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Gisbourne44:
Hello guys.. good morning.. I met this girl in a cab, I got her contact but it took us about 3 weeks before we met and discussed. I liked her and Wanted to date her. I asked her out and she replied she was in a relationship. I said okay. She went on to further tell me that it shouldn’t matter to me that 95% of ladies are in relationships. Which is something I kinda understood too as well. Two weeks later she said she had broken up with her boyfriend. I said okay. I asked her out she said she just came out of one an not really ready to enter another. I left it at that. But after about a week we both just settled into been in a relationship because she would call and get angry that what kind of boyfriend am I that can’t call his girlfriend in the morning etc... that was how things were and we were until about two months after our dating she told me she was pregnant. I told her to keep the pregnancy(cos personally I won’t have sex without protection if I don’t have intentions to marry the person).

I told my mum about it and she was like I should prepare and do her introduction. I was preparing towards that when I found out that she cheated on me with a married man the same period she got pregnant (from calculation of the pregnancy) we slept together on the 31st of April, she slept with the said married man on the 8th and 10th of May with and without condom respectively.(the worst part was I found out myself, she didn’t tell me out of remorse)

That realization was what cancelled all plans I had for her. While we were together I give her 35k monthly because she wasn’t working(she had lost her jobs some weeks before we started seeing each other) she begged and begged that I should forgive her that it would not happen again. But to be honest I only saw tears and no remorse. Because I didn’t want her to do anything stupid that would be on me(I had gone to see her mother and we discussed before I found out she cheated) I even told the mum she cheated. I still went ahead and Moved her to my place but for The first three months the relationship wasn’t good at all. She was always crying and saying she is sorry. I most times tell her it’s okay so nothing happens to the baby not because it’s actually okay. Cos till date if I see the type of car the person she cheated with drives. I get angry as well. I wasn’t doing so badly. At least I had a car my dad gave to me to use in Abuja after he retired to his house in Lagos. Now sha she has given birth to a boy and dna confirms its mine.

Three months to the time she was to give birth

Doctors kinda adviced me that her condition wasn’t good and that she was thinking too much that I should forget any issues we have and pretend so everything goes fine when it’s time for labour. So I changed at that point for the sake of the pregnancy and her health.

But now that everything is clear. Would it be adviseable to go on and marry her?

The trust is actually not there

Cos most times she goes out I always feel she is going to see someone or she would give out her number. I always want her to be indoor. But it’s not healthy and that’s not how it’s supposed to be. I intend to train her in school for the fact that she is my baby’s mother. So that in the event that anything happens to me (unforeseen circumstances) she should be able to stand and carry on with the training of the baby)

My parents don’t even want me and her staying together (but I fear for her choices in men) let her not go and date one yahoo boy that’s would end up using my son for ritual. That’s my fear ��‍♂️��‍♂️

Her mother has told her there is only a 5% chance the relationship would work out.

Then based on her past(she has actually cheated on everyone she has dated) reasons been that most of them were stingy and she had needs. That’s why I gave her 35k monthly so she stays faithful to me. But she still cheated on me as well for money ( she kissed and had sex with the married man)

I didn’t know married men now kiss girls they meet on cash and carry basis. When she cheated, we had issues two days before she cheated(the first one) but we were talking but not much.

I’m just confused. What should I do about her pls

Can I still marry her if she says she won’t cheat again

Even if I want to marry her now it would be after I’ve observed her properly and with what has happened so far, it could take me about 2 years to decided. But that thought of me thinking how proud the man would be seein me somewhere with a chick he banged raw makes me sad

seems like you’re in love with her so you’re just giving excuses not to get rid of her. In the future you’ll regret that action. Be wise, dem no go pity you if na you do am

mosdii:
Nigerian Girls Are Useless...All Of Them

king

Sincinnati:
At least IPOB miscreants like Peter Obi and every other Igbo politician has one or 2 business they own and manage.

Your president, lanky general böohari does not even own a kiosk, cannot manage his family and the 150 cows he owns became underproductive, or should I say, they all sexual orientation and became gay cows immediately he inherited them from his dead father.
How do you explain someone bragging about owning 150 cows from 1983 till today? Maybe boöhari’s body odour has infected their reproductive systems.

Obi and many Biafran boys employ people and pay them handsomely.

How many people were under illiterate, haggard looking boöhari’s payroll before he stole the presidential mandate? Not even 1 person. And unfortunate things like you think that someone who never managed any business of their own could manage the business of 200 million people.

