₦airaland Forum

I have been having swollen feet for the past 2 months. The swelling initially used to go down after a few days but has now stayed put for the past 3 weeks. The swollen areas are also hard to touch and darker than the surrounding skin.

Please what should I do?

Thanks. May God bless you and all yours.

A Christian spinster is usually advised to patiently wait for a monogamous marriage before having children. "Single motherhood is stressful. A child needs both parents". Later on in life, she will be told to consider adoption if she is feeling lonely, rather than have her own child out of wedlock. If single motherhood is not ideal for her own child, does someone else's child deserve it? Is it even in the child's own interests?

1. The best adoptive home for an orphan is the one where the married couple already have a child or 2 of their own. The wife's health has been stabilized by childbearing. She is not dragged to the surgical theatre by fibroids for not having her own biological child (https://punchng.com/virginity-does-not-protect-from-fibroid-ivf-expert/). The couple are not shedding tears of frustration every time the wife menstruates, making the adopted child wonder, "Am I not good enough to make them happy?" The adopted child is not emotionally crushed by hearing them pray to get their own child. They are likelier to stay married for life than childless couples (who may break up to test their fertilities elsewhere). Very few people will know they are not the biological parents.

2. The 2nd-best adoptive home is the one with a childless couple. At least, they have each other. They can wait for the child to sleep at night before trying to have their own child. The child cannot interfere with their love life. Once the wife remains healthy, they will be able to do their best by the child.

3. The next-best home is the one with a single mother. Even if she doesn't ever have the chance to get married, she already has at least one biological child. She doesn't have to fear menopause any longer and is less prone to fibroids than a childless woman. She can afford to bear a "Mrs" title (with the same surname as the children) , in order to "dignify" the children.

4. The worst home is the one with a childless spinster. (a) She is highly prone to fibroids , which tend to regrow even after surgery until she gives birth biologically. (b) Adoption scares away most eligible men (who don't want to marry single mothers and carry another man's responsibilities) from her, while the biological single mothers (who are also fibroid-free) hide their children with relatives or orphanages in order to attract bachelors for marriage. (c) A spinster and her date will be disturbed by the adopted child during his evening visits, since they don't live together as a couple. (d) Since she has no husband by her side and is still a "Miss", she must explain to curious wives asking for the child's father that the child is adopted (and not born by her for anyone's husband) for the child's own safety.

[ Caring for someone else's child ] + [ the health problems of childlessness ] - [ the support of a husband ] = [ the worst of all worlds ].


Orphanages provide a vital service for abandoned children. They foster them till 18 years of age before sending them out , to make way for new babies. Other members of the society (including people who can't afford to adopt them) can donate the little money they have to the orphanage. Politicians and other bigwigs also do the same. "Little drops of water, little grains of sand, make the mighty ocean and the beauteous land". The absence of any extra help or inheritance after age 18 is compensated for by the absence of extended family responsibilities towards nephews, nieces, aged relatives, etc later in life. Agony aunts, the right books, etc will provide emotional support.

................................

People should have only the number of children they can cater for, without depending on others to foster or adopt them. God is not against family planning. After having enough children ,how can a married couple obey Matthew 19:9 ("don't divorce your spouse except on the grounds of adultery" ) ; 1 Corinthians 7: 3-5 ("don't deprive each other of sex, except by mutual consent for a SHORT period of prayer" ) and 1 Timothy 5: 8 ("whoever doesn't provide for his own family is worse than an unbeliever" ) without using some form of family planning? It is abortion that God hates (Exodus 21: 22-25 ; Psalm 139: 16 ; Ecclesiastes 11: 5 ; Isaiah 49: 1 ; Luke 1: 41, 44 ), not pregnancy prevention. God killed Onan for preventing CHILDLESS Tamar from having any child after marrying her in order to get her late husband's (his late brother's) property (Genesis 38: 1-11 ; Deuteronomy 25: 5-10). God spared Ruth's closest male in-law, who was honest enough to decline both her and Mahlon's property and let richer Boaz marry her (Ruth 4: 1-10). Don't be a "dog in the manger".

