₦airaland Forum

Churches are the greatest calamity to happen to Nigeria. Remove all these religious pretence and Nigeria will be a better place.

The bane of Nigerian corruption starts from our Churches. So called pastors are only preaching prosperity and psychology thereby indirectly challenging their members into corruption to consolidate on their preachings.

What is the purpose of the Husband being the G.O and his wife being the Women Leader for not for the purpose of enriching thier purse. I wonder whne Nigerians will wake up.

I have watched with rapt attention how the so called Pastors have exploited the masses by means of preaching an Imaginary reward in Heaven instead of gearing them to face the hard challenges of life ( someone who ought to be out on the street, looking for his daily bread will prefer to stay in church for longer hours waiting for a miracle that will never come).

How weak men have created an imaginary hope for themselves as an excuse for their failure with sayings like (My God will take my to the next level at the appointed time).

I see this trend as a sort of slave morality on Mankind because it makes even the strongest of men to think like a weakling.

Men should be motivated to promote their untapped power rather than turning them to dummies under the pretext of religion.

I love ladies with beads or chain. The sight alone makes me feel like getting down with her (hard on). If i met someone who doesnt use beads or chain i will encourage her. Chains and beads on my woman's waist is a very strong sex booster for me.

krama:
I suggest you start doing some business instead of idly searching for a job

I am an hardworking young man its just that i need the right connection. I have a P.A system rentals Outfit, i am an audio/visual equipment consultant (sales and service), i run a small Gospel highlife Band, a seasoned chorister/choirtrainer and a freelance organist.

The difference is dat while her salary is stable, mine is not because i only get money when i have engagements to cover.

@ Poster,

You portrayed the attribute of a jester, dat is why nobody took you serious when u said dont click.

It is her decision to decide if she wants to go bitching. I

f she respects my person and my feelings, she ought to excuse herself from the Guys the moment i step back in, but it is not my place to do dat.

The worst i can do in such a situation is go to her and give her a really deep kiss or grab her ass to pass a message across that she is a violated territory.

God will never let me fight over Girls, Women, Ladies, Madams and what have u because a good number of them are cheper by Dozens.

Although i dont believe her but at the same time i might be worng.

@ima1 (f)
some guys are stupid, you knew she was a virgin and wanted to wait before u got married to do it in the first place, you agreed so why are you bitching about it now, if your privates is all you think about then find another biatch to stick it in and don't expect your girl to take you back. how in the world are u supposed to have a good marriage, this guy is an idiot.

I think it is the Girls that are stupid. Nobody aint bitching about his girlfriend being a virgin if the girl claimed to be what she is.

I dated somebody for 7 yrs without seeing the colour of her pant and in the 8th year when i demanded for sex, all she could do was to start crying and begging that she has been cheating on me all along.

So tell me who is stupid, GUYS OR GIRLS

If any Girl should try that with me, all i have to do is forget about her instanta. I once met a girl who gave me her number willingly and we agreed to hang out the next day. I called her at the agreed time to know where to meet up and the stupid thing had to give the phone to a guy.

I felt so pissed off and i deleted her number immediately. Some Girls can be really stupid and bush like.

You can call me an atheist, a devil or what have you. I have never and will never believe in some hungry chaps who cant even see into their own future to tell me some craps about what to do with my life.

I have never been a big fan of excessive religious activities though i acknowledge that there is a SUPREME BEING who causes things to exist.

A pastor once told told my cousin that her destiny is not in education but in trade, she foolishly obeyed and didnt go beyong secondary school education. She tried selling things and still didnt make it. Now she works as a manual contract staff in one of the oil companies, see where Prophecy has landed her.

All these Pastors are just opportunist looking for customers. Here is a very simple example and here it goes.

Pastor: Yes, while praying, the spirit of God ministered to me and told me that a woman here needs a husband.

Church Member: (thinking) yes the Pastor truly sees vision, how does he know i need a life partner.

The simple truth is that when 10 ladies are gathered together, at least 3 or more will be looking for Husband, some are happily married with no kids and these junk men of DECEIT are only using Psychology to deceive us in Naija.

Wake up Gbemy, pray to God, do wat you have to do and u feel is right and God will put you true.

ashe2:
people learn from reading and most times u hear or gain understanding from dose who have read so would u stil ask how good dating tips are?

For the fact that people learn from reading does not mean that you should learn wrong things. Sexuality is a relative issue and here are some instances

There are ways i will talk to my girl and she will take it cool and someone may ditch her  Guy for talking to her in the same manner.  

So if a book tells you to slap you date in order to get his attention, you will go ahead and do it?

Wake up Girl, know yourself and try to be yourself. I aint going to follow any stupid dating rules.

ashe2:
people learn from reading and most times u hear or gain understanding from dose who have read so would u stil ask how good dating tips are?

