₦airaland Forum

yemmit90:
Some are battling with serious poverty and genuinely need help, that is my point here.

The only favour you can do for yourself is to stay away from such girl because they will definitely ask.

Poverty doesn't make u put tension on others when u know they don't have plenty to throw around..

..it's being inconsiderate, wicked and unkind that makes u do so.....

Na now u go know if na ur friend and supporting striker u wan marry or just a woman looking to check a big wedding off her bucket list....

God abeg ooo.....nor let me get babe/wife wey no go be my number one supporter

Jega2000:
...of course am single... na fuel dey collect most of the money...

Fuel is crazy...it's taking away saving if u don't consciously cut usage

femi4:
It doesn't make sense , you are spending heavily on accommodation

That's how Lagos is when u want to live close to ur workplace...

Jega2000:
... I dey spend 45k-60k to fuel my car weekly... feeding 5-6k daily,

60k na 240k per month ooo minus small fixes

If u are not earning significantly over 500k and u won't have good savings after u sort feeding, bills, unless u are single or have a good supporting striker

yemmit90:
Some came from poor homes and genuinely need money or helper, if such girl know you have, she will ask for it. It doesn't mean she don't love you, she just don't have money to fix basic things in her life.

Baba forget that gist ...nor dey create justification for exploitation.....weda a girl is poor a rich ...a girl who cares about u won't make u uncomfortable..
.this guy clearly doesn't have it yet the babe is exploiting him and stressing him...

maasoap:
It could be those mobile wallets that uses phone numbers as account numbers.



Why not sending it back if the same account number that sent money to him was provided?
I once sent 25k to an Igbo cleric FBN account number while trying to send it to my own FBN account number and he sent the money back to my own FBN account number when I showed him what caused the mistake on messenger. What's the big deal?

When someone sends u money their account number doesn't show

Kingininge:
So how did you resolve this ?

Baba... The gist mad ooooo...

.....my bro works there but in another branch so I told him...thats how I canceled their parade

. apparently...these guys were also printing cards on old accounts that had not been in use for a while and also using pples account as proxy

Jodha:
She was wrong ....her behaviour showed lack of respect for her husband but divorce was an extreme action from him...

U forgot to add the usual...." he was childish or immature"

Wife of ten years went on stage to disrespect her husband and family, by kissing another man and said she ddnt regret cos it has always been her dream and it made her happy.......but it's the man that's extreme.....

Why am I not surprised.....

notobiafrababe:
To me, I see nothing wrong in a woman making her feelings known. She is better than the ones that would exchange contact in secret with other men on stage only to meet them in a private hotel

are u looking for mentions? .....u will get it plenty...

ThugCheetah:
Please this just happened to me, someone sent me some money and called me that it was a mistake.. what’s your advice?

Is he or she a know person to you cos I don't get how a random.person that mistakenly typed your account number also have ur phone number??

Don't send any money back especially if it's much ...it might be stolen from another person's account or card they quickly stole and there's no way for you to verify the source account number ...

Bankers tried to use my account a while back to steal money, which I believe is from a dormant account... they called me that it was a mistake that I should please send it to them and send an account number with obviously a different account name

èmí street.... I told the wèrèy to tell the teller that posted to do reversal from his system.
The werey started giving excuses that it was end of day and system had been shut from head office...

I was like..." Baba if u take too long, I go use this money buy dollar sharp sharp".....

US be like.........

Jega2000:
I make roughly 500k-700k on average monthly but I am not really comfortable...

Just cut ur expense....500k is not small money in naija ....just that our leaders are heartless making some expense too high

No generator every night ...u won't die

If u have kids....DStv subscriptions should be during holidays....they wont die.....

If u have a car that u use daily to work that takes as little as 10litres per day ....that's roughly 10-11k per day and 220k per month minus Saturday and Sunday outing and servicing cost....Use public transport ..u won't die...

Buy satchet water instead of bottle...or check if ur tap water is drinkable...a friend told me he started taking his tap water when he calculated and found his cost on water was 80k month...

ThugCheetah:
How the hell am I supposed to know the branch name?? It’s not like it’s written on the face of the building or anything so what’s this rude foolishness?

Respect is reciprocal....if u start with bad energy some customer service person won't go extra mile for you...

She needed the branch name or at least the location to help you...all u should have said was that u are sorry u don't know the exact name, but can describe the exact location and ask if she can help......... U made her question seem like she's disturbing you and she too kukuma decide not to go further with helping you....

Fine ...she could have been more patient with you but pple she too may be having a bad day and u were definitely not kind in your response..

Hellisreal70:
What the devil has joined together
Let no man put...............

Hahahahhahahahaha

sofeo:
You are hurting yourself bro, believe me.

Physically and spiritually, you are hurting your self and might be pulling yourself back.

