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budaatum:
I don't do "just chit chat". I have the problem of not being able to disengage my brain when discussing with people here because not using my brain is like me disrespecting you, which I would rather not do.

If you don't care about my gender, perhaps stop using it to frame your understanding of what I write that you read.

Since we are taking this issue seriously.... You will be hearing from my lawyers

Kobojunkie:
I didn't make up the rules here. The law I met here and it will likely remain here even after you and I are dead and gone. We are born into society and as such are expected to order our thoughts according to the common sense laws that society is established upon and not on just our whims towards self and others.

A person who disregards the law is usually considered to be foolish— lacking in wisdom. And we see daily how society treats people such as those.

Lol....

budaatum:
You are blinded.

You have no idea what my gender is, and I have no need to tell you since your assumption does not affect me one tiny iota.

Lol...come on!! .....affect you ?? As in?? Its just chit chat, no one really cares weda you are man or woman here...u could even identify as two legged donkey

Kobojunkie:
You don't get to decide what people can or cannot do.The world does not revolve around your particular preferences even in marriage. Learn this and gain necessary wisdom for yourself! 🙄🙄🙄

...so u are trying to claim you are sharing wisdom.... Lol

budaatum:
Actually, if you'd bothered reading the article you'd note she filed for a divorce, but the reason you never saw that is, I am a woman, I am a feminist, I blinded you.

U ddnt deny though.... so I wasn't blinded cos I technically was referring to you

Kobojunkie:
Shoulda, coulda, woulda arguments no dey tire you?

2. Are you a child? People don't usually have to do anything in your interest. Their interests usually come first and they expect you to decide whether you will accept them as they are or make changes appropriately. You should instead learn to protect yourself when you are not happy with a situation. 🙄🙄🙄

3. Yes you can change your MO whenever you wish. We are all human beings and change is a constant with us. What is out-of-character is pretending we will always remain the same throughout any situation or condition. 🙄🙄🙄

.same thing.....the more reason u have no business in the marriage... because it started to become all about u alone....

Kobojunkie:
There is NO LEGAL FRAME that allows for such cessation of that right in the case of marriage. So, whether a person is in a marriage— even in the case of a sexual companionship— or not in a marriage, that right remains — bodily autonomy — remains intact. That right to say NO remains no matter the situation.

Nobody is arguing body autonomy with you ..


But u shouldn't wait to be taken court for divorce after u decided to switch to a sexless marriage with a partner who still wants sex.....thats selfishness....u should take ur sexless marriage out of the marriage....

U cannot change the MO of the marriage and expect the marriage to remain the same and how you want it

Kobojunkie:
I was only pointing out there that marriage/companionship is not as one-dimensional in scope or definition as you seem to assume. As a result, in a situation where two individuals agree to marry without explicitly specifying no sex, they each continue to hold on to their bodily autonomy rights.

So, even if you chose to marry a prostitute in order that you can Bleep her brains out, in the end, she retains the right to say no to sex whenever she chooses to. And you are also well within your right to divorce her at that point too.

U have a right to ur body..... once u cease to be a sexual companion in a marriage to ur husband or wife who wants sex, should u be told before getting your sexless àss out of the union??

Kobojunkie:
There are many couples in asexual—no-sex —marriage agreements out there. Not all marriages are defined in the way you assume they are as people define companionship differently. So, for you to suggest that those who do not want sex should have nothing to do with marriage is absurd!

The context of this thread is obviously not about two pple agreeing to to have sex...so whats all these ur marriage with no sex about??

budaatum:
That's an odd rephrase of the question.

If I don't want to have sex with you my husband, indeed "blame" me. I am after all responsible for my choice not to have sex with you, though on deeper investigation it might be because you are actually lousy at sex or I just don't love you no more.

But the question here is, is it my duty to let you fuq me because we are married even if I don't want you to?

I guess u are woman...as usual...your negative action is never really urr fault...its always someone else that caused it....

U cheat...it's always ur husband that caused it.
Paternity fraud......ur husband made u do it..
Prostítution....men refused to help you...
Even murder....it's always some guy that made y'all do it...

If he's lousy at séx...and you dont want to fix it and u don't love him anymore..then walk away from the marriage ..

...but u want to remain in the marriage and pull your feminists shiit that u have a right to refuse sex as long as u want....

Kobojunkie:
1. No one should be blamed! If a man does not want to have sex, it's OK. And if a woman does not want to have sex, it is equally OK. If one partner decides to leave in order to seek sex with another partner, that is also OK.

2. Yawn! 🥱🥱🥱🥱

If u don't want to have sex...then in the first place u have no business in the arrangement called marriage where sex is part of being a companion...

budaatum:
What you think?

