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Bekeey:
Good morning my people, please pardon my grammatical errors and long writeups. I'm curiously in need of your help to help me decide if I should confront her or not. This is the problem, traditionally I got married to my wife this January 2023 and by grace of God our wedding is coming this July 2023, our IV is already out, we have got 45% of the Wedding needs already, like Asobi clothes, her own clothes and my clothes too, we have also booked for Decorations, DJ, MC etc.

So, here is the issue that I need to confront her or probably council the Wedding because since I got noticed what has been going in my absent, I wasn't myself for past 3days, I am emotionally exhausted. Here is the problem, there is thus guy that always call her late in the night from 10pm, whenever I asked her who was that, she always tell me is just a friend that they have known right from secondary school, that she knows her girlfriend that nothing is between them. I asked her,did he know that you are married, she said of cause, he is aware. I said OK, that day passed, so the call kept coming same time 10pm but not everyday. Later I began to notice that the guy doesn't call in the night again maybe because she have asked her not to call her by that time again. So 3days ago, I had access with her phone, my brothers and sisters, I was shocked, behold the person that told me she has nothing to do with him that is just a friend. All there conversation in that chat was sweetie, sweetie, that's what they call each other. Though, I found out my wife doesn't give him that chance that she's only interested to eat his money because I saw a receipt of 20k he sent to my wife. The guy was seriously asking for her nude videos which she didn't send to her but she instead sent him stickers. The guy will send her some videos showing her how he will sock her breast, and one hot round of sex, my wife will just replied him OK. Last chat my wife chatted him was where she is begging him for 50 to 100k to pay back by June. She don't have anything doing, I wonder where she will get the money to pay him back. Till now the guy have not replied him. I can say she has not started cheating on me because, she just relocated from Awka to Abuja where I leave and she doesn't know anywhere yet. She is always at home. So where I'm confused now is, is she sending him her nude and delete it at instant or she is just playing ▶️the guy? Even at that, as a married woman 👩did she suppose to engage in such conversation with a man? And she is already pregnant, 16weeks pregnant precisely.

Please house, what should I do in this situation, should I confront her or to keep monitoring her but the fact is, it still disturbs me why my wife a married woman should be having such discussions with a man.

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me I no see anything anyways let's wait for the elders

whether you list criteria or you no list criteria you still don't fit

with the way this naija hard eh...to smile under this hardship hard oh

and to think that the president is from katsina is heartbreaking

well we all can't be the same can we?

charity begins at home

still in the shoke

Jazakallahu khair

its obvious

haba Oga 6years no 6 weeks or 6 months oh since you are man enough to father a child you better man up and go talk to her shikenan

you want to eat your cake and have it lai lai

wow interesting

welcome back

misplaced priority

let him go to the hospital Abi nairaland don turn hospital

For this naija I don't think so

shot, hospitalized and discharged this one na movie script

Easyincome24:
Can you spot which hen is different from the rest?

All the chickens are different

na dem sabi

did I invite you? we are not guinea pigs??

can't happen in naija. who go want teach convict sef

BerryP:
Are you telling me my brother. Na money dey yab us for Africa

yes oh

a good step to a new direction kudos

amazing ...you see the world when you travel

underage where are you??

what if you are?
no be you get your money do as you like

nice info. if only we could actualize it

thats faith respect

who gave you my number gang