The summary passage of the June 1998 WASSCE English Language paper describes how public exam bodies set their questions months or even years in advance, vet the questions and then store them securely for future use.
In this smartphone and Internet age, every teacher can easily keep a bank of his or her past and future typed questions. This is especially important for teachers of Mathematics and other Science subjects (whose questions need careful typing and proofreading because of the subscripts, superscripts, fractions, matrices, vectors, diagrams, etc). They should submit their handwritten questions to the typist early and get the typed Word document sent to their smartphones for careful proofreading before printing. Otherwise, they will have to go and make the corrections right in the examination halls. Even then, the question papers will be unsightly.

After proofreading the Word document and making all the necessary corrections, send the document to the printer. Keep the edited document on your phone & upload it as an email attachment for future reference. Each new term, paste in your new set of edited questions and upload the new document as an email attachment again. You are gradually building up your typed exam questions' bank.

You can create a future questions' bank by: (a) using your phone to take pictures of typed questions on paper, extract the text in those pictures (with Google Photos, etc) into your phone's keyboard clipboard, and paste those questions into a Word document for proofreading ; (b) copying the text of questions found online into a Word document for proofreading. If your handwriting is legible enough, you can convert pictures of your handwritten questions into typed text. Pictures can be photographed (from books) or screenshot (from the Internet) and inserted into the Word document. You can also use your phone to draw complex diagrams with the help of an Office app and a photo-editing app .

You are now ready to churn out quality questions even at short notice. Your used and new questions are already in typed form and can be selected, copied and pasted into a new document, rearranged and numbered to your taste, etc within 30 minutes and sent for printing. You are ready to beat any deadline and can now concentrate on writing your lesson notes, delivering the lessons, marking your students' scripts, etc. WPS Spreadsheet (or other equivalent apps) will help you calculate the sums and arithmetic means of many students' scores fast during the result collation stage.

Most typists make silly typing mistakes while rushing to type many questions within a week or two. Assist both them and yourself by submitting your questions early, proofreading your typed questions on your phone or computer (while they continue typing other people's questions on their computer) and keeping a typed question bank document regularly uploaded to your email box for safekeeping.

The Federal Government has announced that the Senior School Certificate Examination (SSCE) will be computer-based as from 2026 (https://tribuneonlineng.com/no-going-back-on-transition-of-neco-waec-others-to-cbt-fg/ ; https://fmino.gov.ng/fg-unveils-full-transition-to-cbt-for-waec-and-neco-by-2026-commends-necos-pilot-scheme/) . The multiple-choice sections will be done as in the UTME, so most candidates can learn what to expect from their older brothers and sisters. However, the other sections (practicals, essays, comprehension and summary) will also be computer-based. How can the candidates, parents, schools, examination bodies , governments, etc prepare for a hitch-free exam next year?

1. Students (beginning from SSS 1, if not earlier) should start using their holidays to learn typing at the computer centres near them. While most students can type and send text messages, emails, social media posts and comments, etc from their phones (and can therefore easily type their essay, comprehension and summary answers in the English Language papers), they need to learn how to type fractions, superscripts, subscripts, integral signs, matrices, vectors, chemical equations, etc and how to draw complex diagrams before they can type their answers correctly in Maths and other science subjects. What about typing Yorùbá answers with the right tonal marks? They need to undergo training in using Microsoft Office, Corel Draw, etc and typing with 10 fingers instead of 2 (for greater speed). Most smartphone Office apps (such as WPS Office) do not allow typing fractions, matrices, vectors, etc (which are on the laptop and desktop Office apps) but only allow subscripts, superscripts and some diagrams (with the help of screenshots and photo editing). Hence, students should be trained in the desktop and laptop Office apps. After all, they will write their exams on desktop or laptop computers, not on smartphones. Smartphones can, however, help them access and view videos (from YouTube, Tiktok, etc) on using these apps.

