ybalogs: Okoro has been owing you *#40,000* since June last year and has refused to pay.
Yesterday you begged him to give you even if it is *#20,000* and forget the rest because of a situation you found yourself this season.
He said he has only about *#17,000* in his account and can only afford to send *#15,000* to you.
As half bread is better than none, you had no option than to accept.
You woke up the next morning to see an alert of *#150,000k* with *36* missed calls from him because your phone is always on silent at night and several messages from him begging you to transfer *#135,000* back to him. He said he made a mistake, he wanted to send *#15,000k* and added one extra *0* instead.
Sincerely speaking what will you do?
I will owe okoro 110k for 3 years,after which I 'll offer to pay him 55k.
chiommy123: I think you should sit her down and make her understand how her actions make you feel and tell its her last chance to make things work
My dear this is past sitting her Down. The simple truth is that the girl is not into him.haba.exchange number in d presence of your bf?and so many other disrespectful ish. This is not a mistake and it should not be condoned.if he tolerates this and eventually marries her,she'd do worse.
OBAGADAFFI: That Soldier is needs serious psychological evaluation.
Going from a war zone to civilian environment isn't easy.
This is it exactly.post traumatic stress disorder.the guy is likely not normal anymore.its not okay to just release people from war zones into civilian environment.some soldiers have attempted to kill members of their families or even themselves upon return from maiduguri.i wish d poor boy quick recovery and I hope the soldier gets d help he so much needs.
Buy d dad hot drink or wine and if you must get something for d mum,maybe original George.though I don't think it's necessary to buy things for d mum on a first visit sha.but d drink is very important.
valdes00: This days, Many people in Nigeria are angry.... Any small thing, they will be quick to transfer aggression... ** Some NL members will say - Lets blame buhari
Honestly Nigerians are angry.if someone can do this to their own child, imagine what he 'll do to someone else at the slightest provocation.
handsomeclouds: So? Whenever someone's mother is insulted, we just take side of that person!
Did the guy realize before insulting her that she (Joke) is also someone else's mother, daughter and sister too.
Please it's high time we stopped taking sides with people based on that 'maternal sentiment'.
I quite agree with you.d lady posted 40years and he started his sentence with "you must be very stupid...".is he d one that gave birth to her? People should realize that celebrities (though I don't know her) are human beings too and can have the tendency to lash out,depending on their moods. I believe the best thing would have been to walk away and probably block him.
andyanders: The nurse cannot exonorate herself from the theft. Why insist that the father to the baby must leave the hospital to buy the items needed despite giving her 2k and at the same time,sent the mother inlaw of the woman to go and look for hot water? She allready perfected her plan. The nurse was responsible for the theft. Holding the nurse and the matron was right.
Plus she already knows that the security man goes to church around that time.
9jaBloke: Post says she stands as a Woman, Mother, Wife, Dancer and she's all of those. She didn't say she was young. Moreover, there's nothing wrong with aging.
Thanks.this is what I was looking out for.whats wrong with aging?
Why arrest the person who broke the emergency exit window?the poor guy was running for his life.the culprit is d foolish joker.people could have died of heart attack.
Abacha food is the popular Nigerian salad made with dried shredded cassava and Ugba (fermented oil beans), this is a very common food among the Igbos in Nigeria. There are many ways to make abacha, you can combine all the ingredients in one pot to mix or serve them in separate bowls and scoop as you need.
Abacha is prepared with so many vegetables and fish, the more ingredients you add to it, the tastier it becomes. This is very easy to prepare and it can be enjoyed as a main meal, appetizer or as a side dish. You can customize the ingredients to your taste. See the steps below on how to prepare Abacha and also watch the above video too.
Abacha Ingredients
• 1 cup palm oil • 3 handful abacha or as needed • 1 cup of ugba/Ukpaka (oil bean seeds) • 1 medium sized smoked fish/stockfish/dried fish • 1 medium sized pkomo (cow skin) • 5 pieces of fresh garden eggs • 2 medium onions, sliced/chopped • 1-teaspoon of edible potash (kaunwa) • 3-tablespoons of ground crayfish • 1-teaspoon of cayenne pepper • 2 stock cubes, crushed • 1 teaspoon ground African nutmeg (Ehuru) • 1 handful utazi • 1 handful garden egg leaves or lettuce • Small Iru or Ogiri (locust beans), optional • A pinch of salt
How to Prepare Nigerian Abacha
1. Rinse and season kpomo and cook until tender, cut into smaller sizes and set aside. 2. Wash and shred utazi and garden egg leaves and set aside, chop onion into nice rings and the other into tiny pieces. 3. Add water to the potash to dissolve it, strain to get rid of sand and the last particles. 4. Bring abacha into a bowl and add cold water to soak it for 5 minutes, rinse from the water into a bowl, add hot water into it and drain immediately in a colander and set aside. 5. Add palm oil into a wide pot, add the potash water a little at a time and stir until the oil curdles and changes to bright yellow color. 6. Once you have achieved a very nice creamy texture of oil, season it oil with ground crayfish, pepper, stock cubes, Ehuru (nutmeg) and stir well. 7. Add the chopped onions, Ukpaka (oil bean seeds) and diced garden eggs and stir to incorporate. 8. Bring the drained abacha and stir in, add the cooked kpomo, dried fish if using that and stir well. 9. Garnish abacha with Utazi and stir. If you like it warm, place it on heat for 30 seconds. 10. Garnish abacha with garden egg leaves, few rings of onion and enjoy as a side dish. Bon Appétit.
