₦airaland Forum

That's why Islam advise men to marry ladies based on three qualities; a religious lady, beauty and family background. The most important quality is a religious lady

I am not surprise seeing this kind of message from an Igbo man, they are always not united and that's one of the reason why are being treated as a third class citizens in their own country. Chai!!! This kind of message is very disgusting and it is absolutely a slap on the face of the Igbo

I'm talking from experience, I don't think an Hausa lady can ever make a southerner happy. Your mental health is very paramount.

Southernigbo:
I just observed that most southerners hardly approach, court or marry hausa, fulani or even Northern ladies in general. A friend of mine was even telling me that hausa ladies are so insatiable in bed, and problem of hygiene. But then I beg to disagree, hausa women can't really be as hot in bed as most Southern tribes- from my own estimation. I may partially agree on the issue of hygiene, because the northern part of the country has a very hot climate, hence the issue of excessive heat, smells, water shortage, so one's level of hygiene has got to be top b4 one can be at optimal level

Oga mind your business, the Northerners are not complaining. Dey you dey.

Righteousness2:
This is really getting out of Hand. We can't. Continue to keep quiet.

We Pass a decree in the Name of JESUS, that the angelic host of Heaven Invade this location of this terrorists , cause commotion and liberate these ones in JESUS Name..... Amen

Ok, I will wait for different contributions. Thank you all

Ok, thank you.

lordm:
2 years old for creche/playgroup

My son is a year and two months, I will like to no what is the most suitable age to enroll a child in school?

Stupid man! It is high time Nigerians looked for a way to sack you and this stupid government.

Metrix147:
https://abntv.com.ng/2022/03/sack-nff-management-team-now-orji-kalu-urges-fg/

You are more concern about Russia and Ukraine war, oga try and channel all your energy to Nigeria insecurities.

infofta:
They say the best form of defence is to attack.

With the slow pace of Russian troops on the ground due to Ukrainian resistance Russian has resulted to air strikes using long range cruise missiles and long range artillery and bombers resulting in civilian casualties inside Ukraine.

With the full scale invasion going on is it logical for Ukrainian military to start launching long range missiles and rockets like Hamas into Russian nearby cities like Moscow. We all know missile defence systems are not 100% effective.

Will this increase or decrease the pressure on Putin as Ukraine has nothing more to loss.

My late wife, she went to the hospital just for maternity stuff. My goodness! I lost her, ifemi your death is still like a shock to me. I sincerely miss you, I think it is high time out government started inspecting our hospital. Ifemi, may the Almighty God grant you eternal rest. ���[quote author=Odewaleadesoye post=111268772][/quote]

You don start again, men are not cheap. What's your definition of cheap men?

Iyaebe:
There's nothing like husband scarcity,I don't believe in that.Men are so cheap like sachet water

E is my favorite

I need a mature response in respect to this; is it possible for a lady to marry a guy she's not sexually attracted to?

Why will I sponsor a girlfriend in the first place to abroad!!! When it is very obvious that I have siblings who will genuinely need my assistance. Some guys are crazy Sha.

This is false stereotype. Anyway, that's your opinion.

saphiere:
Over my dead body I marry I nairalander. An average nairalander is a misogynist.

But it is not difficult to increase the salaries of the thieves in National Assembly. Useless people everywhere!

Pride and intolerant

Halimaatz:
Yes this question goes to both gender.

What killed ur feelings
for someone you where
madly in love with ..

Mine:The way his father maltreats his mother ND he is his father's favorite... He also behaves the way i don't like.

Hope i made a right choice o.

What is the name is the answer

Pele, you don contract herpes.

Mazzatov:
This is a serious sh*t I’ve been battling with, I met this banny around September, she’s a single mother, but I don’t care about that, as no one is above mistake we started off...
Now my problem is this banny gave me Syphilis, I’ve been battling with it since first week of November, I’ve treat myself at the hospital, I spent 12k there and this sores are still on my prick
I just need help on what to use again, this sores are itching me so bad


Now I know why some men hates girls so much, I always support girls but with this experience, it hurts me so much
I just need help to cure myself....

Jesus Christ wasn't a Christian during his time

obonujoker:
King Solomon wasn't a Christian.

Jesus has given the standard in Matthew 19:4... Anything short of that means one isn't ready to be in the Lord's side...

Jesus is the standard, not Solomon or Abraham

It is very painful that we are in this kind of situation in this country, I am absolutely speechless. I can't refill my cylinder like before. God some zombies brought this to us Sha

It is well, I warned my people not to vote for the present governor but they declined. Welcome to Sango-Liverpool

Ogun kill you there, fucck wey go give you herpes abi

CSTRR:
To be fair, some ashawo worth 5k.

There are some ladies based in VI, I have seen on codedruns.

They charge at least 10k for short time with abeg.

They are clean as hell,and they can truly fuccckk.
Fuccckkk that your girlfriend can't give you.

Once in a while, you need to splurge on a clean, hot good fuccckk.

I am seriously angry reading this your epistle, Ogun kill you there. Mumu like you, senior uncle. If your fellow guy asked you for 1k, someone like you go dey form broke.

