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Thelannister:
Haaaaa! Is kemi involve on this too

Definitely....

Kemi..
DJ switch ...
Every other person that has applied for asylum in Canada, including those who claimed running to save their daughter from female genital mutilation ritual has mentioned the Nigerian police as a corrupt, inefficient, institution that aid violation of their human right....

Mehn!! That's bad luck.

A305:
Oga, Do as I said in my earlier message you had just quoted.

Failure to negotiate your way out this. You will remain stuck in a sexless and emotionaless marriage and she will always have the upper hand every time because she has dictated to you how the game is to be played.

Flip the script on her to negotiate from a position of strength.

A man that married a woman after 90days will always be negotiating from a place of weakness ....nigga reeks all shades of desperation and probably felt she's too good for him....

whoever is less emotionally invested in the relationship has more leverage which makes being ruthless natural...clearly the lady doesn't give a flying fvck about him..I won't be shocked if the person her heart really wants is out there hanging her on the ceiling and burglary proof

Odingo1:
She is testing samples but she said she developed the phobia before she even graduated a lab scientist. Other non activity in bed she will say she is not a sex freak. But she admitted that she use to have sex with ex’s that their prick will just stand and they shook prick on her and do and release.

Baba ...Dem son run you street.....

Hezzyluv:
It will shock the shocker out of you by the time you get to know she's a porn start.

forming saint for the guy.....someone else is probably hanging her on the ceiling and burglary proof.

What's wrong with these people.....

hmohammed:
Its a shame most Christians dont read their Bible, hence are not aware of the teachings and the content of the book.

U are the one that ddnt read what u posted...

If u did u won't post it ....because it's all lies
All u posted is not even in the bible....

Jacob had to work for 7 years before laban made him marry Leah becos he wanted the elder sister to marry first....and another 7 years making 14 years before marrying the younger sister Rachel.....

How can he wait for 14 years to marry someone yet you claim she's 14 years old when she was married and still claimed she's older than leah....

Oga u don't even know what u are doing....u are a lazy Muslim

hmohammed:
That is not the question, is the above true or false?

U can't even read the verses u posted urself to see it contradicts your claims.... Lol

Leah is elder sister to Rachel yet u claim she younger....all u are doing copying and pasting the lies of your alfas and evil scholars, who never want you to use ur head to see Mohammed for the sexually corrupt person he is..so they look for ways to justify his sexual corrupt ways by lying about bible giving u estimated ages that isn't even in the bible becos they know u will never read just as u are not allowed to question the Quran or Hadith.


If u are desperate to justify your prophet's sexual ways....go ahead...no one is dragging paedophilia with u Muslims.....if u want to marry children of 9 years old go ahead and do so....but lying about bible accounts to validate urr prophets is just too desperate and dirty ......

U Muslims are pathetic .. today u will call bible lies and insult christians..tomorrow u will go into the same bible to validate ur prophet

Ewooooooooo....see rough play....

ecolime:
This exactly is the reason the young man is distancing himself from you. Call those people so they can also give you emotional support within an hour.

You go like vawulence...

Choiceme:
I talk to him but he fail to respond, and i respond when he talks. The point is he's more of a woman, im more of a man

And you are a more of a man because ?? Its not a gender thing to invest in your own relationship...
Y sound like u are upset becos he's not allowing u keep the malice and throw the tantrums...lol

Is it that you don't want to do all the nice things you are doing in your relationship because u feel it's a man's job ....or u just want him to match your energy ?? cos I don't get what u mean by he's more of a woman while u are more of a man

Malic

Choiceme:
...

U mean u has never done anything nice for you or he has not planned surprise birthday for you?? And he turns ur family against you??

If u are not exaggerating....which I still feel U are doing....U are starting to sound like you are living with someone that doesn't want to live with you...

Maybe u should ask him if he wants to divorce just see his reaction....

Rhassidy360:
Since you understand say he get PHD for keeping malice anytime way anything sup be the first to talk. Turn everything to play no worry nobody de count scores for una let him win. Small small he will drop the bad behavior.

Lol....most women will never be the first to talk but accuse you of same thing, and claim u are toxic, immature and childish......they will not initiate sex but accuse u of neglecting them

One of the things I've noticed with most women is, they expect the man to always be the spark of the relationship, be the peace maker, always be there for them, always anticipate their needs, plan surprise like holly wood romance movies, be the one that's funny, initiate sex, be all over them like nolly wood men.....but whenever they meet a man that also desires to be wanted, that expects significant effort from his woman, their brains suddenly can't function.....they see it a bad relationship...

Choiceme:
Today I realise how strong I am, to be married to a man who love malice and who sees it malice as normal and . My hubby, can keep malice for a month and be comfortable with it. He's not expressive and does not value communication,saying sorry is a taboo for him. Not only does he keep malice, he's emotionally off and withdrawn anytime hez suppose to be there.
Yes financially he there, but marriage is not based on money alone, if I choose to call 3 or four people now for financial assistance, I will get their support within an hour. Besides I work and I'm not a demanding person, infact I don't know how to spend, I was trained to save.
But companion and support is very much important to me, its unfortunate I feel really all alone in this thing called marriage. Can somebody advice a lonely married woman?

He can keep malice with you for a month...?? Or he actually kept malice with you for a month?? .....u even tried to invalidate his role as a finance provider by claiming u can get money from anywhere.....

I don't know your husband oooo...but the average man is not wired to keep malice with a woman he's fucking that long and one of the reasons is sex among other things......if ur man was not like that from the start, then he probably switched into that mode for reasons u are refusing to see

Make I ask you....Are you claiming u frequently try to break ice when u are not on same page and he actually chooses to remain in the malice??
..or u to claim baby girl .... "the man should be the one to beg and say sorry to me, weda I'm right or wrong" ... Last I checked, malice is a double lane road when no one is initiating peace, I bet he's accusing u of the same thing.

