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Please, set aside 'wailers' and 'zombies' here. I dont deny the fact that i voted for APC & i still believe in Buhari. But i want us to put sentiments aside and argue logically. Thanks

Eventhough i believe so much in Buhari but i dont want the love i have for him to cloud my judgement on this matter. I've never bought petrol for #250 at filling station in my life but thats the best price you will get petrol in Osun State here. Please what is really the cause of this scarcity? I dont think its all Government fault because i was at a petrol station last week and the attendant increased the pump price from #130 to #150 when its not like they just offloaded another petrol into their storage. Wont we start burning petrol stations that sells above #86.50k like this

I was in Admission office yesterday when someone came to lodge complain about a guy that asked people to pay their acceptance fee into his account. He claim to work at the admission office. His name and account details has been given to the appropriate authority. The Authority is working on it presently and i will give his details out later if permitted to. But please beware, OAU gives no one independent license to collect acceptance fee from students;its a SCAM. Dont fall for it. Cc... Fynestboi

classiclight:
and gambling

DEFINITELY

I know we have certified psycologist here that will help. What triggered the act in me was the absence of my fiancee. She went for service;so we were apart for almost 6months. So rather than hanging out with another chick or visiting olosho joint, i opted for masturbation. I think knowing what triggered it will help in finding a solution.

BennieWang:
@OP, Both are sins but i say it is better to fornicate than to masturbate...

1. If u are still hustling to be successful, masturbation can cause unexplainable disappointments, setbacks and badluck, TRUST ME.
2. It makes you kinda shy around the opposite cos u partially satisfy urself in the bathroom so u dont see reasons making new friends nd mingling too
3. Imagine a prophet giving u an open prophecy in the midst of friends and loved ones, Trust me it is better for the prophet to reveal that u nid to play safe with women than for him to tell u dat u need to stop masturbating, DAMMN DATS POO IS A VERY SHAMEFUL ACT.

Be wise not to delay ur success because of a hidden bad habit.

Bennie say so

you might be right. Masturbation definitely makes one shy away from opposite sex

Toks2008:
I can imagine how Baba Jehovah will be laughing at us anytime we discuss this issue.

Do you know that sometimes i ease off without even touching my pnis?

Do you think i can survive a month without scrwng d shit out of at least one lady?

If i feel Hot i simply close my eyes and imagine myself doing shits on a sweet lady and im good even without touching any part of the pnis.

Im writing this cos im real,down to earth and non hypochritical..i am a sexually active man and at the same time a lover of christ.

I cant afford to sleep around even when my flesh yearns for it...everyday i feel like tearing a sweet chic apart and do crazy stuffs on her.

Unfortunately i cant toy with the grace of God neither can i fast or pray sexual urge away..it is part of us,GOD created the urge and trying to ignore the feeling is trying to ignore the urge to defecate.

My advice remains the same...avoid masturbation not because its a sin but it is addictive and it can drift you away totally from the opposite sex if not careful.

For me i dont know if what i do is masturbating cos i dont jerk off but whichever way,avoid it if you can but if your passion for sex is so high,i will say it is still better than fornication...but whatever you do,AVOID PORN

u no go kill person ooo. I was drinking orange while reading ur comment and the juice entered my airway because i couldnt control the laughter. Your comment sounds funny but its the truth.

Toks2008:
Masturbation is not a sin and infact a good substitute for fornication.

Nevertheless,it is a terrible habbit because it is addictive and any act that is potentially addictive should be avoided expecially acts with not so good aftermaths.

other examples of bad habbits that are not sinful are...

1.Gambling or betting
2.Drinking...not drunkenness
3.Gossiping

And many more..these are bad habbits because they are addictive and they have bad consequences.

you are right bro, but in Islam, drinking and gossiping is sinful

donshady:
bro
fornication = sex
masturbation is not sex... Every time you stroke your penis to ejaculate, you're destroying it because that not the normal protocol for ejaculation...
People with premature ejaculation are mostly people who masturbate... and if you fall in that category, It's a disgrace to yourself when u can sex a woman.

bro, honestly, i'm not here to argue with you but its like a debate. Stroking joystick with the hand and lube is equivalent to vagi*a wall stroking to me. Why not look at it from the religion aspect and not the moral aspect. I dont think we have any pagan here.

lanrywatt:
Answer me first before I talk, Dieing by road and Dieing by plane crash which is better

lol. None.

delightz:
I don't see how that question relate to your post.
BTW.... will it help u better your life or undone your past??

no offence intended bro. Just to emphasize the fact that its easier said than done

exotiqueify:
Sorry o! but isn't dis supposed to be in the romance abi family section? Nlders tho!

posted it in Romance section. I dont know how it got to job/vacancy section.