2. Parents should buy smartphones for their children and enrol them for computer training during the holidays, as discussed above. Smartphones will also give them access to the online versions of Advanced Learners' dictionaries (which are always fuller than the print versions, which must be portable). They can find zillions of synonyms and antonyms for any word through Google-search links to thesauruses (special dictionaries containing synonyms, antonyms and related words). This will help them solve crossword puzzles (also obtainable online), which will help enrich their vocabularies.

3. Schools should start exposing their students to computer-based exams from SSS 1. Assignments can even be typed on phones and sent to teachers' email boxes. This will improve their proficiency in typing.

4. Exam bodies should record videos of some sample students writing the exams on computers and post the videos online. This will help prepare the less-exposed students in rural schools. It will also confirm the feasibility of the computer-based exam system before the exams begin.


5. (a) The government (in conjunction with the power holding companies) should ensure a regular uninterrupted electricity supply to all the examination centres throughout the exams. (b) After equipping the public schools with computers and stable electricity, the govt should also provide subsidized e-libraries and computer centres in town for other people (including private school students) to patronize.

6. With the computer-based exam systems, school teachers will no longer need to find specimens for Agric and Biology Practical exams. Hence, no teacher will have a foreknowledge of the specimens his students will identify and answer other questions on. Each candidate's computer will bring pictures or videos of his or her own unique set of specimens. Therefore, each candidate should Google all the unfamiliar organisms, etc in the Agric and Biology syllabuses ahead of the exam, screenshot their pictures and store the pictures into a Practicals folder for constant viewing. The specimens can come from the ocean floor, the desert , the top of a tree, or any unfamiliar habitat within the scope of the syllabus.

7. The first set of candidates should be given an extra hour or 2 to get used to the new system. This will reduce the public outcry.

8. Marked printouts of each student's scripts (along with his or her unique set of questions) should be scanned into the exam body's online database for concerned parties to consult after the results are released. This feedback system will ensure transparency and accountability. With time, e-marking can be done without having to print out the candidates' e-scripts.


BENEFITS OF THE COMPUTER-BASED EXAMS


1. Typing will shield students from the effects of an illegible handwriting and also help markers with poor eyesight to mark essay-type answers well.

2. The computer will ring most wrongly-spelt words and suggest probable correct ones. This will reduce candidates' spelling errors (at least in Arts subjects). Students should, however, beware of suggested corrections to scientific names.

3. Students will be able to cancel errors and make corrections without making their scripts unsightly.

4. Every candidate will get as much writing space as he or she needs, without being constrained by the lack of enough extra sheets.





Happy preparation to all the concerned stakeholders.

Childless people (no matter how old) , who are still hoping for their miracle children, will not want to write a will in favour of their nephews, nieces, etc. Such heirs presumptive may even be tempted to eliminate them before the heir apparent arrives and the will is changed. They will rather transfer whatever they want to give them into their accounts while alive.

Secondly, wills (even when not contested) publicize the amount of money or property left to each child or other relative and may annoy others who feel they deserve more than they got. It may be better to buy property, make investments, etc in each child's name while you are alive. This method will take care of even your extramarital children.

Many people fear to operate a joint bank account with their spouses (who may empty the account behind their back if the mandate allows either party to withdraw). However, there is something more dangerous than a joint account : sharing your ATM PIN with your spouse.

If your spouse withdraws money from the joint account in his/her own name (whether over the counter or with his/her own ATM PIN), you will know who did it (and how to get your money back if it was done without your consent). However, if he or she uses YOUR own PIN to withdraw money from your personal or joint account, the bank records will say you are the one who did it. Worse still, if a third party (e.g. a rogue banker or POS agent) manages to uncover your PIN and makes a withdrawal, the bank will insist that it was done by you or someone you gave your PIN to. You will now go and attack your innocent spouse for what he or she knows nothing about.

ATM fraud will continue until banks insist on fingerprinting during withdrawals. It was fingerprinting (and stand-by cameras) that stopped impostors from using forged-signature documents to withdraw money from other people's accounts over the counter in banks.

