cheerycoco:
I have been dating this guy for years now and i have put up with his serial cheating. He cheats on me and i have come to feel that a man cheating on you is normal. I have talked about it with him, cried about it, the truth is that i have gotten used to him and i can't stay without him and he knows it. Seriously i'm fade up because his side chicks insult me any time i try to confront them on phone and its so painful. i have phobia of being alone. Pls i need ur advice. I love him

I have been in your shoes before but in this situation, it was my babe that was cheating and made it ALMOST normal. But one day I WOKE UP!!! Babes please take your leave now. A Leopard will NEVER EVER EVER change its skin. A word is enough for the wise.

Mavelshee:
It was on a sunday afternoon during this xmas holiday. My wife and I decided get a little kinky because honestly we havnt had some good actions for a really long time. So my wife asked Martha our nanny to take the kids to our neighbours house upstairs for some play time and bring them back by 6pm. Kpa kpa kpa kpa kpa we don comot cloth, kpo kpo kpo kpo kpo kpo we don start pre-intimacy, and that was when it happened oo....Our 10yrs old son just opened the door "mum can I have some....." and saw his mum leaning on the edge of the bed crying and his dad eating his mums buttoks. Lo and behold this little dude just paused and thereafter there was a big grin + disgust on his face. My wife hasn't stopped crying oo, mostly because she thinks this kind of scenerio can eff up kids chemistry n stuffs. Plus he now looks at me somehow whenever we are together. I hope he doesn't tell the others what he saw.

So please nairalanders how can I explain or brainwash my kid about what he saw that day.

I have been in your son's shoes and trusts me it messes up the mind big time at that young age. I was 11 at the time and I slept off in my parent's room. I woke up at the middle of the night, it was dark but I sort of saw what was going on. The good thing is that my parents did not know that I was awake. My opinion - talk to him and let him know that what he saw is reserved strictly for Mummy and Daddy and establish boundaries of how your children burst into your rooms. Let them know that they should knock and wait for response before approaching the room or call out your names first.

Good for her

Meanwhile vote Miss World here
http://www.lvka168.com/missworld/voting/countries/Nigeria

Lizabeth25:
Been awake since 3am....trying to figure this out. Throwing it here might give me an answer to my disturbing questions. I hope the topic catches attention because I really need to read other people's opinion on this.

I'm 29 of age. I have a 41 years old guy whom I've introduce to my relatives and I've also met his.

We've been seriously dating for the past 5 to 6 months and within that period, every time we have a slight misunderstanding, he deletes me from social media starting from BBM to Whatsap then to FBK.! So whenever we settles, he begs me to re-add him.

This is the 5th time he is deleting me again and this has started giving me concern.

And I've started thinking that he's not right for me! Then what if I end up marrying him, any issues that comes up or we have slight misunderstanding, will he send me out of the house

Please, guys, is this how your react to your woman? And why do you do that?

Ladies, have you ever experienced issues like this and how did u cope?

I'm confuse and I don't understand why an adult will be thinking or behalving like a kid!

Just want to be sure that it's a normal and general reaction guys exhibits when they are not happy at their woman otherwise, I will just be on my own. Because my common sense is telling me to run away from him!

Please, don't just view, kindly type in your opinion. I will appreciate them!

I think you actually answered yourself. If at 41 he still does childish things like that, it explains why he is still single

Meanwhile vote Miss World Here
http://www.lvka168.com/missworld/voting/countries/Nigeria

Bobbyjay001:
Mttcchw! Too much nollywood movies dey worry some people. I blame Ramsey Nouah and his likes.

Before anyone comes here to quote me with hatred comments,am happily married to the love of my life. I proposed to my wife in privacy and not in public domain. If you're the doubting Thomas type,na ur palava be that. Naija people, go get brain. *spits*

Abeg park well. Who cares?! People have been proposing to their wife-to-be in public long before Ramsey Nouah was born. Whatever rocks their boat

ITbomb: Normally what they do is to get a venture capitalist to finance the app for up to 3-5 years. In the first few years what they are focus on is to make more people aware and use it, then as people start depending on it, they introduce adverts, finally they will offer premium services for a fee.

However here in Nigeria, app developers start from day one to imagine how 500 people will buy their 'unknown' products.

