₦airaland Forum

Mindfulness:
So the solution is to employ kids instead of sending them to school so that men are not tempted because they are weak polygamous by nature?

Toks2008:
i was actually trying to point out that 13 to 15 are still minors and only a beast of a husband will stoop low to this level and if you see a 13 yr old maid with fully developed sexual features you can always go for another one.

Some men rape babies and employing underaged children is child abuse.

BETTER OPTIONS

1.Employ a married woman for day duty only.

2. Better still,do the chores yourself when your children are small and start training them at age 10. Even boys must learn to cook or they will have to patronise expensive or dirty eateries or marry just any woman when they leave home.

sapientia:
So maids still exist

Its simple.. Just ask ur husband to bring his blood relative to stay with una.. If he decides to commit incest.. Then.. Even if you had brough a 5 yr old little gal.. Him for defile am too..

So.. Let d househelp always be ur husband's blood relative

That's why a wife should have a cordial relationship with her in-laws.

The Commissioner of Police in Oyo State, Mr Muhammad Katsina, on Tuesday said that his command had discovered another kidnappers’ den at Oyagbe area in Oyo town.
Katsina said this at a news briefing in Ibadan where some suspects linked with the crime were paraded.
The hideout was said to have been a deserted hotel whose owner was now in police custody.
Katsina said that men of the state command had arrested five suspects in connection with the crime.
The commissioner also told newsmen that a victim, Husseni Sani, was rescued from the den of the kidnappers.
He said that the kidnappers came from Benin Republic and moved to Kwara before finally settling in Atiba Local Government Area of Oyo State.
“Today we are happy to announce that a ground breaking discovery was made yet again and this time in Oyo town where some wicked individuals kidnapped a fellow human for ransom.
“We have so far arrested five people connected with the crime, including the hotelier and the victim who is now in our custody,” he said.
But the owner of the hotel said the suspects had approached him for a three-room accommodation for two weeks and paid a deposit of N5,000.
He said that he had no idea that they were kidnappers and that he got to know about their activities when the police came to arrest him.
The victim, a cattle rearer from Ikoyi Ile in Kajoola Local Government Area, said that he was kidnapped at Ogbomoso and was fed on rice for 14 days
Sani said that the kidnappers had demanded N1 million and threatened to kill him and his elder brother if he was unable to pay.
The Alaafin of Oyo, Oba Lamidi Adeyemi, who had earlier spoken to newsmen in Oyo, thanked the police and other security agencies for their swift action in arresting the suspects.
The traditional ruler, however, called on residents to always inform the police when they suspect suspicious movements in their environment.
“I have to say at this juncture that it is everybody’s duty to alert the security agencies over the happenings in their environment, ” he said.(NAN).

Source:http://www.vanguardngr.com/2015/08/police-discover-another-kidnappers-den-in-oyo/.

skytreader:
The Ooni's presence or absence will clear up speculations. Shebi his chiefs said he was gearing up for the prince's wedding?
Wish the new couple the best things of life...

Evathyst:
Where's Ooni?



Just asking silently!

Don't mind those lying chiefs. They are just delaying the announcement until all the ingredients (including the late king's entourage to the grave) are ready.

delishpot:
Juju has nothing to do with this. That fish may just be naturaly poisonous.

If it was "naturally poisonous", why did it blind (and not kill) the 3rd victim?

jeffizy:
@slimyem..... I am directing it at the ladies not to be chauvinistic . Rather, i feel it is the ladies who can put a stop to these men's randiness .
The men are guilty too. But i beleive a thief that steals palm oil from the shelf needs someone to relieve him of his loot.

(a)Can't the thief bury the loot underground? If he transports the loot by bus to another town and sells it there, are the buyers and the driver who took him there to blame? Did they see him steal the palm oil?

Many of these married men claim to be single on Facebook and their wives look the other way but cry when a pregnant woman shows up.
*A man married Miss A at the registry but was transferred to another state ,left his wife behind and was coming to see her on weekends. At his new station, he married Miss B at another registry with rented parents. He was transferred to another state where he married Miss C at another registry with another set of fake parents. The three Mrs Crook met at their school's alumni meeting, visited each other and discovered their husbands' photos belong to the same man. Do you blame the 2nd and 3rd wives? They met their supposed in-laws and married at the registry before sleeping with him.