For the fact that people learn from reading does not mean that you should learn wrong things. Sexuality is a relative issue and here are some instances

There are ways i will talk to my girl and she will take it cool and someone may ditch her Guy for talking to her in the same manner.

So if a book tells you to slap you date in order to get his attention, you will go ahead and do it?

Man wake up Girl, know yourself and try to be yourself. I aint going to follow any stupid dating rules.

I have always wondered why many people always read books like , how to please your husband/Wife, , whta to do on a fisrt date amongs other dating and sexuality books.

I was just wondering how good are these tips considering that our sexual tastes differs.

Please express your views

From personal experience, some Girls are really bad in Bed that they dont even know how to Bleep a man not to talk of styles and positions. I had to teach some of them wat to do in Bed. All they do is just lie down and moan. Wat a boring LIFE.

@ENQUE
Voice of the people is the Voice of GOD. Pornmaster might be a prophet.


@steriod101
I am happy to tell you that i dont believe in all these craps about dating tips, do's and dont's of dating , bla, bla, bla, .

If i should talk to my girl the way you talk to yours and she listen to you, mine may ditch me for that.

There are also some girls dying for me while if you try aprroch them, you will only receive the insult of your life.

There are some girls dat will do anything to get you in Bed, yet they may even vomit seeing me naked.

So if a book tells you to slap you date, you will go ahead and do it?

Man wake up man, know yourself and try to be yourself. I aint gonna follow any stupid dating rules.

U dont need to pretend and act like a saint. You knew ur guilt.

@ Chinda 3

Truth is better but get used to it.

@ Frank 3.16 ,
Nice talk bros, i gbadun your choice of words, thumps up .

@ Chinda
Its so unfortunate that some Girls who ought to ack like role models are the one laying bad examples. I wonder what to will be teaching young girls with bright future who are looking up to go as their Big sister. Child Services take note.

@ibkaye
Kettle calling Pot black. She she aint no broke herself, why beg for credit. Why dont you girls just admit that you are poverty stricken and we men are ready to help you condition on trade by barter basis instead of di yeye yanga you are posing all over nairaland.

In Conclusion, i thing girls should realise that the fact dat we are dating does not mean i should turn myself to a Santa Claus. I lost two Babes over this send me credit as if i am their father.

@ enque

I aint even begging for one, i just want to confirm if you are one of dem eat and run girls.

@enque,
Thank God you've identified my problem, well i guess you can solve it for me by going on a date with me. Call me when ready

@enque
lets assume d date was in d evening say arnd 4pm n by 6pm, u guys were through with d date, n d chic thanked u profusely immediately after the date before u guys went your seperate ways that evening.
so, if that was d scenario, y on earth should d chic call u bk for again, at least she has shown appreciation by saying thank u immediately after!


I can bet it with my life that no Naija City Girl would do what you just described except those who are fresh from the village (broda thank u stuff). An average Naija girl sees it as her birth-right, so why would she tank you profusely on the spot. Some are even so stupid to bring their friend(s) along when a Guy offers to take them out.

FOR CLARITY SAKE, i never said i took a lady out on a date and she never calls me.

This is a trend i have noticed in almost all Nigerian girls, and if this is true, It shows that you girls are in for chop and clean mouth. No matter what happens on a date, courtesy demands u show a little appreciation except you want to tell me that you are forced into the date or you have probably been dreading the date from the onset but your greed for chop chop wouldnt let you opt out.

Why is it that when a guy took a lady on a date, no matter how exotic the place you took her to, no matter how much money you spend on her and how interesting the outing is, she never calls you after the date hence you will still be the one to call here thereafter.

What a man wants from a Lady varies. My needs depends on my feelings towards the person in question. In a serious relationship, i want openness, honesty and someone i can trust with my life and in hit and run relationship i guess the ultimate is SEX.

Come to think of it, girls whom you considered too young or very small for you yesterday suddenly grows to maturity with stunning beauty, nice curves, ripe and ready to eat.

To the guys in the house can you go for CATCHING THEM YOUNG,? Is it morally good and what if after training her she left you for someone else ( money work, baboon come chop).

Motto of the Boys scout is *Be Prepared*

With the rate Naija girls are distributing their honey wells for financial gratifications, its just normal and appropriate for guys to be on red alert and condomize their d- -k when duty calls. You dont know when you might come across a major distributor.

HIV/ADIS is no respecter of being Responsible or irresponsible.

@ poster.

You sound more of Oliver Twist to me. After all the enjoyment, why cant you just listen to her for once. I guess you are not tired and sleepy when banging her.

She has the right to be annoyed because you are selfish.

@ Poster,

I know that it is greed and the quest for material things that made you hook up with a married man.

The guy will use you, lick up all you juice and dump you in the end, I only pity the poor guy who will marry a refurbished wife like you.

@almondjoy, i'm not surprised, you seems to be of the same stuff.