Thank you!

dadaic: Lol.. People are funny. What'sapp started recently and it sure has grabbed a lot of attention. A classic disruptive idea as I will put it. How do they make money!! Simple, when it all started, it was free, which you and I downloaded, and we all know it started in 2009, so everyone who used in 2009, two years later, they have to pay 99 cents, another 3 years later, you pay $1.99, they do not need advertising neither do they need to advertise their market. They depend on public mouth. The site itself is built just with $10, they don't depend on heavy budget. Judging from the users of the app, over 100 million subscribers has been using since it started, now imagine how much they would have made, or are still making. The problem is people are wanting to purchase the app from it's owners making it difficult for instant messaging to be free. Well, only if it's bought. You don't need to advertise to make cash, as long as your idea is good, public mouth will make you rich only by the number of people viewing or downloading such app. Hope I have been able to help. Check the Nasdaq charts and see how their peak period has been, and you will understand what I am saying.

bros! $10 ke?!! haba, oya show proof

public mouth will "NOT" make you rich any money if your app is FREE and has no adverts on it!

SayITnw: There are many ways they will be earning money:
1. If the apps is networkcentric, then the network provider and the apps owner would have defined benefits within a contract. Which could mean while the apps is free, you will incur cost on data use for download and continuous usage of the application, the apps owner will be getting an agreed share of that, in some cases it could be a one of payment....Even if the apps is not free...a sharing formular would have been agreed.
2. No of positive hits could be another. Apps on playstore for example don't just get in there, play store team will have reached an agreement with the apps developer.

Almost made sense, but then none of the apps quoted do this. And FYI, apps "just get to playstore". Design one today and you can have it in by next tomorrow. It's an open platform

patriotic007: I always knew this unbunddling and privatisation of PHCN will create a lot of Jobs,......kudos to GEJ

Wow give this guy a noble prize !!! Who would have thought of that??

ASHHAWO oshi

uchetobi: I'm married, the unmarried ones are envying me
I have kids, the ones without are envying me
I had normal delivery the ones that had cs are envying me

God really need to deliver a lot of Nigerian women from these mentality!

Life is not a competition and believe it or not some people's life do not revolve around answering 'Mrs'

Neither is it a competition of whose children got into sec school first or got married first! Jeez

Its not a race or 'first/ winner takes all'

I was at the gym in 2009 and two women got into a fight and the next thing we heard was 'that's why you are not married' shuooooo! Marriage don turn badge..the other woman she was abusing was even married, she just doesnt wear her ring to exercise


Coming from someone happily married for almost two years and still in a honeymoon phase self! Breathe in and out...your unmarried friends are not coveting your life....even the bible says it in ecclesiastics..there is time and a season for everything.

The fact that their time hasn't come yet doesn't mean they envy u or covet ur life or that you are even better than them

Just exactly what I wanted to type.

youngbilly1: I wonder whats wrong with some nigerian you tell them something they talk another trash, i said even the brand new that are sold in ikeja some of it are fake!the real and clone are sold for the same price at ikeja. ANYONE WHO WANNA BUY A SAMSUNG PHONE GOTO THEIR DEALER AND GET IT, we are all learned here goto youtube watch the comparism, lately i got to know even apple product have their fake one just gotta be careful getting a smart phone now. Samsung is made in korean but some unlicenced people make a clone and resell to people. Sam[b]e with apple product not all component of an iphones was made in america,some were made in asia[/b] and i "guess" samsung company dose some of there part probably the screen. Am done talking anybody who wanna yield to advice should yield any mr or mrs knowall can take their smartass to get a fake. Happy nu year.

All iPhones are "assembled" in CHINA!

youngbilly1:

Mr man, i deal with phones, i can tell you point blank not everyone can afford a brand new smart phone, and sometimes a uk used last longer than a brand new. For example i bought the uk used S3 for 83k when S3 first came out for 90 + it was quiet expensive, till today its functioning fine, i have colleagues of mine who bought brand new S3 of recent when the price fell,they complain of one issues or the other. So not everyone can afford a brand new thats why its called USED!so there's nothing like discount,you just gotta be smart when buying a used phone. Same with cars people rather buy tokunbo.

chei another slavery mentality! Are you listening to yourself: UK-used(whatever that bullcrap means) lasts longer than a brand new?!! For real??!! On what planet does that make any sense. Either you buy a used or new phone, electronics is bound to malfunction. You can't ever get the same quality on all the phones that comes from a manufacturer. So don't use your "lucky-buy" to judge. Tokunbo cars are NEVER better than NEW.

