All Parents and Guardians need to read my story and learn from my mistakes. It is very good to have time for your wards, no matter the nature of your job, please create time for them. See how I destroyed my 10 year old daughter.

I am businessman and I am relatively wealthy. I got married in 2003 when I was 33years old and my wife was 27 years old. It was an elaborate wedding because there was money and I and my wife had been dating since our University days. I was a Postgraduate Student in Obafemi Awolowo University when I started dating her - an Undergraduate Student in her final year.


We got married in 2005, but not happily. For more than 7 years of our marriage we never had any child. We had several tests done but we were both confirmed to be healthy. We went to many religious places but it was all futile. Surprisingly, few months after we used an herb that we were giving by a native doctor, my wife conceived.

We were so happy and our home became sweet. We did baby shower and every other thing before the child was born. It was a beautiful daughter. I was so glad because she is a replica of her mother. Immediately after my wife delivered the baby, she died. It was like a movie to me. I even thought the Doctors were joking when they told me.

I almost ran mad following the news of my wife’s demise. I was consoled by many people and I decided to accept my fate and look after my little one. Since then, I have always loved my daughter. She is like my own wife because I have not married another woman since then.

I became busier at work because I extended my business to 3 African Countries and I need to personally manage them. I spend weeks outside the country but I usually make sure that my daughter has all that she wanted. I was working just for her. I gave her so many things she demanded. Immediately she graduated from her Primary School, I bought her an iphone 11.

She was doing well academically, until I received a call from her school principal that my daughter is deteriorating drastically. I was wondering what could have caused that. So, I sat her down and talked to her. It was during the conversation that I realized that a lot has changed about her.

I became worried and one of my business partners observed this and asked what the problem was. I narrated what happened and he immediately told me that it has happened to his own daughter before too. He says that I should seize her phone that she would become more focused with her studies.

I followed the advice and seized my daughter’s phone but she started crying. I decided to return the phone back to her because I couldn’t watch her cry and she knows as well. I guess that was why she did that. I love too much. When I wanted to return the phone, a call came through and I was amazed with the name she saved the number as. It was suspicious, thus, I answered the call in front of her and I was terrified by what I found out.

The caller told me that she wants to speak with her chick. I was wondering if it was a wrong number because my daughter is still in Jss2 and I do not expect her to be in any romantic relationship just yet. So, I told the person that it was a wrong number but, he started insulting me that he knows who he is calling and he mentioned my daughter’s name.

I did not know how the phone fell from my hand but I heard the sound. I was confused and told her to unlock the phone. I glanced through her gallery and almost committed suicide by what I saw. I saw pictures of my daughter smoking weed with some guys. That was not all, I continued checking and I saw pictures of my daughter sniffing something with those guys.

She quickly collected the phone from my hand and ran out of the house. I do not know where she is now and she has not been picking nor returning my calls.

I feel like I have failed as a parent. If my wife had been alive, all these would not have happened. What can I do? What advice do you have for me?
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Lots of women are losing their husbands to strange women out there and most women are yet to know what these men really see in these women that make them to get glued to them despite the facts that they know that these women are more expensive and most are full of sexual transmitted diseases.
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Hi wives, you need to know the sexual secrets of these faceless women, sorry they are better than you in the bed, you need to step up to match up with them and beat them in their dirty games. Take your time to read this and get your husband back, these are their secrets:
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1) THEY UNDERSTAND THE SEXUAL WEAKNESS OF MEN:
They understand that one of the weaknesses of most men is sex and they make good use of this. Wives are careless about this, instead of using sex to create intimacy with their husbands; they use it to create animosity, anger, bitterness between them and their husbands.
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WHAT TO DO:
Use sex as a tool of love to create intimacy in your marriage, don’t use sex to destroy your marriage, use it to build it.
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2) THEY KISS LIKE MAD:
In a report, most married men reported that their wives hate kissing; they said it is difficult to get a decent kiss from their wives. Strange women are experts in this area, they use kissing as a weapon.
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WHAT TO DO:
Don’t turn kissing to wresting in your marriage, stop been local. Kiss your husband even when he is not expecting it.
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3) THEY USE KILLER UNDERWEAR:
A man said he hates to see his wife in panties because according to him, she always looks like a wrestler. Lots of wives are like this, they are fond of wearing pants whose colors are different from their bras, looking like a rainbow, with dirty pants, outdated underwear, bra that looks like tarpaulin, wearing of boxers that is meant for men, wearing of knickers and tying of wrapper to bed. Strange women are creative in this regard they are fond of using neat, sexy panties and bra. They always balance colors under there.
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WHAT TO DO:
Wives wake up, fashion starts form under, not from head gear or rope sieve bag, the real fashion is looking sexy when you UnCloth before your husband.
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4) THEY USE KILLER NIGHTIE:
Strange women not only wear sexy underwear, they also wear killer nighties. While wives dress to bed and look like a soldier in bed, strange women dress to capture the man even before getting to bed.
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WHAT TO DO:
When you are going out, dress up and when you are going to bed, dress down. Dress to capture the imagination of your husband, get very sexy, nasty nightie for your husband’s eyes only. Men are moved by what they see, let your husband she the angel in you.
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5) THEY SEE SEX AS A SERIOUS BUSINESS:
You see it as a chore, you see it as dirty, you even wish it is removed from marriage, it never cross your mind. But for these strange ladies, they see sex as a serious business and do everything to keep their clients and customers. They use all marketing strategies, branding, product, packaging, marketing and advertisement.
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WHAT TO DO:
Begin to see sex as a serious business, rebrand yourself, repackage yourself because you are the real product.
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6) THEY TREAT SEX AS FOOD OF MEN:
Wives are fond of saying “Is it food?” What a foolish statement! It’s not food, it’s more than that, in fact the Bible says it is water (Proverbs 5:15-19). Strange women are aware of the fact that men see sex as food and they serve it hot and better.
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WHAT TO DO:
Get into the fray, treat it as the food of your husband. Serve it better than before, never say, “is it food?” again in your life, it is more than that.
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7) SEX IS IN THEIR MIND: Babies, house cleaning, cooking, and washing are in the mind of wives; sex is never in their minds, they never think of it, but away women put it in their mind and their body is ready, no wonder they hardly look tired for it.
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WHAT TO DO:
At least two or three time a week, put sex in your to-do list, put it in your mind and see how your marriage turns to be.
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THEY PLAN FOR SEX: Strange women plan for sex the way you plan for your cooking; they look forward to it and carry their catch along in their plans.
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WHAT TO DO:
Plan for sex in your marriage; don’t make it your husband’s affairs to plan for sex in your marriage. Let it be part of your schedule.
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9) THEY SET TABLE FOR SEX: Strange women do set table for great sex, soft music, blue light, candle light, perfumed bed, velvet bed sheet, sexy outlook, slippery fingers. Do you still wonder why men are running to them?
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WHAT TO DO:
Begin to set table for sex in your marriage, be creative, surprise your husband with sexy outlook when he arrives from work. Children are already in bed, you look “Smatching”, the whole house look romantic, soft music, dinner with candle light, Hug by the door and kiss on the lips. Who says your husband will not rush home tomorrow.
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10) THEY ARE VERY ROMANTIC:
Romance is a strange thing to some women, the away women don’t joke about it, they are experts in this. Whole lots of wives are romantically bankrupt but strange women are professional in it. Men loves romantic women and strange women know this.
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WHAT TO DO:
Become romantic, marriage is a love affair, don’t allow motherhood and wifehood destroy your girlish instinct. Be romantic.
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11) THEY FLIRT WITH THEIR MEN:
Strange women are not only romantic, they are flirty. They give “come and do” eye contact, if you sit with them on a table they make sure their legs touch yours, they put hands on men’s shoulders and touch men’s legs as they discuss. They greet men with a good smile, they laugh excessively to men’s dry jokes. All these signal immoral men understand perfectly and they quickly go for them.
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WORK TO DO:
Get flirty with your husband, hold his hands in the public, place your head on him when in a bus, touch his legs as you talk, sit close to him and sure make your body touches his own, hold him longer when hugging, he is your husband girl, get flirty with him.
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12) THE ARE SEDUCTIVE:
Strange women are not only romantic, they are flirty, they are not only flirty, they are seductive. They dress seductively, expose their cleavages, show their panties, wear very tight cloths that shows their pant lines and curves, open their laps for careless men to see what is there. This is what your husband face daily, though he may not get home to tell you what girls in the office are doing to him, you need to know this and get it right at home, with right and what I call holy seduction. This I mean you counter them by seducing your husband regularly, this may keep him to you.
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WORK TO DO:
Get seductive with your husband; stop pretending that you hate sex. Work round the house half naked when you are alone with him, bath with bathroom door open when alone with him, go ahead win your husband spirit soul and body.
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13) THEY MAKE GREAT USE OF PERFUME:
Strange women use expensive perfumes, they smell nice to attract men.
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WORK TO DO: Make sure you smell nice too, men’s sense of smell is very good, take advantage of this, capture your husband.
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14) THEY MAKE MEN FEEL WANTED:
Strange women do make men feel wanted, honored and welcome by their attitude, cooperation and involvement in the bedroom. The opposite is the case with wives; they make men look foolish for asking for sex, they make their husbands fight or struggle for it, what a mistake!
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WHAT TO DO:
Treat your husband with honor, let him feel wanted, accepted and loved. If he touches you, encourage him and touch him too.
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15) THEY USE THEIR BREASTS TO THE MAXIMUM:
Most wives are fond of fighting their husbands for touching their breast, but strange women will never do that, they make good use of this to capture men, they know that most men can be captured by women’s breast, so they dress to show cleavage, half of their breast, they wear clothing that shows their nipples, they go for breast enhancement, they go out bra less, you see the women that are after your husband are very desperate, you can’t afford to be careless.
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WHAT TO DO:
Don’t ever fight your husband again for touching your breast, it is not for the baby, the baby is a tenant, it’s for the Daddy, it is not for decoration, make use of it to keep your husband.
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16) THEY COOK GREAT MEALS:
Strange women also know how to cook great meal for men before sleeping with them. They know that men love food and if a man loves your food, he is likely going to like your body.
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WHAT TO DO:
Never commit your husband meals in to the hands of your maids; you will likely regret this later. Be a great cook if you don’t want to cook your marriage.

