₦airaland Forum

Olomubj:
Menopus,is one time in woman's life.why sex is everyday activities of a man

doyinisaac:
so you mean girls wash their hair once in a lifetime??

omron:
what is the thing that boys do thrice a day and girls do once in their lifetime
pls I need quick answer to win a prize

Phelicx:
My girlfriend has been having a serious issue with her brother, which has lingered for way too long. Do I have any right to wade in?

KeriBaby:
Love stories make me laugh
My friend just met a guy barely a month now and evry minute she be punishing me with all their love stories... lmao how he is the best thing nd all but before next month the story is gonna be different even tho i wish that she would be happy forever. ... but it doesn't last for more than 3months and trust me its never her fault. I don't know why she keeps giving out her heart regardless (wish i was like that tho)
I pray this one last sha
But Boys ehn the way y'all change suddenly after all the sweet talks is magical
I personally do not believe in love again
I don't want no mediocre at all cuz e go too pain me .

Stupedinluv:
Is your lingua franca real?
Answer the topic quest jooor.

IAmOged:
so u are contradictory? something accidental cant be genius,hmmm.

IAmOged:
accidentalgenius, why are u accidentalgenius?

mackhunter77:
why not give them the gender equality law before thinking of removing bride price? Thou shalt not place the cart before the horse

BlaqCoffee109:
ladies don't have a plan for life? more or less nothing to offer? whao! you really are an accidental genius in stupidity...the best of 'em

CFCman:
I like that idea. It's more dignifying than a brazen auction of my daughter.

CFCman:
I agree it's archaic.

mackhunter77:
I WILL NOT MARRY A WOMAN THAT WONT COST ME ANYTHING...

Decker:
It's not always about the money for ladies. How do you guys even arrive at such conclusion?

First of all, let's establish a foundation to base this argument on. Are you referring to gold diggers and poverty stricken ladies who are desperate for a money bag to lash on, or are you referring to women who are looking for a man to build a future with? If it's the former, then you maybe right with your supposition, but if it's the later, then, sorry, you are so wrong. Mind you, it's the later I am referring to and debating on.

I am talking about requirements for serious relationships and not "side guys" and "part time boyfriends/ sugar daddy kind of relationship.
For serious relationships, especially one aimed at marriage, money is just a fraction of the criteria, but it's never a single, independent criterion.

Those women who are having babies for celebrities aren't having those babies because they love them and want to marry them, they are only having the babies for financial security. They only see them as an opportunity to make money.

The entire population is made up of 60% of women and 40% men. Out of the 40% percent of men, only 5% make up the wealthy of the population. If your assertion holds any truth whatsoever, then why are the 60% of women not hooking up with this 5%? How come more than half of the 35% still find themselves in healthy relationships?
How is it that there are women who still take it upon themselves to be bread winners? How is it possible that guys who aren't all that financially buoyant still are able to get wives? How is all this possible if money is all ladies want?

Decker:
From my previous post, you can see clearly and evidently that I never stated that women aren't attracted to men who drive bentleys and live in big mansions, I said that it's just a criteria for attraction, but it's never one for love. There are other qualities a man must possess before a girl falls in love with him, which I listed. I only addressed the issue the way I did because I noticed lots of guys are in the habits of proliferating wrong notions about what women want from a man.

It's never only about the money. That's absurd. Money is only part of the requirement, but it's not the complete package. Strive to have the money, but also work on developing other aspects of yourself, cause if your money is the only thing that attracts a woman to you, then you will only end up with a gold-digger and opportunists, who would see you as an ATM machine.