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kkins25:
As a pedestrian, If i count the number of times i was almost hit ehn while going to school.. Not with the roads full of people who are eager to cut corners to get ahead..Even if u make seperate lane for bikes, drivers will invade it... Unless, gov. is willing to spend more on making road dividers.

So you see that it is not only govt that has problems. The citizens equally have a role to play. Safety on the roads is not the entire responsibility of the govt.

In other Nations this would work, there are even walk ways meant for people who want to walk to their place of work or business. Must we all own and drive a car that's the question.

Most things Nigerians own is just for show off not out of necessity, or for real comfort.

Nigeria is like a Rubik's cube

You can shout all you want, This four yesrs Tinubu must do it. You can only try to stop him 2027. This stupid aides and spokeperson's spewing propaganda and unfounded allegations are the reason Nigeria is very divided as a nation, if PO had become president the opposition will still look for something to always want to bring him down which if you really check might not even be true, same thing if Atiku had won.

That's how they said Buhari's is a Sudanese now he has done his 8 years and gone back to Daura, that claim is now unfounded.

Before we jump on bandwagon of hate, religious sentiments, ethnicity, tribalism and bigotry let us use our brain. You are alleging that the Tinubu that graduated from CSU is a female, did he have a sex change to become a Man or he stole her identity? How did he become a senator, and a governor with forged documents, if Atiku were in APC now would he raise this concern?
Don't overheat the polity with unfounded acquisations.

yinkus6750:
Na them them.
Niger Delta oil belongs to the entire country.
But gold in Zamfara belongs to private individuals, and the FH is turning a blind eye to happenings there.

Double standards of the North. The don't like alcohol but they share in the VAT.

Gold would actually solve Nigerians inability to get dollars rolling in.
A KG of 24K Gold is $61000+
A Gram is $61.
A barrel of crude oil is 80+

Our problem is sentiment, no plan no vision and corruption.

I read comments and am shaking my head, because majority of comments are focused at Nigerians complaining about past leadership and it it not the way forward. He did not lie.
Other statement that are meant to inspire and encourage you will not see.

He may not have all the answers but at least he inspires confidence in his speech.

Deepspirituals:
. Learn how to Ignore Kobojunkie comments except you are New on here

I done tell am my own. Wanting to win every discussion is a sign of serious need for recognition, underlying abandonment issues dey worry am. If you can't accept that people are not wired identically like you are and will never see things from your perspective then you have a hugggggeeeee problem. That's why I was talking about compromise.

Kobojunkiee:
1. You don't and that is buttressed by complaint which I initially responded to.

2. Stop mentioning things you know nothing of.

3[b]. Are you teachable? Do you compromise when necessary? Are you objective? If yes, why did you complain so much then?[/b],

As far as my woman never come meet you complain, about me. Yes, Yes and Yes case closed.
I notice you always want to have the final say in every discussion, that's a serious problem you know. You can't always have you way, and I will prove it to you.

itsme01:
Military vehicles used by the Military Coupist have full tanks of fuel, their Generators used for broadcast have fuel

Why can't they send this fuel to Hospitals and critical areas

Oil dey your head. The Presidential Resident equally has electricity. Why result to blackmail. This FFK should stay one place let the thunder that one to fire him see him clearly. Whose side is he on? They should continue putting that Doctor life in cross hairs of the Coupist, with this kind of publications revealing their leadership incompetence. If the coupist want to Lead a nation dey should provide their electricity and fuel or meet Mali and Burkina Faso, to help them out, we're they not planing on banding together to fight ECOWAS.


My condolences to the women losing babies.
Other person's are celebrating the coup.

Kobojunkiee:
1. So, even when you marry your fellow man , he will also be fallen Lumber in bed with you? Why not stay single or is it that you must complain no matter what?

2. Oh, now, you go carry lesbian complaint which you are clearly ignorant of---- given you think say na finger dem dey use---- for head too? It seems Op is addressing what may be a bunch of irredeemable souls.

Whether it is finger or mouth or whatever they used to give head in a lesbian type relationship. When you are cheated on what do you say you were checked on with? I understand that of a heterosexual relationship. Why shouldn't I be ignorant of what goes on in a homosexual relationship, it means I am not insane. To know what goes on means I must have participated. I am so straight I eat my banana from the side.

