₦airaland Forum

Welcome, Guest: RegisterLoginWith GoogleTrendingRecentNew

Stats: 3,326,202 members, 8,425,454 topics. Date: Friday, 12 June 2026 at 02:35 PM

Toggle theme

Adamsrib's Posts

Nairaland ForumAdamsrib's ProfileAdamsrib's Posts

1 2 3 4 5 6 7 (of 7 pages)

RomanceRe: The Ugly Truth About Men,women Take Note. by adamsrib(f): 3:35pm On May 05, 2011
@OP I rebuke this foolishness in the name of Jesus. Women NEVER accept another person's reality as your own and NEVER accept someone elses truth as your own. Have your own vision for your marriage.  SOME cowardly men have allowed themselves to buy into the lie that being unfaithful is okay because that is how he was created but if that were true, God would have created more than one wife for Adam.
RomanceRe: Will You Still Marry Her If She Won't Fully Change Her Last Name -No Hyphenation by adamsrib(f): 3:44am On May 05, 2011
MzDarkSkin:
[color=#993300]LOL. AND IT'S KILLING HIM!  grin

he even resulted to modifying my line, not addressing the REAL questions. LOL typical.
God bless us 'worthless mixed breeds'  tongue[/color]
Indeed! Gotta go Massa is calling lol
RomanceRe: Will You Still Marry Her If She Won't Fully Change Her Last Name -No Hyphenation by adamsrib(f): 3:38am On May 05, 2011
omo_to_dun:
Take it easy honey. I am just stating the facts: you are nothing more than a worthless piece of property without any history whatsoever. Are you related to Martin Luther King? Were any of your useless ancestors in the Civil Rights Movement? Every useless nigger always claim how their ancestors fought for their rights. No, that is a big lie. Only a couple had the balls to do it! Balls that took hundreds of years for your weak ancestors to grow---they happily watched the white man violate their women while they did what you nincompoops are still doing: naughty woman, cry, and complain. Bítch please. You need to stay in your pitiful zone and let the pure blood, free, and educated blacks do the writing, debating, and brainstorming. And what if we sold your ancestors into slavery? So freaking what, we had to sell our prisoners of wars and since you were unfortunate to have descended from weaklings and pristinely insignificant families, we had to trade you. So I take it that you are done sucking your boyfriend's díck. I would have asked you to blow me, but I'd rather pay a LovePeddler with HIV to blow me than ask a degenerate slave-descended cúnt. Fúck you!
Classic example of a EPIC FAIL! lol Try again tomorrow hon.
RomanceRe: Will You Still Marry Her If She Won't Fully Change Her Last Name -No Hyphenation by adamsrib(f): 4:56pm On May 04, 2011
emmatok:
So because of ordinary "Hyphenation" on NL, you have  come here to insult Nigerians.

IS YOUR WHOLE LINAGE AMONG THE FOUNDING FATHERS OF US?

FOOOOOOOOOOOOOOL
lol I was here long before the "hyphenation" discussion.
RomanceRe: Will You Still Marry Her If She Won't Fully Change Her Last Name -No Hyphenation by adamsrib(f): 4:50pm On May 04, 2011
Princek12:
If you are all that why don't you take your behind to a forum that represents your country and leave us alone? Real talk. No one will shed a tear if you leave.
I know what my options are, but thanks for reminding me. :-)
RomanceRe: How Do I Love Again? by adamsrib(f): 4:32pm On May 04, 2011
livedit:
Yes, it's possible to love again.  Maybe you need to try relaxing a bit and let things happen naturally.  Finding the right one takes times and something that don't need to be rushed into.  Are you believer in God?  If so, you can pray to God to guide you and give you the wisdom and revelation you need to seek a life long mate.  He already knows what's in your heart.  Why not seek him first and tell him how you feel and what you are looking for and ask him to send her to you. He will.  All you have to do is go to him with a sincere heart in faith and believe.  

As you pointed out, there are women everywhere and many to choose from. But not everyone is meant or right for you. That is, long term.  You want who God wants you to have.  So His way is ALWAYS the best way.  I waited years to find the right one and I couldn't be more happier.  That's not to say you will have to wait as long, because God is a God of his own and He does things when and however He wants.  But all it takes is for you to go to Him and ask him in faith and then wait on Him.  

