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Fulaman198: From the ages of 17 to 29 (I'm 30 now) life with me and women has always been really lame. It just seems that women do not like gentlemen until women get older. But once they have had their fun with wannabe thugs/hoodlums and posers, then they want to settle down with a good guy. They can't eat their cake and have it.

They think they can do all the bad guys in the world, then once the bad guy is done with them, they think they can find a nice guy for a husband to take care of them. It does not work that way.

it couldnt be all d women u met within dat 7years dat would be like dat na. sometimes we need to check ourselves first

luxanne: Lol.


@mizmycoli,

Sometime ago, just like u, I also told myself I wanted to know what programming and all those coding meant and so I got curious to find out from friends around me but believe me, I just couldn't handle all those jargons I was being taught, hence, I simply just took to my heels and then resolved to only admire them from a distance, lol


@Africanapple, I see u too dear

i follow see u too o. how now

Fulaman198: What does she want to be taught?

she will carry her leg and her mouth to tell u herself. she would see dis

Fulaman198:

u knw say i get eagle eye
why u kon allow those girls friendzone u na wen u no like am
i can feel some emotions inn dat post

dre11: Africanapple...... no response to the last PM

wen i won log in na im glo begin give headache o

Fulaman198: Hello darling, *hugs AfricanApple back* yes it has been a while. I will be more than happy to help the OP out if she needs it.

she needs it, she says in he op 'teach me please anybody'
mizmycoli isnt it

fulaman 198 i can see u o, oya talk ya own

dre11:
nah u know wetin u go do....

u knw i'm saying d otito

kingofpool: hmmm am so sorry dearie, didnt mean to insult u nor to make u feel insulted,

yinmu, i refuse to fall for dat

KelvinGraphics: Dont worry, iam rich and faithful dear.

i talk am, i say u get one kind bad tinnnnnnnn for mind. shift go one side joor *pushes him aside*

Fulaman198: Hello AfricanApple.

sweery pie!!! na only u don waka reach here?
its been a while sha *gives him a hug*

i trust u can give d op some tutoring, she needs it

MizMyColi: May I ask which?

he say hin name na rutchieken abi na rotten chicken

first of all, i cant define ma love for a man base on golds and diamonds. if he rich, good we go enjoy, if he poor, we go still enjoy

but eh even guys wey never see poor water drink in a day dey cheat pass d rich ones sef, no man is to be trusted
so o 4 me if na god dey ask me dis question i will say rich and faithful guy

kingofpool: Onye Ara Ariaria market,

if i was still akiraaple1, i woulda fixed u totally in but dis is a reborn AfricanApple, i will just sit tight and watch first
in order word i will let dat ur insult bounce past ma head

dre11 with dis dude here, i really understand difference btw boys and men. like seriously

MizMyColi: Not bad at all. I'm learning already

i see na. i sighted one programmer like dat

MizMyColi: Akira Swiss na so ah waka come oo....I had to express myself joor....talk of dying in silence

thereis gawd in everytin we are doing, so na dat one good pass howdy

EnlightenedSoul: Yh, I know that must suck
Still very good to see you

yes darling, good to see u too

dre11: yes nah.......
Thats platonic friendship, which u understand ur selves and share knowledge, advice, strenghts etc

but,
as per what we were discussing....
let him be the one that wants to be friendzone and not u friendzoning him

if i like a person but not intimately and u come wooing me, i will let u knw na. or i go just gree by force becos u dnt wnt to be friendzoned

dre11: friendzone is when a guy makes his intention know....and u reject him.....
Instead of u allowing him to pursue the remaining avenue to find what he desire........
U now waat him to stick to ur side and not allow him go

u want him to be the rebounding guy

Africanapple guess u seen the bolded statement
thats what guys don't like

u may like someone but not intimately

Prowizy2: Definitely not, I have female friends (platonic). . I help them if the need arises. . But not when I have feelings for you, instead of telling me a plain NO you pretend. . Keep me around and starts seeing me as a money venture.

okay maybe they see u as a money venture but can they turn u into a money venture? no. a man can only b defined by anyone but himself

wat i'm saying here is dat most of u guys thinks u shouldnt spend on a gal dat is of no benefit to u especially intimately. u feel if u give her 10naira she should give 10tinz in return(it musn't be sex)

so wen u are giving and not getting anytin at all, u start feeling used, if u dnt have d money in d first place why spend it?

