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Yorubest:
Good morning family

I can't sleep and cried all night

I've been married for 3yrs with a son

Before getting married I dated my husband for less than a year and everything was fine.

I don't want to bore you with the details but before getting married, my husband and I agreed to be honest and tell each other everything. I told him about my previous affairs and he didn't have problem with it but I couldn't tell him about the one with my present GM because I still work with him.

Somehow, he got to find out through one his friends who knows my boss. It's not as if he was told the details but he came from a meeting last Friday asking so many questions. It was about my boss and I had to confess to him.

Although what I had with my boss was a fling, he felt I was too cheap as he never asked me out but told me meet him in his house when his wife was away and I did and it happened. Just twice.

My husband keeps saying he doesn't trust me anymore. He's stopped touching me and he rarely talks to me and raises his voice now

He has a good job that pays well and his salary dwarfs mine but I love the job and my career.

What can I do to win him back? I'm confused. Help. No insults please

royalroy

U didn't tell h OK m about your boss because u still wanted to continue playing the game. Now it has caught up with you.

Halldmoney:
Oga savage who ur english epp? and if good punctuation is the pass mark, where is ur face on the forbes list? some of you guys just come on here with ur foolishness all in the name of having fun. Oga face ur biz and stop bashing people's mode of operation, she just expressed herself and we got d message shikenah. mumu

na very big Mumu he be.

buygala:
You are so beautiful



While your grammatical punctuation is sooo ugly


Can I send you a pm so we can get to know each other, then date, then get married, so I can sponsor you to night school where you can be taught proper punctuation ..

At least u understood the message she passed across. Oversabi

Smoke2015:
Official statement from the Lagos State Police Command on the Seun Egbegbe Fraud. Read Below:

Arrest Of Notorious Fraudsters

Today at about 1300hrs one Seun Karim aka Egbegbe and one[b] Ayo Oyekan[/b] disguised as the MD of Gbagada general hospital and the other as a patient. They lured one Alhaji Isa Adamu and Abdullahi Haruna both bureau de change members , from different location that they needed 9000dollars and 3000pounds. The unsuspecting victims brought same to the suspects at the hospital where they collected the said amount and attempted to escape with the money.

The victims raised alarm and subsequently the suspect were arrested by the policemen attached to the hospital.
Further to the arrest of the fraudsters many members of bureau de change are trooping to the office with similar complaint against the suspects .

Case is under investigation.

http://mojidelano.com/2017/02/lagos-state-police-command-releases-official-statement-on-seun-egbegbe-bureau-de-change-fraud/

The jazz dey work on top him body

maaglie:
I came to kano yesterday from lagos through Arik Air, But my reaction when i entered the plane was so disappointing. We were not more than 15 on the plane and the plane can contain more than 100 passengers. I wonder where this economic recession might take us to.

Arik actually killed their business with their own hands. Always cancelling and postponing flights. Good for them

Hadez:
This girl is the biggest fool ever. You already have a child for him, you live in his house and cook for him so doing other wife duties and he still calls you a fiancee

This thread is dedicated to me

At least when she got pregnant she didn't abort it like u did. who's a bigger fool here?

@Lala please kindly move to front page. This is not acceptable.

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ireneony:
natural beauty my aass..
why did she perm her hair...why not leave the hair in its natural state.

Modified
To those quoting me, pls back off.
i support being natural but damn not on your wedding day. Makeup or no make does not determine someone's character.

Receive sense please. If u support being natural then your wedding day shouldn't be an exception. The wedding day is the best day to showcase your natural beauty.

lofty900:
u bought hot 3 10days ago now u have hot 4. Do they pay u guys for lying?

Read his post again.

waxxydude:
Looks like a stoopid nollywood scene, where he'll now meet that mumu rich man daughter, that decided to eat in his shop, her guards tries to stop her, but she's a hard nut, she says "i want to know him, there's something really special about him" .

After two scenes, the nigga's started bonking her chronically, then her parents finds out and tries to kill him. He eventually survives and they give their lives to Jesus.

Thunder fire some nollywood film makers.

While thunder is firing them, they are busy making their monies and ure only struggling for space on NL. Hate until u hate ursef.

IMASTEX:
This world is indeed a complex place. You might be forced to agree after hearing this account. A friend, Joe (not real name) came to me lust in thought about what to do. According to him, he had finalized every wedding arrangement including printing of invitation cards, etc only to be invited by his pastor last week. On getting there, the pastor requested for his TITHE CARD. Unfortunately, he was one of those who doesn't subscribe to owning a tithe card, even though, he is a tither. So, when he couldn't provide his pastor with the tithe card, the pastor bluntly informed him that he can't conduct the wedding ceremony without that record. After much pleading and negotiations including involving some family members, his fiancée, etc. The pastor finally gave him an option of paying accumulated tithe. A two years back log was calculated for him, amounting to hundreds of thousands. Which must be paid before the wedding can hold.