If Nigeria was inhabited majorly by people with your type of jellyfish brain, American would have long nuked this shithole and turn it into some sort of laboratory.

easy na

NwaAmaikpe:





Sai Baba now and forever.
Our darling daddy has shown the world that Jack is not his mate.

This Twitter ban will bring more foreign investors to our great country because they are sure that our government can speedily implement declarations.

This Twitter ban has further built my confidence in our darling daddy.
He is a man of his words, in less than 24 hours of declaring the suspension of Twitter's operations in Nigeria, all Telcos have complied and the ban implemented.
Even the Attorney General has cooked up a law for offenders.

But it is not fair that CBN is yet to comply with our darling daddy's declaration of 2015 when he said that as President he will make $1= N1.

It is also not fair that the army is yet to comply with the FG's declaration of Boko Haram being technically defeated.
Our Attorney General should please pass a law that incriminates anyone; bank or individual who exchanges dollars above 1Naira.

Because the speed used in implementing one decree should be the same speed used in implementing other fictitious declarations.

you ehn! Lord of sarcasm

simultaneousboi:
Why is it that northern part of every country is always a problem part?

i swear

naijamerican:
Then give us Biafra and never worry about us again.

Ewu

i am half igbo o

Na so so igbo news everyday. Una no dey tire

IJOBA11:
LOL SEE THIS FUTA JALONIAN

the guy no smart. Concluding without evidence

H

Might be organ harvesters. No be everything be ritual. Both is bad sha

Kamdil:
They are claiming gender equality but don't want to have equal responsibility.

Selfish lots.

One thing i notice about broke women is that they have entitlement mentality.

surprised at Nigerian girls mentality

W

See talk

ChiefSosa:
Gang

Oblock 3hunna

ChiefSosa:
RIP to the mother and son that lost their lives. I can't imagine myself in the position of that boy that survived, I swear I'll kill as many as possible. I won't even have any iota of pity when I go EXTREMELY savage. That demonic spirit will just get triggered, I'll be so brutal with my killings that history will talk about it. Anyway, that's me though. P.s. If you're in Nigeria and you're still scared of death then, you're just on a long thing. Better know that this is savage season. Be prepared.

chief keef sosa

engrchykae:
it is this foolishness that is inbreed in you black Africans that made it possible for the Arabs (the progenitors of the fulanis)to wipe out black people from middleeast.
When the fulanis kill tivs,idomas will gloat, when idomas are killed tivs will gloat.
Before you know it,they will wipe out benue.

black is foolish. See as dem dey use the term “you people “

Got mine same day I applied

Jack005:
The brutal end of a simp and a co -simp.. No fuvks given!

i swear

No concern me

As u talk pretty ladies and gentlemen for the post, i knew u were a simp.
Anyways, leave the girl, she’s using you. She wants to eat her cake and have it.

seyz91:
you engaged criminals, killed two out of 5, and saying the two dead body deposited in mogue for autopsy

my people se this people know the meaning of Autopsy sha?

cuz as far as i'm concerned since their cause of death already known from a gun due, what use is Autopsy Again?

maybe to identify them

Toks2008:
This guy come resemble me without my full beards,...

Anyways i have had that experience many times when ladies will practically rub their boobs on my body but in all honesty i did not complain.

But i smell lies here, he may be clout chasing.

why do ladies rub their boobs on men body?? I’ve been trying to understand this

Na the food she chop cause am. She just dey clean hand

Reminds me of an idoma girl I dated. It ended in tears

Op dey find attention by yarning nonsense

dannybomb:
Lol he should come and tell us if he finally left and how he did it

ikr make we wait for am

The post was created 2019, he’s probably in Canada now

LeeSantos:
Probably he has heard from friends you have being fckin about. And he's has this kind of feeling that he wants to have sex with you but doesn't know how to approach the matter. But keep helping you hoping it happens. And finally he Hears from friend that "oh boy that girl dey Bleep anyaw"
And here he is giving and not receiving anything, and some random boys are receiving without giving.

exactly

When dem go stop or these Christian leader, muslim leader nonsense

Homer simpson syndrome

Xenry:
₦10,000 for what? Anyways, whether you hate them or not, they will surely get married, and they ain't gonna marry ghosts. So finally, we all gonna end up with runs girls. Surprised?

Oyibo keeps advancing