Yeah, totally agree with u on all the points you mentioned here. All the same I feel it is a good omen that he has come back to his sense. Yeah, my point is, even if he is breaking up with her, this should not lead to disruption in his marriage. just think. Thanks for commenting

Politicos:
I am pleased that you admitted that this is a movie. I will comment nonetheless.

One, your friend is a betrayer. He has betrayed his wife's trust.

Two, your friend is a cheat. He has cheated on his wife whom he expects to be faithful.

Three, your friend is a sinner. He has sinned against GOD and his body.

Now that he has created a mess, why is he so frantic about ending it without his wife's knowledge? It means he knows that he has been involved in something immoral. What is the lesson here? A good wife at home would manage whatever you have to offer, but a mistress in the dark alley wouldn't.

Break up the illicit sexual bond! If his wife finds out, he should face the consequences of his sexual escapades.

Finally, there is no lovely way to end a bad relationship. Just end it, that's all!

Dumping her u said?

Oma307:
He should end it d way he started, perhap wen he ws enjoying it, he didnt us, so is wen problems start dt dey will cum 2 tell us. By d way, do u tink d wife will nt later knw, cos deir relationship is based on moni

Thanks for this piece. He is also reading this as we post

KashyBaby:
Ur friend is in a deep sh!t.. how long they been together? Does this lady knows he got his own family?
This situation is too complicated..if he want to dump this lady,he must talk to this lady in person & he shud stop seeing her and change his number..

Ok, he too is reading along

Oma307:
He should end it d way he started, perhap wen he ws enjoying it, he didnt us, so is wen problems start dt dey will cum 2 tell us. By d way, do u tink d wife will nt later knw, cos deir relationship is based on moni

Is that all u would say....

Highcuerayte:
I have nothing to say than

.End time family

Hi All,
I wish to request your advice for a friend who narrated his ordeal to me yesterday in relation to his relationship with a female friend.
Here is the story according to him:

He is married with kids and was not satisfied with his wife who he complained to me severally would always put up quarrels some resolved while some went unresolved.

In the context, he met another young lady whom he felt needed help as the lady came from a poor background and could not move on with life (though he told me the lady was a mother of 2 but a single mother). Both of them agreed to start a relationship while my friend started spending heavily on the lady, got her into the University (Uniben precisely) and both were happily moving on while the guy still manage his home. He also took responsibility of 1 from the 2 kids in terms of education and welfare. Things went on fine..

As u will agree with me, time is the best factor to test anything on earth. Suddenly the young man had issues in his office (Bank) where he works and he was asked to stay at home until the management would conclude their investigation on the issue. Aoch u said? This led him to having financial difficulties and could not spend heavily on the woman as he used to do.

The young woman now on 300Level one day invited my friend to her house for lunch which he honoured in good faith. She requested a sum of N15,000 as my friend got to depart her house, but he pleaded with her to understand the situation that he could only afford N4,000. This was not okay with the lady in question who threw off the handle and started calling my friend names and even didnt tell him thank you for the 4k he offered her.

The point is this,my friend asked my to advise him on how best he can call it quit with the woman without conflicts as he doesnt want his wife in the movie.

Please advise my friend on how best he can handle this situation....

I had told him too to sign up on Nairaland in order for him to read directly from you guys in the house.

HBD, long life and prosperity...U shall live to witness joys and happiness on earth Hurray

boboLIL:

Zandora, Happy Sunday to u out there.

I appreciate ur open mindedness and clarity of facts you are doing on this thread. I must say, u are doing a great job helping others turning their dreams to reality.

However, I wish to seek you opinion on my stance and position for the past 2 years as a dreamer.

Education: I am holding a OND and HND in Statistics with good grades

Career: I work currently as a Statistician and a Project Assistant (19 years) in the Government. Though, I in the past headed some other position in the private Sector (Supply Chain Management - 2 years). Also worked on several international researches from the United Kingdom.

Marriage: Married with 2 kids and a wife

My Quest: For the past two year now I have been pessimistic of this dream as a result of the noise from those claiming to be agents of the Canadian govt in Nigeria. Reading your posts here some weeks ago was like a ginger in my spirit towards this migration stuff.
Do u think or know whether:

1. My educational background (Certificates) is qualify for the Canadian stuff?
2. My career is relevant to the environment given the Canadian govt regulations?

And If I am eligible, advise on how to go about it....

