₦airaland Forum

wasuka14:
My wife Twins sister moved to our apartment of a room and parlour self-contain with her 4 kids after the demise of her husband without notice to me.

Honestly, I really need urgent advise as I can't have access to my apartment or to my wife again. As her twin sister moved in to my small apartment with her 4 kids and loads of clothes and some other luggages. Therefore, no single space left in my parlour to sit or leave again.

I am mentally stress with what am passing through now. For 2 weeks now, I can't sleep in a small house am managing with my wife and our 4 kids too.

The issue at hand is not even about apartment alone but also of feeding.
Now, before now, my wife used to manage 2500 to feed all of us for breakfast alone. But now, she barely manage 6000 every morning.
Thereby, increase daily expenses on food to like 14-16k daily depends on my pocket.
And the funny thing is that, both the sisters are not working so as to at least support with something.

For now, am managing to pass night in my shop, but twice in a day they will send my first child to my shop to fetch money for food. Am really tire. I am just a bloody welder.
I don't know how to take care of these migrants going forward.

My wife can't drive away her twins sister by herself, am also too timid to drive them because of human feeling in me. Pls what do I do. I really need help and serious advise from fellow Nigerian and non- Nigerian.

And you also have your own family members like sisters,brother and your parents right,you better man up because is just only 2 weeks like you said and you are complaining already...your wife have family members too let them go there.

successmatters:
In Tinubu's Lagos?

It's a lie

1 billion dollars Lagos IGR was used to repair this very road last month

use your brain now even in USA �� flood dey disturb them

Lestatdelioncou:
All you Yoruba muslims are so tribalsitic! OMG.
Look at the rubbish this human being typed thinking it is making any sense.

Bros you are a disgrace to your family. Next time shut up and don't shame yourself like this .

This is why most Nigerians hate Tinubu because of how uncivilized his followers are

inside you and him na who disgrace each other family?because of one person statement you categorised all yoruba Muslims together abi...you are more foolish than him

Burruchaga71:
Anambra state is not a war zone. Army should leave the state a quickly as possible..

Do you just open this thing you called mouth and talk rubbish all the time...is there any state in Nigeria where there's no army?

Romanoff:
Stay out of their business. If your brother ever complains to you that his wife treats him badly and he's not happy, then you can give him advice.

If not, stay out of married people's business.

As long as she's not disrespectful to the man, stay out of their business.


Them go soon settle their issue turn am for your head.

Really she is not disrespectful?sending her husband an errand in front of his young brother...sorry too say this,Did your mom did this to your DAD?

Put yourself in his shoe...this gender

daylay7:
I was in love with this guy so much that we do everything together. Aside from the fact that we share the same goals, religion put us far from each other. He was a muslim and I, a christian. I loss my virginity to him (we were both naive in that practice anyway). My parents forbid me and we drifted apart but I loved him still.

I met another guy afterward who shares the same belief with me and we got married three years later. Infact, my ex came for the wedding and celebrated me even during the reception( my husband already know his story and was not surprised when he saw him at the wedding).

A year after the birth of my son, I had an official assignment in another location where my ex's sister resided and because I could not complete the assignment that day, I decided to sleep over at her place. But on getting there, I saw my ex sitting in the living room. It was already late as at that time and I couldn't go back or book for a hotel and I decided to chilled out, telling myself that nothing must happen between us that day. My greatest mistake!

The apartment was just 3 bedroom. A master bedroom for the sister, a room for the children and the other for a visitor. Now we are having two visitors who once shared a thing for each other. My ex invited me into the room but I declined telling him I would rather sleep on the floor in the living room or he should bring a matrass for me. He brought the mattress in the visitors room into the living room and we both slept on it. One thing led to another in the middle of the night.... . And it happened! Coincidentally, my husband called at that time. I had to switched off my phone.

When I got back home the next day, I apologized to my husband that I had a flat battery and he didn't say anything but my husband never looked at me the same again. He never quarreled or said anything even after couple of years later. But the way he talks sometimes as if he kws I am hiding a secret from him and he wants me to open up to him. My fear is that if I should open up, I might lose my marriage and my family. What happened between my ex and I was a one time thing. I never went back or saw him again. It has been 10 years now and I am still feeling bad about it especially when he talked about cheating couple.

This feeling is eating me up. I don't know if I should still open up to him or I should forever remain silent about it....

cc: Relationship matters

And killing is the right option...use your brain now quote author=DonMaxxy post=114902990]

Stop spewing cow dung here. Who is unfaithful to who in the story...is it not the lady that cheated on the man and went as far as having a child for another man.

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Lewisjohnson:
Ewedu nd Amala at it again
Am nt surprised

kindly use your brain...is not a most that you commit

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You hear wetin happen too bet9ja abi

Oga na forbes carry this man...do you know the meaning

Nigerialabalaba:
u no dey house wen dem dey share sense aswear2gud.
olodo, na inferior complex dey worry u. All dat yeye bloated software coy valuations na hin u dey compare with real coys wey get real money , dey cash out daily and a whole systemspec wey dey move billions daily. U tink say na by one yeye valuations dem take dey do am.

I don see say u be one of d native people like u wey neva achieve anytin for life go dey share chart upandan. Shiorr.

Really mistakenly

You are going too job interview with leg chain...really

What about it was his food?

I guess she is going through some difficult times...money can't buy you happiness