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Europija:
Hello all ..I have been with my bf for 5 years and he was really broke n had alot stress...he hit me once in my face n threw me out of house in middle of night...should i forgive him??

Nothing can justify his acts but what did you do?

Dohmeenick:
But she is my last hope..I don't have anyway of getting income

The way ure insisting means uve already made up ur to sleep with her. Y seeking for our advice on dis forum?

Jtmanager:
Oga keep quiet
Nd learn how to express ur self properly

Learn how to comprehend properly. Matter fact I didn't talk, so how will I keep quiet when I haven't talked?

whalexyy:
dat u are a cow woz enuf to burst me to unending lafta

D guy misbehaved now.

tripplephi:
you even took time to reply.... we are both the same then. EAT GRASS TODAY.

Get sense and always understand what people say on this platform b4 typing nonsense.

tripplephi:
Are you so dumb. Are all pastors fake. Going to a pastor is for counselling. If I know how spiritual she is then she has to go a mountain and pray fire upon the man. You don't have a better suggestions and yet you face me just because I mention pastor.... Why are you so myopic. God will judge you.... I don't care what pastor has duped or offended you.... We overcome evil with good. If you cannot bring light don't curse the darkness. I pity your destination.... So because there are fake pastors we should not serve God again ba Or we should not go to church... And allow the devil Deceive us that Christianity is in the heart.... My dear God will fight you. You must be proud and hurt. I am no pastor but fake will always prove that there are real ones somewhere. Mtchew

U are a cow. A big fat one. Read my view over and over again and if u can't understand it ask d closest person to u to throw more light. Be it for counselling or prayers! What I'm trying to tell u is that taking a guy to pastors or parents doesn't guarantee a long lasting relationship to lead to marriage. Some guys can go that far to buy d girl's trust, get what they want and dump the he'll outta the girl. Understand what I'm trying to say here and ull see that ure the myopic one here. Senseless fooool.

tripplephi:
Tell him if he is serious with you he should come and meet your pastor or your mum. Else he will have sex with you and dump you as a side check..... If you don't do this then it shows what kind of Lady you are. Be real o.... Men are crafty when it comes to sex

There are countless number of people who have been introduced to pastors and parents and still end up being dumped. So keep that ur suggestion. Doesn't really make sense.

Fame333:
OP, Old Nissan Altima always have dis problems: constantly Changing of Fuel Pump, irregularity of Fuel Guage, Quench and Stop due to Relay.
I bet is ur fuel gauge that's playing tricks on U. Take it to d Mech for repair. Goodluck

Nope. Not really. All Total fuel stations sell with adjusted pumps

Hope it gets to fp asap

INTROVERT:
Lovely pictures......





.. but wait ooooo... what is the ideal time gap between traditional and white wedding because I can't comprehend the fact that they have pushed the white to December abi she wan carry belle first before them do white

what is dis nonsense about white wedding? As far as tradition is concerned. They are married.

elshanAutos:
Spotted earlier today.
This is NOT a honda problem.

looking for a way to console urself.

Europija:
Hello all...My boyfriend started acting strange...I have been together with him for 4 years and now he started calling me only at night from midnight and he doesn't pick my calls when it is day time.

When he calls me at night we will talk for 1 or 2 hours and he will be happy when he talks to me and still talks about future... When i ask him why he doesn't pick my call at day time he will give me some silly excuse like he was sleeping etc..Also he doesn't have a job and we live in different countries...I am thinking maybe he is cheating on me but why then is he not sleeping with that girl at night? If he has a woman he would also stay at night with her...right? What could it be??

What country are u in and what part of the world is he in? Cos your night might be his own morning.

IamChuzzy:
An angry lady took to her Facebook page to bash schools who give pupils homework that are beyond them and also address the high level of incompetence and misplaced priorities in schools. Read after the cut.

I am very certain that when I become a mother, and my child (ren) are in this country, I'm going to be the scourge and headaches of some schools.