Thanks and looking forward to read from you soon.

DNY

Spare the rod and spoil the child...U cannot do but tilt ur child in the direction u feel would be better for them in the nearest future...

OP, I bet to disagree on ur point....Beating a child, scolding and the rest are part of training..... I mean here in Naija....Just dont think u wanna spare the rod.....ull end up regretting it.....

We are parents not at the mercy of the children...if care is not taken, the same child would blame the parent in future

Space booked, to comment later.

Let me ask ma wify if I gat those qualities

Hey House, Thanks for this thread, it was a friend of mine that informed me about this thread since he knew my ambition to relocate to Canada. I will start mine asap.

Y not from Sudan?

Estharfabian:
it's Official!!

I'm DISOWNING Nigeria... I'm officially from NewYork...

Way too many Mental Patients in Nigeria... God!

Yes, it is possible to earn more than that even.

Elucidate:

My take is on doing something for yourself and not that u are employed by someone else. Most employers today would offer u something less than N50k as an ND holder.

Sample:
I am very optimistic that if you are doing something that worths it for yourself, u can even earn around a 100k monthly. As an online entrepreneur, I earn even as extral income around that monthly...so if some ppu can do it y cant u? I know of several Nigerians that are doing well even with NCE certificate...

It all depends on your mindset.....Success in ur endeavours

Thanks, very informative

Try babypips.com

amajato:
I'm still waiting for my helper

Its been a long way without u foks, ill tell u all abt it when i see u again..

Keep d fx fire burning...love yah all

God bless ur generation for that

Bonapart:
Chief of democracy
Father of Africa nation
Example of all

No trace of blood and baboon in him

We love you sir: Nigeria last true president as it stand

Dont mind them....

All u need is a simple patient, gbuashhh...u don land in the promised land..gbagam

youmour:
This land is not for sale




Everywhere boobs boobs boobs,yansh yansh yansh,later this same women go dey complain about loyalty,loyalty my left testicles...the thunder when go strike all of una never ripe

In 1980s to 90s, HOmosexuality was a purnishable offence in the US

In the Millenium, US now legalize Homosexuality.... To hell with GAYSM

We support Mugabe and strongly we are African and not animals

Mr. President, u can do better


Let's av another arrangement

@OP, pls send d gurls number to.me....I want that kinda spell....

D guy nah rubbish now, he get good access card and he dey.cry....

Chei, abegi, send d gurl to.me for Niger State

Your.friend must be a fool.to.still.plan marryg d girl.

I don run teh teh

Na.lie @OP, don't tell.me u were singg Craig David "Am walkg away" while the HAMMER don't rise.....haba

Chief Fayose, Lion of Budillon, Ekun oko.Ekiti, Osokomole 1 ur reign will be.peaceful....yarn them.sense

Northerners released evil on innocent naijaz, sword will never depart from the households of everyone that sponsored the boko haram...Family members of boko boys will not know rest......Northern Nigeria will beg for peace for what u did to the school girls in Jesus name. AMEN

May ur days be blessed for avertg the bloodshed planned by d propapandists.

I just love this guy..I don't know y

The best cap to wear is money management...
always trade small lot sizes.

jorel1:
Probably he was refering to the doubled risk with pair correlation trades ,just incase u happen to be wrong with EURUSD sell,you would lose on USDCHF buy as well.

It is not uncommon ds days to have them dressed like such during sunday service. In fact, most of them would come to service late just for them to be noticed by guys and pastors alike...

But for the true believers, these Jezebels has no place

Please learn more,
NOUN has been approved by NYSC

Google it

Donpizzle:


My people perish due to lack of knowledge. Fortunately dat post was written in the bible for u. U re proud of a school dat u cant serve afta schooling??..its a pity. Crying

As FX traders, we are trained to cut our losses whenever the case arise.

I suggest u close opened position, If the loss is within reasonable margin. Remeber, WEEKEND GAPS

My 2 PIPs boss

jorel1:
Market isn't obviousy moving any direction today for long term traders, pending on news results over the weekend i am left with two options
Leave positions open with a set stop loss and gamble on long or short (Lose all profits if negative,nice winnings if +ve) or just close all positions till monday.

On your tail boss

iheanyiebeneze:
Considering USDCAD NOW...

I just did on EU pair,

Still holding GU with hopes

iheanyiebeneze:
If you have not exited, exit now @ 25pips @1.14350