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CultureRe: ‘There’s No Emir In Nassarawa’, Sanusi’s Son, Ashraf Taunts Father’s Rival by Adaisback(f): 7:45pm On May 25, 2024
Nassarawa state will not have Emir in Jesus name. These Fulani people are very terrible. What right do these Fulanis have to be ruling over the Hausas?

Nassarawa state should be very wary, na from banters such as these , you get to know people's evil plans and ambition
PoliticsRe: Emir Sanusi Moved Out Of Emir Palace by Adaisback(f): 6:41pm On May 25, 2024
From Fubara and Wike to Sanusi and Bayero, they are just using these seasonal movies to deceive Nigerians so no one will focus much on the terrible government of Tinubu. Nigerians wake up
PoliticsRe: Killers, Kidnappers Of Anambra Lawyers Must Be Fished Out, Brought To Book — Sol by Adaisback(f): 10:10pm On May 23, 2024
ESN , release those lawyers!

Those yeye lawyers were foolishly supporting Kanu and his criminal ESN, we warned them but they wouldn't listen now the chicken have come home to roost.

I heard that they have decided not to fight or sue the police against criminals or kidnappers.

Any armed robber or kidnapper nabbed by the police should be taken straight to prison.

ESN, ndi Uchu, release the lawyers. Umu Ekwensu!
PoliticsRe: If You Had The Opportunity To Visit Tinubu, What Will You Advise Him To Do? by Adaisback(f): 8:37pm On May 23, 2024
Obidients are the only ones that will be bold enough to tell him anything face to face but you see the agbadorians, woosai! They will come to his face and scream Tuale sir, jisike sir! You are doing well jagaban but will come to his yansh to start singing ebi npa wa o! Agbadorians, who do una this thing?
PoliticsRe: Soludo S Urchins Deceiving People On Non-existent Funcity. by Adaisback(f): 9:11am On May 22, 2024
Soludo should leave story and secure Anambra state. This is why I love Peter Obi, even Obiano. Anambra state enjoyed maximum security under their leadership.

I don't want to say anything about the fun city coz I have not been there, but one question I want soludo to answer is this , ' Is it dead bodies that will pry the roads and the so called fun city you are constructing ' ?

Soludo , how can ndi Anambra solu udo when there is insecurity everywhere. Nwokem leave up to your name jor
FoodRe: How Much Will Get You These In Today's Nigeria Market? (SEE PHOTO) by Adaisback(f): 8:57am On May 22, 2024
Emekuz256:
Brother a paint of rice I bought yesterday for 7500 , while one bag goes for 85k. Nigeria don jaga jaga oo
this country is finished dear. Am a lady though
Foreign AffairsRe: Burkina Faso President Cuts Politicians' Pay, Boosts Workers' Salaries by Adaisback(f): 7:24pm On May 21, 2024
Fine man with fine heart. My crush. Tinubu should come and see o.
PoliticsRe: Breaking: Again, Labour Rejects N54,000 As New Minimum Wage by Adaisback(f): 7:22pm On May 21, 2024
I follow labour reject am. 54k, is it for ewa, eba or agbado?
FoodRe: How Much Will Get You These In Today's Nigeria Market? (SEE PHOTO) by Adaisback(f): 9:29am On May 21, 2024
People saying 200k are very much right coz just one painter of rice is 5500 _ 6000 and am seeing about 3 painters there. Infact leave it at 200k
PropertiesRe: Ten Tallest Buildings In Nigeria by Adaisback(f): 8:42am On May 21, 2024
Okay, cute
PoliticsRe: I Noticed That Some Nairalanders Have Not Been Active Since Raisi's Death by Adaisback(f): 8:29am On May 21, 2024
W0t0w0toman:
All this useless kids on nairaland, that guy you are insulting is a well known professor in one of the universities in USA. You better watch your mouth, as you can meet your helper on nairaland. Yamayama fall on your smelly bald head . Useless Nigerian youth
people say that girl is abnormal and honestly I agree. She is a very wicked abnormal thing. Pls ignore her
Foreign AffairsRe: ICC Court Was Built For Africa And Putin, Not West - ICC Judge Tells CNN (Video) by Adaisback(f): 8:19am On May 21, 2024
Why do you think we keep getting it wrong in Africa?

Incase you don't know, Tinubu that we all know is their stooge and so many Africa leaders.

Time to start getting it right in this continent and we should start by changing the name Africa coz it is a name given to us out of envy and jealousy
PoliticsRe: Soludo, Stop Using State Funds To Build Amusement Parks! by Adaisback(f): 7:21pm On May 20, 2024
My own is , Soludo should fix the insecurity ravaging the state. If Anambra is well secured, then we all can have fun but for now, I dey my house, fun city can wait until I am well secured
EducationRe: Anambra School Wins 2024 National Mathematics Competition (Photo) by Adaisback(f): 5:31pm On May 20, 2024
chopnaira:
Is everything okay 🤣
Other agbadorians saw the topic and decided to respect themselves by not commenting but hate and jealousy no gree you.

