
The call should be to Junta led govt to return back the democratically elected president. Not to Nigerian govt. Even the AU has suspended Niger. As an extension of Northern Nigeria that you claim revert back to what was the status quo that's the solution. Dont be blackmailing people emotionally and causing tribal wars on Nigerian SM space, with all the pictures you ate sharing. Few weeks ago Nigeriens were celebrating the coup and gave The president of Nigeria a new name.
No to war, Pursue Dialogue
CrimeRe: Suspected Yahoo Boy On The Run After Killing His Girlfriend For Rituals (Photos) by Abifarin16: 8:28pm On Aug 23, 2023
Speechless
Foreign AffairsRe: After Egypt Joins BRICS, Will The Egyptian Pound Rise Again? by Abifarin16: 7:29pm On Aug 23, 2023
Putin and Xi really don't like the US that much. Talk about the enemy of my energy is my Friend. If this is a d**k measuring contest don't drag Africa into it. Russia might just be holding USSR grudge, nobody knows the truth in a man's heart and agenda until it plays out.
But 40% world population, and 25% of the world's economy with 70% dollarization on loads without conditionalities like the West is a good idea.
Foreign AffairsRe: Breaking: Wagner Boss Involved In fatal Air Crash by Abifarin16: 7:07pm On Aug 23, 2023
You are joking right?
RomanceRe: My Wife Has Set A Timetable For Sex For Me. What Do I Do? by Abifarin16: 7:05pm On Aug 23, 2023
Hmm. SMH. But first of all Lemme book spcae na only comment I wan read.
CelebritiesRe: Art Work Of Davido Cyclist Fan, Emmy Wuks by Abifarin16: 6:58pm On Aug 23, 2023
DavidO Grace Dan dey rub off on the guy.
PoliticsRe: Demolition Threat: Tinubu May Sacrifice You – Daniel Bwala Warns Wike by Abifarin16: 6:20pm On Aug 23, 2023
Nice2023:
This town has never been disunited...go and check every elections results in Abuja from 1999 to date.

Na one pattern and that is how they will descend on the ogogoro man.

After 6months we shall know who is who.


Abuja no be Rivers.
Wike is not your regular Minister also.
FamilyRe: Why Do Marriages Get Boring After Sometime? � by Abifarin16:
[quote author=TemplarLandry post=125279145][i]Many factors could be responsible.
1. Overfamiliarity
2. Insufficient finance
3. Dirtiness
4. Etc.
Very true especially no 1. The OP to no go talk true.
5. You fit Dan go play away match. Betrayal.
RomanceRe: Could This Be A Freudian Slip From My Married Colleague? by Abifarin16: 6:10pm On Aug 23, 2023
thesilentman:
She is married and a senior in my department. She never got tired complimenting my eloquence-always says she likes the way i speak.

Everyday,she'd wait for me so we can work together out of the plant and anyday i tell her i ain't ready for home yet,she gets clearly pissed.We chit-chat a lot.

Yesterday,she cosied up to my desk,as usual and said,in the presence of fellow colleagues,"Baby...oh,sorry,mr bla bla bla..."

Everyone was gobsmacked cos that's the same way she addresses her hubby who ocassionally drops her at work.

Now tongues have been wagging on account of that incidence-that both of us are probably...

I tried to dismiss the matter by saying that it was a freudian slip but my colleagues who were not having any of it,just told me to be careful.

Wahala dey o!
It could mean nothing. But like your colleagues are telling you Be Very Very Careful
SportsRe: Spain’s Coach Vilda Appears To Touch Female Inappropriately During Celebrations by Abifarin16: 6:04pm On Aug 23, 2023
FreeStuffsNG:
These ladies will destroy these male coaches who came from the male-dominated psyche of soccer where boys touch and even hit one another with reckless abandon during game celebration.
It's better female teams get female coaches .Shikena. Football is a contact sport and during game celebrations, most people just break lose with joy.
Now that women are playing football, touching is now inappropriate.
I made this suggestion recently and someone thought I was a funny joker. It's either the whole coaching staff is one particular gender or this men will have to be extra careful walking on egg shells. Anything you do with the opposite gender is bound to catch on like wild fire, even if the intent was pure. A male coach can part a male player on the butt as a sign to say well-done or give him them hell. It's not the same if he does that to a female player. What people see is different from what's in your mind. They should fix this thing or they will keep apologizing and spoil football with different scandals.
Foreign AffairsRe: India Beats Russia, US To Become First Country To Land On The Moon's Lunar Pole by Abifarin16: 5:52pm On Aug 23, 2023
MMWandali:
Great
Congratulations to India