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Erection, ejaculation, and sperm motility or fertility is a function of our feeding habit and genetic make up.
We are in the generation where fries, fast food, junks, and drinks have replaced healthy meal, and as such have made sexual intimacy a burden to couples, men in particular.
Today, I will share the best food that will make you last longer in bed, and be in charge.

1. Fresh Natural Leaves.
Our tongue crave for sweet things, but the penis prefer natural bitter stuff.
Bitter leaves,(wash once and chew afterwards.), fruited pumpkin(marsh, squeeze and drink the extract), garden egg leaves(chew after washing), gangronema latifoleum(utazi in Igbo language), chew after washing.

2. Fresh Fruits.
Paw paw that is not over ripped, those ones that are still strong but mature enough for consumption.
Water melon, it's one of the best fruit for the penis.
Carrot, cashew nuts, ground nuts and other nuts are helpful to the penis.

3. Natural spices.
Ginger and garlic are one of the best food for the heart, and the penis.
They detoxify the system, and also makes it very easy for the blood to flow to the penis during sexual intercourse.
You don't like the smell? Well, your penis does.
White onions.
Why on earth will anyone recommend that you chew onions? Well, it's not only good for your eyes, it's also good for the eye of your penis.
Moringa seed.
This is one of the wonder seed or spice that every man must take once in a while.
It works like garlic but it is more powerful than garlic.
Gets the penis charged up within ten minutes and gets the veins ready for thrusting until the vagina testifies to the magnificent touch of your penis.

4. Water.
The penis needs enough fluid to keep working and shooting with accuracy.
If you don't drink enough water, you maybe overworking your penis thereby putting your body in danger of heart attack or any of those things.
So drink adequate water regularly if you want ejaculation not to seem like punishment to your body.

We don't want men who are afraid of making love to their wives; we want men who are always ready to work in the inner room to give their wives one more reason to sing out loud in the kitchen.
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Devlin has a friend called Dettric, who lives in Europe but has a wife called Ann who's living in Lagos, Nigeria where Devlin also lives.

Dettric visits Nigeria quarterly to spend few days with his wife and two daughters and sometimes his wife and the kids also visit him in Europe.

The last time he visited Nigeria was September 2019 and he's suppose to have visited again at least twice by now. But because of work, the pandemic and the International travelling restrictions he hasn't been able to do so or have his family fly over...

His wife, Ann is a very faithful wife, but she has been complaining lately of needing him. She says she can no longer control her sexual desire, that she needs the touch of a man. It is quiet understandable, considering the fact that it's rainy season in Nigeria and the nights are as cold as ice... Ann doesn't wanna cheat on her husband but she really needs to be sexually satisfied even if it's just for a night.

Dettric being a man who loves, cares and understands his wife, is really worried and concerned but he doesn't want his wife to have any affair with a stranger. So he contacted his best friend Devlin who he respects and trusts, who also happens to be single. He begged Devlin to visit his wife Ann and help him satisfy her sexually. He also offered to pay Devlin if he accepts to do this.

Devlin rejected the offer. But Dettric has continued to beg him and even offered him more money and this is because Devlin is the only person Dettric believes he can trust to keep this a secret for life.

Devlin says he doesn't really care about the money, but he's really worried and uncomfortable with the offer. but still, He's concerned for his best friend's marriage and would love to help...

Now he needs your advice(s)...

What do you think Devlin should do..........??

Should he go ahead & do it or not.....
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What will you do if you discover that your lover is a potential murderer?

Pure bitter truth.
1. A prostitute does not expect you to remember her birthday, not to talk of buying her gifts. You don’t also have to take care of her responsibilities like buying her body cream, paying for her hair do, buying her airtime, paying for her rent etc. Yet you still enjoy maximum sex for a little fee which cannot be compared to the expenses we spend on our so-called clean Girlfriend's.
My male neighbour said his Girlfriend won’t let him touch her or even talk to her because he didn't give her a particular amount of money she requested. If this young man must give her that money before he would touch her then what is the difference between her and the prostitute out there?

2. You don’t need to remember the safe period of prostitutes because non of them would come back telling you they are pregnant. But funny thing is the so called side chicks and normal gals will shock u with messages of I missed my period, I'm pregnant..

3. Prostitutes won’t compel you to get married to them as the last thing on their mind is marriage.

4. Believe it or not, prostitutes are more disease free than the so-called clean G'fs, side chicks of ours. This is becos every man thinks her job is risky so there is need to protect himself with a condom and at the end 100 men may sleep with her
but with a condom but with the so-called decent clean and homely G'fs, Side Chicks. it is the other way around you thinks she is decent so he doesn't need a condom, tomorrow Thabo will think the same and do it with her again without using a condom and Steve will also think she is decent and safe so he too goes without a condom and at the end she has 100 men who have slept with her without condom yet she still parades herself as the homely, decent, clean, chick and the cycle continues. What a shame!

5. A prostitute does not expect you to satisfy them, they would do anything to satisfy you and make you come back for them again unlike the clean homely\ girls, Girlfriends, Side chicks, who expect you to take them to cloud nine while they only lie on their backs and spread their legs like frozen chicken...

MY HUMBLE OPINION...
Some Women or 80% of women are prostitute. It only depends if they are WILD prostitutes or DOMESTIC prostitutes. The wild ones are the ones that stands in the hotels, bars, lodges, streets for commercial sex trade while the domestic ones are the so-called girlfriends we keep at home with the false impression that we have a decent cl ean gal all to ourselves, but

Unfortunately, when We are away they sneak out to have sex with other guys and Sugar Daddies, now tell me how are they different from the roadside prostitute.??
My brothers, I see, it is the same thing. So whether You admit it or not if your GF sleeps around with Random guys she meets occasionally then you have a domestic prostitute in your house. So don’t judge other Men who sleep with the wild Prostitutes in hotels because You are in the same line with them.
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Life most times don't appear the way we see it except envisaging into the future and see what await for us ahead.

A woman is always beyond what you know her for even if you look into her eyes physically for a million times.

Below will give you full details of what a woman lifestyle and emotions can be when she gets to the age of 40 years and above.

When a woman is up to the age of 40 to 50 years, she will have a change in characters regarding who she was.

She will have unimaginable kind of boldness to approach her man and those around her and also more rebellious, more spiritual, more determined, always standing on her own opinions and more forceful about what she wants.

You should not be chock to see a woman who has been obedient, loyal and respectful when you married her to suddenly change completely when she gets to 40 to 50 years. This happens especially when she has given birth to children.

By this time, she will not be flowing with you as she used to before she attains this age. Sometimes she will ask you questions such as;
Must we make love or is it food? She will also start querying most of your instructions to her, including the way you react to things.
She will as well be more extrovert and there will be no fear of....https://allsinglesandmarried..com/2020/07/every-woman-at-age-of-40-to-50-years-is.html?m=1

To be in a happy marriage or relationship is what everyone deserves and probably expects whenever he or she finds himself in a love world with someone believed to be special but it is unfortunate that not everyone knows that special habits that will make their Partner to be so much and deeply in love with them.

With the help of this article, I will be revealing to you, those habits you thought doesn't matter which matters the most.

You will discover what your partner expects from you which are those backbone that will hold your relationship or marriage so firmly that outsiders will be admiring to be in your position.

1) Build A Shared Interest With Your Partner. Sharing unique and solid bond with your significant other is one of the oils that would keep your union alive for a very long time, if not for eternity.

Make out time to discover your partner's Interests and work on how it will suit the both of you. Your common interests are crucial for the greatness of your union. Do things like cooking together, watch movies together, do House chores together and even go to market together. This will make you guys emotionally inseparable.

2) Resolve Argument Amicably And The Same Day. The capacity to resolve argument easily and maturely is very important to your union.

