I am so sorry for their loss. This is disheartening. RIP

Hotfreeze:
Look at how Nairalanders have misled this one. Teenagers and serial cheats are advising this man and his wife to the point of ruining their marriage.

Secondly, when you have my property and your property, my parents and your parents, my house and your house, that marriage won't last.

That being said, you should be ashamed of yourself for asking your wife to leave the house for you. However, I feel the way she told you must have felt like a form of castration to you.

Maybe you should go out and let the useless girls of today ruin you finally so that you can spend your old age in regrets. If you had commonsense, you'll shut up, stay in that house and build your home.

I hope you guys find a middle ground and compromise in all these.

I think this is the most sensible thing I ve read on page 2. I also think the middle ground would be changing the name on the property to Mr and Mrs. It will be hard initially but trust can still be built. Some marriages have seen worse but still come out stronger. I'm not an advocate of divorce except when marriage is life threatening. I think it's unfair to ask the woman to change the name to his only.

LadyJasper:
For the sake of her mental health, I pray she doesn't take these comments to heart. So many bitter people who are quicker to criticize than encourage, they claim to say the "truth" but only in selected circumstances where they can pass on their hate. Tueh!

I'm telling you.people are really bitter.

Destroe:
Satan right now, " But when did I try to get him"?

LMAO. You are a clown.

TheArticleNG:
Nollywood Actor, Kenneth Okonkwo, has declared his intentions to run for the position of Enugu State Governor.

The ‘Living In Bondage’ star who declared his ambition some weeks back under the platform of the All Progressive Congress, APC, in Enugu with the immediate past governor of the state, Sullivan Chime, in attendance, has now shared his poster.



http://naijabuzz.com.ng/2018/07/19/actor-kenneth-okonkwo-officially-unveils-his-enugu-governorship-poster/

Paul akowasirolum ifea ofuma.

NwanyiAwkaetiti:
Nna you no do am well. Just allow her visa expire and probably snitch so they can ship her back. This type when married will definitely take u to the cleaners.

Very true. And @OP just like someone said above: DO NOT FORGET TO AVOID THE PREGNANCY TRAP otherwise you 'll be paying her for the rest of your life.

obi4eze:
That road is usually dreadful

That road gave me nightmares whenever I remember I had to ply it.very scary narrow n scary but beautiful at d same time.

I think bob risky takes the lead nowadays.lol

Amitez:
Thsnk you Baba. My only ask is for you to deal with all criminals, herdsmen, looters (both PDP snd APC), Boko Haram, kidnappers, etc without favouritism. As of now, you have not impressed me because, I see no reason why the following are not in jail or made to account for their wealth:
1. Bola Tinubu
2. Orji Uzor Kanu
3. Rotimi Amaechi
4. Adams Oshomole
5. Murtala Nyako
6. Maina
7. Current NNPC MD
8. Bukola Saraki
9. Olusegun Obasanjo
10. Ibrahim Babangida
11. Timipre Sylva
Plus many other looters across the length breath of Nigeria.

I see no reason why you find it difficult to declare Fulani Herdsmen a terrorists group when the rest of the world have.

I see no reason why corruption is only perceived to mean stealing public funds while nepotism, tribalism, fraudulent elections, sectional appointments against the dictates of federal character as enshrined in our constitution, flagrant violation of court processes and orders and related manipulations are not.

The day you begin to do this, I surely will salute your effort and courage. For now, you are only politicking with this anti corruption fight. You have not started the battle talk less of fighting the war.

You just totally summed up all my grudges in one post. Thank you.

When will we wake up n hear good news in this country for crying out loud?

Ok

emekabros2:
I am getting tired of all these killings.This is what Muhammad who lives in Nasarawa wrote...

'life's killed property's destroyed house's burns cow's all so killed for Fulani people, in Keana local government area Nasarawa state , by some criminals gang's in miltry uniforms and security cars with heavy gun's today 26 July 2018'


Source: http://9jaggist..com/2018/06/criminal-gangs-in-military-uniforms.html

26th July 2018?

Issokai

Oh this is so sad.

SpecialAdviser:
For those claiming it is Suswan that sponsored killings in Benue or the opposition, I have few questions for u.

1) Why is Buhari still claiming these are Libyans?

2) Why did the Buhari security chief claim it's because of Open grazing ban.?

3) Christians have been convicted for killing Fulanis, what is still delaying the convictions of those arrested fulanis that attacked Enugu state and other places?

4) Why has the killers of Bridget Aburime not yet convicted?

5) What happened to the convictions of killers of the redeemed woman?