It doesn't have to be US or Russia always

Naija can't even dream of it
Let us deal with insecuritu first.
PoliticsRe: Emefiele, FG May Settle Out Of Court Over Fraud Allegations - The Cable by Abifarin16: 5:48pm On Aug 23, 2023
festacman:
Finally, it looks like the former president and other interested parties are putting in words for Godwin Emefiele.

If FG accepts this plea bargaining proposal, it means either it doesn't have enough evidence to, successfully, prosecute Emefiele or some 'interested parties' know that going further with prosecution will documents and testimonies under cross examinations will implicate them or their companies directly or indirectly.

Yes, plea bargaining saves government money and time, but it is difficult to trust politicians to structure a deal that will ensure massive recovery of assets from Emefiele. So obviously, Nigeria will lose out again as usual. Sad!
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I hope whatever he is settling out of court or forfeiting to the govt will be used for the benefit of the masses. Because I am sure whatever he acquired illegally during his reign as CBN governor must have equally come from forfeitures from other people. Hope government is not looting the looters for new lootees to emerge.
PoliticsRe: Wike Bans Street Trading And Hawking In Abuja by Abifarin16: 5:41pm On Aug 23, 2023
FuckTheMod:
grin

No nonsense Wicked WIKE grin grin grin


Wike should have been given defence minister grin

or

Power (electricity) minister.
My thoughts exactly. If he made similar comments like this as defence minister. I swear insecurities for Dan finish like since yesterday.
AutosRe: Car Lovers!,can You Help Me Choose Between These Two Cars? by Abifarin16: 4:15pm On Aug 23, 2023
banjicom:
Age is just a Number, at 90 years you can still buy a car if you are still alive. Buying a car is just a waste of time that is why God has given you your two legs remember it doesn’t use petrol. Even the almighty Jesus rode on a donkey into Jerusalem, where he was met by cheering crowds how much more an ordinary human like you. Let Jesus be your mentor!

I hope i have been able to motivate you today cheesy
Somethings in life are tied to time. Where is the joy of buying your first car at 90 when you are one leg into the grave and the driving age limit is 70. What's the use of having your first Degree at 70 when that's the retirement age.
PoliticsRe: Peter Obi, Otti Storm Imo State As LP Kicks Of Gubernatorial Election Campaign by Abifarin16: 4:12pm On Aug 23, 2023
PO and LP are becoming a problem for APGA in the SE and PDP and APC in the entire Nigeria. It's all good so far as the dividend of democracy reaches the masses. That's the beauty of Nigeria, nobody or party should hold power like its their personal toy. Let competition put everyone on their toes to deliver.
PerosnLly I don't even like the two tenure leadership system. Do your four years and go but follow a vision and master plan.
SportsRe: Bukola Olopade Storms Budapest To Cheer Tobi Amusan, Others by Abifarin16: 4:08pm On Aug 23, 2023
tfash96:
It's only kid that'll be crushing on who's just impossible for him e.g Nicki Minaj is my crush,I love Tiwa Savage,I can die for Yemi Alade and all those bull shit.. Crushing on those who don't even know you exist..The rare opportunity you get to see them you may not even move an inch close to them.So why don't you work on yourself and better yourself to be in their league or better in higher league ahead of them
Let the kid have his crush. Don't act as if you were never in that shoe.
FamilyRe: The Guilt Of Locking My Husband Up For Two Days by Abifarin16: 4:07pm On Aug 23, 2023
There is no clear cut way to deal with this issue. You did well involving the police, had he killed you now, it would be a different thing entirely. It is wrong for him not to have a job but go around drinking and smoking. I understand he is depressed, you are in the right position to help him get out of it. Losing a job is not easy, remind him of the good times and this is only a minor set back, things can change for the better. Him not leaving the station is two fold, his pride is punctured he can't face the world because he feels even less than a Man now. It's left for you to uplift his spirit. He could be blackmailing you emotionally. Let him know the only other option was for you to keep quiet let him kill you, you were scared for you life when he started getting physical.
I want to believe he is not an animal and he has not always been like this, time in the cell will get him to rethink his life. Is the present behavior what he wants to continue doing.
Men learn to accept help from your wife's it will not kill you all this too much pride, e no dey help anybody.
Women when things turn ugly for your husband, watch the way you talk to the Man. If a Man doesn't have money it doesn't make him useless. Believe me men are moved almost more than women by the words they hear. Even his misbehaving is bear parlor talk that has caused him to start to tell you that he knows you have a boyfriend and the kids are not his.
He just needs to be reminded that he is loved and that he is still the Man of the house with or without money, but he should Man up and do whatever legal job he finds leave pride aside.
He will come around.
CelebritiesRe: Shatta Wale: Nigerian Artistes Make Ghanaian Counterparts Look Mediocre by Abifarin16: 2:50pm On Aug 23, 2023
AllenSpencer:
Life has levels!