So who should be blamed for refusing to have sex with her husband..?? The state?? Her husband??

Over wokeness is just worrying feminists... Best thing is y'all should remain single.. not that u will get married and start looking for woke laws reinforce ur inability to be a good companion and friend to your partner

Babangidapikin:
This is wrong and completely insensitive .. Transgender has both male and female features ..Guess the Angels in charge of design was undecided.

U are confused

lawDanny:
Hahan. Scrap as how. I took it to cars 45 and it has bn scanned and verified. Check their site you will see the same car there for even a higher price. But I want it sold faster. That’s why I brought the price low and made it negotiable. I’m not out for millions in gain. Calm down Chief

U are a patient man.....

I wish I were this patient...... I'm just learning but excess vawulence full my blood.....

In reality nobody wants to raise anyone's kids..
Single mothers just expect men to be stvpid and accept what they won't advice their own sons...

Smile4mee01:
Is having PR/Citizen holding us back from having healthy relationships?

Don't be naive....only men can marry a jobless woman with no degree or nothing....women will mention all manner of standards and requirement with their full chest and y'all still believe they love you....

.....I dont like foreign women like that...but once u are abroad it's best to look away from nigerian women cos most have switch to street/survival mode because of papers

#men are stvpid...women are in business

tobby20:
But there is one pupularbuyer in crypto section that use wase9o as escarow . He buys at 1200 or so .

Buy and confirm naaa

tobby20:
So why are people buying at 1500 then

Scammers luring gullible sellers

Hisroyalbadmeat:
Women can't be Bishops, simple, The priesthood is for men, Wata Bam Bam

Why?? Is it because they have a vagina or becos women can't just do the Job??

AllMight:
She broke up with me recently and her next status update was, A picture of an anaconda next to a worm with the caption: "hung like a field mouse"

She dey compare the new guy penis to ur own...the guy carry anaconda

Thugnificent:
It's like you are having comprehension problems bro cos seriously WTF are you on about

Hahahahahahahaha!!!
U dey vex?? The guy just put ur comment in a broader perspective since u said he God doesn't care about what u do with your penis

Lol

Lol

RuddyFusion:
Doesn't sound as easy as you make it look. Not asking for any friendship the least is that proper onboarding to get you into your space properly. This is my first time of experiencing this sort of welcoming in a workplace so I don't have a precedent to learn on.

Baba onboard yourself..... Let ur work make u a force to reckon with....

Na by-force to famz with you...??
Oga ade...dem give you work do?
U send mail to ur colleagues, Dem nor respond? Abi na mouth u dey use ask for official help??
Your Computer dey work...??
Light dey?? AC dey work??
U get chair & Table??
Dem allow u use toilet abi u dey throw shot put??

Baba ....face ur work...collect your 700bar go house....nothing makes me smile more than my salary and impressive performance.....if u like nor greet me.....I nor dey look uche face

Sirchiboy:
Abeg I want to know if someone do like 5 rounds?

Yes and No...

..U need sustained blood flow to keep ur penis erect for you to go five rounds ....which is the job of your heart...

So Yes ...if each round is significantly long..u could put too much pressure on ur heart and burst an artery for going many rounds, especially if u have background heart problem u ddnt know about...

Maybe No...., if u are a 1 minute guy...so ur five rounds will just be 5 minutes anyway...which might not be too much problem for ur heart to manage, assuming u have a healthy heart...

DaughterOfAllah:
1> You argument commits a genetic fallacy, positing that because a practice has historical roots in a particular culture, it therefore invalidates it.

May be u missed it...my only reason is becos it's a direct copy yet always trying to invalidate and give itself validation by going into the same text it copied to call it lies....
I mean, you Muslims will call the bible false or adulterated and still use the same "false" text from the bible to validate his Quran when it's convenient for you....

DaughterOfAllah:
2> What puzzles me with your entire position is the fact that you don't seem to see how these exact same charges you've levelled against Islam could be similarly applied to Christianity.

u appear to be clinging to straws in a bid to defend what u claim u are no longer part of.....this is classic Muslim behavior...if u ask a Muslim why they kill innocent non-muslim, blowing up plane, using suicide bombers on planes and other places in the name of Allah in 2025, he will look for where Israelites went to war to justify it...

Daughterofallah......u claim christians text are copies...please if u have any pre christians text where there are accounts of of the gospel of Jesus, his miracles, message, disciples, their acts, and even the old testament, which includes the message of the creation , the chronicles of kings, and prophets' prophesy pointing to Jesus's coming, events to come in the future, etc please show it here
... ..... The Quran, on the other hand has most the account of scriptures and conveniently left out text they don't want to contradic the Quran..i mean...its the same pple abraham, moses, joseph, Jesus ....but u now added of Haddit and the unholy life of the prophet, claiming its God instruction...