This man doesn't beat you, he provides, but somehow, the nigga ain't good enough because he doesn't quickly come and beg u and he's supposedly emotionally not there.....Madam you too make effort and see if you will get the change you want....are u emotionally there too?? Or u just want a man that will always anticipate ur needs and decipher your mood and make u happy .....

If u know u married a loner or an introvert, then u suppose know u say u must be the initiator of lots of things and find what works for your relationship....

If he was not like that from the start ...then it's a coping mechanism that started at some point and you probably need to ask him..

.I'm not accusing u of anything, and I am not saying he's right....I'm just saying, uve not described a horrible person... Maybe he's just a guy that desire more effort from his partner.

donproject2:
Why the Camera followed them when moving away

Sigh.....

I don't understand...

What's going on here....

Discountsempai:
1. Stigma still exists. Homophobia is a reality here. That's why he came out over there.

2. Abdulmutallab's family is very very prominent and respected actually(if you know you know). His father was for many years the chairman of First Bank of Nigeria. His son's activitiy basically dishornored his family(he even spent a lot of time trying to call his USA government contacts to warn them about his son, but no one picked up...minor scandal in the US government then as a result when everything came out)....that ten years later, when Daily trust did an interview with him, they sent two experienced journalists who spent the best part of several hours asking other questions, and then they tactfully mentioned his son (His response was that yes, we are still in contact with him, and yes, I hope he reprents of what he did).

Lol...he ddnt come out anything....... He only became gay happily because it's the US where he can get papers....

Discountsempai:
He is in the USA, but as you know in this jet age, news spreads fast.

His family is really going to get it now. Having a son as gay is seen as bad in Nigeria. He is in the US, so it won;t affect him, but his family for Naija. Assuming he has sisters here, some suitors would be discouraged from marrying them because 'their brother is one of them'

He may be doing hustle, but he is also putting his family in the crossfire here.Unless his family has emigrated or is based in the USA.

This is 2025...which family and stigma and u talking about seff.....
..there are so many crazy pple coming out as gay every where....what will that do to his family....?? Is it new?? Being gay is no longer news man...

Abdul mutalab who tried to kill 280 people in a plane with an underwear bomb, we don't even know his family to stigmatize them ...let alone one idiott who chose to claim gay...

Discountsempai:
No be hustle. If it was, he is taking a very big risk.

Saying you are gay as a Nigerian...the stigma does not stop at you. It extends to your family members.

Lol.....stigma..?? Which stigma..?? he's in thee US where gay pple are recognized....
Family member?? Which yeye family?? If his family were supportive he probably won't be desperate to put his penis inside shiit for for United state papers

If u know the crazy things pple claim for papers u will realize being gay is like one of the least

Na so him oga train am....u'd be surprised he thinks thats what will make the boy know the job....


Reminds me of hostel life back in secondary school.....wickedness pass down from one generation to another like it's a norm........

Moyewa00:
Omo my woman don get belle and I'm not even ready. Abeg is there a way we can get a doctor to remove it?. I'll be in the CS

T[color=#990000][/color]hank you.

Folic acid..2 tablet twice a day
..the baby go come out soon

DeGLORIOUS:
why is it that an average mslim is seeing Christianity as his problem? How does Christianity prevent him from inheriting his seventy virgins? How is Christianity an obstacle to Islm?

Islam is nothing but a tool of control..they are like a political party that must pull down other parties to get vote.....
..they must eliminate other religion for islam to gain proper validation and the control they want....
They have no gospel or message ....ask an average Muslim to preach islam to you..and he will tell u God has no son (a tackle to pull another religion down) .......

it's just a tool of political domination right from the start......mohammed was never part of the ruling class.....but when he brought his so called message from an angel...he hid under pretence of being attacked and killed millions of pple...after that Islam/shariah did not remain a personal faith but became a national law.......

Religion of peace....

Nigerian women spend wetin??
Its like u don't know who's paying for most of these things....

rapsfudy:
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But its hard cos as life goes on i need to get close to someone to start a family, etc. But how can you do that if you don’t trust them

ask one of ur good friends out, that you know she has good character....marry her....
U don't need love to be in marriage....u need peace of mind and a kind team playing woman...

Love lust just blinds you to what you should see, makes pple exploit you, prevents you from being ruthless, and choosing yourself first....

Hustler ayé

Lol

ChizzyBuna:
He told me he has been working on some big deals.. even if it is $30 bro os that too much for someone earning abroad

U are just an inconsiderate, entitled guy who assumes pple abroad should be able to give you money no matter what
...u even mentioned $30.... Guy if you know wetin dey sup for some pple wey dey abroad ....u go shock....

Some please don't have papers.......if u know how hard it is for pple to survive without papers u will be the one to send them money.....that 30$ u mentioned is what some pple survive on after paying rent and bills in a room they are sharing....some pple can't even afford room...they sleep on the streets...

Softmirror:
I still don't know why NL men are very much two faced. The Natasha already get pikin o but the same NL mean are praising him. Yet they say all sorts of things against single mothers.

All sort of things like what??

bigpicture001:
Yes, sh did... ND it's not shit.. these things happened

Let me put it accurately how women put it when they want to be brutal leaving a man...


"Did he force her to sell motorcycle".....??


Abi she has not enjoyed more than motorcycle money.....

And by the way....it is shît....trying to make o e help look like what made tuface.. she should hush it and move on....