Last year, my niece was given an assignment on figures. A girl that was 4 years old then, you asked her to write 50 - 100 and you asked her to write such in a 2A exercise book. You didn't rule the pages of the 2A, you just gave it to her like that.

Except memory must have failed me, the exercise book for writing figures is 2B.
The little girl got confused at a point, the tired mother spanked her, her cries touched me so raw and I had to go look at what was causing all the noise and tears.

I saw it and I asked the mom if any teacher gave her such assignment in a 2A notebook while she was the daughter's age.

I wrote a note to the class teacher, pinned it on Emmanuella's uniform and asked that it should be delivered to the class teacher.
Anyway, the nonsense stopped for a short while.

If as a parent I send my ward to your school, you in turn now give my child any nonsense homework, then I will let you realise that I can send the Ministry of Education after you.

Some will give homework that any sane person knows that it is the parents that will eventually do it.
My parents, my elder brothers never did any of my homework for me.
Homework is meant to test if the child has a good grasp of what you imparted and also to see if your method of teaching is working.
You don't test me as a parent.

You test your pupil and you make an assessment of your own teaching skills.
What sort of nonsense assignment is this?
What concerns a pupil with Sir Shina Peters?
Is this part of the school's curriculum?

Some will ask parents to pay for excursions and the destination for such will be shoprite or Eko hotel.
Are these schools mad houses or what? And parents still send their children there?

The other day, one mushroom school in my neighbourhood at Badagry was teaching one useless rhyme... "left right left right, ikebe no dey heavy the owner, left right.." I was beyond shock.

There is an open community well right in front of the school, an uncovered well.
I wrote about it and a cousin came inbox to tell me I shouldn't expose the neighbourhood school like that..

Where do we start from?


http://www.chuzzysblog.com/2016/01/checkout-this-homework-given-to-5-year.html

You can as well teach your children by yourself. That's where you can start from.

ogmaskman:
He married her because she is Nigerian. He mentioned the reasons too. Pls read again.

Do you have a problem comprehending what's there?

mykl01:
I bought an LG Tab Book before my tour of duty to Baga, but sometime during a major fight my lodging was burnt and I lost the charger to my Tab. I can't find it in the open market and LG is giving me a long period of silence. Are there any suggestions? Thanks.

Hi comrade, any solution to the lost charger yet? Coz I've a similar issue.

Lizabeth25:
Been awake since 3am....trying to figure this out. Throwing it here might give me an answer to my disturbing questions. I hope the topic catches attention because I really need to read other people's opinion on this.

I'm 29 of age. I have a 41 years old guy whom I've introduce to my relatives and I've also met his.

We've been seriously dating for the past 5 to 6 months and within that period, every time we have a slight misunderstanding, he deletes me from social media starting from BBM to Whatsap then to FBK.! So whenever we settles, he begs me to re-add him.

This is the 5th time he is deleting me again and this has started giving me concern.

And I've started thinking that he's not right for me! Then what if I end up marrying him, any issues that comes up or we have slight misunderstanding, will he send me out of the house

Please, guys, is this how your react to your woman? And why do you do that?

Ladies, have you ever experienced issues like this and how did u cope?

I'm confuse and I don't understand why an adult will be thinking or behalving like a kid!

Just want to be sure that it's a normal and general reaction guys exhibits when they are not happy at their woman otherwise, I will just be on my own. Because my common sense is telling me to run away from him!

Please, don't just view, kindly type in your opinion. I will appreciate them!

Candid advice! u guys should stay away from each other on social media and try talking one-on-one. I bet u will see the difference

Akynzodeighbour:
any job u apply for and they get back to you less than 24hours is a scam,gnld or marketing people

I disagree with u on that please.

An0nimus:
Probably she works and during lunch break she changes to a fresh underwear

The lies on this thread are too strong to digest.

Na so i dey see am ooo

Estharfabian:
Nigerian Guys>≥>>>>>>>Once A Month eww?

Normal Healthy routine should be [size=28pt]thrice[/size] A Day...