DaughterOfAllah:
Attacking Islam may not have been your aim, according to you, but take a minute to notice how you've already proceeded to peddle a gross generalization about Muslims because of a few choice encounters....

my observation is greater than few and it's not an attack......I have been seeing this pattern i mentioned in muslims, both in person and great number online since i was child but want to invalidate it with few...don't all muslims constantly go into the bible to say Jesus is not God..thats just one example.....but yet its few Muslims as u tried to lazily exolain my point away...

DaughterOfAllah:
, while prefacing your statement with a token disclaimer to immunize yourself from criticism

immunize?? I am responding to your counter opinions...so how am I trying to immunize myself.??

DaughterOfAllah:
Muslims of the same thing Christians are guilty of! Why should the fact that Muslims try to invalidate other religious texts be a big deal to you, especially given the long and storied history of Christian apologists doing precisely the exact same to Islam?u dont get it... Reference is a good thing, the new testament draws reference from the old but doesn't call it false...
But the issue with ur ur prophet is... trying to pretend that his Quran is uniquely from heaven given to him when he couldn't read or write and the same text he copied from is now a false....
I mean it's funny.... Muslims will claim Jesus in not God, Paul is liar, John, mark, Luke are false..then u guys will look for text in the same bible where John, mark and Paul spoke and use it to back up the Quran.... its absurd....

[quote author=DaughterOfAllah post=133803216]Islam has a clear message and/or gospel, in line with the Quran's central theme of monotheism, as well as the prophetic tradition.

okay... what's the central gospel of islam?? The way Christians have theirs, please ma, go ahead and preach islam to me without trying to pull another religion down or claim your prophet is the last so that he can't be contested..

DaughterOfAllah:
So I find this assertion to be very dubious. I've already addressed your concerns about Muslims' trying to "pull you guys down" by pointing out the fact that you guys criticize Islam too,

criticism or pointing out flaws is allowed.....but going into another persons text and calling it lies is what I mean by pulling down....I mean , show me any other religion in the world religion that pastes a banner in front of their place of worship that Allah is not God or mohammed is not a prophet....thats like blasphemy in islam ...yet u muslims do that

DaughterOfAllah:
One thing in your response that made me chuckle though was your analogy about political parties. I daresay it's a perfect instance of pot meet kettle, which curiously you're partaking in, using a flawed argument to try and discredit Islam.

I ddnt use that analogy as an attack because I notice that's all u think......it came from the premise of my earlier observation that you muslims always try to invalidate christians to give your religion credibility.....just Imagine ur islamic brothers and scholars distorting another religion's text by claiming Jesus' promise of sending the holy Spirit to his disciplines is false and that holy Spirit is Mohammed....if u can ponder on this well u will understand why I used that analogy....

DaughterOfAllah:
[color=#770077]The Quran is not original or unique, I concur. But so is the Bible. I hope you are beginning to appreciate how your criticisms against Islam backfire in more ways than you think?

again u are clinging to straws with no evidence just becos u desperately want to provide an equal counter criticism
... Please O daughterofallah.....quote me when u can provide evidence of pre-bible text that shows there was already a jesus, the old testament prophets, their prophecies, the creation story, and the coming of Jesus and his prophecies of things to come, then i will apologize that i said u are just clinging to straws...until then...u are just clinging to straws

DaughterOfAllah:
Whether such instructions were codified into your holy scriptures is ultimately irrelevant.... The fact remains that early Christians did indeed use such symbols,

i will ask u for evidence of this claim in the bible but i know you don't have it...
I ask you, which early christians?? Paul, Mathew, peter?? Which text points to idolatry practice.....Again u are clinging to straws...

DaughterOfAllah:
Isn't it curious to you how the "birth of Jesus" coincides with the ancient Roman festival of Saturnalia and the Germanic festival of Yule?

no it's not curious... who cares about what any random person chose to celebrate on the particular day or period and another person is celebrating something else in the same period.
But it's weird that u are using the same Box idol worshippers use and kiss the black stone in the Kaaba like pre-islam idol worshipper did, throw stone Satan like they did, and match round the Kaaba counter clockwise like the idol worshipper pre-islam did....and what's more weird is ur prophet passed these practices down to u as followers as God's instruction of worshipping God

DaughterOfAllah:
You can't just conveniently ignore all the historical and cultural contexts of Christian practices over time and just cling to a literal interpretation of a book that, curiously enough, defies any attempt at literal interpretation, LOL.

yes i can ignore it because all ur claims have no evidence in any part of Christian worship both from Jesus, the prophets of old testament or the disciples of jesus ...