The worst thing that can happen in a relationship or marriage is to keep scores against your partner. Don't go to bed without settling up the heated arguments you guys had.

Be the one that will push for everything to be settled. Apologize even when you are sure you are not wrong.
In marriage or relationship, the winner and the leader are he who accepts defeat.

Few days ago, I unintentionally offended my wife. She was very angry that she didn't want to talk to me for the whole night but because I can't allow that to continue, I went inside the bathroom with her, uninvited.

I decided to bath with her, as a matter of fact, I optioned to bath her and that's how her heart was melted by my approach, although before then, I have orally apologized but her response wasn't okay for me.

3) Be affectionate, be romantic, look admiring, look irresistible, look unavoidable. Let your partner always have reason to smile at you, not because you are a mirror but because he or she can't resist you. Make yourself to be Attractive everyday.

4) Appreciate your partner always. Appreciation is one of the best ways you can win your partner's love. Is one of the best things that entices them. Appreciate every little thing he or she does.

Even if you find fault, you should first appreciate and then romantically make the corrections you want to make. Praise him or her for the efforts and commitment, for the steps taken and the bold move as well.
With these, your partner will know that you care and that he or she is important and valued by you.

5) Give attention to those things that makes your partner happy, those things that makes him or her to always see you as the best in their lives. Give it attention. It matters, is significant to your union.

Your partner likes bathing together and eating together with you, give it attention. Your partner likes exercise and can't do it without you, give it attention.

Your partner likes groundnuts or popcorn that at least once in a week she will eat any of these things, give it attention. It will go a long way in making your heart for each other inseparable.

6) Stay in contact with each other all day. Your data shouldn't just be used for YouTube video streaming.

Make it crucial to always hear from your lover. Call each other on the phone, make video calls. Send romantic messages. Drop love notes inside their office bag. Give an unexpected kiss, hug him or her from the...https://allsinglesandmarried..com/2020/07/the-8-habits-that-will-make-your.html?m=1

It is no longer a news, that lots of marriages are are hitting the rock lately, I took time to do my background check, and I discovered that there are lots of factors mitigating against happy marriages in recent times, ranging from high rate of infidelity, alcoholism, deceit, parental influence or affluence, bad friends, extravagant life still, trust to mention a few.

Infidelity has destroyed more homes than one could ever imagined. Also the danger involved is so how and the effects can be devastating and can lead to untimely death.

This article will not focus on health implications of infidelity but it will focus on more serious aspect, that has to do with the spiritual effects. I know some of us must have heard of kayan mata, it's usually a concoction made from herbal products to help increase the libido and sweetness in women private organs. In the olden days this concoctions are made specifically or specially for women who has given birth to children to help the private part regain necessary nutrients and spices to help keep their husband from neglecting them, or having a dissatisfaction appeals during intercourse.

But in recent times young girls and ladies patronize this ventures more, from the Fulani women that move from one community to another selling this products with pride. Given enlightenment to young girls and ladies on how to use this kayan mata products on their men, to remote control them and estort money from them. The price of this products are so cheap that one can afford to buy one, for testing purposes.

I am not writing this article from my head knowledge but from the ugly physical experiences with families that have been victims of this spiritual concoctions. This is a call to order for men that wouldn't want to play table tennis with the destiny of their children, wife and love ones. In the course of this article, I will share the methods this evil girls used to cast this love spell on their victims, please keep reading.

This concoction is usually applied on the private part , any man that carelessly make love to them, will never find satisfaction from any other woman, not even their wife. It is as bad as that, automatically the man will become a casualty of love. He may not even want to go back home again or even demand divorce from the legal wife, this can be the case when the man is educated but for an illiterate man they don't even care about divorce, they will completely neglect their wife and children. Provided there is still money in the account or in the pocket the mistress can keep them till God knows when, they don't care.

I use to brag that how can I neglecte my family just for pleasures derived from the lap of a woman, not until events around me start unfolding and I saw men that don't joke with their families fall victims of this love spell called kayan mata. The fact is lots of girls and ladies out there can do anything for money, as if the effects of the kayan mata is not enough, what they go for now is "upgrade". The word "upgrade" is a popular language in the circles of runs girls or babes. Upgrade is simply a love spell, that can be cast on men to collect huge amount of money from them. I over heard a young beautiful lady discussing with her friends close to my shop, guess what she said, imagine that General man gave me just 50k do I look like a chip or low class girl to him. Another friend in the circle quickly replied you know say I no dey dull, I go don use upgrade on the foul. As at that point I didn't know what upgrade means, what a dangerous world we live in.

This concoctions can be applied in two forms. The first one is through intercourse and secondly through food. You have to be careful, you are advised not to eat out carelessly so you do not fall victim of this evil love spell. Their target is money, if you are rich and you are reading this article right now, you must not allow your female employees or one random babe give you anything edible.

QUESTION??
That's more reason we all need to be careful and stick to our wives or loves ones. Let me ask you a question, have you seen any woman with air condition in her private part? or have you seen any woman with POP design and chandelier in their private part? If your answer is no, then stop allowing your mind or thoughts deceive you, be contempted with the woman God has given you. What other runs girls out there are using to deceive you, your wife or woman also have it, learn to make her beautiful and more appealing to you. You can choose trendy hair styles for her, buy her some hot bikini that can keep her sexually appealing for you, you can also buy her good cream and roll on so she can smell nice and fresh for you.

CONCLUSION

A married woman once told me that, even if you tie a way ward man with chains he will break loose and still chase after anything under the skirt. I strongly believe that no man is created for destruction, most times people walk into dangerous path of life with their will or decisions, as a result of lack of self control or contempt. I always ask my self this question, what if I am inside my bedroom with a very beautiful and curvy lady undressed, both ready for skin to skin action and she paused to disclose the fact that she have HIV, she went further to show me boils in hidden areas of her body, Would I still go ahead to make love to her?. Trust me on this one, my answer will be capital NO, that is the self control I am talking about, you can be in control of your emotions and sexual organs if truly you want to be in control and.... https://allsinglesandmarried..com

Marriage and relationship is a fantastic Union and as such has its own ingredients just like when we cook our normal delicacies at home, for everyone to enjoy it you have to apply or make use of the ingredients so it will be enjoyed.

Most relationships and Marriage failed because the couples or rather the parties involved forget to do the right things which are one of the most important things required of them in order for them to have a good marriage or relationship.

The ingredients needed for you to enjoy your marriage or relationship with your partner are;

1) Good Character
2) Appreciating one and another
3) Admiring one another
4) Protecting one another's interest
5) Speaking for one another both at home and in public.
6) Calling each other romantic names.

The major thing we are going to discuss or talk about is the romantic names which everyone expect his or her lover to call him or her but particularly I'm going on the names every woman expects her man to call her.

For women, the romantic name is one of the things that entices them, brings out their feelings towards the man she loves and makes her heart to fully come out and again be submissive to the man and...https://allsinglesandmarried..com/2020/06/romantic-names-every-woman-expect-her.html?m=1

If your spouse is always not in the mood for sex, you should consider giving him or her this article to read. There are several benefits of having sex regularly.

1. SEX HELPS YOU LOOK YOUNGER. If you want to look younger, have sex. A study by Dr David Weeks, clinical neuropsychologist at the Royal Edinburgh Hospital found that older men and women with an active love life looked five to seven years younger than their actual age.

2. BETTER SPERM QUALITY. Having sex would help you boost your fertility because studies have found that the more you have sex, the better quality your sperm will be. If you are trying for a baby, keep your sperm fresh by having sex at least twice a week.

3. FIGHTS COLD AND FLU. Studies have shown that having sex once or twice weekly raises your body’s levels of an antibody called immunoglobulin A or lgA which can protect you from cold and flu. A study found that people who have sex at least once weekly have 30% higher levels of lgA than those who don’t.

4. LIVE LONGER. Having sex would make you live longer. An Australian study found that people who climaxed at least three times a week had a 50% lower chance of dying due to any medical condition when compared to those who climaxed only once monthly.

5. HELPS YOU KEEP FIT. Having sex is a fun way to burn calories and keep fit. Having 30 minutes of vigorous sex can burn up to 100 calories. So why don’t you burn those extra calories by having sex tonight.

6. HELPS LOWER THE RISK OF INCONTINENCE. Having sex is a good workout for a woman’s pelvic floor muscles thereby reducing incontinence. Pregnancy and menopause can weaken these muscles. Having sex makes these muscles stronger, Lowering the risk of developing stress incontinence and prolapse later.

7. WARDS OFF HEART ATTACK. A Queen’s University Belfast study found that having sex three times a week could reduce your risk of having a heart attack or stroke. An Israel study also found that women who had two climaxes weekly were 30% less likely to have a heart attack than women who didn’t enjoy sex or climax.

8. INCREASES YOUR ATTRACTIVENESS. Have sex with your spouse to increase your attractiveness. It’s been found that high sexual activity makes the body release more pheromones. Pheromones are chemicals that enhance your appeal to the opposite sex.

