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PoliticsRe: Obidient Datti Ahmed's Baze University VC Is On The PBAT Minister List. by Abifarin16: 8:01pm On Aug 02, 2023
Politics na idiot. But it is what it is
PoliticsRe: Names Of The New Ministerial Nominees Tinubu Sent To The Senate For Screening by Abifarin16: 7:47pm On Aug 02, 2023
All this People are responsible in a way for getting Tinubu into power, maybe the can bring his agenda to fruition. But this feels like payback for services rendered on the other hand.
Christianity EtcRe: God Tolerates Space Exploration Yet Punished The Builders Of The Tower Of Babel by Abifarin16: 7:36pm On Aug 02, 2023
Cybertroll:
New International Version


Genesis 11:1-9

11 Now the whole world had one language and a common speech.

2 As people moved eastward, they found a plain in Shinar and settled there.

3 They said to each other, “Come, let’s make bricks and bake them thoroughly.” They used brick instead of stone, and tar for mortar.

4 Then they said, “Come, let us build ourselves a city, with a tower that reaches to the heavens, so that we may make a name for ourselves; otherwise we will be scattered over the face of the whole earth.”

5 But the Lord came down to see the city and the tower the people were building.

6 The Lord said, “If as one people speaking the same language they have begun to do this, then nothing they plan to do will be impossible for them.

7 Come, let us go down and confuse their language so they will not understand each other.”

8 So the Lord scattered them from there over all the earth, and they stopped building the city.

9 That is why it was called Babel—because there the Lord confused the language of the whole world. From there the Lord scattered them over the face of the whole earth.


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Yet God has no problem with aeroplanes, jets, rockets, satellites, the international space station, and so one. In other words, God is perfectly okay with space exploration. Yet God was 'intimidated' watching the people build the tower of Babel, a city which would reach heaven.

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I gotta ask, where exactly is God? Residing in the sky? In space? Beyond?

***
I need answers. undecided
The was God's command after the flood in Gen 9:1 God blessed Noah and his sons and said, "Have many children, so that your descendants will live all over the earth.
The action were contrary to His command
Gen. 11:4 And they said, Go to, let us build us a city and a tower, whose top may reach unto heaven; and let us make us a name, lest we be scattered abroad upon the face of the whole earth.
Now you need to know who built that Tower, Nimrod, the spiritual significance of the location of the build. Babylon is synonymous to sin and pride, Nimrod was turning the mind of people away from God and His Purpose. Now what inspired Nimrod to do such that God wouldn't allow is what you should be asking because He did not fault the Pyramid of Egypt nor the statue built by Nebuckhadnezzer in Babylon again. The tower was definitely an inspired by evil. Anything God doesn't approve will always not stand. Where is Babylon that Nubuchadnezzer built it has gone back to dust. At the ending pages of Richest Man in Babylon it is written His great was are not standing. Whereas the Tomb of Absalom is still in Israel and parents take their children to teach the cost of rebellion. You cannot understand all God does, but you must accept it.
PoliticsRe: Tinubu Restore Electricity or use Bombers To Bring Down Any Dam Built By Niger by Abifarin16: 7:10pm On Aug 02, 2023
So it begins.
RomanceRe: No Nigerian Man Can Afford Me - Nigerian Lady Says by Abifarin16:
How did this get here in the first place?
Foreign AffairsRe: Nigeria Commences Sanctions Against Niger, Cuts Off Electricity Supply by Abifarin16: 4:49pm On Aug 02, 2023
WriterNigg:
🇳🇪 Niger has Uranium.

A Nuclear power plant will be built by 🇷🇺 Russia in exchange for their natural resources. Problem solved
Possible but they will have to manage with candles for the next 6 or more years pending when the Nuclear power plant will be functional.
CareerRe: Career Crisis - What Do I Do by Abifarin16: 2:42pm On Aug 02, 2023
Thortp:
So, where is your diversity?
If you finally got the Audit job, what happens if you're moved to another department. Will you resign?
You say watin?? cheesy
PoliticsRe: If I Had Been Gowon; I Would’ve Starved Igbos During The Civil War - Reno Omokri by Abifarin16: 2:38pm On Aug 02, 2023
ASAPFERG:
igbos deserve nothing but death

death to all igbos
This is not good.
PoliticsRe: Femi Falana's Speech On Labour Protest Ground (Video) by Abifarin16: 2:16pm On Aug 02, 2023
crossfm:
Hehehe.