Mrs A and Mrs B are close friends. While Mrs A lives with her husband and posts their family pictures on social media, she doesn't know Mr B (her friend's husband). The two friends have the following conversation one day.

Mrs A: As close as we are, why don't I know your husband and your children's father? You keep telling me he works and lives outside the country.

Mrs B: Why are you worried? Does my husband's surname tally with yours? Maybe you should get a computer geek to track your husband's phone conversations.

Mrs A: I have done that already and know you are not dating him or have children for him. I am just curious about why your man has never visited you. Is he late?

Mrs B: No. He is still alive but married to another woman.

Mrs A: Who entered his life first : you or she?

Mrs B: Me.

Mrs A: Please give me the details. I'm all ears.

Mrs B: We dated while in the secondary school but later parted when he insisted on premarital sex. We were both too young for parenthood then. Even when I graduated and got a job, the men I dated insisted on getting me pregnant to confirm my fertility before taking me to the altar. I don't believe in premarital sex and suggested we go for fertility check-ups (including ultrasound scans and hormonal profile tests) instead. They refused and walked away. Yet, a man will get 4 women pregnant, marry one (or even none) and ask all the others to abort. I later developed fibroids at 32.

Mrs A: What are fibroids?

Mrs B: Fibroids are non-cancerous tumors that grow in a woman's womb. My belly started enlarging like a pregnant woman's, scaring potential suitors away. Sellers of baby things started pestering me whenever I go to the market. Doctors blamed my being childless at that age and advised surgery. Less informed people say only family planning causes fibroids in women. The only family planning method I was using then was abstinence. When I asked them why most married women (who ALL use contraceptives, rather than abstinence, to space or stop child-bearing) don't have fibroids, they kept quiet. I had to explain that, "Married women stop using contraceptives every 2 or 3 years to have another child, while we spinsters use abstinence non-stop for decades (while waiting for a monogamous marriage) and become fibroid-prone due to nulliparity. Even if they develop fibroids after their last child, they can cheerfully wait for menopause to clear up the fibroids without going for surgery. If the pains or bleeding become unbearable, they can have their wombs removed to prevent a regrowth". I drank all sorts of potions from traditional healers but none worked. My belly kept slowly getting bigger and I had 2-week-long belly pains (called fibroid degeneration) every 6 months. I eventually underwent the surgery at 37.

Mrs A: What happened next?

Mrs B: I was told to try to have my own child (after resting for 1 year) in order to prevent a fibroid regrowth. At that age, most bachelors were younger than I and considered me too old for marriage, while most men my age and above were married. The only widower who asked me out had 5 children and was always broke. I knew I couldn't help him feed them all and still be able to bear and rear my 2-3 children. Surgery has weakened me too much for that. I prefer a living rival (who will help rear her own children) to a dead one (whose children will be a burden to me). Then I ran into my ex at a seminar and we exchanged contacts. Though I knew he is now married, I wanted to avoid another fibroid surgery. I have my own job, had only the number of children I can rear alone, have never gone near his matrimonial home and send only safe messages to his phone. Which wife will suspect a contact who sends prayer messages (covering both him and his family), health tips, inspirational sermons, etc (but no love messages) to her husband's phone? My kids and I bear one of his other names. I showed my close relatives only his photo (so they can avoid sleeping with him, which would be incest) but kept his real names and other details to myself (so they won't accidentally spill the beans to someone who knows the wife).

Mrs A: Now I understand why today's mistresses do not continue to wait for their own husbands. It's not easy to frequent the surgical theatre without a child to show for it, while some other women gloat about having all their children vaginally. You can't wait for a divorcé or widower at an advanced age without wishing another woman divorced or prematurely dead. I wish all mistresses are as reasonable as you are. Some of them wish us dead so that they can take over, not knowing the problems we domiciled wives face.

Mrs B: What problems?