9. SMOOTH OUT WRINKLES. During menopause, a woman’s skin tends to become drier and more wrinkled due to drop in oestrogen levels. Having sex tonight will increase your oestrogen levels which can in turn have a plumping effect on the skin, helping to clear wrinkles.

10. PROMOTES SKIN RENEWAL. A study conducted by Royal Edinburgh Hospital found that during sex, higher levels of oxygen gets pumped around the body which increases the flow of blood and nutrients to the skin thereby making the skin look healthier.

11. IMPROVES SELF-ESTEEM. Having sex regularly makes you feel more confident about your body. This is according to a study by the University of Texas, USA.

12. LOWERS BLOOD PRESSURE. A study by researchers from the Brigham Young University, USA found that having regular sex lowers blood pressure.

13. CURES HEADACHE. Having headache due to stress from work? Have sex with your spouse tonight to cure that headache. According to scientists, having sex releases oxytocin plus other feel-good endorphins which can ease the pain.

14. HELPS YOU SLEEP. Having issues sleeping? Having a good sex might be all what you need. Having sex releases oxytocin which promotes relaxation and sleepiness.

15. CUTS YOUR RISK OF PROSTATE CANCER. Men who enjoy a regular sex life in their 50s are at a lower risk of developing prostate cancer according to a Nottingham University research. This is because having sex clears the prostate of toxins that could otherwise linger and trigger cancerous changes.
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Even if you are married to the best spouse in the whole world,
if you do not guard your heart, you may end up "falling in love"
with someone aside your spouse and eventually ruin your
marriage.
No one gets married and plans to have affair but lots of
married men and women are into affairs today because they
slept when they should have been wide awake with their five
senses alert.

1 Don't be too friendly with the opposite sex.
This is where lots of married people land in trouble.
Over spirituality and pride will destroy your marriage!
You can't handle close
friendship with the opposite sex as a married person. Your
heart is involved.
Set boundaries.
Be disciplined.
Be cordial.
Be respectful.
Be godly.
Be holy.

2. Don't share your personal problems with an opposite sex
friend.
It will bond you together. Problems bond people.

3 Don't contact any opposite sex you are fond of.
If you secretly admire them, you are fond of them and there is a
tingling in your heart at the mere thought of them, don't
contact!

4 Avoid unnecessary eye contact that lingers with the
opposite sex.

5 Don't tell an opposite sex you are romantic or sexy.
That private information is for your spouse only.

6. Avoid discussions with the opposite sex when you are tired,
very sad, depressed, sorrowful, drowsy, sleepy or very sick.
This can cloud your judgment and make you say silly things.
Talk to your husband/wife instead.

7 Avoid unnecessary compliment of the opposite sex.

8 Stop saying "I love you" to the opposite sex.
For what?

9 Work on your Marriage. Keep the fire of love and romance
alive in your Marriage.

*10*. Protect your Family.
Don't share your marital problems with your opposite sex friend.
It will bond you.

11. Never flirt with the opposite sex.

12 Mind the pictures you post on social media. Limit pictures that show your curves or portray you as sexy.

13 Do not contact all your EX after marriage.

14. Don't chat with the opposite sex on the days you are Hot.

15 Stop focusing on your spouse's weaknesses and appreciate their strengths.
If you always see the bad side of your spouse, you will be angry, bitter, critical and look for someone who can "understand" you and make you happy aside your spouse. That is the beginning of an emotional affair and eventual sexual affair. It is the beginning of the end of a once glorious marriage and.... https://allsinglesandmarried..com

Recently, I shared a few facts about how significant the individual you marry is. This is on the grounds that, the start of a quiet and fruitful marriage starts with wedding the perfect individual.

Along these lines, in this article, I will give you some kind of individuals you ought to not marry. It's not every person that is prepared for marriage is marriable.

1) Try not to marry anybody that isn't an offspring of God. Adam had a relationship with God first before having a relationship with anybody. That is the manner by which it should be. The main relationship man was given was relationship with God before relationship with his wife(Gen. 3:8-9).

I have said this previously; the best individual to wed is an offspring of God, somebody that feelings of dread and adores God and is being driven by the Holy Spirit. Somebody that apprehensions God will disregard underhandedly and will never abuse you. Anybody that doesn't love or dread God can do anything without disapproving.

Along these lines, anybody that isn't an offspring of God, conceived again and submitted in the administration of the realm, isn't a supplication point. Try not to be inconsistent burden with unbelievers. In case you are an offspring of God, wed an offspring of God, If you're an unbeliever, it would be ideal if you search for your sort. We should not be tragic. God and Satan can't be parents in law.

2) Try not to marry anybody that doesn't have a understanding throughout everyday life. Adam was occupied with something before the issue of marriage came up. He was caught up with administering, overwhelming, working and dealing with the earth. Hence, before marriage you should recognize what you need to do with your life(Gen 2:15). Try not to marry anybody that doesn't have the foggiest idea where the individual is going throughout everyday life. Have something significant doing with your life before marriage. Try not to hang tight for marriage before you become valuable. Be valuable to yourself, family and society.

3) Try not to marry anybody that beats you. Numerous women are liable of this. You're involved with a person that hasn't done anything on your head, yet he beats and misuses however you continue accepting he will change. Try not to stress, when you enter marriage, he's probably going to murder you if God doesn't support you.

Try not to marry anybody that lifts a hand on you, incurs injury on you both genuinely, mentally and inwardly. That is a major warning. Run. An individual that beats you before marriage, may murder you after marriage. What's more, in the event that the individual can't change before marriage, change after marriage possibly troublesome.

4) Try not to marry anybody that is excessively pleased. Anybody that is too glad will consistently think or feel the person is helping you out by getting hitched to you. You'll be underestimated. You won't be valued and acknowledged. The individual will think that its difficult to concede his or hand wrong. No one is doing anybody favor, regardless of whether he is dangote child or little girl. A glad individual is an entitled individual. They need to be served, adored, acknowledged, needed yet can not do same for you.

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Marriage as we all know is a life time journey between a man and a woman. Most Marriage started while the couple were in the university. Some got married after their graduation, while some married while they are already on their careers journey.

Because of desperation, 90% of women has some deep secrets kept against their husbands, likewise the men and it's disheartening. The Truth is that we all have Secrets, both men and women but reports has it that women keep secrets of up to 95% in their Marriage.

Most of these Secrets if expose will crash the Marriage or may lead one of the couple to commit suicide. However, keeping secrets from your partner is not advisable, you may be doing it for a reason best known to you but it will hurt him or her if eventually discovered.

Here are some of the secrets your husband or your wife is keeping away from you.

1) Most women got married knowing fully well that medically she can't give birth, due complications as a result of abortion, probably when she was a teenager or while she was in school or dating someone she never wanted to get married with. Instead of informing her husband about it on time so they can take necessary steps about it.

She kept it to herself with the claim that she might lose her husband if he gets informed. This will be in her heart, they will be moving from one hospital to another just to know what the problem is.
Is when she is tired of hiding it that she will cry for help.

2) Some men have concubines their wives are still alive and there is no issues such as divorce between them. Side chick is the younger sister of concubines, simply because concubines is what I classified as those that have children for your man, but side chick are just girlfriend he is spending his money on instead of spending it with his family.

3) Most women prefer to make love with their driver, gate man, house keeper, maid, husband's friend or husband's brother. Some has gone as far as sleeping with their husband's father. This is usually done when someone lacks self-control, self-contentment and self respect. These secrets are kept in the bottom of her heart, nobody will ever be aware of it, unless her cup is filled up.

4) Most men sleeps with their wife's sister, mother, cousin, step daughter, friend or even with a neighbor in the next apartment. The causes is as the same as number three above.

5) A woman because she is not medically fit to give birth, convinced her sister to make love with her husband and give him a child. The sister seduced the man, and their assignment was accomplished, without the man knowing what the two sisters planned.

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Is time for us to pray, we have to change somethings that seems it can't be changed. God has already given us the dominions over all principalities and powers. We determine how our lives will be through prayers.

In the book of John 14:14, the Bible says that if you ask anything in my name, I will do it. (that is, Jesus Christ is talking to us to ask whatever we want in his name and he will do it, provided is a good thing)

In the book of Proverbs 18 vs 21 to 22, the Bible says that the power of life and death are in our tongue and those that love it will enjoy the fruits thereof. Simply means that when you command any dead dried bone in your life to come alive, it will be done immediately.

Say the following prayers with faith and change the unchangeable through the powerful name of Jesus Christ.

1) I stand in my office, my business place, my workshop or store as the operator and as the owner of my home, I declared upon my life fruitfulness, increments and greatness. I will never be childless, I will never lack wisdom, I will never lack great ideas for anything, I will never lack peace in my home and in my life in general, I will never lack any good things Lord God has promised me and my generation, in the mighty name of Jesus Christ.

2) I declared that all my lost Glory given to me by God on the day of my creation, stollen by any kingdom of darkness be restored now in the mighty name of Jesus Christ.

3) Any monitoring Spirit, any agent assigned against me both physically and spiritual from today, I command you to be destroyed now in the mighty name of Jesus Christ.

