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lmao what a funny thread

I'd beat all signs of life out of my partner if I was to find out they did something atrocious like molest our child or something.

If this lady was a good (honest) one who didnt want to be with a man who already has a child, would she have left? Yes.
If this lady had stayed, would that mean that she is a good (honest, trustworthy, whatever) woman/ partner? No.
Her staying, would still not guarantee anything. You say she is now scheduled to be married. If she twotimed you (as you claim), could she not have continued twotiming you even when you have a baby? Yes.
My point is, she didnt leave because she was cheating. She left because she believed that you had a baby which is a valid reason to leave someone (in my opinion). Not to say that she wasnt cheating. But i strongly doubt that that is why she left.
If she had:
HIV, A baby, A disease that leads to barreness, A car accident that made her lose her legs, Blingness,
Would you have left?
I suspect you have trouble with trust.

Thespecialone:
First things first, I'm a wild child, very intelligent.

Your actions prove otherwise. You seem clever though.

It is well.

viperman:
Ladies , stop covering the revelation of the girlfriends two timing.
in less than two weeks she was already in another relationship, meaning she either had the guy hanging around while she was dating the poster or she was double dating - SIMPLE!!!!


@Poster
Dude,
your test was expensive, but necessary FOR YOU as i believe you wanted to know if she's one who would stick with you through thick n thin, obviously she isn't, she failed the test the moment she left, not two weeks after. So forget her and look for someone else.

Cheers

Something tells me you'd do thesame thing he did.

the love and respect you get from a four legged friend.

I have poor memory.
I often forget what people did to wrong me. In such cases, the anger persists but I'd have no recollection of what the person did.
It gets really frustrating especially when the person comes to ask me why I'm mad at them and I cant seem to remember; yet I'm mad.  
It also gets frustrating because people tend to think that because you cant recollect your accounts of things, you're a liar.  

If she wanted to date a daddy she would have found one instead of dating you. People are allowed to have preferences, you know.


btw; that was one silly game you played.

lmao

iice:
[color=#9900ff]Yes, i've done it a few times. Though not in the same circumstance. It's a mental thing mostly for me. The hardest part is the transition from having the thought to making the decision.

My sister has those kind of relationships like the one you have. Only that she (sister) seem to be impenetrable, none of their nonsense has influenced her. If someone knew her, they'd never believe she has friends that are totally so not like her. But then, she's always had a mind of her own and done things her way. So even though it saddens her heart that some of her friends are like that, she just gives them her mind and carry on. Though as time goes, her closebess to them has lessened, she still goes and saves them when they get into trouble. She's just that way. I don't know why she still keeps them as friends. . .but i suppose it's coz she feels she can help them in some way, even it is in small ways.[/color]

Oh, thats what scares me; that things may never change.

Epi:
but if it's your friend (like a brother or sister and you know their family) would you ask for money. A big No! I am sure you have a girl-friend who is closer than a sister but no hankey pankey involved.

Right. Thats what I mean; I'd do it for a family member/ a close friend.

The movie Precious, knocked me off my feet.

Epi:
^^^ Na-ah no money involved, just from the goodness of your heart

More likely to do it knowing that I'm not doing it for the money. I'd do it for a cousin, for example. I'd have to be dead broke and desperate to do it for money.

Kenny_G:
https://www.nairaland.com/nigeria?action=profile;u=71124
and
http://petewilko.blog.co.uk/2009/08/04/honey-this-is-my-full-life-story-with-love-and-trust-6648438/

Are these 2 people the same?

Definitely thesame picture. I wonder where else I've seen that picture before. It looks really familiar

Easy does it, Tiger. Did you know that when you hate, you're really glorifying the person you hate on? Think about it; I'm sure you've got family and friends who love you alot. Yet, someone who supposedly doesnt matter to you, and doesnt deserve your attention, has got a big share on your mind. When you hate, you let go of your power. You actually give it over to the one(s) you hate.

It will be well.

honeric01:
Dang, man you should try asking her about her nightmares (if ever she's got one), maybe she's having a spiritual attack or something similar to that. rat can't bite your skin, they only peel the fingers and toes, not the skin.

oh

chibenwa:
there are times u went to go to bed wit a girl
and she says no especially when its the first time.
u try everything possible and its not working.
can u then force her to bed thou to hunger for sex.

ladies,what do u do in such situation?

I predict you'll be here in a short little while, asking if anyone knows an affordable lawyer. Matter of fact, where are you located? I'm going to google for your local news for "sexual predators",  your name might be on there shortly.

Some sexual predators forget that sometimes, you cant force a female to have intimacy with you, and get away with it. Sometimes, you actually risk your life when you try to force people.  If you're not conviced, you should watch for Lee Tergesen's role int he movie "Monster"
Humans always strive for self preservation.

it is well

erm, does she have long nails? Do YOU have long nails? Do you have rats? Or maybe she is a sleep-self-mutilator

Thats true. Who knows, maybe you'd find yourself falling for an 89 year old lol j/k

lol i see. So even if she had everything else you wanted in a woman, but is a year older, it'd still be a no? interesting

Princek12:
Amaka, Uche Jumbo is ight -- she ain't ugly, but she ain't fine, either.

I actually think shes pretty

Where do you draw the line? How old is too old for you to date? How old is young is too young?

Dont have to reveal your age, just describe it by the age difference.

I say no more than 10 years older than I am, and no more than 1 year younger. I find it difficult to relate with younger people.

beejaei:
Tudor, I just saw your picture. Quite busty. But you kinda look old. You probably married, so it is not a bad thing to be old then. And from your posts, you seem to have something between your ears. I will not mind a younger version of you.

ouch!

Something tells me, that isnt Tudor's picture anyway. But ouch nonetheless!

RealBlunt:
Useless people. see the way they are pretending as if they just want to discuss abt school. u can do dat on phone and no one would know instead of trying to tell d whole world your business. NEWS FLASH no one cares notice seekers. your you're just a damn student not Obama. and this is not CNN. u resumed school. SO WHAT?

 
maybe you should enrol in school too, hmmph?

omega25red:
make you take small hide because dem go soon shoot your head commot for here

buhahaaahaaa!

lol he is NOT kidding with those ladies. That man meant business!