@ uboma or davide470 , please help move it to romance section or possibly front page. I dnt know how it got to job/vacancy. Thanks

donshady:
None is advisable. but I'll still prefer fornication to masturbation because

1. Masturbation makes you weak, it drains protein and calcium content in the body

2. Masturbation creates nervousness and neurological problems

3. Masturbation is one of the main cause for erectile dysfunction.

4. Masturbation addicts you even if you taste it for one time. Controlling it is a very big menace.

5. Masturbation creates drowsiness; you will be sleeping most of the time after ejaculation of your sperm. You will experience a damn tired.

6. Masturbation causes stress and strain in your mind and soul.

7. Masturbation also affects us psychologically; it creates depression after ejaculation and makes one feeling bad on his own.

8. Getting red hot while masturbating will give a bad name in that environment and it is an indecent activity.

9. Masturbation cannot be done simply, it needs to see, touch, indulge or, at last to think of a sexual practice/ sex organ of the opposite sex. This is more harmful that the image in your memory that you see could not be erased easily. This will lead you to a noxious problem that you cannot see any girl/ lady/ women without a single thought i.e., sex.

10. Masturbation creates an urge to do indefinitely; it doesn’t see the place, people and culture. It makes you digging worse sexual problems if chance knocks the door.

11. Masturbation leads you to illegal contacts because the urge increases day by day and finally will lead to the search of a source for sexual pleasure.

12. Masturbation is the main reason for speedy sperm release during sexual intercourse. It will create dissatisfaction to you and to your wife.

13. Over masturbation reduces your sperm count. Couples who desire to get pregnant should not masturbate.

14. SThe seminal fluid that gets released on masturbation contains proteins that are needed for many metabolic activities and cell formations. Proteins are the building blocks of our body; ejaculation often will create you to be lean and distracts your metabolism of muscle building.

15. Ethically masturbation is wrong; you think of X/Y and do sex of your own. This hinders your values and respect for others. You may be are good in all other regards but will end up in a great problem if not concerned to stop this habit.

16. Masturbation wastes your time and makes you useless.

17. The pleasure of masturbation never lasts for a long time.

18. Masturbation creates more problems as you lose your memory and thought-provoking ability.

19. Masturbation is not the end of your desire; you may be fooled by your own practice. It will never give you a solution or a satisfaction but seems that it gives.

20. It is not needed in any way to your sexual life that it has to be practiced without fail.

21. Guys who masturbate will lose interest in sex with their wife very soon. They can’t feel pleasurable for a long time.

22. Masturbation induces homosexuals in schools, colleges and hostels. Many times the latter creates sexually transmitted diseases like VD, syphilis, AIDS etc.,

honestly, i get your point. But my own point is this. Isnt it better to masturbate once in a while than to fornicate everytime. All the points u highligted applies to fornication too because sperm is expelled. And one cannot contract any STDs through masturbation as opposed to fornication.

Aviero:
Don't tag it fornication. Just call it sex.

Sex, protected sex, is healthier than masturbation.

There are lots of good health benefits that comes with sex, but masturbating makes you feel somewhat empty. After you cum, you come to your senses and then you feel awkward.

Sex is different tho

sex outside marriage is fornication, and not everyone feel awkward after cumming during masturbation

delightz:
Hey bro.
This isn't a case of between the devil and the deep blue sea. you dont have to choose from either of them. There are thousands of things you can do that are far more rewording and profitable than those choices. Get engaged with the right mindset and neither of those thoughts will come to your mind. Its a stage of your life where you have to hustle. Not to be thinkin of fiance whatever or porn stuffs. Read the bible and get busy positively.
....cheers.

thanks bro. Good advice, but i hope your wife was your FIRST sex partner.

donshady:
Do you realise the effect of masturbation?
it kills you slowly..till u loose everything.. Beware.

but we have rich and successful that masturbates and they lose nothing. But bro, if masturbations kills slowly, what of fornication. I know we have certified psycologist here that will help. What triggered the act in me was the absence of my fiancee. She went for service;so we were apart for almost 6months. So rather than hanging out with another chick or visiting olosho joint, i opted for masturbation. I think knowing what triggered it will help in finding a solution.