Now the issues is that, Joe doesn't feel pleased been subjected to such conditions. However, to shoulder such task, Joe suggested cutting down some of the wedding activities/expenses but his fiancée didn't accept it. And he didn't quite conform to holding the wedding in his fiancée's church because of the small size of the church building which is even undergoing construction work. Some of his family members are even suggesting to just go for registry after the traditional marriage and forget about the white wedding. All these issues are what is giving him worries.

Please, your matured advise/opinions will be greatly appreciated. The wedding is suppose to hold 20th of this Month. Yet, no valid conclusion is reached.

go and do ur wedding in the registry and end all wahala.

Ekuru:
You know not what you're saying. I will pray for your forgiveness.

After u have asked for ur own forgiveness.

Ekuru:
The teachings of Islam is prone to violence. The holy book can be manipulated to provocation. The truth is, one Alfa or Iman can just wake up one day, go to the mosque and brainwash people and before you say holy Mary, churches are burnt. I refuse to say all Muslims are violent, no. But this religion is so open to violence and these thugs are harnessing it.

Christians CANNOT and WILL NOT run away from Nigeria. Christianity CANNOT die because Christ is Alive! He's not dead.

Whoever these people claim to follow is in the grave, Jesus Christ rose from that grave, He's not dead.

Christianity is love, and we will never carry weapon. God's watching all these. Very soon, we shall know which will stand the test of time between those following a DEAD Leader and we following a LIVING Leader.

You are nothing but a religious fanatic. Be a fan of God and not religion.

Disneylady:
Bleached babez don collect this guy money finish con dey lament...

When u dey enjoy d puss*y who u tell abeg onto the next tori

one of them

Arijude:
The wife is not beautiful sha but maybe her character attracted him to her.

Maybe u would have learnt to appreciate other women if ur mother was beautiful.

goodfornothing:
It's not what I said. I mean, if you promise her marriage just to get into her pants and later dump her. There are girls who would not allow you to sleep with them unless you promise to marry them.

Then that girl would be as senseless and dumb as u are

redgem:
I know nothing about economy but I bet I know more than you do.....

woe betides the person that gave u access to the net. It's an insult to technology

redgem:
Op add this




15) the rate of unemployment has increased

The economy is in a bad state even with all this so called changes claimed to be made

Change is a gradual process... Why try to build Nigeria in a day? China, America, Great Britain, Rome etc were not built in a day.. You can't kill two birds with a stone, Mr President rushing things will only crash the economy

Tackle a problem at a time....

I am not a Buhari fan but u know nothing about economy!

delishpot:
Yes. The custom of enslavement. Later you guys come here to wonder why our mothers and foremothers never left their abusive and sad marriages. This is the reason why. The custom made sure to tie a woman down to a man one way or the other.man.
If she left the child as custom wants to force her to do, it's still those same hypocrites that will say she abandoned her baby and left the marriage. If she wants to carry her baby and leave those same people will say according to custom she should leave baby with the man. How then can a woman escape an unhappy and abusive marriage?

U represent what you put up as ur display picture.

hmuhammad:
you've allowed sentiments becloud ur sense of reasoning that you can't see the post I replied to. Too bad

Obvious u don't know what u wrote.

hmuhammad:
you are truly a bush boy, you think yorubas will choose fayose over Osinbajo? You also think North will choose sheriff over PMB?
No northern candidate can stand PMB in north and Nigeria, PMB shall govern Nigeria till 2023. If you are not comfortable with it, just relocate to Djibouti

Can u see ur level of reasoning at all? Is it about being a northerner? Smh at u

mercydaniel:
I support you jor but I can't say what is in my mind b4 naira land go block me as them do b4. But ds person stupid sha

over silly dey worry am

vizkiz:
This MILF is actually that dude's mum? Damn! Are you thinking what I am thinking?

Please tell me you are thinking what I am thinking




This dumb bastarrd does not even know what a MILF means and later we will be saying buhari is a dullarrd

I bet ur mother can not in anyway do better than her and u can not in anyway do better than the person u call a dullard.

udmbat:
Mumu couples

Cant u see ure the mumu here. How many couples can u see there?

ireneony:
Tosin abeg u nor go kill person

Op is like you've never met a sharp girl.

The truth is; it is more easy to tell if a guy just had sex.

Have you ever wondered why footballers are advised not to have sex during any game.

A lady can have sex with different men in a day, and it is hard to tell.


Make I just de laugh

Speaking from experience.

Move to fp ASAP.

oldtopics:
at least lot of dignitaries came, some people were not so lucky only about 10 people will come after their demise...it a bad thing to be poor

Ur mentality is sick. Who told you poor people have only few people who pay them condolences.

Integrityfarms:
All men are born equal but some grew up more equal than the others

Careless statement! Sick mentality!

Enangson:
Please i need mature advice on the best gift i should get for my EX on her wedding few weeks from now. I really feel like surprising her with a gift since we both ended the relationship on good terms.

The best gift you can give to her is ur wedding card.

Europija:
Hello all ..I have been with my bf for 5 years and he was really broke n had alot stress...he hit me once in my face n threw me out of house in middle of night...should i forgive him??

Nothing can justify his acts but what did you do? Page