Bottom line: if heterosexual marriage relationship which is what is sanctioned in Bible still has problems, can an unsanctioned one which is contrary now be without problems?
Also I have said that in marriage you need to be teachable, compromise when necessary, and objective.

yinkeys:
Did you hear of the Corper shot in sokoto
How about the murdered soldiers in Nigeria

Sokoto not Burno. Obviously they have Relocated.

The same TinubU, Atiku is trying so hard to humiliate. This life is not on a horizontally levelled platform.

I hope their village people will allow them implement what they learnt. They need the exposure. Just like some Nigerian lectures that go on study leave abroad and come back with the same mentality.

Ppn247:
Lies! Lies! Lies! And more lies. After all that's how this government got into power. So the lies must continue.

Burna Boy bites the finger that fed him as he calls Afro Beats a music without substance. Watch video below:


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=FVDry1pSrkQ?si=88izheYwvJSCNoiX

He did not bite any finger Afrobeat has no substance can you play it for your children to learn from. Al the vulgarities and money talk Na substance. Music generally that is always feel good music is garbage, na all the time you dey feel good. Artist like J. Cole Kendrick, Bob Marley, 2Pac, Manifest Brymo Asa you want argue say dem get substance. Afrobeat blow because the crowd panders to low standards naturally.

Hollygrail:
This man - Adelabu is only ranting because he fails to understand that our power problem is beyond generation but transmission and distribution. What is the excess of generating power in quantum while transmission lines lack the capacity to convey it to the end users. The late Chief Bola Ige and Babatunde Fashola once boost of achieving this feat but ended up disappointing Nigerians. We need Electrical Engineers like myself to resolve our power issues. Most of these appointed ministers lack the capacity to understand how power generation, transmission and distribution network works and as such end up achieving nothing unless they gather a sound Engineering team who will help build a roadmap to power sustainability with strong policy implementation mechanism in place.

They should equally curb all the electricity exportation to Neighboring WA countries that are not paying for what they consume. Charity begins at home.

manoflove22:
my girlfriend broke up with me after catching me cheating on her with her friends, i have been begging her since weeks now, she said we can never date again.

And this is what i saw and emulated from red pill thread that a girl get attracted with you more if u have other option and she knows other girl want u

now I'm badly missing her we haven't call since weeks now

please how can i get over thinking about her, please alpha males skip this thread i don't need ur abundance mentality jargons make ogun no kill una, lovely relationship omg

You never see anything.

FuckTheMod:
In whatever you do,
Avoid olosho
Avoid SINGLE MOTHERS and even girls raised by SINGLE MOTHERS
Avoid a girl that's not religious
Avoid broke and jobless girls
If she's not a virgin, don't let her fool you into no-sex before marriage, BECAUSE SHE'LL DO IT WITH OTHERS IN SECRET.
Dig her past and know who she truly is.
A girl's past is one of the most important factor to check before making her a partner.
A girl with +2 BODYCOUNT is a big red flag!
She will have most likely done abortions and could have even dated married men.
There's absolutely nothing to love and cherish in something that a lot of people have had and used aka
USED PRODUCT
DAMAGED PRODUCT
WASTE PRODUCT
LEFTOVER etc

Happy Searching Bruv

yinkeys:
Security should be guaranteed
Not all these gifts

If there wasn't security, I doubt the camp would be opened after 13 years of closure.

Boko Haram was a scheme for embezzle money during the Terminal administration of GEJ And Buhari's entire administration noting more. The scheme has run its cause.

reiddecuti:
Zulum seems to be a Saint, a governor with conscience, empathy to compare to others governors both past, present and possibly future.


These governors are worst thing after death to man.

Tinubu should make him Minister of Defense after his 2nd Term that Zamfara ex Gov no be am

Kobojunkie:
1. It is not a crime to remain single while keeping your peace of mind. The whining is just too much. If person no know sef, him go think say dem force una into marriage so.

2. Then marry your fellow man and live happily, both of you doing everything for each other. Enough of the complaining.

3. Then marry a non-manipulator. Again. Stop complaining. None of those women put gun for una head force you marry dem. So why the constant whinefest?

You think same gender marriage don't have this same problems?? Like I said sometimes you don't even like yourself. What make you think you will like someone of the same gender.
The lesbians are even funny. If them cheat on you how you go take talk am say dem use finger betray you.

Crime is crime.

tunjilana:
That is what happens when issues are not deeply thought through. It is the kind of thinking that led the first set of coup plotters to organise the jan 1966 coup and all the coups in africa.