I just read a post on FP concerning masturbation. I now asked myself an honest question; isn't it better to masturbate than to fornicate. Its what everyone have experienced expecially at early stage of puberty. The urge for sex increases and we are far from marriage due to age, lack of fiancee, money etc. My religion advices fasting as an alternative to fornication and masturbation but for how long? Isn't it better to masturbate than to fornicate? Asides the immorality in masturbation, is anything bad in it healthwisely and religiously? Matured opinions needed.

I'm a familiar face here when it comes to the issue of sickle cell. Many have called me through nairaland for cure. Some bought the Medicine while others couldnt cause of the cost. I've been able to convince the Man to give me a package at subsidised rate. Now all i need is just a chronic sickler who normally have crisis every 2 - 3 weeks or month. I will give u the Medicine and you will give update on your progress on this thread. I want a well known person, someone that isn't shy of his or her ailment because i want it to be transparent as much as possible because it might require posting pictures. One thing i'm certain of is this, after taking the drug, you will never experience crisis again in your life-time; those that have used it might testify to it. PURPOSE: 1)Ofcourse, to boost sales for the old Man. 2) to help those in Pain. The drug goes for #70,000 but this one i want to give out will go for #20,000. You can reach me on +2347039530427. Note: you must be willing to disclose your identity not necessarily address because i dont want secrecy. I'm Agbaje Said from Ile-Ife.

Please how can i fund my nairabet account with mtn recharge card

seighapaul:
Who has the old swift wifi router modem for urgent sales.

please check your mail.

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Daraph:
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please upload the video here or give us another link asides youtube

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Cc... Lalasticlala and mynd44 , help move this to front page so that it will reach the appropriate authority. Thanks

I'm not a scribe so my story might not be coherent, so i will just go straight to the point. For someone like me who hav vouched not to travel by road again (from the southwest to the north) because of armed robbers and incessant over-speeding leading to accidents; and who again hav decided not to take local flight because i have firsthand knowledge that most of them fly with one working engine, i'm left with no choice than to travel by train which for me is still the safest means of transportation in Nigeria today. Since i've been travelling by train, i've never had any regret until last week while coming from Kano to Lagos. Unfortunately for me, i hate a food when we got to Minna and alas, it turned me to a living moving shi*t. The food turned my stomach that i had to rush to the gent only to see it locked. That would be the first time i will attempt to use the toilet since i've been travelling by train. I had to stay at the edge of the door entrance of a moving train to shi*t. What if the essence of paying for a first class treatment. Ofcourse, i enjoyed AC from Kano to lagos and i played PES with friends because there was avenue to charge my laptop but shi*t has no respect for anyone. Back to the locked gent; it was later i got to know that its been loaded with luggages by the railway workers. And the money paid for the luggages go straight to their pocket instead of the railway corporation purse. I'm not saying they shouldnt make profit considering the number of days they spend on a trip but not at the detriment of customers. MY SUBMISSION: 1)Please inform your workers to desist from loading the toilet with luggage so that we travellers can use it at our convenience. 2) considering those that cant pay for first class coach, endeavor to fix the 2nd class coach with low voltage fans so that they can always close their windows to prevent dust. (when i went to 2nd class coach to see if i could use the toilet, it was as if the occupants works in a quarry. Someone told me he has changed his cloth 4 times). 3) introduce the use of POS in your restaurant and bar. Some of us dont move with cash because of HUNGRY PETTY thieves on the train. Cc... r231

Larryfly:
Are you new in Nigeria or did ur parents just allow you to start using your phone? Havent you heard of family and friends

FAF isnt available at the moment bro. Thanks for answering though

Pls does MTN or GLO has a package that allows one to make call to 1 particular line at a very cheap cost. Thanks

Does anyone know any betting site in NIGERIA that have exchange market (lay odd). Asides Nairastake though. Thanks