See as you are disgracing yourselves on a thread about little kids, I mean innocent kids o, that won a competition. Chai! This one don pass mad hate o.

The way am seeing it, you are already dying coz nothing kills faster than hate and jealousy.

Purge yourself of hate cox you have kids too. Tufiakwa!

Oya keep disgracing yourself by posting more pictures coz am gonna ignore you. I, 2, ready go
EducationRe: Anambra School Wins 2024 National Mathematics Competition (Photo) by Adaisback(f): 5:23pm On May 20, 2024
When we tell them obidients no be their mate, den go talk say na lie. Those kids are obidients because what you just read is one of Obi plans for the whole country
PoliticsRe: Watch As MNK Defends Himself In Court Today by Adaisback(f): 5:20pm On May 20, 2024
All those that wants his release including his wife should disband unknown gunmen and go ahead to beg Mama miracle and the families of all those his unknown gunmen killed including prophet nwoko and those of us his yeye unknown gunmen almost killed , otherwise, woosai, KANU will rot in jail.

Ike ka Ike ji kanu and even his yeye Ubini ukpabi Oracle can not release him
PoliticsRe: Lady Weeps As She Gave Detail Of Their Family House Were Demolished By Sanwo-olu by Adaisback(f): 5:11pm On May 20, 2024
If you are igbo and in Lagos state, I have one word for you 'Akuluoulo'! That's all I have to say. To the topic, I say take heart sis, God dey
Foreign AffairsRe: ICC Issues Arrest Warrants For Israeli PM Netanyahu And Defense Minister by Adaisback(f): 1:33pm On May 20, 2024
The problem is not issuing arrest warrant, the problem is who will bell the cat ? It's like una no know who pass una. Anakogherisi
PoliticsRe: Obi Visits Victims Of Kano Mosque Attack by Adaisback(f): 9:19am On May 20, 2024
Sannisege:
Instead of visiting victims, Obi should go and raise up the Sardauna of Sokoto and other Hausa/fulani leaders massacred by his Igbo brothers in 1966. Then he can be forgiven. Without that, he’s only wasting his time.
and who will raise up thousands of my brothers and sisters the northerners killed during riots? Moreover learn to differentiate between south east and south south where Nzeogwu hails from. When they want to divide us, they will call is south east and south south, but when it's time to kill us, Agbadorians will turn everyone to yeebos
Foreign AffairsRe: Iran President Died In Air Crash, Israel Not Suspected by Adaisback(f): 8:55am On May 20, 2024
Iran , leave Israel alone, una no dey hear. I said, no God can be compared to the God of Israel in anything, una no dey hear.

This same God do punish Israel when dey go out of the line, but if you dare his people, anything you see, you take.

I myself have chosen the God of Israel as my God through Jesus Christ.

I refused to worship the gods of my ancestors that kept whining like APC keyboard warriors when the white men came yet did nothing to prove they are in charge.
FamilyRe: How Do I Fix My Marriage, It Has Crashed - Family - Nairaland by Adaisback(f): 6:48pm On May 19, 2024
tomi4life:
Not sure if this is the right forum, but I am unhappy, as I type this message, I think it is usually too late to cry when the head is cut off, but i will cry anyways.

I have been married for 6 years now and brethren it has not been easy, I think I married a wrong person, am not a perfect neither is she, i just think we are not compatible. There is is no love between us. Our values are different. Me and my wife dont get along, well.

We have just been tolerating each other. I only realize what i am missing because i recent caught feelings for this colleague of mine. So there is this colleague of mine, we have worked together for almost 2 years now but more related to work. I have started catching feelings for this girl o and it all started in a party we attend together. I know she too has feeling for me. I see it in her eyes. She comes to sit with me, and we talk about alot of private stuff. She tells me all that is happening in her life, i also do same. she knows I am married with kids but i am sure if i make a move she will agree. I never could imagine I will find myself in a situation, tempted to commit adultery. When i have a wife at home, this opened my eyes and push me to want resolved the relationship issue with my wife. I approached her some days ago to voice my concern that the marriage is not working, we dont communicate, there is no love, what can we do to resolve the matter. My wife said she is used to our situation. I asked what can we do differently and she says we shd go see a marriage counselor. I said fine but can we even discuss and she tells me she is tired she wants to sleep and then stops responding to me.

My wife prefers to sleep alone, despite me telling her we shd sleep together as a couple. if she is in the room and I come to the room she will immediately goes to the parlor, we rarely have body contact. The few times we have sex she never kisses even when i try, she puts her mouth away. Even in the car we can be on a drive for 1 hr, without mentioning a word to each other. Most times it is either the car radio or my kids that break the silence. What surprises me is she is very comfortable with it, you just see her on her phone. The only saving grace is I have a source of income and provide for the home that why she listens sometimes.