B.L.S:

Are you the first person to live in Uk? Even after the original poster explained CLEARLY why he calls them UK used you still had to continue with your useless rant. Look Mr Man, why don't you go and tackle the car sellers on tokunboh cars, why they have different prices for registered and unregistered cars? Why don't you go and challenge Park n shop on why they sold me five balls of tomatoes at over N1000 because they had the imported badge? Your crusade is at best too late and too far off- start your revolution from the UK there by convincing them that they pay too much for Mcdonalds, the Gap, iMax movies and all other imported ideas they have there.

Bros what are you saying.. .the comparison you brought up are simply APPLES and ORANGES. I was talking about USED-phones. How Mcdonalds etc take enter this discussion. If you were reaped off by Park n shop ... na because you dumb ni. Did they tag it UK-USED tomatoes? Did you forget to take your medicine again?

olawalelarry: mine sucks a lot after I left nigeria in 2011,I heared she had another boyfriend,I called her and asked if wot I heared is true,she begged me to forgive her but I said no and since den she rekindle and start calling me names and swear me on facebook i couldn't help but to block her cos I can't keep on exhanging word with her, she is 20yrs old tho

Lol...nonsense woman and some ladies will say they are +10years emotionally more matured than guys

jewelzizi: Its about 3wks my bf told me he culdnt really go on again wit the 4mnths rlship...nd I simply said ok nd we broke up. Yes! I was hurt, bt I felt much better becos al I did while we dated was hang on till he decides to call it quit cos I didn't want to do it...I was jst sure we won't make it,so my mind was waiting for the faithful day nd it came, we both parted peacefully. But one part of me was tinking of wat to payback. Bt trust me..its much better to part peacfully.

Like seriously you knew all the while that it won't last and yet you're still talking about a "pay back". What kinda human being are you?

Vallotti: As a female. . . I HAVE NEVER MET ANY MALE MY AGE MATE THAT IS AS A DEVELOPMENTAL/COGNITIVE EQUAL.
They tend to act 10 or 20 YEARS IN THE DEFICIENCY column emotionally and spirtually-speaking. To put it directly. . . THEY ACT LIKE IJJJIOTS!

As I get older. . . THE GAP WIDENS. . . .
Sooooooooooooooooo I would have to say NO!
It would not work for me. I NEED A 10 YEAR GAP!!!! So, I CAN HAVE SOME TIME AND PATIENCE WITH HIS AZZZZZZZZZZZE THAT REFUSES TO GROW UP!!!

I need a man. . . not a boy!

SHE WILL OUTGROW YOU IN ABOUT 5 YEARS. . . .AND LOOK LIKE YOUR MOTHER IF SHE AGES LIKE MOST NIGERIAN OR NAIRALAND WOMEN!!!!

Age does not usually correlate with maturity. . . BUT IN MY DEALINGS WITH NIGERIAN MAN. . . .

THE BIGGER THE SHOE SIZE. . . THE SMALLER THE BRAIN!

OP. . . goodluck!

Were you referring to your mechanic boyfriends

uche16:
you are so fucking daft, i have never come across a more stupid,beguiled and myopic person like you. if you fucking need your grand dad to be your husband then by all means do so,i'm sure you havent found him yet. keep your stupid opinions to yourself and am really sure you live a sedantry lifestlye thats why you want get married to an old man so as not to worry yourself with keeping active and looking better, jesus,you sound so fucking dumb, were you teleported from the 16th century

you took it right out of my mouth, the babe don take some expired panadol

An average ID.iOT.ic babe thinks she's 10 years emotionally wiser than a guy. It's not your fault, it's older that guys that relate with teenagers that gives you guys liver

hopefullman: Go for dell.it's very rugged.i run loads of engring software without any problem.i have been using mine now for 4yrs without problem.run from hp.two of my brother's high end hp laptop packed up recently

It's difficult to just generalise when it comes to laptops. Everyone in my house has an hp laptop. I have used mine intensively for 4 years: by intensively I mean - rendering video premiere pro and after effects ,running time domain simulations in matlab and I only shut it down about 1ce in 2 weeks. It started overheating around July but not surprised considering how I have used it. I used DELL previously but had battery and Mother board issues after 1 year. I bought both from uk. I also have friends that have used dell for 4 years so it's almost difficult to give an objective answer to OP

Khalessi:
Ah another nursery one drop out that has a phone with internet access congrats douche you've just shown your stupîdity to the world...

