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Politics › Re: Imo: Okigwe Police Station Burnt As Gunmen Kill Five Policemen, Abduct One by Adeboyefa(f): 12:04am On Apr 27, 2021

Abdul05:
Burn down the whole state.

Go ahead boys, you're doing some thing great.

Romance › Re: Brother Who Married Fiancée Of Murdered Air Force Officer Speaks (pics) by Adeboyefa(f): 11:20am On Mar 24, 2021

tophumble:
The simple truth is that this guy will still get married to the girl friend who is still in secondary school when she is set for marriage in the next five years.

Abi wetin he find go the late brother fiance place, he want to enjoy what his brother is enjoying.

This is called arrangee marriage

You're right. Their religion allows polygamy and divorce. He will marry both if they get on well with each other but divorce the inherited woman on flimsy excuses if she doesn't get on well with his real choice.

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Politics › Re: Newspaper Vendors Blame Online Media For Drop In Sales by Adeboyefa(f): 9:35pm On Feb 06, 2021

Online publications protect you from contracting Covid-19,unlike print newspapers which pass through several hands before reaching the final buyer.

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Romance › Re: Should I Marry A Divorcee wih Two Children or Opt To Be His Baby Mama For N10m? by Adeboyefa(f): 3:50pm On Jan 17, 2021

If you can't find an unattached man, be a side chick rather than a stepmother. Even if his ex-wife has remarried, she will want to come back if her 2nd marriage breaks up rather than go for a 3rd husband and will use her kids to drive you out. No stepmother is ticked right by her stepchildren; she is always perceived to be partial to her own kids (who are all younger than her stepchildren).

Romance › Re: Pastor Ibiyeomie: If You Are Not Married At 35, You Are An Irresponsible Person by Adeboyefa(f): 8:20pm On Dec 30, 2020

Pastor, was Apostle Paul irresponsible? Jesus Christ was unmarried but died before age 35. That's why I didn't mention him.

Crime › Re: Father Kills His Son In Ebonyi, 2nd Son Retaliates, Kills Him by Adeboyefa(f): 9:39am On Dec 30, 2020

BeeBeeOoh:
Murdering A Murderer That Murdered Someone.

This is the real explanation of Two Wrongs Doesn't Make A Right.

Watery beans and iron bar's will be smiling sheepishly at the second son right now

Should he have waited to be killed by his father who, like any other criminal, wouldn't want any eyewitness to escape and expose him?

Romance › Re: This Is Why Ladies Above 30 Are The Easiest To Bleep by Adeboyefa(f): 12:34pm On Dec 12, 2020

You can't force an unwilling partner to stay with you. Even legally documented marriages are dissolved even if the party to be dumped is shown to be innocent of the charges raised. The divorce is granted in order to prevent spousal murder. Don't overrely on any human being in the first place. You survived without him for your first 20 or so years of life, didn't you?

Romance › Re: My Testimony by Adeboyefa(f): 3:34pm On Nov 18, 2020

Only a woman knows for sure whether she's still a virgin or not.

1. Some women were born without a hymen.
2. Some hymens are elastic enough to permit sex without breaking.
3. Even when the hymen breaks, new tissue grows to fill the void within 6 months of abstinence (hence the term "secondary virginity").

Don't ask a woman whether she is still a virgin or not, unless you are ready to believe whatever she chooses to say.

Romance › Re: Kenyan Lady Blasts Husband's Mistress, Shares Their Romance Photos by Adeboyefa(f): 3:09pm On Nov 18, 2020

Now that you have scared other suitors away from her by exposing her online, be ready to accept her as your husband's second wife.

Crime › Re: Man Beheads Girlfriend After Sex Romp In Ogun State by Adeboyefa(f): 11:29pm On Nov 07, 2020

donjosh47:
This one weak me oo

If the man had beheaded the woman, who locked the door from behind?

This issue deserves critical thinking

Maybe he used a key to lock the room door from outside after killing the woman. The door probably had only a keyhole without a catcher.

Romance › Re: She Denies Me Sex, And She Sleeps Naked On My Bed by Adeboyefa(f): 8:23pm On Oct 24, 2020

If she gets pregnant for another guy tomorrow and he denies her, she will try to pin the baby on you and your neighbors will believe her. Be wise.

Romance › Re: Why Are Single Mothers Not Proud Of Their Child(ren)? by Adeboyefa(f): 6:38am On Oct 20, 2020

DenreleDave:
Have u ever encountered a lady and she never told you that she has a child?

How did you find out that she has a child?

Is men rejection the reason they lie about their child?

If they are not proud of such kid, why not abort them at early stage of pregnancy?

My encounter:
I met with a very pretty lady at the bus stop. Actually I don't really know how to approach a lady on motion either on street or bus stop. (To the guys dt can toast ladies anywhere anytime, I respect you ooo ). The tfare was high during the time they allowed movement In corona time. So her tfare wasn't complete and she approached me for help. I gave her wat on me but it wasn't enough. So I helped her search for a bus dt will collect less n thankfully we found one. I collected her number n we waved goodbye. Later during the week, she came over to my place, we talked and she left.. The following week she came again and as we were on bed (don't think far oo, just on bed, she was using my phone) and I saw sumtin like a stitched mark line on the lower part of her stomach..