6) the IG disobeyed order to go to Benue, why has he not been sacked?

And many more. Those defending Buhari should simply hide their face in SHAME!

Don't worry.they are already hiding their faces in shame but I really respect those his supporters who come out at a time like this and call a spade what it is.everyone is entitled to their own political beliefs n ideologies but for Christ said we are talking about human lives here and it's appealing that it is being politicized by this government.

Seenyo:

crap! slots should be on MERIT and not dumb sentiments!... I campaigned /voted buhari but
it's glaring now that dude is INTERGRITY-DEFICIENT!


#I REFUSE TO BE A BLIND SUPPORTER/HYPOCRITE!


#NIG. WILL BE A BETTER FOR IT, IF MERIT OVERIDES CLANISH /TRIBAL SENTIMENTS IN ALL FACETS ! #FACT!

Thank you for speaking so much sense.the way some people reason is baffling I tell you....just imagine the person you quoted.na wah oooo

Katier00:


I was about going for my weekly shopping and something just came to my mind, is there any rule that state we must cook rice for launch on Sundays? 90% of households in Nigeria eat rice very Sunday. I just decided to cook yam and egg sauce tomorrow to see if something unusual will happen

Because it is in the constitution.

freeze001:


Read my post clearly.


Unfortunately, the gender aspect cannot be taken out or ignored because it is the reality the female sex has to contend with.

I totally agree with you .there's no way the guy would have asked his fellow man to kneel down and attempt to batter him like that.serious fight would have ensued before the other staff members arrive.

peeps4u:


Can you explain how a living baby could possibly come out of a dead mother?

I said I don't know about a living one but I ve watched documentaries where women who died while pregnant had their bodies exhumed and were discovered to have expelled the baby as the body decayed.most times the baby bones were just between the thighs.

enoqueen:
How possible

Very possible that the baby eventually comes out from the mother but I don't know about a living one.

tetula123:
2years and your parents didn't know...fear men.

there's something I noticed on NL. if you express yourself, no matter how good it is, some humans here will and by will I mean WILL always think the opposite, and they will always find a way to throw insults at you, for expressing yourself.
if you not tough, and you among those who view and never comment please keep it that way, because those comments and replies you see here that makes you laugh, is getting someone somewhere depressed or angry.

if nairaland were to be a physical gathering na back to back fighting go close the gathering.

True that, but I don't think people can make bold to say to you face to face the things they hide n say to you behind their computers.it is faceless and everyone appears bold.

bigtt76:
Hmmm ....the way those girls selling agbo, agege bread and other foodstuff dress these days, you will be wondering if there's a modeling agency managing them. They are dressed in stressed jeans revealing thighs, face well made up ....not blaming her or others in her shoes but if those area boys do not see her as a 'donor' or the way she might have been playing with them seductively ...they wouldn't have called her upstairs and she wouldn't have gone there buh what do I know One thing I know for sure is you will never hear of an Abacha seller being raped

This is so wrong on all levels. It was not stated anywhere that the poor girl dressed seductively or played seductively with the hoodlums so why the stereotyping?

U mean am?

So sad.RIP to her.

Yabsun:
From your post, I could see you still love her though. The girl cheated on you and confessed, I see love here. Some girls will lock up and feign ignorance. The sex was consensual but as she confessed,I think she's remorseful and ready to avoid its recurrence. If there is assurance that that won't happen again, find a place in your heart to forgive her and love her still. It could also be you if the table were turned. A real hoe will never confess. Never!

I totally agree with you on this. Her confessing on her own speaks volumes believe me .

@op Just forgive her after letting her know the implication on your relationship and watch her do everything to please you...and for the record, not all cheats go back.

Hbd @op.wishing you long life and prosperity.

Btw you look like ufuoma McDermott especially in the first pic.

Enuguboy4nsk:

lazy youth supporting evil...read and understand

The guy sounds like sars. Their line of argument is baffling.

mema900:

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They can kill you and hide your corpse

If they hide corpse it's even better.they can kill you and plant weapons on your dead body and say you were a criminal n they shot in self defence.

Czar is so cute.this thread is very entertaining.thanks @op for sharing.

Personally I'm scared of dogs (even puppies) but I admire them from afar and I particularly like the closeness they share with their owners.i cannot imagine how the owners feel when they die (which is another reason why I could never own a pet anyway.i hate to lose loved ones). The human mortality in itself is enough heart ache for me, I can't add pets to it.

However, this is a lovely thread.

There's absolutely no difference o. Na just name modification.na still the same people.

Issokai

chiommy123:
good name is better than riches always remember that

Eziafa kaego. My ma will always say that.