Trojan

Khalessi: Its cool...I've seen better looking bridal make up on onila's wedding thread...I don't like the eyebrow it's too thin.

You smoke shit ni, you de chop crase ni. Everyone is beautiful in their own right so what's with "better looking bride??"!!

pee777: i dont think you are right by your summation. Have a look at many of the ecommerce sites they all have different concepts and feels e.g www.our-marketplace.com and others like olx.com etc

mehn those designs are ridiculous. You took stockphotos from all over and couldn't even hide the water marks, graphics sef nawa

chiwex: check out this Nigerian e-commerce website that sells ebooks for now known as http://nairamegashop.com and I believe they are in need of marketers to promote their site,by 2 or 3 years time,they will be popular,now,I work there and I know the difficulties we are passing through,but I believe,that soonest,we will start reaping.

That site needs very serious REWORKING. To start with the logo looks like something smeared together by my 3 year old nephew. I could already tell that it is an off-the-shelf, no-further-work-done CMS specifically PrestaShop. If you want something like Jumai, you would seat down and do proper packaging from graphics to interaction all the way to properly tweaking your cms. A friend called me up once asking to design EBAY naija version. I thoroughly understand what goes into it but it's not just something one person will piece together over one weekend, it needs serious planning all the way to implementation and finally aggressive ADVERTISEMENT/MARKETING.

bummyasije:
I dont see why you have issues.....i buy used phones from u.k, hence the term (u.k used),
So how has it become lies to you ?!?
if you dont understand something you ask questions instead of making unfounded statements.

I think you ought to ask for clarification first before jumping! I simply said there's no difference between saying a phone is UK-used or otherwise. Used phone is USED phone , na same type of human being use it on both sides of the globe! I live in UK and so I have a better perspective than you in telling you that it is simply CRAP calling anything "uk-used". Smh!

Who lies to people about this nonsense "uk-used"? I live in the uk and I can't see the difference between using a phone in nigeria or using it in uk and selling it off after that!

WFE: The responses here is a sad reflection of the state of the Nigerian society. 'The pull them down' syndrome is an epidemic that is ravishing very fabric of our life. If we must make progresss as a nation, we must remove the twin evil of jealousy and hatred in our DNA.

How did you know CU cannot be among the first ten univerities in the world? What do you think will happen if reearchers in CU discover the cure for aids? Is not possible? Where was Dangote on the world rich list ten years ago?

For the records - I am not related to Oyedepo or Winners.

In retrospect.. you're quite right. In the real sense, it will take winning alot of nobel prizes to land in first 20

[size=18pt]STUPIDITY TO ELEPHANTINE PROPORTIONS... I EVEN SEE GROOMSMEN WEARING IT AT WEDDINGS(.. They just look like Criminals )[/size]

Justiceotuya: manchester united used 500000 pounds which is equivalent to 100million to renovate their own pitch. my take is that 96mill is not too much. but how much of that money that reaches the hands of the contractors depends on how quality the work will be. in this case the 96mill is too much for a pitch that I'll still be water logged. www.sportsmole.co.uk/off-the-pitch/man-utd/news/man-utd-to-spend-gbp500k-on-new-pitch_73945.html

Just stop there, what are you saying?!!! The economic environment is more expensive in europe when you do direct conversion. A typical house will be built for around £200k, that's like 50million, the same house in naija will be finished with at most 20million, so don't give me that man u bull crap.

slimmy05: its not hard to know a thief they are only after alimony. That's if he remains in US mind you.

Men should learn not to leave women to ONE chance!