(b)What of babies who get raped by their own fathers? Are they to blame as well?

(c)If all women behave and say no to married men but the men remain irresponsible, the men can still sleep with their male friends and the wives will never suspect them until they are caught in the act.

slimyem:
Fix and rephrase the question like that and stop being bigoted!
Why focus on the lady and not the man when in fact the man is the one who is supposed to be responsible and committed to his vows?
Both of them have non-justifiable reasons for being involved and both their immoral actions should be questioned here.That's fairness and sense!!

The man has a duty to respect the institution he is in by looking away even if the lady's butt is wriggled in is face and the lady has a duty to defend her virtues by saying NO if she has any.They are both guilty.Focus on them both!

The other woman is always to blame when a man strays, as if the man can't rape his wife's sister or daughter if every other woman rejects him. One woman applied pepper on her 4-year-old daughter's yansh after her husband raped the girl.

Nonybb:
I am willing to pay the kidnappers handsomely if they are able to kidnap Dr Nwokolo and Mr Ben Obi of Industrial Chemistry department, including the loudmouthed Dr Iwu and the demonic Dr Onuigboje of that Department. I am using this medium to say "Hi" to Dr Ayuk and Proffessor Ejele. These are men with human conscience. Have Mr Chike gotten married yet? What about Dr Enenebeaku aka Enenebeukwu, I heard he's gay. Upto 45years and not yet married

You no fear Internet Police in case they are kidnapped or even killed later?

GOATandYAMtheory:
The ex-president said he couldn’t have helped Jonathan to do his job as Nigeria President after helping him to secure the position.

He said, “I became the Head of State because of my performance in the war front. If General Gowon had not sent me to the war front, he would not know whether I could perform or not. He sent me to the war front and because I performed, we both shared the credit. But if I had failed, he would not have shared the condemnation with me. I would have taken that alone.

“I believe that the opportunity that afforded itself in 2010 was for somebody from the minority to on his self esteem become the President of Nigeria. We should never lose such opportunity. What he did with that opportunity is entirely up to him. What he did or did not do with it will reflect for a long time on that part of the country. There is no particular person who got there without the people.”

http://thenationonlineng.net/niger-delta-will-suffer-for-jonathans-actions-in-office-obasanjo/

Firefire:


OBJ, please leave GEJ and ensure you help PMB to deliver all his campaign promises.

Thank you!

Otherwise, you will become the sponsor of failures. Boko Haram attacks have increased in intensity since May 29 and the two months Buhari said he will stop Boko will soon expire on July 29. The Chibok girls have not been found. Where is BBOG?

PassingShot:
It's unfortunately true that the minority bungled their opportunity to impress for future considerations. As things stand now, they can only wail while watching how things should be done.

e.g. how to increase the frequency of Boko Haram attacks in the North by removing military checkpoints. About 600 people have been killed by Boko Haram since May 29. *Changing the president cannot stop insurgency unless the affected state governors , LGA chairmen, traditional rulers,etc cooperate with the president,at least by giving him information, since they are closer to the hotspots than Abuja.

Firefire:
The baba could not even fix the road leading to his farm in Otta, Cannan Land have being rescuing us whenever they have program until Ogun state Gov. Fixed the road.

successmatters:
Nigeria get landlord na. Yoruba na tenants like all others

Hausa/Fulani na your landlord? They have ruled Nigeria for 38 years and are still ruling because of their exaggerated population which Boko Haram is decimating now.

emmatok:
OK,

Any student without exemption letter that decides not to serve is wasting his/her time.
You can can get your exemption even if you are not up to 30, e.g if you have health issues.
Thats way i am always angry seeing pregnant women coming to camp, some are even nursing mothers, they should be exempted.

According to http://www.nysc.gov.ng/certificates-info/cr-cert-exemption.php , "With effect from 1st August, 1985, a person shall NOT be called upon to serve in the service corps if, at the date of graduation or obtaining his diploma or other professional qualification" :
1.He is over the age of thirty (30) years.
2.He has served in the Armed Forces of the Federation or the Nigeria Police Force for a period of more than nine months; or
3.He is a member of staff of any of the following:
a.The Nigerian Security Organization or
b.The State Security Service, or
c.The National Intelligence Agency or
d.The Defence Intelligence Service
4.He has been conferred with any National Honour.
These categories of persons are therefore exempted from service and issued with the Certificates of Exemption.
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I haven't seen exemption of ill ,pregnant or nursing people there. Pls tell NYSC to include it on their website to clear the air.

kmaxx:
Suppose I graduate @ age 30? So, No NYSC xperience, photos 2 share n cert. 4 me?

