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If you are igbo and in Lagos state, I have one word for you 'Akuluoulo'! That's all I have to say. To the topic, I say take heart sis, God dey

The problem is not issuing arrest warrant, the problem is who will bell the cat ? It's like una no know who pass una. Anakogherisi

Sannisege:
Instead of visiting victims, Obi should go and raise up the Sardauna of Sokoto and other Hausa/fulani leaders massacred by his Igbo brothers in 1966. Then he can be forgiven. Without that, he’s only wasting his time.

and who will raise up thousands of my brothers and sisters the northerners killed during riots? Moreover learn to differentiate between south east and south south where Nzeogwu hails from. When they want to divide us, they will call is south east and south south, but when it's time to kill us, Agbadorians will turn everyone to yeebos

Iran , leave Israel alone, una no dey hear. I said, no God can be compared to the God of Israel in anything, una no dey hear.

This same God do punish Israel when dey go out of the line, but if you dare his people, anything you see, you take.

I myself have chosen the God of Israel as my God through Jesus Christ.

I refused to worship the gods of my ancestors that kept whining like APC keyboard warriors when the white men came yet did nothing to prove they are in charge.

tomi4life:
Not sure if this is the right forum, but I am unhappy, as I type this message, I think it is usually too late to cry when the head is cut off, but i will cry anyways.

I have been married for 6 years now and brethren it has not been easy, I think I married a wrong person, am not a perfect neither is she, i just think we are not compatible. There is is no love between us. Our values are different. Me and my wife dont get along, well.

We have just been tolerating each other. I only realize what i am missing because i recent caught feelings for this colleague of mine. So there is this colleague of mine, we have worked together for almost 2 years now but more related to work. I have started catching feelings for this girl o and it all started in a party we attend together. I know she too has feeling for me. I see it in her eyes. She comes to sit with me, and we talk about alot of private stuff. She tells me all that is happening in her life, i also do same. she knows I am married with kids but i am sure if i make a move she will agree. I never could imagine I will find myself in a situation, tempted to commit adultery. When i have a wife at home, this opened my eyes and push me to want resolved the relationship issue with my wife. I approached her some days ago to voice my concern that the marriage is not working, we dont communicate, there is no love, what can we do to resolve the matter. My wife said she is used to our situation. I asked what can we do differently and she says we shd go see a marriage counselor. I said fine but can we even discuss and she tells me she is tired she wants to sleep and then stops responding to me.

My wife prefers to sleep alone, despite me telling her we shd sleep together as a couple. if she is in the room and I come to the room she will immediately goes to the parlor, we rarely have body contact. The few times we have sex she never kisses even when i try, she puts her mouth away. Even in the car we can be on a drive for 1 hr, without mentioning a word to each other. Most times it is either the car radio or my kids that break the silence. What surprises me is she is very comfortable with it, you just see her on her phone. The only saving grace is I have a source of income and provide for the home that why she listens sometimes.

Reflecting back on if i had to opportunity i wont have married her, she has caused me alot of pain. she doesnt play that supportive role expected of a wife, she has this feminist tendency. She also has this ego issue and find it difficult to take feedback, whenever i raise an issue, she just get very upset and in many times it turns into a fight. There are days I fall sick, my wife no send o. Even cooking for me is like stress. She goes out without telling me, does things without getting my consent or even carrying me along. When she brings people to the house, she wont even introduce them to me as her husband. she doesnt send respect or regards me. I tell you an example of something that happened last year, we were travelling November last year to the UK on holidays with the children, because of our luggages we took two uber vehicles, I sat in one with my daughter, my wife sat in the other with my son. While on the way to the airport, do you know my wife asked the driver to take a detour to shoprite that she wants to give someone the left over stew and food items we had. Shoprite is not on the way to the airport, we had less than 2 hours to go for an intentional flight. It was me that noticed their car going a different direction, I had to call the uber driver to tell him to turn back immediately. When the uber guy came he told me he had asked my wife to mention it to me, but she said no need, I dont need to be told. We got to the airport while offloading the luggage from the car, my wife suddenly disappeared. I had 8 boxes , 2 children to move with. Thank God for those people that help with the luggage at the airport. I passed through customs and NDLEA and began to clear with the airline before she showed up. I was so mad, even a custom lady was yelling at her, how can you just disappear leaving your husband with all the loads and children. My wife didnt even apologize, she said she went to drop the food items with the person she asked to come to the airport, after i asked the uber driver to reroute to the airport. That is how disunited we are.


The good side is not cheating, and she is spiritual, she can go to church 10 times a week, currently serves in 2 units and hold leadership roles in those unit. I have told her if she give 20 percent of the time in church to our relationship and family we would be happier. The major complain she mentioned from my side is we shd go out together more often, she wants me to organize morning devotions, that we shd pray more with the children, this was something I believe her dad did when they were growing up, the experience is different for me. I have told her I will try. She also mentioned I like to complain, which is not true.