Mrs A: While you may occasionally bemoan your teenage son's lack of a full-time father, you have only you and your children to feed most of the time. We domiciled wives must always put food on the table for our husbands and in-laws, regardless of an inadequate housekeeping allowance. If we complain to our in-laws, they call us our husbands' destiny-stealers. Feeding is more expensive than the rent and school fees our husbands pay to keep up appearances. You can't hide your phone and investment documents from a live-in husband, while you are advised to leave his own phone alone for peace to reign. That's why single mothers build their own personal houses faster than we domiciled wives do. My husband always reminds me that he built our house alone but forgets the heavy financial burden (of feeding, rent, school fees, etc) I carried while he paid for the building (which is in his name alone). Whenever I hear that he has another woman somewhere, I dread his bringing her home and sending me packing out of a house we both laboured to build. Some men endanger our lives by bringing their mistresses home while we are away, or sleeping with our friends, househelps, etc. No man will come and beat you up at your place the way he beats up his wife at home. That's why we wives throw tantrums and appear selfish and wicked to you mistresses. All our husband's mistresses know us from our husband's social media accounts and feel threatened when we visit their neighbourhoods for church evangelism, parties, visiting friends and relatives, etc. We may even stroll into their salon to make our hair after we finish shopping. They will think we are tracking them down when we really haven't known them as our rivals.

Mrs B: Thanks for enlightening me in turn. Now I know how the other half lives. My teenage son interacts with good father figures at their best through good books and church programmes. My male relatives also answer his personal questions. After all, orphans survive the same way.

................................

I hope we have all learnt something from this conference. Have a nice day.

[color=#000099][/color]

While a couple is married, the husband usually goes out to work while the wife takes care of the children and the home. After a divorce, how should the roles be shared?

In most African lands, the father takes custody of the children and fends for them, while the mother goes away alone like a single lady. While this will make it easier for her to remarry, the father can't stay home all day and so leaves the children behind with a stepmother while going to work. He won't be able to supervise her treatment of his kids and be able to confirm or refute any allegation of ill-treatment. As a result, a bad stepmother maltreats the children or a good stepmother is maligned out of jealousy.

Children are usually better off with their mother. Even if she remarries, she will be the one to spend more time with the children than their stepfather will. He will, therefore , have no opportunity to ill-treat them in her absence. Their father can always send money into their mother's bank account and mentor the children via phone calls, online messages,etc as they grow up. The e-statements of account and the online chats will show that the father did his duty by the children in spite of the divorce.

We rarely hear about the wicked stepfather because he is unlikely to be alone with the children in their mother's absence. He can't starve them, since their mother is the cook who will get the feeding allowance from him.

................

If the mother gets custody and the father pays maintenance as described above, children will adjust better to life after their parents' divorce. Also, no stepmother will be able to maltreat them (or be wrongly accused of maltreating them , in a bid to send her packing and reunite their biological parents). Rather than be wrongly called a wicked stepmother, some women would rather live outside (like mistresses) to bear and rear their kids until their stepchildren grow up and leave home.

In the Bible, mothers usually got custody of their children (including sons) after a divorce (Genesis 21:9-21 ; Ezra 10:44).

Kingbenn:
This is what happens when you keep jumping ships, Naija which way? We need to put an end to cross carpeting of our politicians

Seconded. People who stick to one party, like Tinubu (APC) and Wike (PDP), are unlikely to make such a silly mistake.

jeromestarks:
There are plenty virgins in town. Not all girls lack home training.


Assuming you met two ladies (serah & Sandra) who both have "good characters" that suit you but serah is a virgin while Sandra has been fvcked by many men.


Who would you use your hard earned money to pay her bride price?

There are wise and foolish virgins (The Bible at Matthew 25). Some virgin brides become promiscuous later and there won't be any physical sign to expose them. Jesus' ancestresses include both Virgin Mary and former harlot Rahab (Matthew 1:5,16 ; Joshua 2:1).

Besides, virginity can be faked nowadays. Some girls are born without a hymen. Some hymens stretch without breaking during sex and bounce back to the entrance as the man withdraws. Others break but grow back after a year's abstinence. Google HYMEN for confirmation.

Virginity does not prevent people from becoming murderers, like this killer wife we are discussing. She did not commit adultery.