SalamRushdie: Same useless rhetorics like Buhari ...Nigerias problem is bigger than jailing anyone and it's not the duty of the president to jail anyone but that of working institutions
Thank you o.i 'll jail this n that.is it the president's jurisdiction?So he's implying that in this country the presidency is the efcc n court of law. It's this witch hunting n blame game that has led us to where we are today.let everyone just do their jobs independently and let's see if we won't make progress.
Infact at this time I personally don't want to hear jail,bla bla bla. They should just find a way to make life better for the common man on the street.
For me,in as much as apc is not d solution,pdp is also not the solution and this sowore man is not saying what we want to hear.they ve started lambasting one another on social media and giving out free food to school kids and even joining the kids to eat d food, sharing money for the market women cos election is around d corner.that's bullshit.
The thief 'll likely be in connivance with an hospital employee there.they should arrest d staff members who worked on that day...just see how hopeless the poor mother looks,after all d wahala involved.so sad.
YoungFr: My favorite line is "Police Station dey close by 6 security reasons oohh"
It's funny but it sucks really. The other time I went to nepa office n the staff were jubilating cos "their office don buy new generator"....i just shook my head at the irony.
KingRex1: Till date I see my parents union as a model and landmark to emulate. Mum is no feminist, dad isn't a misogynist. They put one another first, we see the mutual respect, dad's the head, he makes the rules, his final word is law, mum doesn't challenge him, they discuss in the room, dad final words gets some soft edits.. mum's word becomes final law.
Mutual respect and love!
Feminism is trash, misogyny is trash. If love leads, there'll be no need for these bullcraps!
This is exactly what obtains in my parents home.growing up,we nicknamed my mum "the engineer".you 'll never hear her argue with my dad on decisions,no matter how annoying his views were but in d end, my mum's views are final.
Veteran comic actor, Hafiz Oyetoro popularly called Saka and his wife, Saidat Olaide are celebrating their 15th wedding anniversary today.
He took to Instagram to narrate how she accepted his proposal when he was living in one room and parlour apartment with shared toilet.
Read his story below...
"While growing up, I thought I had a pretty good idea of what a woman is. But when it was time for me to find my own woman, it dawned on me that a woman is not a man. In my search, I came across a lady who was edging me on, making me to belief she loved “me”. Well, I decided to propose. She had listened quietly with encouraging countenance on her face. I went on to fantasy on how our “coming together” would be the best thing that could happen to us. Then... "Are you sure you are ready?" "YES" I answered. "Where is your car?" "I will get one soon" She smiled "If eventually you are able to get a car God knows when, wont you go to work with the car?" I noded proudly "So when I get married to YOU I Will be jumping on public buses" I read her lips.She had simply told me that I have to offer Me+ 2cars at least before she could say "yes" I needed no Imam to tell me she wasn't my wife. I decided to face my career and leave “woman palava” until I met this woman who my mind told me had been searching for me. After "toasting” her we became friends. My brotherly friend Gbenga Windapo was the Gardner who kept watering the flower of the friendship. One day a voice came "Hafiz Mumu you no go propose abi na when Jesus come back you go do am" So I proposed. She was silent for some minutes. I thought I saw her looking me over! Ye! This one too was calculating my worth. My God! What will this one ask? A building at Banana Island? I was almost saying in my mind I lost again. Then... "YES!" I had thought it was a voice in me that spoke in such audible voice. But the assurance on her gentle beautiful face assured me I had heard her voice and I heard her right. She never asked what I could offer before she could agree to be my wife. She never requested for any material standard. I remembered then I was living in a “room and parlour” portion in a civilian barrack where we used general toilet and kitchen. This woman stood by me. She has never wavered in helping me achieve my dream, our dream our future! She had taught me what womanhood is. She had taught me a woman is a divine catalyst for achieving future dreams. This day May 24th 15 years ago Saidat Olaide"