Mind you, whenever I call her, I always hear the sound of a baby boy beside her almost all time. So if I ask her, she will say it's her baby sister... But whenever we are talking, she keep telling me she can't trust men jare. What they did to her sis and so on.. Now her sister has a baby and so on Sha.

Personally I don't even have any issue with single mothers Cox I love kids so Much , so if u tell me u av a kid and u r a singles mother, I know some guys hate such thing here but for me, I don't have any problem with it at all. . So there was a day I was seeing her off and she stopped by a place to buy children cloth (boy own to be precise). She was even asking if it will fit a 2 or 3 years old boy Sha...

Then i knew she had a kid. The line under her Tommy was probably an operation.. She probably gave birth through surgery BUT why is she lying to me. It has happened already, no going back. If you are not proud of your own child, then you should be avoided..

Yes. If there is a single lady that is not proud of her kid, such lady is not marriageable. If she can deny her kid, then she has no problem denying u at any point in time.. The man that will marry you will surely marry you. Be clear to him from the start, if he wants to stay, he will stay...

DenreleDave ™

yomi007k:
Why didn't you just ask her, Detective?

The scars may have come from fibroid surgery, appendix surgery, etc. Ask her first and visit her sister and "nephew" as well.

Romance › Re: Lady Who Got Pregnant At 23 As A Virgin Without Penetrative Sex (pics) by Adeboyefa(f): 8:35pm On Oct 04, 2020

Most hymens have a hole big enough to allow menstrual blood and vaginal discharge to leave the female body. Such a hole will also allow some of the semen spilled on the hymen to flow into the vagina even without any penile penetration.

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Romance › Re: 'I Am The Reason Your Boyfriend Is Always Coming Home Late' - Lady by Adeboyefa(f): 10:02am On Sep 23, 2020

ednut1:
We may reach the point in future where once u see na female pikin u order an abortion. Spits

Then all the boys will grow up to become homosexuals when they see no females to marry.

Politics › Re: Obaseki Extends Olive Branch To Oshiomhole, Ize-iyamu; Says Fight Is Over by Adeboyefa(f): 9:44am On Sep 23, 2020

Don't cross back to the APC, abeg .

Crime › Re: Sadiq Abdullahi: Bandits Kill DSS Officer After Receiving N5m Ransom In Katsina by Adeboyefa(f): 9:14pm On Sep 15, 2020

MajorOvakporaye:
Serves him right!!!
Is his wife still alive?

"Please come and assist us in our investigations " - DSS.

Crime › Re: South African Bride Ignores Death Threats, Murdered On Wedding Eve by Adeboyefa(f): 11:52pm On Sep 11, 2020

Zeze06:

Just check all Exs from her failed relationships, start with the father of her children...

But how can you love someone so much and still kill her??

If I love you so much, I'll never kill you, I'll just keep killing every guy that wants to marry you...

I just hate it when a pretty girl dies....

Using your reasoning, she was probably killed by her groom's ex.

Romance › Re: Will You Attend You Ex's Wedding When Invited? by Adeboyefa(f): 10:36pm On Sep 03, 2020

I can't go there and be the prime suspect if anything goes awry there. I will only like his wedding pictures online afterwards and write "Congratulations " on his timeline for all to see, as evidence of good will.

Romance › Re: Should I Go To My Ex Wedding by Adeboyefa(f): 10:31pm On Sep 03, 2020

Don't go there, please. You will be the prime suspect if anything goes awry there. Like her wedding pictures online and write "Congratulations " for all to see, as evidence of good will.

Family › Re: Hear The Cry Of A Single Mother by Adeboyefa(f): 10:06pm On Sep 03, 2020

Your aunt is unmarried and you expect her to feed you and your child without complaining forever? She doesn't have the requisite experience to play the role of a grandma well. She is wondering when she will get married and have her own child too.

Forget about her and find a way to look after yourself and your child.

Romance › Re: Men! This Is Why You Should Never Marry A Non-virgin by Adeboyefa(f): 8:39pm On Aug 27, 2020

Only a woman knows for sure whether she's still a virgin or not.

1. Some women were born without a hymen.

2. Some hymens are elastic enough to permit sex without breaking.

3. Even when the hymen breaks, new tissue grows to fill the void within 6 months of abstinence (hence the term "secondary virginity").

Don't ask a woman whether she is still a virgin or not, unless you are ready to believe whatever she chooses to say.

Romance › Don't Be A Boring Girlfriend. by Adeboyefa(op): 10:41pm On Aug 23, 2020

To know how committed your man is to your relationship, try these experiments. You need photo-editing and background-clearing apps (e.g. Polish and Automatic Background Eraser),which you can download and install from your phone's app store, for these experiments.