5) Any of my belongings such as clothes, shoes, wristbands, my hair or a stone in my compound, in my father's compound or in my mother's compound that are being used to terminate my life, be destroyed now by fire, in the mighty name of Jesus Christ.

6) Any monitoring animals, flies, cockroach, wall gecko, ant or any other living things assigned to monitor me by the kingdom of darkness, I command Holy Ghost fire to destroy you now in the mighty name of Jesus Christ.

7) I declare for my home, all my doors of favor, divine help, divine connection, divine intervention in all areas of my life to receive supernatural supplies in the mighty name of Jesus Christ.

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Most men have the idea of the perfect vagina. Though in this world most things naturally fall short of perfection, but you can do something to at least achieve some goodness of it.

So what qualities does a perfect vagina possess? Here are some answers from men.
It should have a strong grip enough to chock a man’s penis.
A perfect vagina would be one whose kegel muscles are so strong they could strangle a horse.
Nothing feels great than being with a woman who is in total control of her vagina, she can flex the muscles when you are inside her.

1: Strong Vagina. It should have a strong grip enough to chock a man’s penis. A perfect vagina would be one whose kegel muscles are so strong they could strangle a horse. Nothing feels great than being with a woman who is in total control of her vagina, she can flex the muscles when you are inside her.

2: Tight. Tight enough until the man has to struggle a little to get his penis in. The best part of the sex is the initial penetration like you are trying to penetrate a private place where you have to first seek permission to get in.

3: Well lubricated. A vagina which has natural lubrication that is flowing freely when a woman is aroused is what most men love. Lubrication that lasts long enough until the man finishes, and makes the penis sufficiently wet when having sex.

4: Nice smelling vagina. Men hate a vagina that smells bad enough such that he does not wish to move his nose close to it. But most men admit that a nice vagina will have its natural scent which is very arousing to most men. Ask men who love licking it!

5: Men also do not like vaginas that keep quaffing or ‘farting’ more so during sex. A vagina that keeps sucking air is interpreted as ‘big’ by most men. (though not necessarily true).

6: Orgasmic vagina. That is, a vagina that will achieve orgasm within reasonable time. Most men have no horse power to thrust for more than 20 minutes continuously and when a vagina takes too long to get its orgasm, it irritates some men (except those who love marathon sex.)

7: Feels just good from any angle. That is, from whichever side the man is penetrating, it just fits in to his penis.

8: CONFIDENCE: Men love women who are confident with their vagina. She should be aware that the organ gives men tremendous pleasure and a run for their life, after all, most men spend almost all their lives trying to get into one why wouldn’t women feel proud of it?

WHAT CAN YOU DO?
1: To get a firm grip in your vagina, do kegels routines. Kegels are exercises that makes the vagina stronger and be in top shape.

2: To get a tight vagina, do kegels too and learn to flex your vaginal muscles when having sex. Even a man whose penis is small can still feel your vagina.

3: To be sufficiently lubricated, do kegels, eat healthy foods, avoid alcohol, Drink alot water or watermelon and don't engage in smoking, discuss your family planning with the doctor to know if they have any negative impact to your lubrication, avoid stress, or seek to solve any other issue that is making your vagina dry e.g. insufficient hormones.

4: To smell nice just be clean, treat any STI or STD or infection that you may be having, eat well most especially fruits etc.we can handle that infection once soundly today.

5: To avoid farting vagina, please do kegels, this solves most problems.

6: To get an orgasmic vagina, well just ensure your vagina is healthy and you are healthy too.
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Most times we think that infidelity is until you caught your partner in bed with the opposite gender. That's not the only way you or your significant other could cheat in Marriage or Relationship.

Once you see yourself deleting romantic messages you sent to opposite gender so your partner will not see it, then you are cheating. Once you see yourself hiding in the kitchen, bathroom or walking outside to answer call or to reply a text message, you are cheating.

Apart from these things mentioned above, there are other signs that shows your partner is cheating on you and still you may not be aware.

1) Still in contact with his or her formal love partner. Most men are guilty of this sin. Yes is a sin. Whether you are the one that caused the break-up you had with your formal lover or she is the cause, it's over means it's over. Calling her on the phone or keeping her phone number is a child character. If the relationship was meant to be, it would have not been broken. I don't mean you guys should become enemies but let there be boundaries between the two of you. Telling her that you missed her is disrespectful to your woman, since you love that much, you shouldn't have allowed the break up to occur.

For a lady, if your husband or boyfriend is still communicating with his formal girlfriend, he is cheating on you. His emotions are still divided, he is not completely with you. The memory shared with the girlfriend is still in his brain. Most times he will call you her name, is not by mistake, is simply because the girlfriend is still in his heart. If not, the name can't suddenly come out of his mouth.

Sometimes while making love to you, he will be calling the name of his formal girlfriend, or when you are dressing up to go out for a date, he will be telling you how his girlfriend usually dresses likes, is clear that he is still in love with the girlfriend.

2) Keeping late night. This is one habit can only be formed by a man who wants to be doing it. Is not the lifestyle of every man. Take for example, when you met your man, he doesn't keep late night but suddenly started doing it and not that anything changed from the normal traffic flow. His company closes at the same time as usual, I mean nothing changed. He will be complaining to you that he is on a meeting, he went out with a friend, he has so many things to do at the office.

The simple fact is that he has another woman who gives him evening kiss over there. He prefers to be with the lady than to be with you after work. He can be found in the nearest beer parlor drinking with the lady, something he hasn't been doing with you, you will see him doing it with the lady.

A loving and caring man can't stay somewhere else with another woman while his wife is alone in the house waiting to have him hug her. A man that loves you will always rush back home immediately after the office hours just to spend romantic time with you before bedtime, probably make love to you before sleeping. That's love, and that's how it should be.

3) Lack of intimacy. Intimacy is one of the life wire of every Marriage or Relationship. No Marriage or Relationship can survive without intimacy. It brings two hearts together and makes them inseparable. Nobody can willingly be in any Marriage or Relationship without intimacy; it nurtures the growth of every Marriage or Relationship. Without intimacy, you guys are like two normal friends that lives streets away from each other.

When one of you doesn't care about this anymore, then is a sign that something is wrong except on a health condition, for example your partner is sick or on a drug which requires him or her not to be involved in intimacy until a certain time. If not, then it means you are no longer attractive to your partner.

When a woman makes love to another man, she will start disrespecting her husband but when a man does, he still pretends to be in love with you until you confirm it that you are not the only woman he is kissing.

4) Nagging. Imagine a man who appreciates everything you do in the Marriage or Relationship, suddenly started complaining that you don't have manners, you are empty upstairs, you are not good in bed, you don't know how to cook.
It simply means that you are not attractive to him again. Someone else, somewhere has stolen his attention from you.

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It is not a doubt or new thing that so many Married women today is regretting the reason why they got married to the man they are married with, likewise the men. This is not because the man is not handsome again or because the man is not rich again but because they initially forgot what it's to be married to each other and live under one roof of the same building.

Domestic violence doesn't only happen in Marriage; it also happens in a relationship as well, but the reports about it in Marriage is unimaginable. After so many vows at the altar on the wedding day, the man after some months turns his wife into boxing gloves as if he has a match with Anthony Joshua.

Domestic violence in Marriage or relationship can be handled if you can seat down and evaluate your relationship with your significant other before you guys get married to each other, otherwise you will miss out the peace of mind you expect to have in your marriage or relationship.

Before you affirm to be married with your spouse, you shouldn't fail to see the real man in him. The real woman in her, who he is mentally whiles in the relationship with him.

What are the types of friends he keeps, his personal life style as well. The major objective of being in a relationship before Marriage is not just about making love with each other but to know about the person you want to get married with. It doesn't necessarily mean that you should study each other as if you are studying medicine in the University of Lagos but you should be able to know his lifestyle. How he handles misunderstanding between him and other people. Can you cope with him? Is he the type that takes a woman for granted?

When arguing with him or her, how do the reactions look like? Is he or she the kind of person that doesn't care about another person's feeling before speaking to the person?

Some men can verbally reduce you to nothing for any little thing and can even drag it to an extent you can't imagine. Is he the type of men that does that?

Nagging can give rise to domestic violence, some men nag likewise some women as well.

Is he or she the type that doesn't easily accept apology whenever you ask for forgiveness? If your answer is no, you might be in the wrong side of happy marriage or a relationship.

SIGNS THAT SHOWS YOUR MARRIAGE OR RELATIONSHIP IS FACING DOMESTIC VIOLENCE.

It is not until he raises his hands on you then you accept your Marriage or relationship is facing domestic violence.

1) Once your spouse is the type that accuses you wrongly. He is hot tempered to the extent that he can use anything on you whenever he is angry or in a heated argument with you, then you in a domestic violence.

2) Your spouse is the type that raises his voice on you whenever he is angry. Make you feel undeserved for love and respect, you are in a domestic violence.

3) Your spouse acts and believes that the best way to leave in the same house with you is to be forcefully controlling you. Giving you new rules every day, your opinion is not required for anything, then you are in a domestic violence.

