₦airaland Forum

KingTom:
ah! In fact my tribe recommends it, if your wife has not gotten fat after marriage then you're doing something wrong, more meat mehn! Why will I be eating bones when I could have steak

lol. ...This man.

McEwen:
Tell them broff

I wanna see meat everywhere

he he he he he. ...One man's meat zz really another's poison.

ebyoma:
Op, you made lotta sense!
That is the more reason why I would never date any man that dislikes fat women not to talk of marrying him..
Coz in my family we're the fat types... no matter how I watch my weight/ keep fit, no one knows tomao..
Tho' I don't pray to be shapeless/orogbo tomao BUT prevention is better than cure..
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So my first question to any man interested in me is "your kind of woman"?
Once I hear slim! I pick race without looking back...
God help me, I'll always put an effort in looking sweet and saxy for my man!

thumbs up...There re lotta men looking for ur type out there, just be ready when he comes calling

Rainess:
Men also often get fat and lazy after marriage!

the trend is more on women. plus every man now wants to visit the gym

Speechless3:
E pain am

lolz. ...ur funny

Empty hen....The greatest scam network of the century

I pray this happens to DSTV too

PunkyVeer:
I don't see what the "dilemma" is here. You have no romantic feelings for Joe. There you go! Problem solved.

easier said than done....and then tomorrow Daniel sees a reason not marry her, what next??

olillywales:
President Muhammadu Buhari has spent more days in trips to different parts of the world since he was sworn in on May 29, 2015 compared to travels within the country. The president’s frequent foreign trips have come under scrutiny and criticism as Nigeria faces myriad crises, from intractable fuel shortages to terrorist assaults in the country’s northeast.

BuhariTravels.jpe

An audit of Mr. Buhari’s itinerary has showed that the Nigerian president has traveled to;

Chad

Germany

Ghana

South Africa

U.S (Twice)



Cameroun

India

Iran

Over the weekend, President is expect to be in

Malta for commonwealth meeting and

France for the UN Cimate Change conference

http://www.metronaija.com/2015/11/list-of-10-countries-buhari-visited-in.html

cc: lalasticlala

Seems we elected this president to travel around when the country he is supposed to lead is standing on one foot.

I don't even know which government is better again. ..seems they are all clueless after all.

Op u even forgot Benin, Sudan and even UK.

Amiano:
U beta come bak to Nigeria b4 SA go use u recover d fine wey FG give MTN

lolz. ...hilarious

tpiadotcom:
majority of the men in the gym are actually not married, I'm sure of that although it could be a wrong assumption. However, a large number would appear to be youths or younger men.

Not saying pot belly is mandatory though.

well we have both married and unmarried men and after he gets married, only a few stops visiting the gym maybe due to work.

I give u an assessment today, take a pure check and u will find out that pot bellied men are on the decline. Since its what dem ladies want, They are all wising up

jashar:
She starts eating a lot under stress. It happens to my sister and some of my friends. When they are stressed out, they gobble up junk food which in time make they blow up.

Fact, few women remain the same size and shape after childbirth, except they undergo surgery.

Deal with it or opt out of having children.

na wa o.

well lemme believe mine will be in such category. without surgery or whatever, she is cool and same after childs birth.

jashar:
you have good points OP, but the fact is this; not everyone can be slim after marriage except they go for surgery.
Things like 'hormones', 'birth-control', 'child birth', (and believe you me) 'stress' can make a woman 'blow up' after marriage.

Men should just settle in their hearts that the woman they're getting married to will add at least 5 extra pounds by the time they are done with child bearing

No vex ehn.... wae'll try to maintain shape small

lolz. ..Please u guys should help maintain small shape small for family peace.

Wait!!! how does stress makes a woman fat??

nawtibownie:
Once you're prudent, 15k monthly is enough. You should be able to save about 2k at the end of the month too. Some people manage 5k monthly. Pause, I'm in school. In my 4th year.

5k ?? wait ok we need to get married nau.

what school re u?? lemme kw the town u re. maybe that would help cos I don't see why a student in a nigerian of today will use 15k and be satisfied for a month talk less 10k.

Mindfulness:
The essence of what you have said here is that some ladies take care of themselves to please others. If they didn't and would take care of themselves for themselves, to feel good, healthy and fit, they would always do it because the motivation to feel good, healthy and fit is longer lasting than the motivation to get married, which ends once you got married.

Thumbs up ....well said.

I don't blame dudes who think money is all they need to have and they can have any girl of their choice because that's what Nigerian women now create the atmosphere to look like.