Last last you end up discovering that you only moved from one foreign power bloc to another and when their interest is no longer guaranteed, they raise another coup plotter and fund him to chase out the previous coup plotter. Then you end up with many decades of the country being led by soldiers who cant be held accountable and only loyal to themselves, their cronies and foreign allies, while you cant even talk or comment on social media (if they didnt even block it) about their attrocities. Plus no end date or election in sight. And God help you that the coup plotters come from a specific ethnic block (which is always the case) and want to further whatever interest they want, there wont be any elected parliament to debate it out. You will just wake up to find out that your town has been carved into another state or that some areas in your village has been earmarked for Ruga or that certain allowances have been approved for local government administators despite hardship in town.

And the cycle continues till another ethnic faction/ power bloc within the military decides to take over sometimes leading to conflicts that can spill to war if not managed. Now compare that to the power of raising awareness, forming ideological groups, creating or merging into political blocs, delivering your vote to those you think can do it, and if they dont get it, going back to do your homework and trying again in 4 years time, and if they get it and refuse to do what you think they should do, voting against them in the next election. And if you see irregularities in elections and being able to go to court while challenging electoral bodies to keep improving their process.

It is immaturity to want to throw away a good method of picking leaders, for a bad one, just cos it isnt favoring you. the mature thing is to go back and get better.

Very True. In its purest form democracy is the best. However anything involving human beings is subject to manipulation. The system might not be flawed, but the people practicing it are. Me disdain for coup rises to the highest heavens like you said it could be a coup that Favours one particular ethnicity. That's scary.
The Nigerian democratic system is not perfect
But how we go do.

Last last everybody will get to share from the pie. When it's your time it's your time even the forces that are against you will work to bring you to power. All the people wailing right now will get their chance and we will experience the good and the bad that they have to offer because, no individual can ever get it right. That's why the system is not necessarily the problem it's the people.

Front Page Material Please

This one is strong.

tunjilana:
And you think that is the way to freedom?

The ammunitions the military will use to rule and defending you is coming from where?

Abeg help me ask him. It's one thing that we were colonized by whites, should a black Man now colonize a fellow black Man? Disaster.

That is coup for you. I thought they were celebrating a while back. Maybe they are isolated incident and not wide spread.
Under a democratic govt, he could farm all he liked and was OK with his farm and family. Now the military has taken over he is FORCED to work with them with dire consequences if he refuses.
Shay I been dey talk am since.

Who are those people calling for coup that time pls identity yourselves like thunder strike you this is raining season.

Deepspirituals:
I read Many Thread about Men Complaining about their Wife Attitudes, I know Some does not Engage in Premarital Sex But to be Candid not everyone Practise no Sex Before Marriage .

To you that does not ,While Dating ,Don't you notice that this your Lady Do Complain she does not really like Sex ,She is not romantic ,Her Attitudes towards sex is quite Discouraging .

After one Round she Keeps telling you she is okay ,Sometimes she Hurries you to get up Immediately you Climaxed .

You notice that she is the stubborn type ,Lacks some form of Respect ,Rash ,Saucy ,When she Comes Arround you ,All she Can Cook is Just Indomie ...She Doesn't Care to Gets your clothes to wash ,Sometimes she keeps the Plates dirty even after eating for you to Wash.

You Give her Gifts ,Takes Care of her .

She Argues with you even when it's Obvious she is wrong .

She finds it so Hard to Say Sorry ,She Still expect you to say Sorry even when she is Wrong .

Oga ....With all these RED FLAGS ,YOU STILL WENT AHEAD TO RENTS THAT EXPENSIVE HALL,PAY FOR WEDDING CAKE ,BUY WEDDING GOWN ,GOLD RING ,ORGANISE A VERY BIG WEDDING RECEPTION , TRADITIONAL MARRIAGE ETC

PUT SUCH WOMAN FOR HOUSE ALL IN THE NAME OF ONE KAIN LOVE ..

TODAY YOU COME ONLINE TO STARTS SEEKING FOR ADVISE , COMPLAINING OF BEEN FEDUP OF THE MARRIAGE .

DOES IT MEANS THAT YOU WERE BLIND TO ALL THESE ,ABI SHE WASN'T SHOWING ALL THESE ... OGA, LEAVE MADAM ALONE OOO AND ENJOY YOUR MARRIAGE .

NA WAOOO. Moderator,I Hail you ....Hope this Can Grace the Front Page ..

All this was done in the hope that the person will change.

But then again if you keep running from one person because of the things you don't like you will never settle down with anybody. Sometimes we don't even like ourselves.

