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Ma gal love me some much that feels like talking to me endlessly to the extent that she told me once I have ma own flat she’s gonna sleep in ma house anytime she likes(That’s no problem with me) before we finally get marry legally.

I work in an investment bank while she’s still scoping around for job. If she send text message and I do not reply she go vex and so on.

I feel like having a break with the gal and I will discuss this with her this even.

I love this gal and like her to be ma wife.

I do not know if I will be taking the risk of losing this gal to someone else in this break period because she may think am no longer interested in her.

But I think I really need this break.

We‘ve been together since March 2007.

Anyone in the house with the idea of the issuing houses to these offer

Access Bank 2.2m/annum

Afribank Capital Markets 1.7m/annum

There is no perfect guy cos u will hear some gals saying " i do not really knw what u like in this guy" while some else is dying cos of the guy

u are not in a dilema

No body is forcing u to do what u do not like

But since u have someone that love u and u claim to love her get commited to each other cos am very sure if u dump her u will dump the new one and that's hw u going to continue ur life

money is important in any relationship but a relationship should not be based on money

if is not possible and he's there with his wife then is better than him going their alone.

ma guy,

u do not have job yet hw are u going to cope with basic necessities of life--- house,feeding and car.

Let her knw that u love her and she should give u time to settle down in life.

If she refuses that implies she's not ur wife

THIS IS NO JOKE IT WORKS FROM EXPERIANCE!

Which One Are You?
This is the ultimate test!! Grsb a pen and paper and number it 1-10!! ADD ALL YOUR FRIENDS!!!
1. Pick one of the following colors
>red
>pink
>yellow
>green
>blue
>purple
2. Pick your favorite animal out of the following
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>dog
>fish
>snake
>parrot
>mouse
3. Pick your desired honeymoon spot
>Hawaii
>New york
>East Africa
>Spain
>Montanna
4. Pick your favorite instrument
>violin
>piano
>electric guitar
>drums
5. Pick your favprite soft drink
>Dr.Pepper
>sprite
>coca cola
>Mountain Dew
>pepsi
6. Name a person of the oppisite sex
7. Name a person of the same sex
8. the time NOW
9. your age
10. you DO NOT have to wirte this down, but make a wish and scroll doown,

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HERE ARE THE ANSWERS!!!!
1.
RED-adventurous
YELLOW-sweet
PINK-sexy
GREEN-wacky
BLUE-romantic
PURPLE-myterious
2.
CAT-feminine
DOG-loving
SNAKE-boyish
FISH-boring
PARROT-annoying
MOUSE-brainy
3.
HAWAII-romantic
NEW YORK-busy
EAST AFRICA-curious
SPAIN-mysterious
MONTANA-country girl/boy
4.
VIOLIN-intellectual
PIANO-popular
ELECTRIC GURITAR-wacky
DRUMS-wild
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DR.PEPPER-popular
SPRITE-wacky
COCA COLA-wild
MOUTAIN DEW-athletic
PEPSI-fun

6.That person will have a crush on you AFTER you send it!!

7.That person (who im guessing is a good friend!) will become an enemy if you DON'T send this!

8.How long you have to send this!

EX: 5:15 (5 hours 15 Min.

9.How many peeps you have to send this to!

10.That will come true if you do #9 in the amount of time #8 says!!""""

me i have a lot of things though am 24 and will be 25 in october but am working current but ma gal has be disturbing me to get tie the knot but i have to take ma time. But she's complaining dat we have to do it worse case in the next 2yrs or earlier.

But to me everything boil down to money

@ poster.

Anybody can work in a bank.

they will ask u qeustion about your self and how u can add value to them

If u have knowlegde of accounting and business mgt. tell them that u have it

if u have marketing skills cos that is the core of banking tell them

yes it's possible co i work in a bank and a gal that have a 3rd in geography works there too

yes i agree with siena.

since u guys are young it might not work cos girls mature faster than guys of same age less alone when the girl is older.

But in ma own case ma gal is 26 and am 25 and we are both university graduates.

tnxs all 4 ur opinoins

Anyway am still a virgin @ 24 and work in a bank but i do not care so much about the status of ma gal. If she a virgin good and if otherwise very good as well.

@michellin89

The fact that a gal/guy is virgin does not present her/him as the best.

I purposely bring this issue up to left us knw that too much value should not be placed on virginity

Fellow nairalanders,

Which one do u prefer

Virginity or Dignity.

As for me i Prefer Dignity

hey guy,

what do u refers to has'v' Virgin?

But before i answer ur question i will ask u d ffg

1. Did she claim to be a virgin
2. A u a virgin
3. Did u love her because she's a virgin
4. Are u proposing for sex

the answers u give these questions will determine ma response

cos will guys are not facing reality.

If u love a babe, virginity should not be an issue at all cos it does not show on her face/behaviour.

But i need answers to the questions have posted.

single but in love

hmmmmmmmmmmmmm!!

Tnxs all.

But another issue has come up when i told are she's a year older than me and she confess that this made her cry throughout the nite.

I flash her this morning but she later called me and i told her that can she still call me--------. But she said the all thing cannot work again.

But promise to give me nite call.

But advise me cos i do not want to force her to love me if she's comfortable with our age difference

hmmmmmmmmmmmmm!!

Tnxs all.

But another issue has come up when i told are she's a year older than me and she confess that this made her cry throughout the nite.

I flash her this morning but she later called me and i told her that can she still call me--------. But she said the all thing cannot work again.

But promise to give me nite call.

But advise me cos i do not want to force her to love me if she's comfortable with our age difference

kudos to oreofemi

sillyboy do n't be silly. where exactly are u for or against

Thanks for you advise all + and -
But another thing i need to tell is that one week i told her that i will be travelling ------ and she said why must i live her alone for so long that am wicked and -----

So one day i swictch off ma phone she said call me back i miss u

Few days later she turns to call me back i love you but she will never say it orally but via text message.

As am posting this mail she has send another one-----call me i love

Go to hi5.com

Good luck.

There is this lady that i met online and will exchange numbers(mobile)

She calls me every moment/flashes me and if i pick the call/call her back she will say"she just want to say hi "

And with this impression i started having interest in her and proposed to her but her response was that she will prefer to have me has friend but me i need a relationship and not friendship.

But she suprised me yesterday by calling me every 10mins and latter send text that she wish she could talk to me every second but if i say 'i love you' her response will be do not love me so that you wil nt be dissapointed,

Please advise cos i need to move on in life

Before i say a word

is the guy working/ready to marry u(serious person)

once a guy have sex with a lady, he losses interest in the lady

so if the guy really love you tell him to wait until conjugal bliss or you leave him remember love and sex are two different things.

If you really need our help you have to tell us what happen between two of u

me i wana buy house at leeki==== 2 bed room flat and not renting one

you guys dont know anything. Better consult an Alfa (Imam) like me to educate you on the rationale behind the act.

ma worst stock is transcorp and dunlop