If a virgin bride is deflowered by rapists on her wedding night before her husband touches her, should he divorce her?

Some women cannot live in peace with their in-laws and neighbours, let alone rivals. If you must have more than one wife, keep them far apart and maybe even unknown to each other.

You cannot hide from a business or workplace rival without losing your customers or job. But you can easily hide from a love rival and still keep your man.

Until I see her suicide note written in her own handwriting, I believe she was killed by her husband or the incoming new wife (who also wants the monopoly Esther had enjoyed when newly married).

Newyorkitis:
No be to rush follow oyibo for everything abeg.
Otherwise, very very soon, brothers go begin to marry their sisters based on sperm donations up and down.
By then, science go come again with the health complications from incest.

That is why birth defects are more common in the western countries than here.

Dear doctor,

I am 36 years old and lost a 2-month pregnancy in September 2021. Two fetal sacs and placental tissue were expelled before the 11-day bleeding stopped. I started menstruating regularly the very next month.

However, I haven't been able to get pregnant again. Also, my belly is getting bigger (despite doing belly-trimming exercises before the fertile days of every cycle). Any extra live foetus would have been detected, by its movements, and even been born by now. Please, what can I do to regain my normal figure and get pregnant again? Thanks.

Kingozymandias:
My goodness .. the way things are going these guys will soon start hijacking planes...

This is what their mentors did to the USA on September 11, 2001.

Never flaunt a man who hasn't married you on social media. If you break up, people will start counting your number of boyfriends. Remember that our society is sexually stricter on women than men. Deleting a post on your social media page does not delete its notifications from your friends' email boxes.

TUTU147:
Good one,all officers should enjoy the same privileged but housing male adult that is not a police officer is against the rules of the barracks.It is a big security threat,but this new reformation is ok as long as it will not affect the security situation of the barracks.

So housing female adult civilians in barracks can pose no risk ? Even children as young as 5 can be used as child soldiers illegally, let alone adult women.

Ejecting policewomen with civilian husbands and keeping policemen's civilian wives will translate to fewer armed people that can defend the station in case of attacks from outside.

Fellow widowed-more-than-once pastors, like Ituah Ighodalo, should come and console Taiwo Odukoya.

jesusjnr2020:
Perhaps he shouldn't get married again.

He and his new wife-to-be should go for serious deliverance before marriage. Yoruba people believe that a person who fell from his/her mother's back as a baby will be widowed thrice in a row. I don't know Pastor Taiwo's background but he needs serious prayers after Bimbo's and Nomthi's deaths.

The hymen is the piece of skin sometimes covering a female human's vagina. It varies considerably in shape and elasticity, but is generally either stretched or torn during the first attempt at sexual intercourse. A virgin is someone who has never had sex. Contrary to popular belief, an intact hymen is not a conclusive proof of a woman's virginity.

1. NOT EVERY VIRGIN HAS A HYMEN.
Some babies are born without a hymen. They were not deflowered from the womb, were they? Of course not.
2. MOST HYMENS HAVE ONE OR MORE OPENINGS, TO ALLOW THE OUTFLOW OF MENSTRUAL BLOOD AND VAGINAL DISCHARGE. A hymen without any opening (i.e. an imperforate hymen) needs to be perforated to allow menstrual flow. The various types of hymen are depicted in the picture attached to this article.
3. NOT EVERYONE WITH AN INTACT HYMEN IS A VIRGIN. As stated earlier, a hymen is either stretched or torn during the first attempt at sexual intercourse. A woman in her teens or 20s usually has an inelastic hymen that breaks easily and bleeds at penetration. Even then, new tissue grows to fill up the hymen within 6-12 months of abstinence from sex or any other penetrative activity, making her pass for a virgin again. (a) If you are a woman who has just been used and dumped, abstain from sex for the next 6 months, keeping any new suitor as a platonic friend. Then squat, part your inner labia and check your vaginal opening with a mirror. There is no harm in experimenting with abstinence. (Virgins should not experiment with sex or married women starve their husbands sexually in order to carry out this experiment). (b) If you are a man, staying away from your wife for 6-12 months and then checking her vaginal opening can confirm her fidelity or otherwise ONLY IF her hymen is the inelastic type. An elastic hymen will always bounce back into place after sex and fool you.
The hymen of a woman in her 30s usually becomes very elastic, due to exposure to higher amounts of estrogen. It (whether "follow-come" or regrown) usually stretches (sometimes all the way to the cervix) without breaking during sex and bounces back to the vaginal entrance afterwards. It can allow deep penetration and let semen flow into the womb for pregnancy to occur. Unless she or her lover learns to stretch her hymen with her fingers (by pushing in the finger and letting it stay there for a few minutes before slowly removing it and going to another spot on the hymen) regularly before sex, penile penetration will be more difficult for her each time she has sex than for a younger lady (whose hymen will quickly break and stay that way unless she goes on a long sex fast) because the typical guy will thrust in fast.
...............................................

