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Except you are planning to move to bigger apartment, though i believe you can do without a maid with proper planning and your husband's support.

xristos:
Thanks so much for this....
But ure also saying Maid idea would'nt work in this scenario??

Since you are yet to start the job, start snooping around for a good creche preferably one that operates from their home. This will help you not to be under pressure on days when you are stuck in traffic. Go and invest in good food flasks that keep food warm for long. Draw up a timetable to avoid the stress of thinking of what to cook, that thing can give you migraine. Start investing in home appliances like freezer, washing machine, microwave, blender, electric kettle, they will make your life easier. Discuss with your husband, you will be needing his help and understanding. I am a married woman with 2 children, i work however my husband is a very good support system and he is understanding. We all leave home together, drop the children in school before heading to our respective offices. School bus picks our children and drops them at the creche and i pick them on my way home. I cook meals for everyone to take to work and school, the children take breakfast before leaving home and I also pack lunch for their after school. Assignments are done at the creche while i crosscheck when we get home. Hubby and I eat whatever we can lay our hands on in the evening. I do meal preparation before going to bed to save time the following morning. I do monthly bulk buying, I can't be going to market on a daily basis. Laundry is done on friday night, ironing on sunday. What i am trying to say is overtime, you will have established a routine that makes things easy for you. Easier said than done, but can be done. All the best. Don't forget to pray along as you search for creche, ask questions from their current customers and their neighbours, ask your friends and neighbours for recommendation. You'll be fine.

Op, this is not enough reason for your marriage to fall apart. Communication in marriage is key, hence you need to let your wife see reason why the children should learn to sleep in their room apart from your need for sex. I am married with two kids, my children share a room while my husband and i have ours. I made conscious effort to make my children stay in their bed the moment they are weaned off breast, because children naturally will want to cuddle if you allow them. Let your wife know you are willing to work with her in getting the children used to their bed, also assist her in attending to the children once in while so the burden of tending the children does not fall on her alone. For your 8 year old daughter, let her know she should sleep in her, she is not too young to talk to. For the 7 months old, let him eat well before going to bed, so you and your wife can have time for each other before he wakes. My 8 yr old and 6 yr old still come to our bed occasionally but once i notice them, i move them back to their bed and the following morning i talk to them about it. You will be fine but you also must be willing to put in the extra work. We mothers are always attached to our children, but moderation is key in everything. Hope this helps.

Sunday lunch of jollof rice, plantain, left over moimoi, coleslaw and and fish.

Thanks for this information, I just tried it now with the number attached to my BVN and I got my NIN. Please, does anyone know how I can get my children's NIN? I used my phone number for them?

Couldn't think of anything for dinner except this noodles and salad.

I have 2 children, hubby and I agreed to keep it at that. Considering what we pay for their education, feeding, clothing and upkeep generally. If you have a standard you want for your children, trust me you won't breed anyhow. It is better you have the number you can conveniently cater for without taking them to family and friends, not even with the cases of child abuse and molestation making the headlines lately.

Please, does anyone know where I can get this attached products especially the leave in conditioner. Jumia only sells the full combo and I have checked stores around me even justrite. Thanks.

I can see rice 8k. Why consume that much rice on a monthly basis? I have a family of 5 too which includes 3 adults and half bag of rice lasts 2 months. Look into feeding and see what you can reduce from there.
Consider what goes to the church too. Why give and then go home complaining? Reduce offering for now, cut development fee until you sef don develop.
Madam should also find something doing, present economy of Nigeria requires both husband and wife to put their resources together except you are dangote, otedola and co. Funnily their women work.

Palm oil rice and plantain

Both are similar only that Poundo potato is lighter than Poundo yam. The process of preparing it is also similar.

PhenomenalMorgan:
Poundo potato
I've been craving to try this out...
Can you give a run down on its similarity with poundo yam...

It's very nice and light also.

inmates:
How was the poundo potato? I've heard it's nice
Looks good

Tastes nice though it has a peculiar smell.

Akposy:
You mean coriander leaf? How does it taste like

Rice and Ebolo aka Coriander for dinner yesterday

Egusi for the win last weekend

Poundo potato and Edikaikong

I came across Farmkonnect on LinkedIn and their various investment plans available. I'll like to know if anyone has invested with them and also share your experience as i am interested. Thanks.

12k for the fridge.

xpizzy:
Bedside Fridge 18k
Set of Pots 10k

Yes, e worth the hype. Very light and no lumps at all.

AwkaetitiBabe:
How's the poundo potatoe? Worth d hype?

Price of bedside fridge and set of pots please?

xpizzy:
Pictures of Oven and pots

It's my first time trying the poundo potato and I really love it. My children who usually don't like eating swallow ate tonight without any fuss. I'll try Oat flour next.[quote author=sassysure post=82871040]

Dinner: Vegetable with fish stew and Poundo potato.