₦airaland Forum

PureWays:
Had it been that we've accepted women with such orientation in our community without tagging them "hoe", the rest (other women) would have started opening up too..

Our environment is not matured enough for such.. Even on Nairaland here, you will see some girls coming out about her feelings for some dude and you will see comments like "I pity your P*ssy" and all sort..
It's Cray mehn!

Well life doesn't give you lemons. That shouldn't stop them from being straight forward

RadicallyBlunt:
In dat case I think they do it even more. They think more of themselves more than they think of their partners. Its d men that usually put them 1st b4 themselves. They are so fond of giving love conditions and what u must buy them blabla

Lol. We're not discussing about their conditions

AlienStar:
'cause we're wired that way......'tame your desire and don't be too open to guys' (my mom will always say that).... When a gal becomes too open, she is likely to be toyed with.

That's deceptive. Your orientation about that is wrong. When I see an open girl, I see her as a straight forward girl that knows what she wants. How can a girl that knows what she wants be toyed with? Shed know better than to involve herself with certain people

RadicallyBlunt:
Wetin u dey yan. Which openness do they have to specially do when the best way to open up their mind of fantasy is to get a man to talk to them

You're talking as if they shd be d one to go and meet men so they can have all their sexual thoughts and feelings met. Their ukwu and bobby does that for them daily. Its d overskinny ones that have such curiosity

You're not getting this. Talking about what they like, want and what not with their partner, whether it's sexual or not.

I don't think you understand what I'm asking.

talktonase:
i suspect many are afraid of been taking advantage of.

That's not enough to make them so unexpressive

PureWays:
I don't blame them, Nigerian men aren't helping matters..

Many will say they won't take advantage of such lady online and do the opposite in real life..
Realistically speaking, more than 70% of guys will take advantage of a lady that asks them out..

Sometimes I pity em ladies..

Is that why? Fear of being taken advantage of? I don't believe so.

Note that this is not restricted to basic desires and wants, this applies in the bedroom too

RadicallyBlunt:
Its those that havve small yansh and breasts that this thread refers to.

Those with big size stuffs even use men do shakara talkless of feelings

You're wrong. Size of her butt has nothing to do with her openness.

GOATandYAMtheory:
Just Nigerian girls? This isn't peculiar to just Naija girls

It is. Most of em aren't straight forward

Most Nigerian girls always have secret desires or thoughts.. But tend to keep these thoughts to themselves or privately fulfill them Simply because they want to look classy or good to outsiders or they believe they will go to hell. Honey, you will go to hell, but not for this mm?. Learn to express yourselves people. Life is all about expressions, feelings and what not.

Cc: mynd44 Lalasticlala

ASL33:
how much is transferwise as in naira against pounds

Pretty much the same. It's the cost of sending that's reduced.

Our health sector has been overlooked for so many years.

Poor funding

Fund diversion

No health care facilities (if there are they're inoperative)

Chommieblaq:

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The lady disturbed me like hell, trying to woo me with her posh cars n gift. That path ain't for me at all[/center]

Interesting, how did it end?

falconey:


actually you can with cash.


cash turn ladies on than porn_

Your future is so bright I had to put on shades

Asslicker. Such an ass

KingCheezyPuff:
Why is that funny
......Lemme guess you don't believe me.. ...okay.

Lol honey, you might have everyone fooled. But I'm not buying all this


That looks like a picture of a picture, not your bathroom

KingCheezyPuff:
I just knew you'd tell me anyway
Man you don't listen.
.....I know I don't have ta explain myself ta you but I will.
That's my bathroom an that background I got from a camera app.It's just a gloosing over of my white bathroom walls.

Lol if I quote you right. You're standing in your bathroom. And what's behind you is the wall. And that background from a camera app?

KingCheezyPuff:
Don't really care honestly

Care to explain why you have a picture of a picture as your profile photo?

The top right corner. The sky cannot by white and gray at the same time.

You're shady

KingCheezyPuff:
Preach the good word...always my man, always

Wouldn't you like to know why I called you shady a month ago?

It'll be a big reveal

KingCheezyPuff:
How so

Well in a thread meant for complaints, you do the most ironic thing of all.

This covers one side of the coin only.

KingCheezyPuff:
Woman..... the vessel of perfection!
There can be no complaints

You're always ironic.

I got the mail too. Devastating. Does anybody know any other cheap alternative?

Amberon11:
In as much as you sounded too rude, you spoke the undiluted truth. I am a slim girl and my fat friend always envied me because of my physique. She felt men only needed her for sex which was true. Some guys have also told me this before that they'd only consider her for a "hit and run". she's lazy too and has pot belly.

I personally can NEVER date a fat guy even if he was the only one in the world.

Coming from a lady, I'm glad I read this.

Fat is not attractive. It never has and it'll never be.

all this religious people and their lies about God bringing marriage and bride price. I'm not surprised by such hypocrisy.

And the ladies finding this post offensive is even more shocking. You're being sold under a cloak called tradition yet you support it.


No wonder Nigeria as a nation is so backward.

ammamat:
hello...plz is it right or dose it sound good to tell your guy to open up to u if his fade up with reletionship or he should leave you alone if he feel his tired. or plz what is the right word to use coz this guy has stop talking, calling and I don't call either.

my dear, sometimes some things aren't worth stressing over. It's clear he's grown bored and tired of the relationship. There's nothing u can do

esejessy:
what is dis one blabbing?

get off of me.

Whenever there's trouble anywhere, there's always a woman at the middle of it

The only difference between a RELIGION and a SUPERSTITION is the degree of SOCIAL ACCEPTANCE it enjoys

shamo92:
Hello STUPID!i am fat so it is my business when people go around saying stuffs not true about fat people bt he on the other hand isn't fat, doesn't have a fat mother n has no sister so how is "FAT" his business?make me understand STUPID

i'm pretty sure you're single and unhappy. Engaging you further might as well make me rude, unhappy and fat like you. Cheers.