Labour for once had the balls to protest in Nigeria. This hardship must have hit so hard.
Dey Play
PoliticsRe: Govt’s Response Will Determine Duration Of Protest — NLC by Abifarin16: 2:12pm On Aug 02, 2023
naijaboy756:
Like they did in 2012 when Tinubu, Soyinka, Bakare and co occupied Ojota abi?

Ozuuuooooorrr
Life na turn by turn
PoliticsRe: Govt’s Response Will Determine Duration Of Protest — NLC by Abifarin16: 2:10pm On Aug 02, 2023
Acekidc4:
The Federal Government should initiate No Work No Pay Policy. Rubbish!!
We were suffocating before, you just want them to die. Abbbiii you want to turn The Whole of Nigeria to Kogi
PoliticsRe: NLC: Protest Rally Holds Tomorrow Nationwide by Abifarin16: 9:23pm On Aug 01, 2023
Rahym001:
Aluta
This NLC self, when Naira was redesigned they did not protest ooo.
PoliticsRe: BREAKING: Labour May Reconsider Planned Protest by Abifarin16: 6:58pm On Aug 01, 2023
Na action we want no be talk.
PoliticsRe: Titbits Africa With Ayo Dawson New Episode by Abifarin16: 6:54pm On Aug 01, 2023
France is losing hold of Africa gradually. Last last everybody chop breakfast
Nairaland GeneralRe: Former Vice Presidential Candidate Peter Obi's Phone Stolen Inside Courtroom" by Abifarin16: 6:48pm On Aug 01, 2023
OK. New case go start be that.
PoliticsRe: We're Reconsidering Our Stance On Planned Strike, Say Labour Unions by Abifarin16: 6:41pm On Aug 01, 2023
The truth is this governance thing, everyone want to see actions that sloths the pain of this hardship, plenty talk no dey full basket. Let the needful be done. You no fit repair Nigeria in one year, but their immediate measures that can be put in place to cushion the hardship people are feeling. Do we always have to get to the point of strike before things get done.
PoliticsRe: Labour May Re-consider Nationwide Protest Following Measures Announced By Tinubu by Abifarin16: 6:36pm On Aug 01, 2023
If they go and strike and FG enforce no work no pay like Buhari did ASUU last year. E no go funny, NLC go just become the bad guy.
PoliticsRe: Tinubu Caught Sleeping At Benin Independence Day Celebration(photo) by Abifarin16: 6:29pm On Aug 01, 2023
Sleep is a normal part of life don't criticize a man for nature taking its cause. It's like criticizing him for sneezing.
EducationRe: JUST IN: ASUU Joins Nationwide Strike by Abifarin16: 6:25pm On Aug 01, 2023
This is not good at all, less than 3 months into a new administration.
PoliticsRe: Why Are Refugees From Enugu Running To Lagos After Voting Obi? by Abifarin16: 6:10pm On Aug 01, 2023
Omoawoke2:
This is the dumbest thing ever said on nairaland.

Now let me educate you so you will never ever say this again in a lifetime

1. The biggest economy in Africa is in southwest. This is an unquestionable fact

2. Everything virtually happens in southwest, education, entertainment industry, commerce etc

3. Southwest is not landlocked

4. Southwest has oil and gas

5. Southwest controls the biggest industries in Nigeria

6. The region that will suffer most of Nigeria breaks today is southeast



Southeast has so many disadvantages, it is the smallest region in the country. The entire southeast is not more than Oyo state

Southeast is landlocked ( A very big problem)

