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Excommunicatn is simply a way the church choose to discipline eerin member....this cannot be exclusively applied to all members without bringing controversy. in most churches, itz only applicable to workers, elders, choiristers, pastors and all that have serious things doing in the church. you can't be a worker in His vinyard and choose to just behave as u lyk...there must be a check and balance.

i'm totally in support.

[quote
author=aManFromMars]Why would you pity us? What exactly are we missing out on by not
believing in God or a skydaddy? Is there some kind of slumber party for
the believers that we aren't privileged to attend?


and the intelligent design behind floods and earth quakes...


and harsh weather....


including the ones that are poisonous to man...


Maybe there was a God. Clearly he wasn't intelligent.


The God that says in heart 'there's no other God' is the greater fool -
Logicboy01(Nl, 2013)TM[/quote]u only end up joking about those serious point i raised.
u'll be beta of if u think well abt it ol, bro.

I dont think angry is the correct word, bro....itz 'pity' d fellow.
talking from experience, i pity whoever think/blv there is no God.
how can u watch the intelligent design of the earth and all itz skies, the plants and man and still think there is no intelligent brain(God) behind all that...'a fool say to themselves, there is no God' psalm 14:1...

timsucces: ..how do yhu knw he neva lovd her+

because luv isnt dat selfish, bro.

Show
me a birthday without the celebrant and i'll show you the gathering of
fools...show me a man who attend the birthday party of someone he never
knew and i'll show you a shamless man. Without the personal presence of
the celebrant, they that celebrate, are only doing so in vain. Christmas
makes no meaning when we don't have a personal relationship with Jesus
Christ, the celebrant. In Luke 2:11-20, the shepherds heard an angel
announce the birth of the saviour, Christ the Lord. After they found
Mary, Joseph, and the baby in Bethlehem, the shepherds couldn't help
telling others about this child. They had been changed by their
encounter with Him and they carried the good news about Jesus in their
world.
May the grace that we encounter at this time of Christmas transform us
not just this season but remain throughout the new year so that our
lifes can reflect Jesus everyday.
take D Joy and message Of Christmas With U everyday.

nice one...hp they hear u sha. if ladies can use there brain wella in a relatnsp, it'll help alot.

i feel your pain.. this is what happen when dealing with a man who alwayz think he know better. what i'll just tell you is dat God pass him and can still arrest his heart for you....so, pray more ma...i trust God to help you out..


itz well

stop decieving yourself and hence allowing the deciet from him...he never luv you and what you have for him isnt luv either. Thank God you knw itz bad already. you are in unholy relationship; break it and seek God for 4gvnes and healing.

Arewa92]#1. If he kisses U for more than 20 minutes
without reaching for ur panties.. marry him,
he is a HUSBAND MATERIAL 250 YARDS
#2. If she enters ur house n sees U drinking
garri without sugar n she runs to the kitchen
to grab a spoon shouting "wait for me o, no
finish am"... bros marry her, na WIFE
MATERIAL 300 YARDS.
#3. If he spends on U only because he is
expecting something from U.. my sister dnt
marry him, he is a HUSBAND MATERIAL 0.5
YARDS.
#4. If she is on twitter, facebook,bbm,
eskimi, badoo, skype, instagram, 2go,
WhatsApp, Mxit, Nimbuz, foursquare n
others...my broda run for ur life! dnt marry
her, she is a WIFE MATERIAL 0.000005
YARDS.
True Or False ??


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you made a mistake, fix it and live happily. blaming him or love wont solve your problem.

next tym, don't give you body until marriage......u will thank me leta if u heed my advice.

To the singles, There
is no better message on s*x than abstinence. that is the original and sure
plan of God concerning s*x. pre-marital sex is of no good.
below is a long list of common
lies that the devil are spreading around in encouraging pre-marital s*x.

1. S*x produce intimacy/closeness/bond in relationship.
2. S*x help you determine Compatibility.
3. Viginity is a stigma and keeping it is outdated/old fashion.
4. There is nothing called virginity as a guy as it cannot be prooved.
5. S*x is a cure for a form of stomach upset; commonly spread among
illitrate youth.
6. It is not wrong as long as we are going to marry each other.
8. Scriptural view about it is outdated... among others..
All these are pure lies told to discourage others.......the list is endless and you can add yours
The devil is using various mean to sell the message that pre-marital sex
isnt wrong; dont buy it..

[quote
author=yusufogrin]o boy. .wait ke. . Dat sweet tin chai. . .so make i
wait for girls wey dem don give kondo. .shey forgiveness go turn her to
virgin. . .abeg body no be aluminium[/quote]you will find that very difficult unless you allow God to help you by depending solely on Him ever present and abunding grace.....bt i must say that we need a personal encounter with Him first...

jeffizy: As usual. Trying to trivialize the creator in not so insightful topics.

I wont be talking about how to honour Him with our body if i want to trivialize the creator, bros.
He is never happy with any form of sex outside marriage..check 1 cor.6v18-20.

[Hardheolar]Is dat all...[/quote]datz nt all but those are the basics we all need to know. turn to the bible for the rest..