This has nothing to do with University, it has more to do with the Lecturer. I witnessed this in my OAU days... one first year course like that

Whoever took the picture of this young child ought to be jailed. If at all you're going to show evidence, do you have to show his face??!!! What happened to identity protection?!?!?!?!

necklace on a man? Always looks out of place to me sha

ThaProphet: Pregnancy is not an illness. It is funny and annoying [b]when women all of a sudden "act" ill [/b]when they are pregnant and stop doing what they used to do. Most times, they relax while their husbands do everything for them while they just sit around and get fat.

If you sit around and stop being active cos you're pregnant, it is possible you have more complications while giving birth. Your muscles have been in relax mode for 7 months straight, no exercise or nothing. That cannot be healthy.

Secondly, by the time you give birth, you will be uglier. All the fat will get into your face, legs, arms, neck, fingers and most importantly, your belly. You will end up looking like Papa Ajasco. Then you will complain when your husband does not find you sexy anymore.

You've got to be active while pregnant. I know of at least 2 women who continued their normal lifestyle during pregnancy. One who did not take her maternity leave until 8 months into the pregnancy. The result: healthy women, safe delivery and healthy babies.

This case however, I find a bit extreme but being a crossfit member (these guys don't play), I am sure she is more than used to it. Who knows? Maybe she used to lift heavier weights before. As long as she is not unusually (doing things she's not used to doing) stressing herself, she should be safe. Not sure about 2 weeks to delivery though but I guess she knows better being a mother of 2 already.

Are you a woman? Have you ever been pregnant?

meshybizzo: I think many people commenting here are forgetting so many things.

Firstly, @op Uncle was most likely speaking as a Nigerian. We all know nigerian universities are no good. Even the so-called private ones. So let's stop decieving ourselves.

What is the arguement here? That computer science goes beyond programming or that studying computer science in "Nigeria" is a waste of time!

My answer to both is simple. They are both CORRECT! Computer science far goes beyond programming but also spending 4 good years (all things been constant e.g ASUU) in nigerian universities is sadly a long waste of time.

I have meet, worked wit and seen computer science and engineering graduates from Unilag, OAU and even the so-called CU and likes incapable of "Formatting" a computer system after 4years in the university. I finished from FUTA. Comp sci students are taught maths and al sort of matrics and algebra ova and ova. Yet some can even write a simple html code.

So Pls, Pls and Pls let's not decieve ourselves. Yes the certificate has its benefits but if you're speaking in terms of "knowlegde" I do rather go to some training institute for 1year than 4long years in a nigerian university studying Comp Sci.

Its all a matter of focus. What you want to do. For example, If I wanted 2b a networking guy, I do direct my money toward Cisco certifications. And believe me it do take you there much faster than 4years in the university.

And lastly, Computer science is far becoming to Large! In the nearest further I foresee it been dissolved into small course like network engineering, programming and the likes.

Just pause there. There are some things that will NEVER be learnt in university. Personal development comes into play even if you go to the best universities in the world. I have phD friends who have never seen the inside of a "desktop" computer here in uk neither do they know how to format a computer and they are very vast in other software related things. Don't lay undue emphasis on one thing as a true picture of the whole. A graduate of electrical engineering from MIT WILL NOT be able to wire a 3 bedroom apartment. Ask me why? Stuffs like that are not usually taught in University. I learnt it personally by attaching myself to an electrician family friend. So get out of the mind-set of "he/she can't do this simple thing". University/ high education will point you in a direction, it is left for you to find the end of it. In retrospect the starting point of programming should be fortran,basic or python, that's the best place to grow a baby from a toddler to a walking child... and remember not every child will eventually become a gymnast.

I used to think that studying computer science was a waste of time till I got abroad (I actually switched from comp sci to elect in my 2nd year in uni). With my years of programming/design etc, I discovered that there was more to computer science than just churning out codes. There are many things in the field you CAN NOT LEARN on your own correctly. Algorithms, Data Structures, Operations Research and Modelling, Concepts of Concurrency, Artificial Intelligence to mention just a few. I recently took part in the Google code jam and it was then I knew that some problems required some other concepts I won't find in programming books or by packing a few certifications. The kind of coursework I see undergraduates do here is what most people do as FINAL year project in Nigeria.