₦airaland Forum

Mercychen:
I'm telling you.

Why two people from different backgrounds can't seem to live peacefully together for a long time is what I don't get. There must always be a boiling point.

the entire gender shouldn't be blamed for your wrong choices!

EnemyofGod22:
I'm Planning To Lay Claims To My Baby Girl My Girlfriend Gave To Another Man.

Here is my true life story
My name is Samuel, from Benue state, Idoma language.

Last year November 2020 I met this girl from Akwa Ibom state, we both live in pH, before I woo her, I asked her if she had a boyfriend, she said no. She told me that her boyfriend broke her heart, they are no longer together. I said okay, I love her and I want her to be my girlfriend which she said yes, she loves me too, from that day on we became friend. On 9th of November, I invited her to my house which she came, we had great time together, we had malaton sex that day, each day by day our relationship growing stronger.

Fast forward to December Christmas day, I called her to come to my house, she told me she's going to her elder sisters house to assist her prepare Christmas food, I said okay, then after Christmas on 27 December she came to my house we again had great time together. She stayed in my house for four days before she went back to her house.

One day I visited her in her house, I met her with a guy, they are almost fighting each other. Immediately she saw me she left the guy and met me. I asked her who the guy is? She told me it was that her first boyfriend, She said the guy nearly beat her because of me. She again said the guy is angry with her because of me. I said okay if she love the guy let them continue their relationship, she said no, it is me she loves and she can't continue the reletionship with him. She told me we should go to my house that night which we went to my house, one thing lead to another, we had great sex till day break.

Fast forward to January

On second week of January this year, she came to my house and told me that she missed her period. I took her to pharmacy and did some tests and the result came out she is pregnant. She asked me what is she going to do with the Pregnancy? I told her to keep the Pregnancy, but she said no she's going to abort it, then I told her if she has ever done abortion before she should not try this baby because it will going to back fire on her, she confessed said yes, she has done one abortion before, but what I told her now really entered her and she will not abort it again.

On the 3rd week of January, she came to my house and said I'm not the one responsible for her pregnancy. I was mad at her, I was thinking she was joking, but she said she is serious about it. Then I asked her who is responsible for the pregnancy? She told me that it was that her first boyfriend that is responsible for it. I asked her how is she sure it was that guy that got her pregnant? When on November, December and January we do have sex almost every day? And again I took her to one private hospital and did some normal test, the result came out she was pregnant from first week of January that day as she saw the result she said she is confused about the whole thing.

On first week of February, I was already prepared to take her to her parents for introduction and possibly pay some bride price, only for her to come to my house and insist that the boy responsible for her pregnant. One thing I discovered is that, the boy is financially stable than me, that's why she chose the boy over me and the boy's mother has hospital according to her, while my own parents are in the village.

Despite the fact she claimed I'm not the one responsible for her pregnant she is still coming to my house we do have sex, and bath together and eat together she keep telling me she loves me. I asked her if she truly love me as she said why did she carry my pregnant give another man? She said the woman always has the final said who give her pregnant.

Fast forward On MAY, that is, the pregnancy was 5months, she came to my house midnight I asked her why did she come to my house? She said she had misunderstanding with the guy and the guy is threatening to beat her, she went straight to my bed and lie down, removed all her clothes naked and said let air touch her, I told her what she is doing is not good if she knows truly the pregnant is not mine, why is she coming to my house and lie down naked? I tried as much as possible to send her away but she refused to go and kept telling me she loves me.

She asked me which baby do I like her to born? I told her, baby boy, she again asked me which name do I like to name the baby? I name him (OCHE) OCHE means King in Idoma language, every day we keep calling each other and when I called her, I always called her mama OCHE which she does called me back baba OCHE.

Some time I do send her some money to take care of herself.

To cut the long story short, she gave birth in September, but unfortunately it was a baby girl she born. The day she born, the next day she called me and informed me about the baby, which she even snapped the baby and sent it to me on Whatsapp.

Before I forget, again on last Sunday of July midnight she came to my house, I asked her why did she come to my house with 7 months Pregnancy? She said her boyfriend make her angry and with annoyance she even told him he is not responsible for the Pregnancy, the guy is mad at her. When I was about to sleep, she started making move for sex, I stopped her several times but she refused keep trying until I fell for it, we latter had sex again.