I won't be surprised a Nigerian girl sees a goat with money and decides to marry it.

Joy1706:
My first warning before marriage - remain rich or else..... you'll have yourself to blame

This explains the typical Nigerian ladies.

I always knew irrespective of Chelsea playing bad this season, what mourinho always said about the Refs and FA is somehow true.

One of the leagues chief by name Richard Scudamore has now openly admitted that they don't want Chelsea to win the league this season. He said they need a new winner every season to give the league the competitive edge it has over other leagues.

Please read this.

www.standard.co.uk/sport/football/we-dont-want-chelsea-to-win-the-title-says-premier-league-chief-richard-scudamore-a3121556.html

lofty900:
I'm slim so I like my woman to have enough flesh on her bones. I cannot be slim and my wife will be slimmer. Mbanu

lolz. ..cool

Rukkydelta:
What of the men that have pot belly after marriage ?

it's also a trend for sure but men are waking up to see this as a challenge now hence if u go to any gym close by, the turn out are now massive cos they know what they should look like.

It's not like men are not victims but it's more of a problem from the women.

Rukkydelta:
How does this affects me ?

lolz. ...rukky u actually think it does not affect u??

well, u probably will keep a good body shape even after marriage else ....

chocolateme:
Your thread topic: after marriage? It should be modified.

I added that because I think most ladies do maintain dem selves and watch their weight while single. Thanks doe, noted.

I was trying to address the issue of married men who leave their wives at home to another woman outside and I found out this is 45% the cause of cheating in marriage.

Well I know just the way people are created differently so are our likes. Have you wondered why a lady who u knew to be slim when single, gets married and become fat in 2months? ?

i decided to talk about this because it's been in my mind for a while. Have discovered 90% of women get fat/big when they get married, Aside been pregnant or immediately after child birth.

I honestly think they stop doing what they normally do for men to notice them, since they already have the man of their dreams, mission accomplished.

Well I don't know about all men but judging from the guys I have talked to plus what I think, it's a mandatory discussion between me and her before marriage cos i love slim ladies and you were slim that's why I came, only for you to blow up after marriage? ? Should I be happy seeing you like dat? ?

So I think our ladies should know what their men love them to be and please be that EXACT thing else an unknown lady appears from nowhere with the specification of your man.

Brugge:
Most Nigerian house wives are lazy and heartless, no wonder they grow fat like hippo.

my first warning before marriage. ...grow fat in my house you might still remain but don't blame me when I cheat.

stupidity:
Cooking is ma hobby,

We go buy washing machine or drycleaner go do the laundary.

So far the lady can take care of my home(except from what the topic is saying) and she's got all I want inna lady and most importantly, she can fvck satan out of me, damn!!!!! Am good.

OMG. ...Ur just what Ur moniker says.

Mzdivacious:
it should be enough depending on a number of things SIR

And depending on some other things it won't be. Infact unless you have food stuffs, ur school is close where u Don't pay much on transit, that can't be enough for a month. even when u eat twice a day.

its still very fresh in my brain how it was back then.

nigerianvenom:
One of friend is a beneficiary of the maiden edition or the second edition.
And hes from osun state, he is in scotland and almost rounding up. Prior to election, i asked him who he would av voted for if he were in Nigeria, he said - buhari, i then asked why and he said gej lacked d will power to fight corruption.
I laugh off.
I just sent him this link

Pls double send the link....Make him eye clear

nawtibownie:
12-15k monthly is okay.

ah....how is dat money enuf? wait, re u in school yet?

fr3do:
Was it them that fuelled it in the 60s?

would u kw it wasn't them??

Ikengawo:
Whos playing God, a man that declares himself a prophet for Atiku or a man that has seen atiku lose his own local government? atiku wasnt strong in pdp wasnt strong in apc isnt strong in the north and is sharing his own state sith others. Buhari knows he will always get no less than 40% of the north and tinubu knows hell get no less than 50% of the sw. They combined this and won. Buhari cant win nigeria without tinubu and tinubu without buhari but with christ atiku cant win adamawa

I don't like ur last statement. ...If christ is involved, Atiku can win Africa and the world.

nice point doe

Ikengawo:
Lmfao and 2007 and 2011 and 2015. Atiku is a dead product

I believe u said this about buhari too. It can happen cos ur not God.

I just have a problem with these kind of prophecies. ...well lemme not be the judge, God has not made me one.

Can the president start working already? ? just stop the beef and start the job u were elected to do.

Yes and all they need is over 2m ppl saying they want out.
I seriously believe this pro biafra protest is been fueled by UN/US.