Reflecting back on if i had to opportunity i wont have married her, she has caused me alot of pain. she doesnt play that supportive role expected of a wife, she has this feminist tendency. She also has this ego issue and find it difficult to take feedback, whenever i raise an issue, she just get very upset and in many times it turns into a fight. There are days I fall sick, my wife no send o. Even cooking for me is like stress. She goes out without telling me, does things without getting my consent or even carrying me along. When she brings people to the house, she wont even introduce them to me as her husband. she doesnt send respect or regards me. I tell you an example of something that happened last year, we were travelling November last year to the UK on holidays with the children, because of our luggages we took two uber vehicles, I sat in one with my daughter, my wife sat in the other with my son. While on the way to the airport, do you know my wife asked the driver to take a detour to shoprite that she wants to give someone the left over stew and food items we had. Shoprite is not on the way to the airport, we had less than 2 hours to go for an intentional flight. It was me that noticed their car going a different direction, I had to call the uber driver to tell him to turn back immediately. When the uber guy came he told me he had asked my wife to mention it to me, but she said no need, I dont need to be told. We got to the airport while offloading the luggage from the car, my wife suddenly disappeared. I had 8 boxes , 2 children to move with. Thank God for those people that help with the luggage at the airport. I passed through customs and NDLEA and began to clear with the airline before she showed up. I was so mad, even a custom lady was yelling at her, how can you just disappear leaving your husband with all the loads and children. My wife didnt even apologize, she said she went to drop the food items with the person she asked to come to the airport, after i asked the uber driver to reroute to the airport. That is how disunited we are.


The good side is not cheating, and she is spiritual, she can go to church 10 times a week, currently serves in 2 units and hold leadership roles in those unit. I have told her if she give 20 percent of the time in church to our relationship and family we would be happier. The major complain she mentioned from my side is we shd go out together more often, she wants me to organize morning devotions, that we shd pray more with the children, this was something I believe her dad did when they were growing up, the experience is different for me. I have told her I will try. She also mentioned I like to complain, which is not true.

This whole thing is hitting me hard cos I dont want to cheat with my colleague and i just experienced a glimpse of what we shd be enjoying. I also have the chance of relocating to the Australia but i knw if we do, I will enter one chance.

Does anyone knw a good marriage counselor, that can be recommended, I saw one done by one of this popular pastor they are asking for $150 for a 1hour session, I also dont want to involve my family or her family.

I am tempted to just leave the house for 2 weeks and go stay in an hotel, but how will that help it will only make matters worse.
if you truly want to see a loving wife, it's either you send me her number so I can tell her to leave her husband for me that am interested or you plan with that female colleague of yours. Channel all your attention to her and flaunt it . Pretend to be dating the other lady and stop showing concern totally to your wife. No woman wants to share her husband with another man. When you take bold steps to correct her nonsense, her brain go reset. Truly, people wey get yansh no Sabi sit down
PoliticsRe: Reno Omokri Lists Ten Significant Achievements Of President Bola Tinubu by Adaisback(f):
You forgot to list the most important one. Project ebi npa wa raise to power 2
PoliticsRe: Full Aerial Coverage Of Roads Gov Soludo Constructed In Awka(video& Photos) by Adaisback(f): 10:53am On May 19, 2024
I want to see other things apart from road Biko. I want to see his agricultural strides, I want to see the factory he built and so many other things. We have seen the roads and for that we say dalu governor but what of other areas?
PoliticsRe: Peter Obi Visits Junior Pope's Family, Signs Condolence Register by Adaisback(f): 3:03pm On May 18, 2024
Thank you Peter Obi. It's good to see the kids happy again. Rest on pope nwanem. Nnem, take heart. God dey inugo
PoliticsRe: Nigeria Begs World For $306 Million For Food Assistance, Clean Water, Healthcare by Adaisback(f): 2:52pm On May 18, 2024
Nigeria the beging nation. The giant beggar of Africa grin grin grin
CelebritiesRe: Peter Okoye Of Psquare Blocked Me Because I Refused His Advances. by Adaisback(f): 2:47pm On May 18, 2024
SouthSouth1914:
It is a lie! The screenshots are from WhatsApp and IG. Doesn’t show anything that PSQUARE has been disturbing her..
I wonder too. Thks dear
PoliticsRe: Peter Obi Invited As Special Guest At The Presidential Valedictory Of CIBN by Adaisback(f): 11:52am On May 18, 2024
okoro:
This is an opportunity for EFCC to arrest the mofo for stealing 250M monthly from the state coffers
see the ofe nmanu guy claiming Igbo. You will continue to expose yourself by yourself. You will soon learn that igbos are smarter than all the agbadorians put together
CelebritiesRe: Peter Okoye Of Psquare Blocked Me Because I Refused His Advances. by Adaisback(f): 11:37am On May 18, 2024
saphiere:
I have blacklisted his number on my phone.
good job nne
CelebritiesRe: Peter Okoye Of Psquare Blocked Me Because I Refused His Advances. by Adaisback(f): 11:36am On May 18, 2024
Okay dear, so how can we help you ? Or you want us to help you wash him down. My sister, he blocked you, nne, block him back. Simple
CelebritiesRe: Peter Okoye Of Psquare Blocked Me Because I Refused His Advances. by Adaisback(f):
Okay dear, so how can we help you ? Or you want us to help you wash him down. My sister, he blocked you, nne, block him back. Simple

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