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Angolababe, he wasn't talking about you. He is very crass I agree.

Wow, so much hatred Adam, although there is some truth to your story. No one should abort other than for medical reasons. But the woman has suffered enough abeg. The man didn't walk into the marriage blindly, therefore he shouldn't have treated her in such a manner. Poster i do believe that you have got some real good advice. Please do some soul searching. Now is the time.

Oh I see. Man, I don't know it depends. Mainly on the persons character and how they were, how much they respect themselves.

Damn! Wow, seems like every thread I go to, there is a fight, what happened to NL?

I don't understand.

Really. Cute puppy in the profile. But why have you not made a move?

I aint about kids, but about companionship.

No, I wouldn't divorce him.

Probably dumped her. Nah man leave her alone.

Again Tondo makes a post and leaves.

Like hotness said, the pose in the picture was very insensitive and its also sending the wrong message. Maybe he is unconsciously sending the message that he wants to be with his best friend. Just a thought.

Well I mean if I get to find out, there would be no wedding. If I don't know, then I don't know, what I don't know can't hurt.

Not necessarily. I mean it could just be his best friend. But I am just saying I would be kind of worried, that this man wouldn't consider me a friend at all, and not even making an effort to become my friend, and I am his girlfriend!

Lol, Nairaland is not going to kill me.

I honestly don't belieive in voodoo, actually this is the first time im hearing of magun, as im not nigerian, but It seems like an old wise tale to stop wives from being wayward. I think she might have an STD and she needs to really get it checked out. You said before that they are both cheating on one another, they should both go get tested, are they trying to do each other in?

DaPhoenix:
One of my girlfriends is mad with her boyfriend because a picture posted on Facebook showing him with a some girl sitting on his lap and his arms wrapped around her . . . sorta like the way a boyfriend and girlfriend would. My friend was even madder because people kept calling her to ask if they'd broken up.

I called him up and asked him about her and he said that girl was his best friend and there was nothing going on between them. I then asked him why he couldn't hang out with his girlfriend like that. He said that he loved her but she is not his best friend; they don't share similar interests.

Ladies: Is your boyfriend/husband your best friend? How would you feel hearing your boyfriend tell you that you are not his best friend?

Guys: Same as above . . . just switch it to girlfriend or whatever.

That statement right there got me thinking. Why can't he just hang out with his girlfriend like he does his best friend. When he said that, it almost means hes not even giving his girlfriend a chance to become compatible with him because hes too busy hanging out with his best friend. And sometimes that can lead to them being lovers. I believe to have a strong relationship, you need to be friends first, everything else is secondary. So your friends might want to check that. I would be kind of worried about his statement. Easy to drift when there is no friendship and no compatibility.

I would cancel the wedding.

If they cannot agree, then maybe they should rethink getting married.