Fantachapman:
My Fiancee has been attacking me regularly nagging at me each time we are out together and she sees a fine girl look at me. I don't even see the girls she is talking about. She has accused me of doing things that I never even imagine doing.

Now there was a time I sent her a message last year with my business whatsapp (that I rarely use, sometimes I deactivate it to create space on my phone to download new apps). She didn't know about this particular whatsapp because I don't really use it to chat with family and friends. In this message, I acted like a stranger/Chyker to her just to see how she would react so that i can use it and laugh with her but she discarded the person not knowing it was me.

Fast forward to last month she came to my house to spend time with me (we are in long distance relationship), I usually recharge dstv with that whatsapp, so she saw the whatsapp and she searched her phone and found out the fake chyker message I sent her last year had the same pic as the one I was using for dstv recharge. I told her I normally deactivate the whatsapp cos I don't use it often. I dont use it much anymore because the original phone number I was using with that whatsapp is no longer in use (blocked due to no usage). I told her the truth about the chyking incident. No one I know personally has the number except I want to ask questions online anonymously or when I was looking for a house, i used it to talk to agents. She accepted.

My main phone spoilt recently and i used the whatsapp to contact a repairer i met on nairaland. So we have been chatting about how to get it to him for repairs.

Now, two days ago, when I woke up in the morning, she asked me why I'm still using the whatsapp. I told her it was cos I was trying to contact a repairer. I opened the whatsapp and showed her, she saw the dstv recharge too, and the other messages that I sent to house agents were still there. So she insisted I scroll down so she could see what I have been doing on whatsapp. At this point I was upset. I told her her suspicions are getting too much, so I stretched my hand with the phone and asked her to give me her own whatsapp (Which she passwords) for me to see her messages, and then she can have and see mine. She then said she doesn't want to see mine anymore. She then left the room and when next I saw her in the parlour, she was deleting chats on her whatsapp. So I demanded to see her phone ( I bought it for her).

When I read her messages I was broken in half. There was a guy she earlier told me was a fool and an idiot, that the guy doesnt know how to talk to women and always wants to chat cos he has no one to talk to. She told me if that guy dares talk rubbish to her he will get slap. That he's not a spec to any girl at all. Now of all the people I see on her Facebook I'm always laughing when I see this particular guy's comments cos I tell her even if other guys are a threat, this is the last person I can ever fear can take you from me.

Can you believe that I read her chat with this particular guy and I was blown to shreds? She has been sex chatting the guy since when me and her first met 2 years ago and she is always the one bringing the sex chat up. She even tells him about me and they both laugh at me behind my back calling me Senior Uncle (as in old man). The house I rented for her and her family to stay, she invited the guy to bring condom and hammer when he is coming to help them arrange the house in the chat. She asked the guy to buy her condom and pant for Christmas, that year was the period I paid for the house. I bought her the phone she used to be chatting with this guy. Each time they are chatting and I come online, she will tell the guy that senior uncle is disturbing her again, that I am annoying and im talking talking not letting her sleep. I was planning to register her in school and that very night in January 2020, she told the guy that I'm disturbing her with school registration. She told him my village and where I live. Anything or plan I have for her, she will consult this guy to ask him what he thinks before she accepts what I tell her. Even when she travelled for a wedding, she returned very late to her parents house due to bus breaking down and as she was telling me their journey she was also giving this guy a blow by blow account of the journey, like for example: "we have entered Imo now, but we have not reached Ph, I am in Ph now, I am home now" and the guy responds "oh thank God". There was a chat where she was angry that the guy came to her house and didn't eat her food. This guy asks her if she is alone at home before he can come visit. She stopped working (cos they were paying her peanuts so i put her on monthly allowance) so she was always home.

I broke down in tears and smashed the phone. I still took her and the phone to the repairer of my other phone and they changed the screen, I paid. While I was reading the rest of the messages I was seeing, talk of breast and yansh and other terrible sex chats. She took the phone from me, I threatened to call her dad and she begged me not to. Next thing she deleted the messages. Her dad already saw my missed call the next morning (yesterday). He called her and she told him we had a problem. He called me and I told him everything that happened. He called her again and she said it was all a joke that she didn't mean all those chats with the guy. Her dad called me begged me to forgive her. He was crying. Her mum later called and begged me to forgive her that she said she was joking with the guy.
I called the guy with her phone and i told him i am senior uncle, he said he knows who i am, then i asked him why he destroy my marriage, he asked me which marriage? That he doesn't know who I am. I shouted on him and ended the call. I called his girlfriend and told her what he was doing to my relationship. My Fiancee has been crying and begging me since then. After that I forgave my fiancee yesterday, and her parents have called to thank me but my heart is still heavy. I don't know what to do anymore.

Note: She told me she never slept with him that it's just chat jokes.

Is that the picture of your brother's wife? Ogun kill you there.

A piece of Gold Circle condom would have save us from this kind of mess.

This life is very short Sha, I used to see her working opposite my office in Sapele road. It is well

You need to be more mature with the way you talk to people online. Many people are watching you

Bola146:
Do I look like a harlot ?? Why not use your senses wella young man? Must you come out here to disgrace yourself Hookup ko, hustle wella ni

You've a point. Anything is possible in this country

Caaz:
Maybe her kid was interchanged at birth or something.