This whole thing is hitting me hard cos I dont want to cheat with my colleague and i just experienced a glimpse of what we shd be enjoying. I also have the chance of relocating to the Australia but i knw if we do, I will enter one chance.

Does anyone knw a good marriage counselor, that can be recommended, I saw one done by one of this popular pastor they are asking for $150 for a 1hour session, I also dont want to involve my family or her family.

I am tempted to just leave the house for 2 weeks and go stay in an hotel, but how will that help it will only make matters worse.

if you truly want to see a loving wife, it's either you send me her number so I can tell her to leave her husband for me that am interested or you plan with that female colleague of yours. Channel all your attention to her and flaunt it . Pretend to be dating the other lady and stop showing concern totally to your wife. No woman wants to share her husband with another man. When you take bold steps to correct her nonsense, her brain go reset. Truly, people wey get yansh no Sabi sit down

I want to see other things apart from road Biko. I want to see his agricultural strides, I want to see the factory he built and so many other things. We have seen the roads and for that we say dalu governor but what of other areas?

Thank you Peter Obi. It's good to see the kids happy again. Rest on pope nwanem. Nnem, take heart. God dey inugo

Nigeria the beging nation. The giant beggar of Africa

SouthSouth1914:
It is a lie! The screenshots are from WhatsApp and IG. Doesn’t show anything that PSQUARE has been disturbing her..

I wonder too. Thks dear

okoro:
This is an opportunity for EFCC to arrest the mofo for stealing 250M monthly from the state coffers

see the ofe nmanu guy claiming Igbo. You will continue to expose yourself by yourself. You will soon learn that igbos are smarter than all the agbadorians put together

saphiere:
I have blacklisted his number on my phone.

good job nne

Okay dear, so how can we help you ? Or you want us to help you wash him down. My sister, he blocked you, nne, block him back. Simple

Okay dear, so how can we help you ? Or you want us to help you wash him down. My sister, he blocked you, nne, block him back. Simple

ElevationD:
Tell him that he has to make peace with himself and that the Igbos absolutely control his life. The Igbos have presided over him and generations before him. They will continue to dominate generations after him. All he wears, appliances he uses, the equipment used to build the house that he lives, the food that he eats, his mobile phones and drugs that he takes to save his life, are sold by the same Igbo people. What can be greater than that please?

he will continue to see us flourish and excel, so that he can die of hatred. The guy he quoted and turned to Igbo is actually his Yoruba brother

BiafraAburi:
You have a blocked brain. Your nigeria can never be remedied by anyone, including the terrorists peter obi that was seeking for endorsement by a well know terrorist leader called Gumi. Stop hoping for another round of PVC idiocy in 2027 because you all will be killed and your shops burn and looted again by the yorubas.

Your nigeria is structured for it's power to rotate between the north and south and the yorubas must do another 4 years by hook and crook just as they snatched the first 4 years they are doing now which you didn't do anything other than cry online. Our only hope is Biafra in other to live life like human beings and not like animals. Peter obi is a paid agent of distraction by the British and he is doing the paid work with people like you that doesn't have the capacity to think and learn.

with what nnamdi ekwensu kanu, Simon ekpa and ESN have shown us in the south east, we the true born people of igboland rejects that your Biafra in all it's glory and riches. Nonsense

Difrent:
All this na because we laughed at your failed Jewish recognition movement that got shredded to tatters by the Israelis
Everyone knows the attachee tribe
They call themselves Big tribe but is always whining and wailing and seeking ways to dominate smaller tribes around them because they unfortunately have a barren land that's been eaten up by gully erosion daily

Their day is not complete if them never hate on their fellow countrymen and neighbors, we call them children of hate....... They prefer everything scatter if one of them is not in the driving seat and have made it a tribal ritual to lay a curse on the land that's producing wealth for them to the extent they mock the rest of us and yell at us how they are the tribe with the highest standard of living and low poverty

Even though their frustrations is understandable, I mean I won't be happy if I were igbo that while we are still struggling to get just a VP slot , the second yorubaman to be president is there and that is following the end of a regime a yorubaman was VP.... It's painful I know but blame nobody but your leaders who the kind of politics they play.

you this little tiny boy, you are mentally sick. You need to go back to your sick bed.
What wrong did the guy you quoted did to you ?
You are actually the hateful one here. You can't even sleep because of hate and see the kind of bile you are pouring out on a thread about swim suit.

The way am seeing it, you are already a high blood pressure patient. Very ill mannered untrained kid.

Imagine someone whose mother blesses with all sort of curses early in the morning like ' werey omo, Omo ale jatijati, oni ku re , olosi Omo, Ori re ope, Ori re oda , olori buruku , eleri bu ' etc having the temerity to call Igbos hateful. The world is indeed full of wonders

To the thread, Saudi Arabia way to go. Women are not masquerades

Calvary247:
My husband cheats alot.
I tried communicating with him to consider my emotional and psychological well-being but he didn't really take kin interest. I have wanted to cheat back but thinking of it disgusts me. Just help with a piece of advice that will help me.