Until then, continue to date and live your life.  While your dating, you can use this time to get to know more about women. Then in turn get to know more about yourself in the process. Have patience and Just don't lose faith.  You never know, Mrs. Right could be closer than you may think.
Excellent advice!
RomanceRe: Will You Still Marry Her If She Won't Fully Change Her Last Name -No Hyphenation by adamsrib(f): 3:32pm On May 04, 2011
omo_to_dun:
@MrsDarkSkin

I got your blood boiling, didn't I?grin grin grin Take your respect and shove it up your ugly àss. Debated out by dumb females? On the one hand, MrsChima cannot analyze a discourse objectively without resorting to ad hominems, and you, on the other hand, while slightly smarter, nut ultimately an irrevocably quasi-illiterate lowlife, cannot draw out logical conclusions from simple statements. How can I be threatened by foreign women who obviously love Nigerians so much that they spend their whole miserable lives on a Nigerian forum? I do not frequent a Jamaican or African-American forum since I love my people best, but you foreign women cannot get enough of us; on any levels, Nigerians are better than any other free blacks in the world; can't even compare us to a bunch of idíots who are no more than three times removed from slavery and have inferiority complex embedded in their psyche. We and our ancestors were born free and we do not have identity crisis and we are not mad at the world for our current situation. So back off and go and suck on your jobless boyfriend's díck. Make yourself useful to men just like your ancestors were useful to their masters.
You want to go there? Okay let's do that! You really think that you are free? Puhleez, NEPA holds your arse hostage EVERY SINGLE DAY! You think you don't have a identity crisis? Then how come Nigeria worships any and everything WESTERN? From clothes to cars almost everything is imported from the west!  IF USA is so bad how come YOUR brothers and sisters will beg borrow and steal just to get a toe into US? You are a liar and there is no truth in you! US doesn't have one of the highest paid governments in the world and still doesn't provide BASIC services for its people. US is not laughed at around the world for talking about how much money it has in oil reserves yet can't provide steady power to its people.  US is not considered the number one scamming nation, Nigeria is! Or how about when I applied for my Nigerian visa I got a letter in the mail that pretty much asked if I was sure I wanted to visit. Folks at YOUR consulate don't encourage people to visit.  I won't even talk about your pathetic court system and your institutional corrupt  police force.

Yes my family were slaves. So what? How many of your brothers and sisters sell their bodies and souls VOLUNTARILY just to get papers to stay in my home country? You can look down on USA all you want but when men are sending their pregnant wives to USA in droves to give birth so their children have a opportunity for a better life  we must be doing something right!

I tell you what, when you get steady power and can talk to me on the internet without using a generator then MAYBE we can talk again, but until then, you can take that pseudo bravado and shove it up your "free" arse!

*Adamsrib is sorry if this post offends other Nigerians. I got nothing but love for most of you.*
RomanceRe: Will You Still Marry Her If She Won't Fully Change Her Last Name -No Hyphenation by adamsrib(f): 10:55pm On May 03, 2011
Double post
RomanceRe: Will You Still Marry Her If She Won't Fully Change Her Last Name -No Hyphenation by adamsrib(f): 10:54pm On May 03, 2011
Why is it that the women who call themselves feminist act the least feminine? Ladies don't be fooled. Ain't nothing cute about a grown woman acting like a rabid dog to make a point. Feminism is meant to EMPOWER women. True empowerment does not come at the expense of the entire male gender. Most hardcore "feminists" don't even like men. They seek to denigrate and destroy any man who crosses their path for any reason. If you can only feel powerful by insulting men and carrying on like a lunatic, that is not feminism, it is just another brand of crazy. A real woman can get her point across intelligently, and has the ability to hold a decent conversation on some level.

I love having my husband's name. I couldn't wait to be called "Mrs. XXXX". When I got my first piece if mail with my new name on it, I screamed from excitement lol. But that is not for everybody. Every woman and man must be true to his or herself; the rest will fall into place.
CrimeRe: My Girlfriend Raped Me On Sunday Morning by adamsrib(f): 11:29am On May 03, 2011
Since you said not to, now I have to ask.
How did it happen? shocked shocked
RomanceRe: Will You Still Marry Her If She Won't Fully Change Her Last Name -No Hyphenation by adamsrib(f): 10:52am On May 03, 2011
I would never have married a man if I wanted to keep my own name, but that is me and my choice. Every couple must do what works for them. Several of my friends use their maiden name as their middle name and the husbands name as their last when they got married. My best friend who is a Dr uses her maiden name as her professional name and her husbands name for everything else.  Thank God every couple is allowed to do whatever they think is best for them!
FamilyRe: Our New Baby Girl! by adamsrib(f): 10:17am On May 03, 2011
Awww she is so beautiful! Congratulations! May she bring you nothing but joy and happiness always.
FamilyRe: Would You Marry Someone Who Proposed With No Ring? by adamsrib(f): 10:08am On May 03, 2011
@190 I know it's frustrating. Just tell her how you feel and let it go. People who are happy and have a purpose and vision for their life do not go around fighting all the time. The Bible says that by their fruit you shall know them. Give her no more time or energy and watch your mood improve. :-)
FamilyRe: Would You Marry Someone Who Proposed With No Ring? by adamsrib(f): 9:54am On May 03, 2011
My husband proposed without a ring and I was so relieved and happy. God bless him but his taste in jewelry sucks lol
I picked out my own ring and it was so much fun!
RomanceRe: Am I A Bad Girlfriend For Not Making A Sacrifice? by adamsrib(f): 9:45am On May 03, 2011
Don't ever feel guilty for not offering to change something you love about yourself for someone else. It is important that you like and love what you see in the mirror. A womans hair is her crown, wear whatever you have proudly!
RomanceRe: My Fiancee Said She Does Not Have Affection,intimacy For Me by adamsrib(f): 9:05am On May 03, 2011
I'm very sorry you are hurting right now. I know it is hard to see at this time but she did you a HUGE favor. She has freed you to find a woman that will love you the way you deserve. You both deserve better than a one-sided relationship. You will be okay, just give yourself time.
RomanceRe: Which Nairalander Could You Consider A Potential Partner by adamsrib(f): 8:54am On May 03, 2011
My real life husband. He is a member but I don't think he has ever posted. Hi Baby! wink
RomanceRe: Romance Section Complaints and Suggestions Thread by adamsrib(f): 7:57am On May 03, 2011
Glad you reopened this thread and just deleted posts instead.