Southeast lacks development

So please explain how southwest will suffer? Are we disadvantaged, the answer is a big No! We have everything to benefit more and southeast will be most disadvantaged.
The are calling for Biafra, forgetting they don't share any border with any other country, the become an enclave. Surrounded by the people the want to cut away from. Serious visa issues go arise. They should look at the map properly. If Biafra holds all of them scattered might have to come back from where they are and be trapped in sandbox like area, sanctioning them will be easy. How do you think the civil war was won?
RomanceRe: Why Is Cheating Considered Normal For Men? by Abifarin16: 5:51pm On Aug 01, 2023
GO0DHardDick:
So her hooking up with a supposed rich dude after telling other guys that they can't afford her, is how she enjoys her life?
Is the her in this discuss your girlfriend because this has turned from an open conversation meant to address societal ills to a very personal vendetta in favor of cheating. Did she leave you for a supposed rich dude?
RomanceRe: Why Is Cheating Considered Normal For Men? by Abifarin16: 5:47pm On Aug 01, 2023
GO0DHardDick:
So her hooking up with a supposed rich dude after telling other guys that they can't afford her, is how she enjoys her life?
You no get valid excuse.
GO0DHardDick:
So her hooking up with a supposed rich dude after telling other guys that they can't afford her, is how she enjoys her life?
From their name you shall know them
RomanceRe: Why Is Cheating Considered Normal For Men? by Abifarin16: 5:45pm On Aug 01, 2023
GO0DHardDick:
So her hooking up with a supposed rich dude after telling other guys that they can't afford her, is how she enjoys her life?
You no get valid excuse.
RomanceRe: Why Is Cheating Considered Normal For Men? by Abifarin16: 5:34pm On Aug 01, 2023
GO0DHardDick:
A society where a girl tells a man that he can't afford her, she's not cheap, she's classy, she's this she's that, absolutely have no right to tell a man to stick to one woman he become rich. Oga e no possible! Let her continue with her "he can't afford me slogan" . Stop telling a man how to use his money and enjoy his life when he becomes Rich because the same girls rejected him when he was broke!
So cheating is how you enjoy life?
CareerRe: Is The Manager Conniving With The Security To Work Against Me? by Abifarin16: 5:29pm On Aug 01, 2023
Onpoint1010:
I worked with two guys and 3 girls as their security chief in a fast food restaurant as contract staffs. The guys were something else but I managed them although we had back and forth arguments because they were trying to disobey my directives.

As time went by, the then manager told me about a vacant position, "Store Manager" and helped me to apply. Unfortunately, he was transferred before I was fully employed so, he handed me over to the new manager and assistant manager.

I was employed and was happy. Those two boys then began to conspired against me, they are psychologically smart and to an extend fearless and manipulative, I like them for that.

Just of recent, they began working against me with the manager, they stopped helping me to offload goods to the store and so, I decided to stop them from entering the store to charge their phones. But they boldly told me that I can't stop them and if I do, they will beat me. They have muscle more than I do. I knew they can beat me but I decided that I won't back down.

Yesterday, I stopped the now security chief from entering the store but the manager told me to allow them. This is the same manager that supported me initially to stop anyone I want from entering the store house and to lock it each time I want to go out.

Right now, I don't know what to do, I feel like the manager is trying to make me powerless in the office.

I want to know, does the manager have the right to ask the guards to keep entering the store room or I should continue to resist them?

Any store man or woman who has had similar experience, how did you overcome it.
Win them over in any right way know how. Because you Dan change office now no mean say you begin do anyhow. Bring them close to you but not too close no need for bad blood. Be nice to them if them no gree learn someone will come after you to teach them a lesson. They could be of assistance to you one day. This world's small place
RomanceRe: Why Is Cheating Considered Normal For Men? by Abifarin16: 5:11pm On Aug 01, 2023
GO0DHardDick:
Dude it has been Scientifically proven that Women cheat far more than men but barely get caught. Dude a girl can be seeing you and at the same time be seeing 4 other guys and you'll never know about it.

Men are real and not pretenders, this is why it's easy to spot when a man is cheating. But you see Women? That's discussion for another day. Their cheating is mad gan! Dude she can be dating you and be knacking your friend, and all the boys in her area Must have penetrated her honeypot before And yet she'll still code like nothing happened. Women cheat far more than men
I agree with you but why do we hail one and castigate the other? Why do we demand loyalty from one and not the other? Why will a woman be kicked out for the same thing that a man would only have to apologize and bribe his way out. What's bad for one should be bad for both don't you agree.
RomanceRe: Why Is Cheating Considered Normal For Men? by Abifarin16: 5:05pm On Aug 01, 2023
CuriousStudent:
Very simple because they can get away with It in Nigeria.

In that women in this clime will not leave their husbands easily because of shame,stigma,prejudice against divorcees/single mums in the dating field. This women face ostracization from their family as they have brought "Shame " to the family. And such shame will rub off on the divorcee female siblings as potential suitors will be wary of marrying them.