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listen to me carefully. Don't ever beg him again. Infact start living a quiet and mysterious life. Ignore him to the core.

Start taking very good care of yourself. Dress sweetly. If you have a high voice, my sister is time to start using very low and sweet voice. Pretend as if you are not pained. Keep respecting him, cook and serve him his food on time. Never cheat back , it's belittling

At night, dress sexily , make friends, good friends that you can chat with. My sister, take your phone and start chatting with these friends of yours. While doing so, laugh loudly and make comments like, don't you know am married, thanks for saying am beautiful etc, do this for two weeks and come back , let me give you more tips.

Before I go, I hope you are tight , wet nd sweet down there? Do you moan or you are the quiet type. Pls dear, be mysterious e.g always be tight, next time for action, my sister be slimy, next one again do pussy locking ( Kegel) while at it. Brb

Rest in peace nwanem from another mother. Jee nke oma!
Igbo nile si gi laa nudo ,
na na ndokwa! Ogadirigi nma!
Ijeowele nwanem o.
Adieu till we meet on the last day

MallamSpicey:
I'm glad all this madness ends on Nairaland, encroach on just one inch of Alaigbo with your Ogogoro nonsense and it will be a massacre. I'm glad Igbo language is now an established lingua in Opobo, Kalabari, BONNY and various other parts of the so called "ijaw territory" in Rivers state, this shows the supremacy of the Igbo language that even brazen attempts of expansionism by some ogogoro minority retards can ever erode however much they try...when we're done with you ijaw sewage rats in that Rivers state, we will take over Bayelsa (your only true homeland) since we have indigenous Igbos also in Bayelsa.

We're not Urhobos, Edos and other of your Niger Delta neighbors you think you can bully and get away with it, we have the numbers and resources to wipe you gnats out from surface earth if una reason una madness enter Igboland. Na only una dey fight Igbos, Yorubas, Itsekiri, Urhobo, Edo etc over their lands, ijaws want to be fulani so bad, but unfortunately you're too tiny and irrelevant to be as daring as the Fulani animals.

you are replying agbadorians. Ndi ofe precisely. That's their game plan. Don't allow them use your head

biological or sugar mother , which one?

igwebuike01:
Checking from map I think anam and Atani are closer to the city. Shey na their igwe I go meet?

My dear , meet guys on ground. Pay a visit there, you can start from a kiosk or nearby restaurant , buy one or two things observe and listen to conversations from there you know who and who to talk to and make friends with.

The kind and good friends you meet there will help you greatly and in a way that you don't even envisaged. They will tell you if there is any land owner willing to lease his land for free or little token and might also take you to the right people.

So , visit, observe, make friends and ask questions.

Welcome sir, pls be good to my people sir. Well, if you refuse to be good to my people, those big wigs will abandon you to your fate. Na through my police friend mirabel I got to enjoy Coscharis rice and love bite bread during the former Cp's tenure. Chai! My Anambra people sabi show love o.

Eriokanmi:
Grammar. Didn't u support them?

no be small grammar o . Flabbergasted indeed

heniford2:
Asiri ochia we never see this d Rice ohh audio Rice

Which audio rice? Oga, say what you are sure of. If you see the rice, you go think say na foreign rice. He gave out rice last Xmas as palliatives. I got mine, it was wonderful

igwebuike01:
Just a small farm. Probably one hectare for a start. I don't think I need the wahala of commissioners, just how the villagers give stranger land is what I want to know

visit Anambra East and west local govt areas, we also have huge land waiting to be tapped at Omor, Nando, Anam , Atani, even ihiala land produces one of the most biggest and most delicious yam I have ever eaten

The man is clearly sick mentally, yet they allow him to roam around freely.

favor914:
Only igbos will see nothing wrong, just like Nnamdi Kanu is not a Terrorist to Ohaneze?

someone said you are abnormal , I agree with him and am never going to dignify you again with my reply

Dicoomoba:
He know than your dad and mum plus your obingo because charity begins at home Obingo charity is tore and torn how would anyone belive animals and his followers ,, he cursed himself by saying he will never leave APGA , lemme tell you fear liars and double standard People like Obi

I don't lecture nonetities like you. When real Men comes along, we then can talk

Sowore go and sleep, you know nothing

Eriokanmi:
In fact, I'd stop supporting him. Buhari jettisoned it and nothing happened. That's someone they called baba go slow. Not knowing his successor will be baba jaujau . He signed anything signable and without looking back. He talks without thinking of it's consequences and long-term effect on the masses. Above all, he's carrier of propaganda, even in the face of the truth.

I love nairaland because of people like you. Always standing on the truth. Keep it up sir. Am learning a lot from you