DaughterOfAllah:
I believe so far that I can surmise your entire position as an attempt to try and assert some form of moral victory over Islam by ascribing the pagan epithet to Islam,

u summary is wrong and U miss my point and highlight by a few light-years......See..the truth is...i wouldn't have noticed what's in your Quran or religion...like I don't notice Buddha, or Krishna or Sango or obatala's religious text.... But your religion is the only one thats a clear direct copy and still desperately trying to tag the same faith and texts it copied as false and u do it to give credibility to ur own religion and prophet.....whats more, u go as far as killing other innocent pple in the name of God in modern times and attempt to impose ur religion as national law like ur prophet did years ago in medina......

If ur religion was a personal thing like many religions out there....we won't be having this conversation....

Softmirror:
It is always funny when men think the are strong and powerful lol 😂. IT'S A WOMAN'S WORLD!!!

Small show of your flesh and the lose control.

Go and look at videos on online and see how women lose control at the sight of cucumber they thought was a huge penis.......men and women are sexually driven creatures so what are u yapping about owing the world for dressing for cheap attention

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DaughterOfAllah:
[color=#770077]but I can't help but feel as though you're using them to suggest, tacitly, that Islam is therefore illegitimate solely because of this. Do correct me if I've erred in my assessment.

u don't need to try to guess my view of islam....let me be clear ... Islam is a poor copy of biblical text and Torah backed with the Hadith that deeply rooted in old Arabian practices, cultures, with many laws bordering on paganism/idolatory.

And that's why the followers of islam always try to invalidate christians and Jewish text in order to give validity to their religion...
Make no mistake....I am not saying this to tackle Muslims, but it's my observation of their behavior....
.if u look well.......islam has no message, no gospel....ask a Muslim to preach the message of Quran and the highlights of his words will be pulling down Jews & Christians...telling you jesus is not God.......Lol.....its like a politician tackling opposition party to sell his party....

DaughterOfAllah:
Now, you're correct that Islam emerged in a context where idolatry and polytheistic practices were prevalent and so some pre-Islamic practices were incorporated or reinterpreted within Islam, but it would be a drastic oversimplification to therefore conclude that many Islamic laws are driven by pre-Islamic pagan practices,

sadly the quran presented itself as an oversimplified copied text off existing books, everyone looking well can see it except Muslims themselves..
...After copying the bible and Torah...the Quran writers needed stuffs to make it different so they pack a lot of stuff from old Arab cultures that addressed discipline and control of people that actually have nothing to do with God's message to man......

DaughterOfAllah:
I hope you are aware of the fact that the early adherents of your faith were pilloried by Romans and Jews alike, who hurled accusations of idolatry with reckless abandon, particularly because of Christians' use of symbols like the cross and other imagery like the saints icon.

i am not aware!!!.... There are no such instructions in the bible to believers, both in the old and new testament ..unlike the quran where they are directly presented as islamic religious practice from Allah...

DaughterOfAllah:
There's also the use of sacramentals, such as holy water, candles, and incense, the use of rosary beads or the Stations of the Cross, which have all been criticized by some as being too close to pagan rituals. So yeah, if you're truly Christian, you really shouldn't be throwing pebbles when you live in a glass house

like i said earlier...weda candles or use of cross, or wateva...I am not aware...

there are no text from the bible that instruct any believer to use these things unlike the islamic prophet who gave idolatry practice and Arab cultures as dos of worship to you Muslims presenting them as God's laws or true oder of worship but really, they are not...

kingxsamz:
Lol, bullets didn't penetrate ko. If he could withstand bullets, how come they could cause bodily harm to him?

so metallic bullet is the only way to cause harm??

sooperrescue:
Avoiding the crime is the only alternative.

Are u sure?? Are u saying if he ddnt sleep with a married woman he couldn't have encountered all these dirty girls testing him badly ...??

guy look around you?? The world is full of cruelty because sin and wickedness is now a norm and thats why bad things easily happen to just about anyone both good people that did nothing bad and bad people too.....

Avoiding the crime doesn't exclude u from calamities or misfortune ...but it may let God hear you in the time trouble or after in order to restore you your losses , if u have a relationship with God

Meteng:
Lol. Where him fvck, nyash or pussy?

Baba.......as u dey ask me ...me seff dey look for who to ask....

MrSly:
That very line got me cracking.

If u watch the programme called Cheaters on CBS reality channel, you will see that it happens a lot...

Victim will catch cheating partner in the act..and cheater will start gaslighting the victim for catching her, accusing the victim of being insecure, immature disrespectful, and toxic for following her to catch her in the act...