Same way American musicians will make Nigerian musicians look like toddlers!
I don't entirely agree with this statement right now. Maybe a decade ago, but right now, Nigeria has the juice, thanks to the like of Burnsa, Wizkid Davido and Rema to mention a few.
PS. Artist listed is in no order of preference or whatever.
FamilyRe: Why I Dumped Farida Sobowale After ‘n100m Wedding’ – Estranged Husband, Odulaja by Abifarin16:
IconicR:
I so much dislike men that don't know how to keep shut and coming to the public to rant like a woman.
If a woman is hurt she would rant and it's only natural which a real man understands.
Agbaya alagbaoshi
we should leave it for your guys baaa?
what happened to gender equalityhuh?
PoliticsRe: Chibok Girl, Mary Nkeki, To Marry Repentant Terrorist by Abifarin16: 5:40pm On Aug 22, 2023
Skepticus:
This is saddening.

STOCKHOLM SYNDROME at its finest. I can't blame her though, sweet islamic dick will brainwash any impressionable teenager.
you started well but you messed up at the end.
BusinessRe: Leaked CBN Circular Bans Naira Overdrafts Secured By Foreign Currency Deposits by Abifarin16: 5:30pm On Aug 22, 2023
HeartlessMan:
Every week a new policy yet Naira keeps rising.
Ebola Tinubu is a clueless government. I now believe the man never attended school.
every week he keeps exposing the evils that many administrations kept quiet about and things the common Man did not know, but you will not see anything good about it.
PoliticsRe: Diezani Alison-Madueke Charged With Bribery By UK Police by Abifarin16: 5:22pm On Aug 22, 2023
GeneralPula:
Reuters said charges against her also detail financial rewards including furniture, renovation work and staff for the properties, payment of private school fees, and gifts from high-end designer shops such as Cartier jewellery and Louis Vuitton goods.

Haha..

This woman self..
gifts? Abbbiii she bought them through a proxy

Her mouth wide oo..
InvestmentRe: A Call To Bridge The Gap - "OurMoneyDeservesBetter" by Abifarin16: 1:16pm On Aug 22, 2023
#OurMoneyDeservesBetter nice one. Keep at it we might start something huge.
PoliticsRe: El-rufai Warns ECOWAS: Military Intervention In Niger Is War Between Brothers by Abifarin16: 1:03pm On Aug 22, 2023
BoldBrainz:
Leave him alone. He has a right to speak on issues as well.
And he's worse than Wike in terms of political rascality. Your party goofed big time with how he was treated. Rufai does not forgive.
He should focus on his studies, make them no later dey ask am where certificatE?
EducationRe: Visa Free Countries For Nigerians In 2023 by Abifarin16: 9:52am On Aug 22, 2023
OP you said Visa free countries with Nigerian passport. But everything here is with a US passport.
Stop the misinformation pls

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