Everything that God created has purpose, but it also has
order. God designed s*x to be enjoyed But he put boundaries around it.
He intends for it to be an expression of love between a husband and
wife. Outside of this, s*x results in confusion, conflict, hatred,
chaos, heartache of unwanted pregnancies, abortion, sexually transmitted
diseases.
God design for s*x is very different, and a whole lot better!
Those who wait until marriage not only avoid the dangers of pre-marital
sex. they also set themselves up for a lifetime of discovery,
satisfaction, and fulfilment within marital love; thats something worth
waiting for!
Don't be decieved by strange crusade..
-if you are waiting to have sex until you are married, God can give you
strenght to stay pure!
-if you have already had sex outside marriage, God offer forgiveness!
-If you have been forced to have sex, God offer healing.

#teamabstinence#

spot on....itz a two way thing..u do ur part, i also do my own part....relationshp work best wen nobody is holding anyfin back.

I know it sounds immoral but sex with your spouse to be is definately needed just so you know your partner's sexuality appetite and other problem because marriage is a life time investment with child bearing as profit to the blissful matrimony,some people are just so religious to know the technical truth even Jesus had to tell Abraham to lie to a king that sarah was his sister and The Same God still told Samuel to tell saul that he was just passing by to go to the mountain for prayers when truthfully he was going to the house of jesse to anoint david as king,so would you say God has made these people lied or that's simply WISDOM

u re very wrong, pls...dont turn d bible upside down to justify a sin. pre-marital sex is wrong morally and a sin to God. the starndard of God isnt change yet.

i guess u re nt telling the whole story. if u realy need useful advise, then tell us everything.

my dear, u dont need to shout it to d whole world if u re a virgin...datz wot'll gve some pple rizn to doubt u, persecute u and even hate u. if u must celebrate dat, that should be with pple who blv in u and luv you for who u re.
i'm advicin u dis way out of experience. pls., dont talk abt dat here where majority of users av li2 respect for dat...i strongly encourage u to keep it up untill u say 'l do'; sex is worth waiting for and datz wot God want.

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@ kingmee., thanks...
wish this can grace FP.

there are long list of common lies that the devil are spreading around in encouraging pre-marital s*x. some of it are;
1. S*x produce intimacy/closeness/bond in relationship.
2. S*x help you determine Compatibility.
3. Viginity is a stigma and keeping it is outdated/old fashion.
4. There is nothing called virginity as a guy as it cannot be prooved.
5. S*x is a cure for a form of stomach upset; commonly spread among illitrate youth.
6. It is not wrong as long as we are going to marry each other.
8. Scriptural view about it is outdated... among others..
All these are pure lies told to discourage others... The social crusaders are realy trying hard to sell the message that pre-marital sex isnt wrong; dont buy it..
Goodmrng!

there can no better message than abstinence. that is the original and sure plan of God concerning sex. pre-marital sex is of no good.

Everything that God created has purpose, but it also has order. God designed s*x to be enjoyed But he put boundaries around it. He intends for it to be an expression of love between a husband and wife. Outside of this, s*x results in confusion, conflict, hatred, chaos, heartache of unwanted pregnancies, abortion, sexually transmitted diseases.
God design for s*x is very different, and a whole lot better!
Those who wait until marriage not only avoid the dangers of pre-marital sex. they also set themselves up for a lifetime of discovery, satisfaction, and fulfilment within marital love; thats something worth waiting for!
-if you are waiting to have sex until you are married, God can give you strenght to stay pure!
-if you have already had sex outside marriage, God offer forgiveness!
-If you have been forced to have sex, God offer healing.

#teamabstinence#

ask urself y and face your problem from that angle. it may be because most men @ dat age are stable financially; hence u re attracted to dem coz of there money. if that is the case; stop placing much emphasis on money; ur lyf shouldnt be a functn of dat.

can you recognize a good would be spouse? pick from the qualities listed below and letz see your own top 10.
1. loyal and reliable.
2. plenty money.
3. good conversationlist.
4. honest and trustworthy.
5. good-looking.
6. similar life goal.
7. popular.
8. not a gossiper.
9. wears cool trendy clothes.
10. enjoys similar activities.
11. able to keep secret.
12. makes time for me.
13. willing to help when i need it.
14. respected by others.
15. good listener.
16. look for the good in others.
17. intelligent.
18. always know the lattest fad of fashion.
19. offer me honest, constructive criticism.
20. same political view.
21. same economic/social status.
22. won't embarass me in front of others.
23. not jealous.
24. doesn't pressurize me to go against my convictions.

ladies feel same abt guys who are virgin. a guy like me would better not let a lady knw abt there chastity. the orientation of youth generally is so wrong!

this is wow!..thanks for sharing.

my brother, give your life to Jesus Christ and stop seeing girls that way. Jesus will give your life a meaning.

For some of you who have the previledge of attending children church/service, how was it like then? What can you remember?..what impact did the experience have on you and how would you decribe the children teachers and your relationship with other children?

For me, it realy helped me a great deal; i know most bible stories from those my teachers. Recitation of verses/chapters help also in quoting the bible when neccessary.