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Romance / Re: Did I Marry The Wrong Person? by adamsrib(f): 6:17am On Sep 29, 2011 |
I have never understood people who set themselves up to fail. Your friend has sabotaged not only her future but the future of her husband and both their families. It's a sad situation and she is now stuck in a marriage that was never intended for her. Her husband deserves a wife who genuinely loves him and she has robbed him of that. Yes love does grow over time, but before you marry there should already be a strong foundation of love and friendship. God gave us our feelings for a reason and while we should not let feelings rule our lives, they are there for a reason. She did not listen to her inner voice and now she is trapped. There is nothing you can do for your friend. She must fix this herself and in the process of doing that she may learn some valuable life lessons that will prevent her from making other bad choices. Pray for her, support her as a friend, but you cannot soften this blow for her. |
Romance / Re: Men Cooking For Women! by adamsrib(f): 5:13pm On May 27, 2011 |
A man putting forth the effort to cook for me is very attractive. It would not however make me more likely to sleep with him. A man will have to do more than cook for me to have sex with him. |
Romance / Re: Is It Love Or Lust? by adamsrib(f): 7:42am On May 25, 2011 |
If you have hung out with him and know him pretty well I'd say you very well could love him. Time will tell. |
Romance / Re: Why Women Don't Like Taking A Dump In Their New Bf's Home: Vote by adamsrib(f): 7:29am On May 25, 2011 |
^^The topic is about pooing. |
Romance / Re: At What Stage Should He Tell Her He Cant Make Kids? Your Views: by adamsrib(f): 7:24am On May 25, 2011 |
I would want to know when the relationship got serious and we started talking about a future together. If you waited until after engagement I would be pissed! Not because you are infertile but because you waited so long to tell me. |
Romance / Re: Why Women Don't Like Taking A Dump In Their New Bf's Home: Vote by adamsrib(f): 7:17am On May 25, 2011 |
aloy/emeka: Lighting a match then blowing it out takes the smell.away. That is a trick my Mom taught me long ago. 1 Like |
Romance / Re: Can You Tell How Romantic A Person Is Just By Their Looks? by adamsrib(f): 3:34am On May 25, 2011 |
BABE!: LMAO! You guys got mad jokes tonight. |
Romance / Re: Could This Be True Love? by adamsrib(f): 3:00am On May 25, 2011 |
If you knew she was not the love of your life then why did you marry her? Your impatience is now going to cause grief to a innocent person. |
Romance / Re: Girls, What Part Of A Men's Body Attract You? by adamsrib(f): 2:46am On May 25, 2011 |
Eyes and lips. I love nice big juicy lips and eyes that reflect emotion. Very very sexy. |
Romance / Re: Why Women Don't Like Taking A Dump In Their New Bf's Home: Vote by adamsrib(f): 2:40am On May 25, 2011 |
Funny thread lol Isn't that what the bathroom is for? I always carry matches in my purse for situations just like this but if you flush as you go, the smell won't be that bad. But if I can hold it I will, there is nothing better than using your own bathroom at home. |
Romance / Re: Describe Your Current Girlfriend/boyfriend In One Word. by adamsrib(f): 6:42pm On May 19, 2011 |
Hilarious He makes me laugh like no one else can. |
Romance / Re: Would You Stay With Arnold Schwarzenegger? (Re: Secret Child) by adamsrib(f): 7:05am On May 19, 2011 |
Nope I would have to leave. I would have been more forgiving if he'd told me about it when it happened, but to wait FOURTEEN years and keep that woman working in my house and letting your illegitimate child play with my kids unknowingly?. . . . nah that's too much for me to overcome. I can tell you I forgive you, but I'd really be plotting my revenge and he'd probably end up dead, so I would be better off to walk away. |
Romance / Re: The Capitalist System Corrupted Love In Nigerian Ladies! by adamsrib(f): 6:58am On May 19, 2011 |
deal_ordea: You act like this is something new. Society has ALWAYS placed value on money and power. You think that is the by product of capitalism? Hate to break it to you, but it is not. And then you go on to ask if capitalism should be phased out? What should replace it? Socialism? Totalitarianism? *sigh* Capitalism may come and go, but broke brothas complaining is here to stay. Heaven help us women! |
Romance / Re: Phew by adamsrib(f): 6:35am On May 19, 2011 |
Aiekwede: Hi Honey :-) |
Romance / Re: Phew by adamsrib(f): 6:15am On May 19, 2011 |