If she leaves,no financial security for her kids. As there are no child support laws that makes men stop supporting financially for their kids. The law doesn't force the men to keep up with the kid support and people will shamelessly defend those deadbeat by claiming it was "her manipulation of the kids" that caused him to neglect them

Plus we have people defending cheats.


That explains why op.

I really don't have problem with this reality,the only problem I have is when people try to restrain/demonize female tendencies( hypergamy et Al) but normalize polygamy.

Why shouldn't I leave my husband when he loses his job or can't sustain giving me the best of life when if he is in my shoes he will go for younger,fresher, interesting women when I don't appeal him? The former needs to be normalized not demonized . I will encourage any woman to take to her heels and run from a man that can no longer give her the best of life whether is loss of a job or illness or economy. Leave!
Levelinng the playing field.

My gender has been given too much power honestly. Plus our fathers probably didn't set good examples either and our mothers were loyal even to their detriment because there mothers before them endured it. That's where the got the mentality that he will always cheat just accept him back. Women must become quite independent but still submissive to their men in a way that don't make them stooges or don't totally cancels out the man's pride or ego. That's too much work already. Some women too are betrayal to their fellow women, you can't sick together and fight this injustice the right way one of you will cast and say Abeg as far as he takes care of me and my children I am OK.
RomanceRe: Why Is Cheating Considered Normal For Men? by Abifarin16: 4:54pm On Aug 01, 2023
GO0DHardDick:
QUICK ONE

OP, A rich man can marry a poor girl from a poor home but a poor girl can't marry a poor guy, why is this so?

If you can answer this then you've gotten the answers as to why men cheat
Society has give the malefolk too much power to run around smashing like it were OK, but that's not right. We fit no explain your question up there but men have to do better. Hold ourselves up to a better standard in terms of commitment, loyalty and self control.
RomanceRe: Why Is Cheating Considered Normal For Men? by Abifarin16: 4:52pm On Aug 01, 2023
talented321:
1. He house u
2. He paid ur pride price
3. He feed's u
4. He pay all bills
5. He feed the children
6. He pays the children's school fees.
7. When your mother/father dies he is the one to spend money also when his mother/father dies he is the still the one to make all expenses
8. He walk all day to make sure u and the kids live a better life.
9. He sells his happiness for the family
10. He will be only regard as man when he produces something' but you as a woman can go into marriage without nothing
11. He know the worst u can do is to leave his house.
12. I don't like cheating but there is a different between cheating in men and cheating in woman'' the earlier u accept it the better for u
13. WITH MY HANDSOME WEED'' WHILE LUCKY DUBE KEEP THE VIBE CALLED '' IT IS NOT EASY''' GOING
All this are not reason enough to cheat. If a person lacks self control they lack it. If a person is an addict and a pervert that's what they are no come dey try rationalize the irrational.
1Sharon:
By your logic, women that are the sole breadwinners are free to cheat as they like.

Shey you know not all men are providers.
Abeg help me ask am.
RomanceRe: Why Is Cheating Considered Normal For Men? by Abifarin16: 4:50pm On Aug 01, 2023
talented321:
1. He house u
2. He paid ur pride price
3. He feed's u
4. He pay all bills
5. He feed the children
6. He pays the children's school fees.
7. When your mother/father dies he is the one to spend money also when his mother/father dies he is the still the one to make all expenses
8. He walk all day to make sure u and the kids live a better life.
9. He sells his happiness for the family
10. He will be only regard as man when he produces something' but you as a woman can go into marriage without nothing
11. He know the worst u can do is to leave his house.
12. I don't like cheating but there is a different between cheating in men and cheating in woman'' the earlier u accept it the better for u
13. WITH MY HANDSOME WEED'' WHILE LUCKY DUBE KEEP THE VIBE CALLED '' IT IS NOT EASY''' GOING
All this are not reason enough to cheat. If a person lacks self control they lack it. If a person is an addict and a pervert that's what they are no come dey try rationalize the irrational.
PoliticsRe: Chimamanda Adichie, Datti Baba-Ahmed Join Obi At PEPC by Abifarin16: 2:42pm On Aug 01, 2023
Stillkrug:
Chimanmada > wole soyinka
If you know you know
You Dan go carry politics enter literature Abbbiii

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