Matured men and women in the house please advise me on what to do, because I'm planning to lay claim of the baby.

Sorry for so many typo,error in the write up.


mod please push this to front page.

you dey help another man make fire for him food. Mumu man

esnbrutality:
2 redundant politicians ..that have been used and dumped...tueh!!

e pain am

Johnnyessence:
No hope for Oyetola alias Igbin iragbiji in 2022 poll. Oyetola is a goner.

goan sleep!

Johnnyessence:
gsm has tried in managing covid-19 pandemic. check Google to see more of his projects. he has tried.

johnyessence the squealer will never disappoint

makemoneywbsite:
Nigeria is already badly cracked and groaning. To sink the country completely, just elect any of these men:

Bola Ahmed Tinubu aka BAT... this one will sell the country. Already finished Lagos.

Orji Uzor Kalu who it seems the Northern cabal is backing. This one finished Abia.

Rochas Okorocha who finished Imo state

where is Atiku?

nelszx:
Apparently extrajudicial killing.

The cuff on his hands meant he was captured do why kill him? If he had been captured what was the point killing him.

your head no correct!

Rosement:
Respect is very important in a relationship, how can a guy give gift to a lady in exchange for sex, he was passing out an information to the lady but she did not get the hint, is it not prostitutes that get paid for sex? This is why we ladies have to observe any guy that approach us before accepting to date them. Don't be blinded by money, some guys are not psychologically okay.

Some ladies are accepting nonsense from their guys now but after marriage they will become feminists and start demanding the respect they can never earn. If you want your guy to respect you, this is the time to earn the respect. If you allow him to treat you bad now because of what you want from him, he will treat you worse in the future and by then, it will be too late for you to correct it. If you feel your guy does not respect you, it is better for you broke up with him before it is too late, if you don't, you will regret it later because you will end up not enjoying your relationship and his money will later become worthless to you, by then you will prefer your peace of mind.

Some guys don't need a real relationship, what they need is a lady that we play the role of a prostitute. As a lady, you have to think properly before you accept some type of gifts from guys, it is better to live in a hut and eat what you have while you are waiting for God to bless you than to allow somebody belittle you.

this long epistle for this small matter! E be like say you self don fall victim before!

Restructuring:
Tinubu is just waisting his time our votes in south south is meant 4 atiku,so does south easth too

Lol Fulani slave

AsampeteNwaanyi:
Osinbajo is a pretentious criminal who goes about intimidating anyone that dares raise their voice against his criminal acts

this man is worst than buhari and a very corrupt criminal

well he's a politically nobody irrespective of his position as VP even as incumbent he couldn't win his PU in APC suppose stronghold 2019

this man is the most pretentious corrupt criminal VP ever and he covers up his crimes smoothly I must commend him for that.

Useless bastard bribe eating scumbag and fake pasta

cry me a river!

abobote:
Osibanjo can not defeat Atiku, Tinubu vs Atiku will be more interesting

lol

Johnnyessence:
it seems you are pained to with Pdp reconciliation and restructuring in Osun State. Baba iyalaya gbogbo yin ti wolu, you won’t have peace on Ademola Adeleke emergence as the governor of Osun State next year 2022. Oju lo pe si. What has your father Buhari do to the economy, infrastructures, insecurity that’s destroying this nation? What has he done to better your life and family? You better face front. Imole de okunkun parada ni gbogbo ipinle Osun. Imole ti wolu.

this boy has started again

PrinceOfLagos:
Osibanjo is not Buhari and no Hausa or Fulani will vote Osibanjo over Atiku

like they voted for tofa over abiola?

kahal29:


https://punchng.com/court-restrains-orbih-otsu-ogbeide-ihama-eight-others-from-participating-in-pdp-convention/

what Obaseki can not destroy doesn't exist!