Love is a choice. I choose to love my spouse even though he knows how to get on my last nerve. I choose to be with this imperfect person for the rest of my life and to stand by him no matter what happens. In marriage you don't always have that lovey dovey feeling. At some point you will have heard all their stories, talked about everything you can think of, and you will have seen them in so many different situations that you can predict with 99.9% accuracy what they will say or do and yet you choose to stay. Choosing not to love your partner every single day is, in my opinion, why relationships break down. If you are not choosing to stay together then by default you are choosing to no longer be together. |
Romance / Re: Marriage Is A Dying Institution? by adamsrib(f): 5:51am On May 19, 2011 |
Waaay too long. After the seventh paragraph I was done. I don't think marriage will ever become extinct but I do think the expectations of marriage are going through a, major transformation. Men and women are now getting married on their own terms which is a step forward towards progress in my opinion. |
Romance / Re: Is It Compulsory by adamsrib(f): 4:35am On May 19, 2011 |
livedit: Perfect answer! |
Romance / Re: She Always Complains About My Attire by adamsrib(f): 7:03am On May 17, 2011 |
Such wahala over clothes? She can suggest changes for you but to nag you about it is wrong. If you aren't going out looking crazy then there shouldn't be a problem. Let her dress you for a day and see how you like the result. You may be surprised. Also sit her down and talk to her. Try to find out if there is more to the situation than you know. |
Romance / Re: Men/boys, Would You Allow Another Man/boy Take Your Woman/girl To An Event? by adamsrib(f): 6:44am On May 17, 2011 |
tom28: Nonsense! That is only true if your friends are all skanky hoes. Hoes do attract other hoes. And do yourself a favor, turn off Jerry Springer!! |
Romance / Re: Men/boys, Would You Allow Another Man/boy Take Your Woman/girl To An Event? by adamsrib(f): 6:37am On May 17, 2011 |
My hubby would not have a problem with that as long as he knew the person very very well. If it's a function at night he'd prefer I go with a man in case something went wrong like car issues etc. I have no problem with him going with another lady, but he will not do it. This actually happened to us a few weeks ago. I was out of town and he did a presentation at a seminar/banquet. He called all four of his sisters and none could go, so he went by himself rather than take a woman I did not know very well. My Mum-in-law raised a wonderful man! :-) |
Romance / Re: Handing Over Your Pay by adamsrib(f): 12:30pm On May 10, 2011 |
I have never done that. My business isn't really making money yet. If he asked me to hand over my check I would do it. No wahala! |
Romance / Re: Ladies, How Would You Want Your Wedding To Be? by adamsrib(f): 12:09pm On May 10, 2011 |
I've only been married for two and a half months now. We did court wedding in Nigeria and then had a white wedding. Our white wedding was gorgeous, elegant and simple. We did a destination wedding at Sandals resort in St. Lucia. Fifteen friends and family members joined us, and everyone had a wonderful time. When we got back to US my parents hosted a big reception for us and invited about 100 people, it was lovely! His family threw us a beautiful reception party at the family compound when we got back to Nigeria to stay. I'm not into big weddings and all that comes with it so this was perfect for us. |
Romance / Re: Handing Over Your Pay by adamsrib(f): 11:50am On May 10, 2011 |
My husband hands over all of his checks to me. I have a very strong financial background and I'm more versed in different ways to save. A real man will acknowledge the strengths of his partner and use it to better his family and himself at the same time. If your wife would use that position to make you feel less than a man, then your issue is much bigger than money. |
Romance / Re: I Think I'm Dating A Romance Scammer: by adamsrib(f): 8:41am On May 06, 2011 |
I don't understand questions like this. Why are you asking us? We don't know your boyfriend, we can't confirm or deny any of your suspicions. Or are you silly enough to think all Nigerian men are the same? Ask him about what you have found out and see what he tells you! |
Romance / Re: Ladies How Would You Like To Be Approached by adamsrib(f): 8:31am On May 06, 2011 |
I am attracted to men who have a sense of humor, so if he can make me laugh, he will get my attention. You must also be respectful. No words like shawty or red, that's a BIG turnoff. |
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