Wow, I see nothing has changed around here.
RomanceRe: Romance Section Complaints and Suggestions Thread by adamsrib(f): 8:23pm On Apr 17, 2011
Jaybee I understand that you lock threads that have moved from original topic. That seems unfair. When it is done on purpose I understand why you should lock it but when conversations flow naturally in another direction I think it should be allowed.  Just my two cents.

@Mrs Chima I don't know if your comments  in that thread were intended to be facetious or if you were being serious, but it had a "antagonistic" overtone to me. In my opinion it is  not fair to expect Jaybee to be impartial. He is human like the rest of us and as a foreigner on this website you should not expect to be able to say whatever you want and then not be prepared for the backlash. There is no US Embassy to run to in NL.

They can talk about Akatas and Oyinbos all they want to here and you want to know why? It is a NIGERIAN forum. If they can't talk about it here where should they? What happened to showing simple respect while in someone elses house?  

It is possible to have a good experience here, but calling people names and talking about Nigeria like it's gum stuck to the bottom of your shoe, isn't conducive to that. You offended me in that thread talking about Nigeria doesn't have engraved plastic, and I'm not even Nigerian!  You don't have to like something to offer it respect. You may not want to live in Nigeria, and truth be told neither do I and we have talked about that but that gives you nor me or anyone else the right to denigrate those who do.

Is it really EVERYONE else or is it you? Only you can answer that, but I do know everything ain't for everybody, and maybe this site just ain't for you.
RomanceRe: Mogbe.she Steal My Debit Card!i Will Never Trust Nigerian Girls Again: by adamsrib(f): 4:59pm On Apr 17, 2011
aminalib:
wow i am soo jealous i was suppose to come there last month but wont till december, how are u loving it? when i have kids i plan to raise my kids back home,
My husband says I'm adjusting beautifully. I think I'm just doing okay lol The power situation is my biggest hurdle. Once I understand there really is no one you can call to fix it, I'll be okay lol The majority of the people have been so warm and welcoming.  It is gradually beginning to feel like home.
RomanceRe: Mogbe.she Steal My Debit Card!i Will Never Trust Nigerian Girls Again: by adamsrib(f): 4:43pm On Apr 17, 2011
MzDarkSkin:
[color=#0066ff]right Adamsrib that is true. Africa is not shown as it TRULY is in the west but even I knew they had cards. I was laughing because when most guys LIE on here usually they would say some chick wants to steal their credit card, its the first time i have heard of someone saying debit. it was just something that tickled me. I am not sure what Chima meant but knowing her its to piss off ppl. She is the best to ask tho.  grin i'm just saying.[/color]
lol and didn't he say she left his cash and just went for debit card? OP got mad jokes lmao
RomanceRe: Mogbe.she Steal My Debit Card!i Will Never Trust Nigerian Girls Again: by adamsrib(f): 4:33pm On Apr 17, 2011
190:
[color=deeppink]Its quite pathetic

Even in movies, They shoot scene's in Gabon or Djibouti and they claim it Nigeria