Yves4real:
Please, take it easy with the lies. Don't remind some of us of how Lucky Igbinedion and Rev. Fr. Theophilus Uwaifo messed up AAU in 2000/2001. You think everyone has a short memory?
All of a sudden, Lucky Igbinedion is now a saint. Isn't it time to canonise him?
2. You said there are no teachers in school. I put it to you that you are a pathological liar. What is EdoSTAR and EDOBEST for? A friend who is an office or something in SUBEB told me that Obaseki is better than Oshiomhole.
I am not a fan of any politician but when I see an obvious lies, I don't just turn myself to the other side because I hate politicians.
3. What about the Edo Production Hub along Sapele road set up by Obaseki where young people are engaged in welding and fabrication, recycling and waste management, polythene making, shoemaking factory? Are we going to talk about the Edo Innovation Hub at ICE road? A friend is in a Bootcamp where they are in trained in Tech. Who is in partnership with the organizers?
Fear God.
And to dictator Obaseki, you return to APC wouldn't shock me more than that of FFK. is there a difference between PDP and APC?
Please, integrity and Nigerian politicians shouldn't be in same sentence.

obaseki better than oshiomhole? Na wa o

DCmonster:
Idiot labelled it buhari train, whereas he borrowed money Nigeria won't be able to pay back in years to build it.

It's a Chinese funded project you fool!

this buffoon should also know that your darling PDP borrowed money for the purpose of paying salaries!

Ammishaddai:
This politically dead fool is just trying to say old peolpe should continue ruling Nigeria forever .

are you for real?

FalseProphet1:
Fulanis are being sponsored by the government to destabilize Anambra state, then fulani security agencies would dive in under the guise of restoring law and order and start killing Igbo youths, I see their plans failing, I see Southern Nigeria gaining her Independence.

This I have seen.

you are mad!

Macphenson:
He hasnt declare state of emergency in the north that is heavily terrorised by Boko haram, Iswap, bandits, fulani herdmen and other associated terrorist,
now he is thinking of that in the south east.

Kolework.

Let him declare fist in the north.

is it now competition?

Bobbysmicky:
Atleast he is working and using the money to transform his state

and Buhari is doing what? Your selective judgement mentality is outa this world!

Itgeo:
But u should know APC cant win a single lg in Rivers na

elections don't hold in rivers state!

Nonpartisan1:
Useless EDO people

your father!

hezy4real01:
I thought this man swear to heavens he will be loyal to Obaseki ni... kai Politicians

loyalty is reciprocal

Onyi22:
Marry a womanizer at your own risk
Nigerian guys are Useless, All of them

plus your father

PrinceOfLagos:
Interesting times ahead

Still on still, God bless the people's party.

looters party?

DoggoneDogg:
I prophesy that Buhari will die a painful death

just like your father!

Jac007:
They've started the witch hunting strategy in preparation for 2023 elections. When one that was stuffing dollars in a babariga was rigged into 2nd term. Kano state is currently filled with thieves that will be attending the wedding fatiha of the mornach's(picker of presidential loot) daughter and the son of our president(Lootanant General)...Billions of naira would be wasted in Kano today

their misdeeds is witch hunting them!

rolams:
Op is one of our problems in this nation.

The project that Jonathan's administration had paid 80% of Nigerian's cost.

There is doubt, the current administration did not discontinued the job. But the project is taking too much time to be concluded.

are you normal?

Fahdiga:
Really? When did a well known drug lord became an astute administrator? This one na joke of the year

when you were still in your mother's womb. Taata

Penguin2:
You have to understand why Ganduje will never forgive the journalist that made his dollar videos viral.

Because but for the dollar videos, Ganduje would have been a good Vice Presidential candidate to a Southern Presidential ticket. A candidate to beat.

Sentiments aside, he has been delivering on infrastructure. And they are usually standard.

But now, he is a Babaringa. We can’t let somebody that will be collecting kickbacks on contracts near our national treasury.

all the governors collect kickback

Beehshorp:
It should be Igbo presidency or nothing. Give an Igbo man this country and watch it turn to Dubai in 5 years

same way they turned Abia to dubai

chrisxxx:
In a sane society no court will listen to this case inasmuch it is coming from a party that defended same some four years ago.

and the party that challenged the authenticity of his certificate are now defending him it's a clear case of two sides to a coin