4) Your spouse acts and believes that the best way to leave in the same house with you is to be forcefully controlling you.

5) Your spouse is the type that detect where you will go, who you will visit, when you should go out or generally he is autocratic, you are in a domestic violence Marriage.

Everything in life can accept change because change is constant and even the worst relationship can be made perfect as long as the individuals are ready to make improvements. You don't wait to be fighting with your significant other before you take the necessary action to ameliorate the menace.

When we are sick, we go to the hospital, but when our relationship or marriage is sick, most of us run away for our dear lives while others look for the quick way to fix it.

WHAT DO I DO WHEN MY MARRIAGE OR RELATIONSHIP IS FACING DOMESTIC VIOLENCE.
The answer is simple.

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In the book of Isaiah 54:5, the Bible says, For thy Maker is thine husband; the LORD of hosts is his name; and thy Redeemer the Holy One of Israel; The God of the whole earth shall he be called.”
Therefore if Jesus is your husband, then legally and according to Him, you cannot have any other marine husband or wife.

The book of 1 Corinthians 6: 17, says, “But he that is joined unto the Lord is one spirit.” Therefore if you are one with God, you cannot be joined with any other god.

Isaiah 54:14, “ says, thou shall be far from oppression: for thou shall not fear: and from terror; for it shall not come near thee”.

Isaiah 54: 17, “No weapon formed against you shall prosper, And every tongue which rises against you in judgment. You shall condemn. This is the heritage of the servants of the Lord, And their righteousness is from Me, Says the Lord.”

Isaiah 54:4, “Fear not; for thou shalt not be ashamed: neither be thou confounded; for thou shalt not be put to shame: for thou shalt forget the shame of thy youth, and shalt not remember the reproach of thy widowhood any more.”

Isaiah 54:15, “Behold, they shall surely gather together, but not by me: whosoever shall gather together against thee shall fall for thy sake.”

1 John 4:4, “Ye are of God, little children, and have overcome them: because greater is he that is in you, than he that is in the world.”

What Does Spirit Spouse Does To Human Being?
1) Spiritual spouse tries to put enemity between a man and woman who has interest in relationship or Marriage with each other. Simply means it makes efforts to separate them.

2) The spiritual spouse also causes delay in the marriage of a lady who is up to the age of Marriage.

3) The spiritual spouse tries to put unacceptable veils on your face. By this actions, someone will not admire you for relationship or Marriage and even if the person does, any little thing, there will a break-up.

4) The spiritual spouse tries to place rejection and disappointments against their marital prospects.

5) The spiritual spouse tries to abuse you by making love with you in the dream.

6) The spiritual spouse always tries to frustrate you in your marriage or relationship.

7) The spiritual spouse always makes you to use your mouth against your in-laws.

The spiritual spouse always tries to foster unprofitable relationship or marriage in your life thereby making you look like are not good and matured enough for Marriage or relationship.

9) The spiritual spouse most times tries to make you push abuse your man indirectly.

10) The spiritual spouse to talk uncontrollably to you mentally.

11) The spiritual spouse tries to scatter your relationships and break your marriage.

12) The spiritual spouse tries to use you as a bad luck to a man who wants to marry you or sometime it happens while in Marriage with your man.

13) The spiritual spouse always tries to frustrate and put sorrow in your life.
Most times is to leave you as a widow.

HOW TO DIVORCE AND OVERCOME THE SPIRIT SPOUSE.
The best thing you can do in order to be free from spiritual spouse is;

Give your life to Jesus Christ, repent from your sins both known and unknown sins.
Confess your sins as much you can remember and also ask God to forgive the ones you couldn't remember as well. You have to separate yourself from all the covenants you might have made knowingly or unknowingly, both spiritual and physical. Permanently stay away from sin and other properties that may aid these demon to gain access over your life.

Take authority in the name of Jesus and declare your freedom from all evil oppression against your life. Always avoid and get rid of indecent dressing. Disengage yourself from unbelievers (unfriendly friends). Those that are not willingly to do the will of God.
Stay away from the practice of polygamy.
Be prayerful, say some recovery prayers and recover your lost possession. Live the new life and nature of God as you are now a new person.

PRAYERS FOR DIVORCING A SPIRIT HUSBAND AND SPIRIT WIFE.

1) I break any power of spiritual spouse over my life and marriage, in the mighty name of Jesus Christ.

2) Every spiritual spouse manipulating my menstrual cycle, lose your hold in my life now in the mighty name of Jesus Christ.

3) Any kind of marine heat in my womb and body, I quench you now by the blood of Jesus Christ.

4) Every power working against my earthly marriage, putting assunder in my Marriage or relationship here on earth, fall down and die, in the mighty name of Jesus Christ.

5) I disown every strange children in my marriage, wherever you are coming from as an agent in my life, in the mighty name of Jesus Christ be be destroyed.

6) I retrieve back my glory and all my honor taken away from me by the spiritual spouse, in the mighty name of Jesus Christ.

7) I declare to the spirit husband and spirit wife, hear me and hear me well, Jesus is the owner of my life and there's nothing you can change about it. I separate myself from you all from this very moment in the mighty name of Jesus Christ.

I return to you, every property of yours in my possession in the spirit world, including the dowry and whatsoever was used for the marriage and covenants, and I also take from you whatever that belongs to me that's in your possession in the mighty name of Jesus Christ.

9) I divorce and renounce my marriage with the spirit husband or wife, we have nothing in common in the mighty name of Jesus.

10) Spirit husband or Spirit wife, I command you to remove your hands from my marriage from today, in Jesus name. Any spiritual spouse that has padlocked my earthly marriage, that's responsible for me being single till today, I open it now with the blood of Jesus Christ.

11) Every evil meeting for my sake from the marine kingdom, every monitoring Spirit or monitoring mirror in my life from the marine alter, die and scatter now by fire, in the mighty name Jesus Christ.

12) I cut off any kind of legs of a fish from my body, any nature of fish in my spiritual life, I disconnect from you now in the mighty name of Jesus Christ.

13) All you queen of coast, I denounce you today and forever by the blood of Jesus Christ. I am bought over by the blood of Jesus Christ and nothing can change it in the mighty name of Jesus.

14) Any evil mirrors watching me from the covens, i break you by fire, I scatter you in the mighty name Jesus Christ.

15) By the Holy Ghost fire, I set ablaze by the authority from heaven, the marine kingdom spiritually trapping down my glory in the waters, in the mighty name of Jesus Christ.

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A lady said to me that, it gives her enormous concern that she is not yet married despite being old enough for Marriage. This statement is really emotional, and it takes a bold hearted lady to make such a statement.

Someone else said that all her life as a grown-up woman, that a rich man has not come close to her either for a relationship or for Marriage. Believing me, this is too emotional, I can't imagine how many times she has thought about it before speaking out.

Many single women out there, sincerely desire to get married and start enjoying their married lives, they want a man they can call their own and not a boyfriend or fiance who has engaged her for so many years still no Marriage plan in his agenda, they want a man that can love, cherish and care for them. A lot of single ladies had thought about this desire but hardly express it because of the fear of being tagged desperately or being used and dump by a guy who will claim to love her but never loved her. There's definitely nothing wrong with this desire. Don't feel sad about it and don't allow anybody to make you feel undeserved because of it.

The major objective of this article is to give every single lady out there some ways a woman can use to attract a good, rich and responsible man for Marriage without looking desperate to the man.

Let think about the advice Naomi gave Ruth in the Bible, her daughter in law that made her to attract and marry a godly, responsible, rich man, Ruth chapter 3: 3-11.

It is not your job to look for a husband as a single lady. It's the duty of the man who wants to get married to you. The reason is that only few men appreciate single ladies that came to them for Marriage or relationship. Another thing is for you not to be used by a man, devalued and look very cheap to him, you have to present yourself in a way you could attract the man of your choice and not for you to approach him. A man is like a hunter and he values what he got by some efforts and sweat. Your job as a single woman that's looking for a husband is to position yourself in a way you could attract a good, responsible husband and also to be found when a man is looking for a good woman to marry.

Now how are you going to attract a good, rich and responsible man without appearing desperate to the man? The fact remains that every woman wants to marry a good, rich, responsible, a caring and loving man, who can make her feel like the only Queen in the world but the challenge most lady is facing is how to attract such man.
That is why I want to reveal these tips to you as a lady, so it will be easier for you to attract the man.

1) Clean Yourself.
It may look sad to hear this, but I have to say it. A lot of women are unkept, from their clothes down to their body, I mean everything about them is very dirty. No man with good thinking faculty will have anything to do with a dirty lady. No matter how beautiful you are, no matter how naturally endowed you are, once you are the dirty type, you are totally out of line for a responsible man for Marriage.
Don't be overwhelmed to discover that, dirtiness has made many guys to stay away from many ladies. Dirtiness reduces the value of a woman.

Look clean every day. In other words, be neat. Neatness is attractive. And because of how God fashioned your body as a woman, you shouldn't be joking with being neat. No matter your profession, your business or your status in the world, a woman that want to be clean and attractive is expected to bath three times a day on weekend and should at least bath twice a day if she is really busy with work.