So there you are. Only a woman knows for sure whether she is still a virgin or not. Don't ask her unless you are ready to believe whatever she chooses to tell you. Her current moral values and her health status (HIV status, genotype, blood group,etc) matter more than her virginity (which can be lost through rape). If you are about to marry a woman you haven't slept with, take her for a pregnancy test to prevent paternity fraud.

If the baby was switched at birth, its DNA will not match the mother's too, declaring her innocent of paternity fraud.

This particular NWACHUKWU is not a "child of God ". His surname should be changed.

faithfull18:
Hahahah, next time you run for your life when a married man approaches you.


Same should be done to the randy he-goat called her husband.

faithfull18:
And where was it stated in the writeup that the married woman did?

If the single lady couldn't respect herself enough not to stoop to sleeping around with married men then she should accept whatever comes out of it.

To every action, there are consequences, good or bad.

Unless the side chick was at their wedding or sees them together as a couple in the neighbourhood or church, she may not know he is married. Most married men claim to be single to get decent spinsters and reduce their chances of getting STDs. They often give her fake names to prevent being traced on social media. They make their family pictures on Facebook visible to friends only so that the wife (naturally a Facebook friend) will see the pictures and feel secure while women who are not their friends will be deceivable.

Face your husband. HE knows he is married. If you keep fighting other women, you will meet your match one day. Will you kill your child or sister if your husband rapes her?

The wife spared the side chick because the incident happened in the side chick's house and fighting a houseowner can land her in jail. But if her husband is the owner of their marital house, he will eject her when they get back home.

TheGidRedpiller:
I agree with the fact that women are utmostly needed for procreating which is one of our main essenses in life, but you see we have baby mamas now, yea women are that stupid and they will continue to be, only wise men would take advantage of that, i just need a woman to do the birthgiving for me, i don't need to bring in a stranger into my life because i want to build a home!
And just so you know, we are not suffering from rejection, we've been getting the pvvssy since day 1, we just want to stop being the pawns women play around selfishly! EDUCATION!

Without marriage, children belong to the mother. Most baby mamas can rear their children alone and won't even tell you you're the father, so you won't force them to abort or take the child away from them to a stepmother. Only lazy ladies are desperate for marriage. #STRICTLY BLUEPILL.

Try to block the blocker and see the response you will get from WhatsApp. You cannot block someone who has blocked you first.

This is too stressful. You will leave all your Whatsapp groups and have to reapply just because of your hater?


If you are that desperate to stalk the person, download Dual Space from Google Play,etc and use it to clone the Whatsapp app. Then use the new Whatsapp to create a new account with a different phone number with a different profile picture (or none at all). You can use the new account to check a blocker's new profile picture but not his or her status updates , since (s)he doesn't have your new number on his contact list.


DO NOT MESSAGE OR CALL HIM/HER, TO AVOID ANOTHER BLOCKAGE.

Hintona:
Any man who insists his partner must shave her pubic region is a paedophile

Seconded. Trimming the pubic hair should be good enough.Pubic hair is a sign of sexual maturity. Only children have totally-hair-free genitals.