Only a jobless person like u would change underwear thrice a day. How does someone who goes to work and come late in d evening have d chance for dat?

kazolad:
Hello nairalanders, I am a graduate but I am yet to be mobilized for service. In order not to be idle, I took up a teaching job in one of the private secondary schools in my area.

There is a girl in my class who has being acting somehow since my first day in the school. I found out that she always gives me lustful facial expression in the class. Sometimes, she will come to my office and asked me to teach her some topics in physics which i will explain to her. This continued until last week when i received a call from her ( i don't know how she got my number) and told me she is in love with me. I was shocked because i didn't expect to hear that from her. I told her from that point that it can never be possible but since then, she has being disturbing me with calls and messages. Should i report her to the management or quit the job?

Make sure u have proof before u think of reporting or talking to the counselor over the issue. Girls can be funny though

brize:
Earpiece is not a street thing, people should stop watching and copying every shit they see on television because it does not happen for reality.... Earphone is for Dj in a club or you in your house simple....


I saw someone, a man in a ladies machine and putting on earpiece and was speeding to his speed ability but what drew my attention was how close one tipper that was go toward the same lane was to it and i am 100% sure that because of the earpiece he can not hear the horn of the tipper talk more of hearing the sound of it........then I wondered the song that boy or man will be listening that is worth more than his life(whether precious or useless life) and the preciouse lives of innocent people plying the road too..... Well i came to a conclusion that Black men are indeed useless

As long as it doesn't leave u out, it's not a problem

kheni28:
. Wat r u saying.. they r now ministers waiting for portfolios

Have they been given appointment letters? Have they taken the oath yet?

Carmal90:
For me it is lai rauf mohammed..
For basically making the senate floor lively

Best screened ministerial nominee and not minister please

slap1:
They say head-to-head record is history, forgetting their UCL victory is equally history.

na true now

olajorn:
Mukina2 u brought this to front page to mock chelsea..

Even if chelsea put U-15 children on the pitch,We will always beat Arsenal

And to Op You can join any club of your choice or You Shut the fvck up

In Chelsea we believe....we shall rise again

Always u said. Its obvious u just started watching football. Check the stats and see d head-to-head records for your sef

Ikenna351:
First thing you need to do is to stay still, take a deep breath and release the negative energy you have built up. Because the negative energy is drawing more negative things to you, because thats the vibration you are putting out.

You said in the first post that you are biased toward Peugeot. For that, all you will see and keep attracting once you remain in that vibration is to keep attracting negative remarks, comments and even people that will give you false information about Peugeot. Even the research you have done so far, you were attracted to negative or false comments, because thats exactly what you want. There are so many positive posts and comments on Peugeot cars online, but only the negative ones you found worth commenting on. Do you see where I am going?

Not every information or comments in online about Peugeot were put by People who know what modern Peugeot car keys looks like, let alone drive or own one, yet they know all about Peugeot, which they learnt from same negative comments posted by biased people toward Peugeot. Some people found it joyful to condemn or blame something when they fail in something their fellow human beings have become succesfull in. This goes to people that abuse their Lions and put blames on their Lions. Some people simply want public acceptance by conforming to what people say and spreading the message, even if its negative or false, just to belong or remain acceptable. The good side is, people are becoming aware of the truth about Peugeot cars that serve them, that's why they are increasingly joining the Peugeot family. The Lion Community is rapidly growing and that explains a lot to all I have said.

One thing is clear, good Life doesn't wait for anyone, same as wealth. They flow to people ready to accept them, appreciate them, be grateful for them and live them fully. While some are busy complaining how things are hard, how no money is in circulation, some people are busy earning and making millions of profits annually, monthly, weekly or even daily. Prosperity does not care who you are, it cares about who wants it because the person believes he/she deserves it and attract it. Peugeot 407 have become a common household car for Abuja inhabitants, same way Peugeot cars are increasing on Abuja road everyday. Good life does not wait for anyone who is busy analysing, judging or looking for negative sides of everything. You either jump in or you keep focusing on what negativity has to offer in deciding the car to settle for.