2) Smell Nice. A lot of Christian sisters are on this list. Many of them think that body spray, deodorant, roll-on and perfume are sinful. My friend, applying the aforementioned products on your body doesn't make you a sinner. You will keep going from prayer house to another prayer house, fasting and praying, crying for God to give you a husband, if this is not taken care of, you will be surprised that you will keep on praying for husband. If you are not a fan of perfumes, deodorant or roll-on you can still make use of a good body cream that has a good scent.
Wear perfume; you have to simply smell good.

3) Dress To Look Smart. Again many young women are on this list. You will see a lady under 30 years of age dressing like a married woman in her late 70 years of age. How can a young beautiful lady wear a clothe that is doing environmental sanitation anytime she's walking down the street?

Is your obligation to dress well. Look smart. Your dressing speaks a lot about you wherever you are. It can make you look smart, young or look old in the eyes of a man that is interested in Marrying you. No man wants to marry or get attracted to an old woman. Stop dressing like an old woman while you are still young and vibrant. Dress smartly. In fact, look good. It attracts men and gives them the vibe to approach you.
Visit the salon and dress your hair and look beautiful and smart From head to toe. Men are attracted by many things, your hair, dressing and appearance is all part of them.

4) Be Visible. Many ladies want to get married to a handsome, responsible and rich man but they hide themselves in the secret place of their rooms. You want to marry, but you are told to attend church, you refused, even when you go to church, immediately after service you are already in your house, you don't attend functions such as weddings, single and married seminars or birthdays party. This can never be of help to you, it will only add pepper to your injury.

A man that wants to be a public figure doesn't hide himself in the secret corner of his apartment, therefore you should show yourself to the world. Make yourself to be found, be present at the place where single men are, single men attend weddings, they attend birthdays Parties so be available and also be open whenever a man approach you for a conversation.

5) Be A Virtuous Woman. According to the Bible, in Ruth 3:11, everyone knows that you are a Virtuous woman, in other words, a good girl. What are people saying about you? Be a good girl. What is people reference about you. What example are you showing or .....https://allsinglesandmarried..com/2020/06/the-9-things-woman-can-use-to-attract.html?m=1

We need to get some facts settled first.
As humans, we're created with 3 legitimate hungers.

They are: hunger for food; hunger for water and hunger for sex. You will be termed abnormal and recommended for help if you don't have these hungers.
It is absolutely healthy and normal to have the sexual urge as a single person. This shows that you're normal and your sexual organs are functioning normally and that you're capable of enjoying sex in marriage.

But you must as well be guided that the fact that God gave you the sexual urge as a single person is not a license to engage in immorality or fornication, because God frowns against fornication.
The reason why God gave us sexual desires as singles is to learn self control. No matter what you possess or have in life, without self control, you will fumble with it, so also in our sexuality. We need to maintain self control.

I am yet to see a person eat shit and say his/her reason for doing that is to satisfy hunger for food. In the same vein, I am yet to see a person drink water from the sewage or gutter and blame it on excessive thirst for water. Not even a mad person does this.

Then, this calls for query on those who resort to fornication and masturbation just to quench sexual hunger. If you can't go on the extreme to satisfy the other two legitimate hungers, why take the risk and break the commandment of the Almighty just to satisfy your sexual hunger? This shows that sex is actually overrated.

May I say this, nobody ever dies of sex starvation, but many have contracted diseases and traded their destiny for sex.

Now let's consider how to control your sexual urge as a single person:

• You will need to identify your sexual triggers and deal with them.

• Always reassure yourself that you are on a sexual fast, and it will last as long as you are single.

• Avoid idleness, an idle mind is the devil's workshop. It is when you are idle that you will start scheming on how to fulfill the desire in an illegitimate manner.

• Watch your thoughts. The scripture said guard your heart with all diligence for out of it are the issues of life. Sometimes, imagination can be stronger than reality, so watch your thoughts and imaginations.
• Sensor what you view. You can't feed your eyes with heavy pornographic stuff and expect not to be sexually ignited. No, it's not possible.

• Watch your conversation. Chastity demands you avoid saying some things. You can't sex chat or say romantic stuff and expect not to be sexually excited, that is impossible.

• Avoid cuddling, smooches and snuggles. Avoid romance and kissing with the opposite sex. Romance is a forerunner of sex! Sex is not all about penetration. Emotion is stronger than knowledge. You can't predict the romance that will finally lead to penetration, so it's better you avoid it from the start.

• Watch how you touch yourself when you're lonely. Many have been caged with the habit of masturbation just by a gentle and innocent touch of the sensitive part of their body, and this has become a habit they can't break away from. If you don't want to ignite sexual passion by yourself, watch how you touch your sensitive parts.

• Carefully chose your inner circle of friends. You can't claim to practice chastity and mingle with those that always talk about their sexual escapades or say vulgar stuff. With time they will begin to taunt you and make you feel different and inferior. If you're not mature enough, you might want to feel that you belong by proving to them that you are up to the task.

• Flee youthful lust and every appearance of evil. You need to keep your spirit active so as to decode evil and chart an escape route before the evil catches up with you. This mean you won't box yourself to a compromising position with an opposite sex.

• Renew your mind with the word of God. You need to be loaded with the word of God so as to effectively resist temptation and the tempter.

Finally, have a strong belief that chastity is possible and doable if only you discipline yourself and daily rely on the grace of God.

Know this for sure, God will not ask you to do what is not possible. Chastity is a virtue and it still pays.

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Not everybody realize what it signifies to see Gecko Lazard around their house or in their dream, Some people see it as a common thing and while some are frightened about its looks. If you see this type of animal in your nightmare or in the wall of your house, it means that someone is intending to attack you spiritually or you are about to encounter financial hardship, it as well means that your house is spiritually controlled.

Whenever you see a wall gecko moving around your way in your nightmare, it indicates that you are going to face a great failure and disappointment.

If you are being hunted by wall gecko in your dream, it means your adversaries are after your great future, they want to make you useless.

You may be lucky to kill a wall gecko it is a great triumph against demonic superiorities or if someone aid in slaughtering it for you in your dream, it means that your trouble will be resolved by the help of someone else.

Seeing Gecko lizard in your nightmare simply means that that you are not yet free totally from any manner of dangerous wicked intimidation.

Here are the Powerful Prayer Points that are going to help you fight against wall Gecko attack in your dream Or on your premises.

1) My Father My Father, I dismiss myself from the control of any wizardry animals striking me in my dreams, in Jesus' name.

2) Oh King of Glory, let the sanctification of the Holy Spirit break every yoke of setbacks in my life, in Jesus' name.

3) Any wicked authorities, assigned against me to slow down my progress in life, let such powers be destroyed, in the name of Jesus.

4) I eliminate any territorial forces relaxing against my growth in this land, receive the fire of the Holy Ghost, and be destroyed now in the name of Jesus.

5) Every wall Gecko prevailing against my life in this environment receive the fire of destruction now in the name of Jesus.

6) By the blood of Jesus, I destroy every wall Gecko control over my life, in the name of Jesus.

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Menstruation is one of the least discussed subjects out there, reason being because some people consider it a little ‘too weird’ to talk about. But no matter how much we try to evade it, we cannot deny the fact that menstruation is a core part of every woman out there, and there are countless women (especially, younger ones) who have little knowledge of menstruation, and may have one or two questions about some of the changes it often causes to the female system. This is why we, at Elcrema have thought it important to come up with this post; a list of some the major facts (common and uncommon) that are associated with menstruation, and an answer to some of the questions you may have about it. I hope you do find it educative.

1. IT INCREASES YOUR SEX DRIVE
If you’re a woman, you’ve probably noticed that you get hornier, and crave sex the most whenever it is that time of the month. Well, the reason why this happens is because during menstruation, the female body produces less progesterone; a hormone that helps keeps your sex drive in check by lowering your libido. Menstruation affects its production in the body, and makes it difficult for you to contain your yearning for sex.

2. IT MAY TRIGGER SLIGHT CHANGES IN YOUR VOICE
Menstruation is not really a good experience for women because of the pain and discomfort that usually accompanies it. So it is not unusual to see women speak with a bit of anger in their voice during the period of menstruation. This change is not entirely voluntary, per se, rather it’s just an uncontrollable reaction to the discomfort and pain they feel.

3. PREGNANCY CAN STILL OCCUR DURING MENSTRUATION
Contrary to popular belief that a woman cannot take in during menstruation, pregnancy can actually occur during this period because semen can live for up to one week. So since sperm can survive in your body for up to one week, if you ovulate just after your period finishes, conception can occur from sex that occurred during your period. For women that do not have a strict 28 – 32 day menstrual cycle, falling pregnant during their period is easier.

4. YOUR PERIOD CONTAINS MORE THAN JUST BLOOD
The menstrual cycle is designed to help prepare a woman’s body for pregnancy by building up the lining of the uterus; however, in the event that no egg is fertilized by a sperm, the thickened lining of the uterus is shed through the vagina with some blood, and that is what you get as your period.