Manage people the way they are, but they should equally be open to being taught.

Everyone was brought up different and has had life experience affect them differently also.
However both parties should be objective, should learn to compromise when necessary and be open to bettering themselves.
But sexually most women are nothing but a fallen lumber on the bed. The Man has to do everything.

When you want money for that bone straight or that Gucci bag or those things that are your concern as a woman, you tend to become an angel with smooth voice like milk, if you cannot apply same wisdom in other areas of your marriage or relationship


Permit me to call you Manipulator of the Universe.

GlorifiedTunde:
Lol ... That's life!

People who counsel you these days have a complication of their own that makes them naturally unqualified to counsel people ... But we like to worship them!

A man who's had 2 prior failed marriages and accusations on infidelities, is advising you people and you're listening.

People will do whatever gives them fame and money!

Both Steve and Marjorie have terrible marital pasts, one is a player, the other is a gold digger who has married a couple of drug dealers in times past ...

Any how sha, na dem business! 😏

So because one cannot get a thing right, they shouldn't advise others to try and get it right.

Our parents have marital issues, but they will still try to advice us to be better than them in all areas won't they.

If person Mama na Olosho she no go want her daughter to be one.
If person father na thief, he no go want him pikin to be thief

There is loving in sharing. But their is also peace in having your own.

fortunechy:
The truth is that she left the relationship because the guy isn't rich as she expects, not giving nonsense flirmsy excuses....Mchteeeeeeeeew!!!

Possible. No be this gender Port Harcourt Most Reliable students turn yahoo kill few days ago. If money dey she for no run. Watin she find she no see, she dey make excuse. But men can carry one village girl and clean her up and it's OK. It's their responsibility they will say.

In the first place why did she even agree to date the guy? Talk true make thunder no spank you, you know na raining season we dey.

Goodlady:
There was a time I dated a baker for two weeks. I knew the relationship ll die prematurely from day 1 cos the first outing he took me to was a sub per restaurant which has dirty environment. As in someone that bake should v basic knowledge about food and have class. So what does he take me for? Na test?

I had to take only water after much pestering cos I no fit chop anything there else na diarrhoea!

Within 3 days, I noticed the guy was just too clumsy. I think he blv he's showing me love by showing up most times but he became too bossy with his questions. Always asking if I v eaten, slept as if I m barbie. What broke the camel's back was when I visited his place and saw that he's not neat. His house has litters of baking ingredients, unwashed pan, bowls etc. He's also someone that press tooth paste like an illiterate, pressing it from the middle as seen in the picture below.

I just can't see myself getting further with a man like that so after two weeks, I just avoided him and summed up courage to tell him he's not my type.

If the tables were turned, I wonder what they guy will do?

SenecaTheYonger:
This has nothing to do with dream man. Many women don't marry their dream men, because their dream men don't even consider them as spec. That's why there are so many baby mama's because most of them try to trap their "dream man" with pregnancy, but end up finding out the man doesn't want them in his future.

@OP, it could be hormone, especially if it happened after she had kids. Pregnancy can really mess up a woman. Go to a hormonal doctor let them tell you the test to run.

Ashewo get plenty dream men be that.

addmole:
2 days ago, it was the day set for the 1 round we were supposed to make love, she just said, something is on her face. I wish I can describe it. I was like, why Is it that anytime its when we want to make out is when you must have en excuse, she just shouted at me, that I should go that i dont care. I was like, this was the same person who was jumping and telling me she wants to fix a nose ring. Very healthy and bouncing all over the place, but when it comes to my usual 1 round on the old timetable. She would look for an excuse. Her mother shouted at me that if I want to divorce her, I should go ahead that she's tired of settling our differences.

Abbiiiii spiritual husband join for the matter

brain54:
I suspect your wife is going through some sort of childhood trauma…


Maybe rape.


Counseling might help.

Since she gave you the okay to have sex outside… maybe you should take it up.

Something in your wife’s childhood/growing up really messed her up.

But you should have noticed before marriage too.

You dated 2 years before marriage.

Follow her timetable patiently or cheat!

That's what stuck out to me too from a I read. She could be holding tightly to a trauma from. Her past. Nobody resents human touch from
loved one excerpt something is fundamentally wrong, they really need to have one last talk to find out what's really wrong before he steps out on her and break the marriage. I have divorce, but this is not a situation that one continues to give time and hope the person changed. Changes are hard as age progresses.
That mother in law is not serous make she park one side.