One of my modern Lions has exceeded 180,000 kilometer mileage and the entire electrics of the Lion remain perfect.

It's ok if you prefer another car in your list than the 407, but do yourself a favor, Avoid negative reviews of any of the cars you listed. To put it in another way, focus on the positive sides of each of those cars your list. The one your heart resonates with it, go for it.

Your call!


Ikenna, The Lion King.

Mine is actually 239 and I've had no cause to regret my decision to own a lion

Captainswag225:
we never said women shouldnt wear trousers and jeans. We are saying dont bring it to church. Simple!

Why?

redgem:
Bad listening habit: most guys have this habit and it results in ineffective communication, which usually have an adverse impact on the productivity of the individual and their relationships. Poor listening definitely make a huge, negative impact on team morale and productivity. This situation usually results in conflicts and misunderstandings among partners , and it creates a negative environment.


Lack of Self control : some guys lack the ability to control their emotions, behavior, and desires. Guys should constantly be striving towards self-control and discipline, because these are foundations of integrity. One thing they need to understand about self-control is that it is not as much about saying no to certain fleshly desires, lusts
and cravings but more about living and abundant life free from addiction regret and shame.


Interrupting a conversation: guys are good at Interrupting a conversation with improper body language or inappropriate words and this has a negative impact on their relationships. My bf does this a lot and it annoys me... I've told him severally yet, he can't stop it.


Dirty: some guys are so dirty that if they should pass you, oh my God! you won't be able to breathe for hours and most of them terms it sexy.... Imagine animal odour is now sexy ta...go and sleep it's a turn off to we ladies.. We love guys that are neat, guys that organizes their home.


Bragging : some guys brag a lot eg MrCork I have no problem with a guy having money. However, I do have a problem when you decide to treat women like gold-diggers whose eyes are bound to widen at the mention of “Bugatti”. Yes, we like money, just like you men, but that doesn't mean you should also shout it.... Brags are turn off for me

Same applies to the ladies.

Bonita101n2:
I knew there will be judgement. If I was a gold digger Mr nnachuks, I would not be here plus I am from a very well to do family duh! I am posting a dilemma, a lady with a lot of suitors and making the right decision so please go and rea through again and think well before spitting out garb.

Whether ure from a rich family or not, ur article has summarised u as a person. Ure a gold digger!

MosakuAW:
Good, but not always good to involve 3rd party in a relationship or marriage. No matter the problem, the 2 people involved should be able to solve their personal problem. 3rd party will only add more to it. My thought thou.

announcing the news on nairaland means involving a third party. What do you think?

dicefrost:
No sir, as long as the patient is over 18, he alone can decide who should know about his health status. I have attended to people who are hiv+ and their spouse know nothing about it. im bound by ethics not to reveal it to their spouse unless they tell me to.

In situations which stand between life and death? Do u say he/she is above 18 to decide? What if d patient is too weak to even move an inch? Will d doctor prefer to wait for d patient? D hiv situation is totally different from this situation please.

skelewu404:
I work in a private IT company , i joined the company like seven months ago. My boss is a bit advance and he is married to a much younger and fine lady from what i heard from other staff in the office, they have been married for more than 7 years but they don't have a child, some people believe the boss is impotent that is why he never wanted to get married but due to pressure from friends and family he had to. After about 3 months working with him i met the wife and since that day my boss has become too nice to me, now he is always sending me to his house to deliver one message or the other, something he could have just call his wife and tell her he will want me to go to his house and everytime I went there the wife is always trying to seduce me. One a particular day he ask me to go and download whatsapp for his wife he told me to take my time and not rush back to the office, sometimes he will tell me to wait for him in his house knowing fully well that he will not come to the house anytime soon, now its getting out of hand because what happened the yesterday was not funny. I know what they are up to but i can't do it and i also need the job. Am confused

Why not come out and say you're looking for a job. Instead of cooking up all these bullshit.