You'll get an exemption certificate which works as well as a discharge certificate for those who graduated before 30.

Olufemiolaolu:
No big deal he can collect an exemption letter.

What if he graduated before 30? Can he get an exemption cert after turning 30?

Pangea:
Long overdue na!
What are they still doing there!
Their guy is gone, they should have been packing their loads since May 29 naa!

Baba should also probe their activities.
Many of these People were like Tin gods, unapproachable and corrupt.

93 ambassadors sacked ,out of over 200. What are the criteria for the selective sack? I hope Buhari replaces them with better people on time. I don't want empty seats, like those of the yet-to-be-apppointed ministers at home. Buhari can't be President, Ministers and ambassadors at once. Aregbesola combined only 2 jobs : Governor and Commissioner for Works. His deputy was also the Commissioner for Education.

IdiAmin1:
I won't comment until I see their replacements.

Hopefully this time, the dullard one won't send near-dead-only-fulani-speaking-senile Daura men as ambassadors to Western countries.

Until then

Let's wait and see. Most of those sacked are Southerners.

ramdris:
I am a devoted and proud Muslim and I am in total support of this action. Desperate time calls for desperate measures. Instead of hijab, they can use small scarf and wound it round there neck, that way, nothing much will be revealed. We Muslims must support the government cause am pained to see this beautiful religion being degraded by those bastards.

And for those that might want to start spilling rubbish here about other people's faith, you are no better off than the Boko haram their selves cause the same spirit of intolerance and respect towards other people's believe is common, the only difference is the killings.

May Allah(swt) guide our path in this life and may He restore victory to our land while protecting our gallant armed forces who are getting killed for us to live peacefully.

Cc: Seun, lalasticlala

You are a reasonable Muslim.

jerflakes:
[size=17pt]THEY SHOULD KICK HARDER![/size]

When Nigerians going abroad were subjected to full body scans because of Abdulmuttalab, the underwear bomber, what did you do then? The scans showed people fully naked and may end up in porn magazines!

UncleJudax:
How would banning hijab automatically end the boko haram wahala?

Banning hijab can't AUTOMATICALLY end Boko Haram because some people will still carry bombs in their undies, but it will help reduce it. We need proper bomb screening machines for all people. May God help us.

Akin0:
If it is true what we are reading and hearing on the use of the chibok girls as suicide bombers. I will suggest that Full use of hijab should be banned in the volatile areas of the north. The covering should only be for the head, this will make it impossible to plant this bomb in their body without being noticed.

You will observed of late that the people that are being used recently for the bombing are mostly young girls, possibly the chiboks girls. God will help us in this country.

Some people will still carry bombs in their undies, like Abdulmuttalab. May God save us.

brainpower:
I still maintain that in as much as some girls were abducted, they were done with the support of some northerners and borno State governor is completely involved. Blame GEJ all the way but there was little he could because a man can't keep your house in order when you that own and live in the house doesn't want it. Some of the IDPS believe GEJ is the sponsor of BH and that's the idea given to them by their imams. But we have refused to see the truth and say it because of political affiliations. By the time BH exist till next year, we will start to see what we did to ourselves. The ethnicity and religious extremism in this country is too much.
I won't be surprised if someone from the north starts abusing me for saying the truth that they know. Their imams in the mosques are largely responsible for some of these things. These people believe in their leaders and depend on them for feeding and living. So a man will do literally anything for the person that feeds him. And that's the problem with SOME of our northern brothers. I hope PMB gets it right.

The president has been CHANGED but Governor Shettima of Borno State remains unchanged. Boko Haram attacks have intensified, especially in Borno State. Who do we blame now? "Take it easy with Buhari; he is new in office", but what of Shettima?

Because of geographical distance, it is easier for the Chibok LG chairman and the Borno State Governor to get wind of Boko Haram activities and plans in Borno State than for the Federal Govt @ Abuja.

Let's start holding state governors responsible for the insecurity in their states.

mmsen:
They'll kill the girls too.

Accidentally, of course.