I am always shiity each time i see them downgrade Nigeria

well i guess someone have to clean their houses first before they talk about other countries  undecided[/color]
People forget that Nigeria has only been independent for 50 years. I daresay that 50  years after America won independence it still had a lot of work to do also. Nigeria is no different, but at least you own your country. That puts you ahead of many countries.  Those who fight progress always lose. Nigeria is going to be just fine.
RomanceRe: Mogbe.she Steal My Debit Card!i Will Never Trust Nigerian Girls Again: by adamsrib(f): 4:23pm On Apr 17, 2011
aminalib:
i can see your point but the fact is not to make statements u know nothing about yet act as if u are right, how long have you been in nigeria?
I'm still a newbie. smiley I moved here in early March. When all you ever see are the slums, projects and ghettos it is very easy to adopt that mindset. When they come visit, they will see for themselves how beautiful and breathtaking Africa really is.
RomanceRe: Mogbe.she Steal My Debit Card!i Will Never Trust Nigerian Girls Again: by adamsrib(f): 3:56pm On Apr 17, 2011
190:
Mzdarkskin this isnt about shots,

Y'all av never been to africa let alone Nigeria, then how would y'all know that Nigeria

has no cards and Bars in window's,

To be honest, I thought the same thing, until I visited/moved here. The western media only shows the worst parts of Africa unless it is S Africa or Dubai.
RomanceRe: Mogbe.she Steal My Debit Card!i Will Never Trust Nigerian Girls Again: by adamsrib(f): 3:21pm On Apr 17, 2011
sad
RomanceRe: Mogbe.she Steal My Debit Card!i Will Never Trust Nigerian Girls Again: by adamsrib(f): 2:49pm On Apr 17, 2011
Wow what a thread lol. Blanket statements being made all over the place. I'm not sure if it is the same throughout Lagos but the majority of the places I shop in Lagos accept both credit and debit.
RomanceRe: Mogbe.she Steal My Debit Card!i Will Never Trust Nigerian Girls Again: by adamsrib(f): 10:48pm On Apr 16, 2011
Mrs.Chima:
Girl! They do not have engraved plastic cards in Nigeria. He must be talking about that new Nigeria the ones with no bars on the windows like the other chatter said.


SMH.
undecided
FamilyRe: The Kind Of Husband I Have by adamsrib(f): 3:48am On Apr 16, 2011
As Chaircover mentioned it I just have to add my two cents; The 5 Love Languages by Gary Chapman is the BEST wedding gift my hubby and I received. I almost finished the book during our 18 hour flight from US to Lagos. I recommend every person in a relationship read it. It will completely change how you communicate with your partner.

To OP my only advice is that you nurture the traits and qualities in your husband that you want to see on a regular basis. No matter how little it is if he does something right you  show genuine appreciation. Show him that you are very easy to please. Some men stop doing many things they used to do because they feel unappreciated. A good man wants to make you happy, but if all he hears from you is what you don't like he honestly may not know how to please you.

I believe strongly in the law of attraction. Whatever you put out is what you get back. If you want more love, give more love. If you want more understanding, give more understanding. If you want more kindness, appreciation and consideration then you give more of that. Now this does not mean you don't let him know when he has done something to hurt you, but if you can, keep it to a minimum and don't nag, holler or scream. Express how you feel simply and trust him to hear you.

Learn to speak his "language" and watch him become all the things you want him to be and more. I'm praying for you both.
RomanceRe: Ladies, The Man Of Your Dream Is Finally Here! by adamsrib(f): 7:58pm On Apr 14, 2011
Wow. Just wow. lol
RomanceRe: As A Woman, Would You Woo A Man? by adamsrib(f): 8:53pm On Apr 13, 2011
kokoye:
My point exactly.

The fact that the man is no longer able to be the provider does not mean he is not a real man. Although no one prays for such a thing to happen.

All in all, it is a matter of opinion. But I will not knock down the other party.

Most of us men would run for our lives if a strange lady came straight out to ask for a relationship  cheesy

But on the flip side, several men were 'wooed' by their wives without knowing it  . . due to the subtle ways in which the females did it at the time.

God help us all.
I'm glad we understand each other. :-)
RomanceRe: Why Do some younger People [especially Women] Always Feel Older Women Envy Them? by adamsrib(f): 8:48pm On Apr 13, 2011
The older women I know are not envious of us younger women. Matter of fact most of them say they love being older because they are wiser and dont care about what other people think as much anymore. I think the bitter older women are the ones who have never learned to forgive themselves or other people. When you live in constant regret it is very hard to be happy, no matter how old you are.
RomanceRe: As A Woman, Would You Woo A Man? by adamsrib(f): 8:40pm On Apr 13, 2011
livedit:
I don't know about "Africa" since I've never been there.  But speaking from an all American's point of view, no.  I can not "woo" a stranger.  I am old fashion and prefer the man to approach me.  Plus it's in the bible: "A man who findeth a wife, findeth a good thing".  Now, once he "does" find me, I do my woo'ing of him by treating him like the "king" he was made to be.

But unfortunately, that's not for every woman.  Some women are bold enough to go after what they want and don't give it a second thought.  And who am I to "playa hate" their game.  You do you.
Amen! Especially the bolded part.

1 2 3 4 5 6 7 (of 7 pages)