If you like listen or don't listen, it's your life, I can bet with you, it's something you will wish you never got yourself into as time goes on or later in future.

Calm down read.........e get why..

SmartyPants:
What does virginity really add to your life??

I insist on a partner who is well-educated and ambitious, well-behaved, and ridiculously fine. I'm not settling for less just because she may not be a virgin.

Why are u assuming he doesnt want all these things u listed plus the virginity?? .... U guys keep getting it wrong when a guy says he wants a virgin....ur brain start to picture a useless, uneducated, stvpid, poor, woman that has never had sex ......... I mean, since when did it become a crime for a person not to want a woman tens or even hundreds of men has slept with ??

There are men who chose to date and marry pórn stars..., I don't get why y'all get triggered because of pples choices when u clearly have urs

Ndubuisipaul1:
.

Am just asking God, Why can't you give me money to take care of this girl?

She loves me I love her too but money no dey

She doesn't love u....women don't make who they really care about uncomfortable ....

Btw...why the fvck will God give u money just to bankroll a woman exploiting you financially?

U better change ur prayer point

Godwin4444:
One thing I don't understand about all these so called celebrities is that they flaunt so much wealth online but owe ridiculous money offline

Many of them

They are not nice pple in real life

ThugCheetah:
How the hell am I supposed to know the branch name?? It’s not like it’s written on the face of the building or anything so what’s this rude foolishness?

Vawulence full your blood

Merry100:
So it is logical for her to be possessive to the extent of threatening my life.

u are just exaggerating joor

Merry100:
. Nothing concern me with her guy.

then u shouldn't be this upset over a guy u dont want....

Merry100:
I have no interest in the guy. She is not yet his wife, but she is already quite possessive

so u are saying until she's his wife she has no right to feel like owner?? Wait are u for real ?? So by this logic ..u don't expect faithful oo until marriage??

Merry100:
. She seems like a very toxic and aggressive person; I could have shown her that I am not intimidated by threats.

i think toxic is an exaggerated word here...she only called u to back off, which might be an over kill but necessary if she feels u are threat.......because its norm for pple to start seeing the ex they are no longer with as an option when they meet again.......

Merry100:
I have visited an ex to say hi to his wife; she was aware that I am his ex and still treated me nicely.

everyone isn't the same...

Merry100:
He is a Muslim, and after my visit to his wife, he was still proposing marriage to me.

Thats very reason this current one called you to warn...mayb u have olosho vibes or u are finer than her and she feels her husband might start to feel the need to enter the place again.....

Peniel13:
Good morning everyone. Pls what is the fate of a dependant whose wife (a nurse) on skilled worker visa died. She was hit by a car while coming back from work a month ago. Is he still eligible to stay back in the UK on dependant visa?

Haaa.!!!! .....condolences oooo....

But I think there is a human right concession immigration lawyers uses in cases like this.....I've heard it once where the lady was granted extended stay on grounds that there is no home to return to as survival will be impossible for her and her kids without her husband

Please try and contact an immigration lawyer,

BoldBrainz:
From prisons officer to inmate. That's a scary and unfortunate turn of events within the space of seven months, all because of knacks.

That's how lack of sexual disciple can bring anyone low...

The only place she can get a job after prison is probably Only Fans

Earlystar698:
White supremacy/ woman power,if the officer is black or man ,he would have been 20+ years in prison

20+ years for what??
The offence is not rape naaaaa ..it's an offence bordering on unethical practice or abuse of office/power at best

Merry100:
Her own is too much. She couldn't even speak sensibly; she really got me angry, but I just decided to stay calm.

he's just an ex u dont want anymore, so why u angry someone is being extra over something u done give a flying fvck about ?? You should be laughing at her instead of being angry....Abi a part of low key still wants the guy??

Oya confess....I won't judge you...

ednut1:
Put your left hand inside the pekus and codedly put it in her nose during sex. She will ask what is smelling then you tell her

That thing is like body odor ooo ..she would have over time gotten used to the smell....it's not usually as offensive to them as it is to another person

Merry100:
It is not a wise move. If I still had some interest in the guy, I could have decided to date him just to spite her.

Be like u seff get vawulence for blood....
As in ..... u will throw urself at a guy just to spite ur fellow woman........??

I now get the reason revenge sex makes sense to you women ...sigh!!

Merry100:
Some women are just funny, how will someone snatch a grown man.

U are just pretending not to get her....
Advertising sometimes makes u to buy what u never wanted, needed or thought of buying..

As far as she's concerned u are advertising so she decided to send u vawulence before her man starts subscribing to what he doesn't need and already has

She knows what her gender is capable of ..
So she decided to attack the issue from both sides....... She be like.... "Make nobody can snatch man wey I dey manage"