Most of the Chibok girls have now become suicide bombers. Let's level Sambisa forest and be free once and for all. More than 1000 people have died since May 29,2015 alone because we don't want to kill the 200+ girls with Boko Haram.

JimTiger4:
Just because I indulged in a little frown and allowed the anger + irritation emanating from this added stress ( verification of details and uploading of passport photograph with white background ) to be etched all over my face....

These niggas virtually termed me an alien #weeping

Your frown has made you look more like a tiger.

Please calm down and think. There is a way out. You will even get special praise from all sensible Nigerians for it.








This is the time to send those sacred Idemili snakes on a special midnight mission to the Boko Haram section of the prisons. No FG can query you for such a "natural disaster". All the guards will be asleep then.

favouryemmy:
Sex outside marriage is a sin. You can also contract stds. Abstinence is the best solution.

What if this problem occurred on their wedding night? What advice do you have for them?

Boko Haram attacks have become a daily affair since Buhari's inauguration , contrary to expectations that he will be able to stop the sect. Here are some of the attacks since May 29,2015.

1. Bomb Blast In Maiduguri Mosque, Kills Many. (http://www.channelstv.com/2015/05/30/bomb-blast-rocks-maiduguri-mosque/.)


2.http://www.premiumtimesng.com/news/top-news/184100-another-bomb-blast-rocks-maiduguri-market.html

3.Suicide Bomber used “sai Buhari” to attract a crowd before killing 5 in Maiduguri – Police.
http://www.premiumtimesng.com/news/top-news/184247-suicide-bomber-screamed-sai-buhari-before-killing-5-in-maiduguri-police.html.

4. June 4 : www.punchng.com/news/suicide-bombers-hit-maiduguri-yola-again/;wwwthenewsnigeria.com.ng/2015/06/05/bomb-planted-in-a-tricycle-kills-at-least-30-in-yola/.

5. www.thenewsnigeria.com.ng/2015/06/07/boko-haram-bombs-maiduguri-cattle-market-16-dead/.

6.http://saharareporters.com/2015/06/13/male-suicide-bomber-kills-3-civilian-jtf-members-near-maiduguri.

7.June 22 : http://www.vanguardngr.com/2015/06/breaking-news-another-blast-in-maiduguri/ . 20 killed.

8.June 23 : http://mobile.reuters.com/regional/article/idAFL8N0Z93AP20150623?edition=af ; http://m.nydailynews.com/news/crime/teen-girl-suicide-bombers-kill-30-mosque-nigeria-article-1.2267767.

9.http://www.saharareporters.com/2015/06/23/boko-haram-militants-slit-throats-20-villagers-borno.

When will all these end? Things have CHANGED for the worse! May God help us.

tensazangetsu:
A nation only grows faster when people with similar goals and culture inhabit it . An Igbo has nothing in common with a Yoruba or Hausa.

All Nigerian tribes look alike as blacks. People of one ethnic group regularly get mistaken for members of another group. "Hausas are dark-skinned" except for Buhari, Shettima, IBB,etc. "Igbos and South-South people are fair-skinned" except for Jonathan, Amaechi,etc.


Secession is not the answer. South Sudan is having internal problems after seceding from the Muslim Arab Sudan.

Soyinka, Falana,etc are right. Anyanwu and her colleagues should accept correction and amend the law. Why were the age groups separated and valuable time and space wasted since the punishment is the same for defiling girls aged 0-11, 12-15 and 16-18?She is only exonerating herself of complicity in the deletion of the clauses punishing the defilement of girls aged 11-18. See below:



Anyanwu explained further that clause 6 of the bill provides that; “A person who commits an offence that causes penetration with a child is guilty of an offence called defilement.”

She also said provisions of the bill included that; “A person who commits and offence of defilement with a child aged 11 years or less upon conviction shall be sentenced to imprisonment for life.”

“A person who commits an offence of defilement with a child between 12 and 15 years old shall upon conviction be sentence to imprisonment for life.”
“A person who commits an offence of defilement with a child between age 16 and 18 years old shall upon conviction be sentenced to imprisonment for life.”
She explained that the succeeding provisions were deleted at the committee level in the senate, because there is no disparity in the punishment for the offence, irrespective of age difference.

http://www.thisdaylive.com/articles/falana-to-challenge-legality-of-sexual-offences-bill/212064/.