now tell me what kind of friendship do u xpect frm a gal u went to woo and she declined, i believe friendship, i mean real frienship should be something natural like both of u meeting and just naturally got close to each other. no toasting, no wooing.

kingofpool: Tufiakwa i rebuke u nd ur evil teachinz

see devil rebuking an angel ooooo, were u not d one who said u will will either do it by force?


to nairaland: i wrote r-a-p-i-s-t!!!!!!!!!!!!

kingofpool: I tell ya... Now i promised to Bleep her either by force or peacefull nd i don achieve am

aspiring rapist

Prowizy2: No girl can friend-zone me. . . Am just giving an example. . Am too big to be friend-zoned

must friendship with d opposite sex have to do with money and materials things?
u make it sound like its a poisnous thing to do

dre11: is just a comparative word trying to use the animal kingdom as an example.........
So, as to best explain what i was driving at........

@second bolded...... thats an act of despiration, when u invested so much emontions, time, care and so on and the result is not coming positive........ then some men lose it and result to that acts....
This has alot to do with our temperament, attitude and mould to absorbe shocks, disapproval etc.



Thats good...... it means i will be seeing more of u for now...
#don't like writting epistle again, aw can't i just write short note like her

dat kind comparing they disconnect my veins o

hmm, desperation indeed.

dnt evade dis: i hope u are not anti feminist

dnt understand ur last sentence

now dre11 dis is wat u and i are arguing. shey u can see d mentality of ur fellow guys

dats why i like my life o, if i knw i dnt wnt to ever hav anytin to do with u, i wont even let u come close talkless of to friendzone abi enemyzone me cos in their mind they would expect me to come to dem one day

Prowizy2: Imagine asking a girl out, instead of saying 'NO' to my face she'll be pretending. . Eating my shawarma and giving me some little hope. At the end of the day what you'll hear is 'let's be friends' or 'i see you like my brother' . .

pls how much is dat sharwama dat u are crying like its ferari

u guys are d reasons why some mumu ladies will call u mugu1 mugu2 cos u are crying over common sharwama and she will be foolishly thinking she is sucking u dry

i am wondering, whatever has gone wrong with dignity, our pride

dre11:
lady, i fault u by saying its an assume notion...... I don't believe that

its what we see, experience, feel and passed on from our fore fathers......
Even the movies, novels, book subscribe to this notion

so,
how is ur day going
i hoped...... that note did deliver

u didnt read d complete post

going kul, go and check

lynpetra, if a lot of nigerians do not knw wat is love, then which country does

dre11: is that a question for me or someone else



what ur defination of maturity self

my definition varies

what's ur own definition

whereas we are not what they have painted d blacks to be

u see us as a prey? and compare us to a prey? dre11 dats absurd

wait, i just hope u are not anti-feminist

i tell u, matured men sometimes lost it wen it comes to wooing a lady

wat time do i sleep? it depends, normally i scheduled my light out to be 9:30 but sometimes, i just cant sleep or maybe some little tinz kept me late
like last night, i look 4 sleep tire, d sleep leave me go chop suya o, i read and read hoping sleep to come, but no way. somehow somehow d sleep dragged itself and come o.

let me answer ur question well, most often i do sleep off b4 10:30

btw, dis week na xmas 4 me o, free chance to browse nl.

i'm waiting

dre11:
thats what you will say because ure a Female....... you gats to defend ur gender......
But, just one question why is it a known notion that women are gossips, talking being
and men are known as a laid back being..........


em!!!!!!! thats on few cases
men are like a lion...... who takes it time, study the prey, see the weakness of the prey, understand the prey, guage the prey before he hits at the prey........
He believes the prey will definately be his own thats why he chase until....
so, we woo with sence and we don't toast...... Its boys that toast and not guys/men


Just asking
what time do u sleep self
btw.............. goodmorning Akira gats to look for an appelation to use on you
*scratch head.... em!....... later*

dis is not a matter of defending my gender, its not battle ofd sexes
its not a known notion, its just an assumption dat everybody want to believe. its just like d whites will describe blacks as troublesome pple whereas

KingTom: Hin dey come

where una kidnap am go, i dey miss am o