EXPERIMENT 1

(a) Download his picture in suit from any of his social media accounts and clear the picture's background.
(b) Take a picture of yourself in a white dress and veil, holding flowers like a bride. Clear the photo's background too.
(c) Select both no-background photos and give them a suitable common background, sliding your figures close enough to appear as if you took the picture together in the first place.
(d) Send this "white wedding" picture to him privately by Whatsapp, email, Facebook message, etc and watch his reaction.

EXPERIMENT 2

(a)Download his picture in traditional wear from any of his social media accounts and clear the picture's background.
(b) Buy and sew an identical (or a very similar) cloth for yourself , if you don't have one already. Take a picture in the attire and clear the picture background.
(c)Select both no-background photos and give them a suitable common background, sliding your figures close enough to appear as if you took the picture together in the first place.
(d) Send this "traditional wedding" picture to him privately by Whatsapp, email, Facebook message, etc and watch his reaction.
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NOTE : (a)These experiments will expose a man who is married but pretends to be single and a single man who has no serious intentions towards you. It's a way of asking, "Do you ever intend to marry me?" (b) Don't post these photos publicly (as a Facebook post or profile picture, Whatsapp profile picture or status update, etc) until you are married to each other. (c) Don't try these experiments if you know he is married to another woman.

Romance › Re: Why Don't Women Like Revealing Their Age? by Adeboyefa(f): 8:33pm On Jul 07, 2020

It's not women alone who reduce their ages. Both sexes reduce their ages on their CVs in order to get good jobs due to the high rate of unemployment.

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Romance › Re: My 30-Year-Old Brother Wants To Marry A 43-Year-Old Woman & I'm Not Endorsing It by Adeboyefa(f): 10:35pm On Jul 03, 2020

Preciousgirl:
My 30 year old brother is going to marry a 43 year old woman. The woman is never married before and has no kids but been in 7 different past relationships.

I am not endorsing this, what do you advise?

She is too old for your brother but may be young enough for your husband. Why are most women one another's worst enemies? A spinster above 30 is unlikely to find a man who is both single and older than her. Most older men are married and most single men are younger. Do you want her to wait for somebody's death or divorce in order to get an older and unattached man to marry?

Mind your own business, please.

Romance › Re: When Your Boyfriend Wants To Have Sex With You Even In Your Period(photo) by Adeboyefa(f): 8:46pm On Jun 10, 2020

Some guys are like that. If you don't want sex during menses, don't enter your man's room during the period. Make any excuse to cover those days. Some men can't control themselves after petting.

Sex during menses blocks blood flow and increases the woman's risk of endometriosis.

Crime › Re: "My Aunt Watched While Men She Brought Slept With Me" - 20-Year-Old Girl by Adeboyefa(f): 10:07pm On May 23, 2020

Waltonz:
My people Igbos, open that link and read this news carefully. You will see how these afonjas cut and paste different fonts to concoct these news just to paint you bad like they enjoy doing. Have many Igbos do you know that answer "Chukwu" only as last name? Very rare, Chukwu is mostly added to Igbo first names, not last name.

What of Christian Chukwu?

Family › Re: My Dead Uncle's Wife Needs Children From Me by Adeboyefa(f): 11:48am On May 22, 2020

clintz:
In the Bible book of genesis 38 God kill Onan for refusing to impregnate his late brothers wife. Nigerian Christians and hypocrisy we select only what we think is right in the Bible.

A brother-in-law is free to reject his brother's widow without being killed (Deuteronomy 25: 5 - 10). Ruth was rejected by her late husband's closest male relative ("to avoid ruining my own inheritance ",according to him) before marrying Boaz (Ruth 3:9 -4:10). It is a sin to marry a woman you know you won't be able to provide for (1 Timothy 5: 8 ).

Onan was killed because he CHOSE to marry Tamar (in order to inherit her late husband's property) and then refused to let her get pregnant. He was a dog in the manger, who wanted all of Er's property to go to his own children by other women, shortchanging both Er and Tamar. This is unlike Ruth's in-law, who forfeited both Ruth and her husband's property to Boaz (Ruth 4: 3 - 6).

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Family › Re: Why Are Pregnant Women Exposing Their Bumps These Days? (photos) by Adeboyefa(f): 1:12pm On May 16, 2020

whys:
So that nairalanders will not accuse them of using surrogates like they accused madam Jonathan, Beyonce, bayelsa gov'no wife etc etc etc. ..

Jay542:
So y'all would know they didn't adopt

Why don't they keep the photos on their phones (or email boxes or Facebook inboxes) only until they give birth safely and then upload them along with the baby photos for the world to see?

Romance › Re: Breach Of Promise To Marry by Adeboyefa(f): 11:30am On May 14, 2020

You can't force someone to love you and stay by you. Even if you are married with 5 kids and your husband insists on divorce, the courts will grant the divorce (after giving enough room for reconciliation) to prevent spousal murder.

It hurts but you will eventually get over it.

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