Simply tell him to produce electronic evidence (photos,videos,etc) of the act or be sued to court for defamation of character.

Only fools boast even if they slept with the girl. A former prostitute can pass for a virgin on her wedding night through hymen repair or simple return to abstinence . "Time heals every wound", including a broken hymen.

President Muhammadu Buhari will this week make his first foreign trip since taking office, travelling to Chad and Niger for talks on Boko Haram, his spokesman said on Monday. Shehu Garba said the two-day trip starting on Wednesday will focus on “matters of security”, with the cooperation of Nigeria’s neighbours seen as crucial to ending the Islamist uprising which has claimed more than 15,000 lives since 2009.


Buhari was sworn in last Friday and vowed in his inaugural speech to crush the insurgent group he described as “mindless” and “godless”.But Boko Haram attacked some 12 hours after the new president took the oath of office, hitting homes in the key northeast city of Maiduguri with rocket-propelled grenades overnight on Saturday.
Later, a suicide attack at a mosque in the city, which is the Borno state capital, killed at least 26 people. Suspicion immediately fell on the insurgents. The militants then raided two towns in Borno’s neighbouring state of Yobe on Sunday, torching public buildings and looting food and fuel stores. Niger shares a border with both Borno and Yobe while Chad borders just Borno in Nigeria’s extreme northeast.

Former president Goodluck Jonathan’s administration had long complained that Nigeria’s neighbours were not doing enough to contain Boko Haram as they fled military pursuit by crossing porous borders. A four-nation offensive that also includes Cameroon has won significant victories since February but there are fears of Boko Haram regrouping, especially in remote border areas.

Source:

www.vanguardngr.com/2015/06/buhari-to-visit-chad-niger-wednesday-for-boko-haram-talks/

[quote author=Edywalex post:
Some comments here shows how silly,illiterate and bastard 4 typing rubish here.PMB hasn't spent 3days u hv started insulting him and calling him names.why cant u guyz wait until 100days in office and stop fooling urself as if miracle wil jst come in a day.[/quote][quote author=tayebest post:
just 3days in office you already spewing trash! Let's look forward for some days ahead and wait for the combat... Its just too early![/quote]Gov Shettima is to be blamed. This is his second term as governor and the 3 attacks (@ a wedding where 6 died, a market where scores died, and this one) in 24 hours all happened in Borno State! He should examine himself. At least, his party man and fellow Northerner is now in power.

[Edywalex:
Some comments here shows how silly,illiterate and bastard 4 typing rubish here.PMB hasn't spent 3days u hv started insulting him and calling him names.why cant u guyz wait until 100days in office and stop fooling urself as if miracle wil jst come in a day.]

[tayebest:
just 3days in office you already spewing trash! Let's look forward for some days ahead and wait for the combat... Its just too early!]

Gov Shettima is to be blamed. This is his second term as governor and the 3 attacks (@ a wedding where 6 died, a market where scores died, and this one) in 24 hours all happened in Borno State! He should examine himself. At least, his party man and fellow Northerner is now in power.

Thank you, Buhari, for exposing those corrupt governors' lies about being owed allocations by the Jonathan govt. Hope you will probe them and get the common man's salaries and pensions.

Igbos are very shrewd businessmen.

Igbo man x non-Igbo lady = Igbo daughter. The father paid a small bride price but will collect a large one on each of his daughters. Igbo families with 5 sons and no daughters can't afford to pay so much money on Igbo brides and will advise them to marry outside the tribe.

Igbo lady x non-Igbo man = Non-Igbo daughter. The father paid so much on his wife but will get little money on his daughter.

Look before you leap. Consider your pocket before making a choice.

This is just the beginning. The Nigerian government should bring back all willing Nigerians home and deport all South Africans in Nigeria. Let's see how those fools will still compete with their Diaspora brothers for jobs,etc.

Nigerians who decide to stay should be videoed signing an undertaking to that effect, to absolve the govt if anything happens to them there later.

Arch1:
The Boko Haram insurgency is more dire than we know. Buhari might not be able to put an end to it. We need foreign military intervention

Don't expect Boko Haram to stop immediately Buhari takes over. Shekau sees both Jonathan and Buhari as infidels. (www.punchng.com/news/jonathan-buhari-are-infidels-says-shekau/)