If you’ve ever compared blood from other parts of your body with what comes out of your vagina during your cycle, you’d have noticed the difference between the two.

5. YOU BECOME LESS ATTRACTIVE TO MEN DURING YOUR PERIOD
A man’s testosterone levels are directly affected by a woman’s scent, which changes during a menstruation.

One study where men sniffed the T-shirts of women who were ovulating showed the men’s testosterone levels spike, while testosterone decreased when they sniffed T-shirts of women who weren’t ovulating.

Another study showed that strippers make twice as much in tips when they’re ovulating than when they’re on their period.

6. YOU THINK MORE LIKE A MAN DURING YOUR PERIOD
Due to a reduction in estrogen levels in women during menstruation, there can be an enhancement of their ‘male cognitive skills’, thereby giving them a temporary cognitive advantage in areas such as spatial thinking.

7. YOU MAY GET SYMPTOMS OF PREGNANCY IN BUILD UP TO YOUR MENSTRUATION. Build-upfor
Bloating, irritability, fluid retention, acne etc…are some of the many symptoms you are likely to experience in the build up to your menstruation; which are the exact symptoms that are associated with pregnancy. The reason for this is because your body is programmed to mimic the same symptoms in pregnancy during your period.

8. YOU NEED BODY FAT TO MENSTRUATE
If your body fat plummets below 8-12%, your period will abruptly cease, if it ever began at all. Fat cells are correlated with a woman’s estrogen levels and are thus necessary in both menstruation and procreation.
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When a woman is in love, she tends to make a lot of sacrifices for her man just to prove her love to him. Sometimes, a woman will lose herself in the process and that could be hazardous to her emotionally.
Sadly, some women don't know that there are responsibilities meant for a wife and no one else should take over that responsibility except she is in the position of wife to the man. Therefore, when a lady begins to play the role of a wife, she is reducing her personality in the relationship.

To clarify these,
Here are the 14 things a lady should never do for a man she is not married to.

1) She should never use the word of endearment on any man, except for her family members and a man that has already taken steps into the marriage rite to marry her. As a lady, you should learn to call men by their names and forget calling 'dear', 'sweetie', 'honey' and all of the other affection names. If you guys are not married yet and he has not made a move for marriage, please continue to be calling him his name.

2) As a lady, Never think of sleeping over at his place:
Most women don't understand that men don't always value things that could be achieved in a very effortless way. If he has not married you yet, you have no business passing the night in his place, except in emergency circumstances you can do it. If a man is so much in love with you and admires you to permanently be 'sleeping over at his place, he knows the right steps to take.

3) As a lady, Never option to cook for him at his place:
If you are not married to him, it is significant to be aware that you are are a guest at his place and should be attended to in that way, anytime you visited. Never respond to the intention to act as the 'Mother Hen', by preparing a meal at his house. As a matter of fact, the man should take care of you with a nice meal, any day you visit.

4) Don't visit his parent's house:
When a man has not gotten married to you and you embark on visiting your soon to be in-laws, you are only creating a likelihood of disappointment for yourself simply because one strong member of his family can make him change his mind from getting married to you. A man's incapability to propose to you or get married to you, before bringing you to his parents is such a red flag that you shouldn't take for granted. Don't think of taking advantage of 'prospective daughter-in-law' position, because you may never be in that position with the family.

5) Don't allow his friends, colleague, or neighbors to call you 'our wife':
If you are not his wife, you are simply not! No other words can explain it better than this. If he doesn't have what it takes to make you his wife, then you have no justification to smile when you are honored with those words from his friends, colleagues, or neighbors.

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Marriage or relationship is something that needs to be careful before going into it but unfortunately so many young people today are mistaken it for something else.

Before you fall in love, you have to read this. You must be prepared so nobody will dump you like fairly used materials that don't have values for life again.

1) POOR BEGINNING.
The foundation made for a relationship will determine how far it will go if it would last forever. The right foundation here is all about surrendering everything to God. Letting God be in charge and supervising everything. Letting God be at the center of your marriage or relationship. Making sure God is glorified in everything you do in your relationship. As adequately It is expected that both of you have the true insight into why you are together (in the case dating).

Most marriages failed because one of the couples failed to pray more for their marriage and concentrate on their battles rather on the satisfaction of things like weddings.

Always pray to God; He’s the solution and provider of everything. Nothing can fail with Him. So put your relationship into the hands of Almighty God whether you are in good or bad terms with your partner. If you have doubts that your partner may be cheating on you, pray to God to watch over him or her or better arrest him or her for you. If there are other troubles like a financial challenge, viral ailments, and other in-differences just hand them over to God and He will deal with them for you.

2) ABSENT OF EFFECTIVE COMMUNICATION.
Communication here doesn't necessarily mean phone calls or text messages. Communication here represents how you associate with your partner. This matters a lot because communication is a great key to understanding.

Body language, romantic interest, and intimacy mood should also be well expressed. Your wife needs to know when you are in the mood for bedroom enjoyment. She's your wife, not your slave but proper communication in this viewpoint will preserve accepted respect.

Now, How do you communicate with your spouse when he or she is upset? How do you communicate with him or her when you are in a stale or overwhelmed mood? Evaluate this and improve where necessary.

3) LACK OF TRUST BETWEEN THE BOTH OF YOU.
Trust is the key and life wire of every successful relationship or marriage. You should be able to believe your partner in every circumstance. Once you both can share the same trust, faith, happiness, and peace, love flows and you both have little to fear for. Devoid of trust, bitterness, and fights step in and these are the factors that can destroy a relationship or marriage easily.

One thing you should also realize is that trust is earned, not commanded or recommended. Do the right things which will assure your partner that you can stay faithful to him or her and that you are also competent in assessing and handling intricate situations.

Give your spouse some privacy; Avoid testing each on everything he or she does, give your lover some space and freedom, try to have some trust in your partner, don’t think of always accessing their phone. Seriously you found your lover with friends; he or she has to keep in touch with them. It’s you that she chose out of a million men that approached her. She loves you. You are the one she chose despite millions of girls, you have to trust each other.

4) GRUDGES, AND UNFORGIVEN SPIRIT.
Always forgive and forget; avoid bringing back the old things your lover did to you in the past every time there's disagreement. Forgiveness brings lasting renewing to marriages and relationships. Remember confiding your partner that you have forgiven but ...https://allsinglesandmarried..com/2020/05/before-you-fall-in-love-read-this-so.html?m=1

I get lots of questions on masturbation most especially from ladies - yes, ladies masturbate a lot, especially virgins. Guys also masturbate. There is no debate on that. I'm not here to argue about who masturbates most, I need to deal with a serious issue.

Sexual urge for virgins is strong. What makes it stronger is the novelty, newness, the mystery and the hear says about sex.

Masturbation is handling your genitals consistently to achieve orgasm. Ladies may stroke their clitoris while guys rub, massage or caress their penis. I decided to give explicit explanation because some ask me what masturbation is. Some ladies especiallly non-virgins use candles, bananas, small bottles, sticks, dildos or whatever represents a penis and do solo sex (having sex by yourself).

From teenage upward, you will have a strong desire for sex. It's a sure sign you are normal and capable of having and enjoying sex in marriage. In your 20s it will be stronger and intense! You may wake up feeling Hot for no single reason in the world or go hot on spotting a curvy lady! You may start noticing shapes and curves and you have to shake your head several times to keep the image off. You may get worked up on watching a romantic movie and discharge something. You check up and discover you are wet. All these are normal, you haven't committed any sin.

So what then do you do when you get hot and Hot? Have sex? I know you know my answer and some singles will never be caught dead sleeping around, so what do they do? They masturbate! They give themselves release and pleasure through solo sex while claiming virginity at the same time. Masturbation is completely wrong and not the way out. Let me explain:

1. Masturabation is not done in isolation. It is done with the image of someone in mind. It can be a lover, an EX, a celebrity, a married person, a crush, someone you like but incapable of having. You imagine having sex with them while masturbating. That is MENTAL FORNICATION.

2. For ladies, while inserting all manner of objects, you may mistakenly deflower yourself and also introduce infection into your genitals and womb. It will be very difficult to convince your future partner that you never had sex with a man except objects during your solo sex.

3. You kill your ability to enjoy sex in future. Millions of women don't enjoy sex in marriage which leads to sexual frustration, adultery, lesbianism and feminism. If you are used to getting orgasm by yourself, you won't be able to get it from your husband. If you are used to objects in your private part, you won't have feelings for your husband's penis. You will always think of something harder, bigger, longer, larger and completely unrealistic! Women who complain their husbands' penis are too small didn't marry as virgins. They must have been promiscous as singles.

4. You will not have a good sex life as a man. You will experience pre-mature ejaculation and your wife won't enjoy you leading to acute sexual frustration in marriage. You need self control to fully enjoy sex and give your wife maximum sexual pleasure. A woman enjoys sex when the man can go on for at least 7 minutes before ejaculating. Because you are used to instant release from masturbation, you may not be able to go more than a minute before exploding leaving your wife completely unsatisfied and frustrated. She may close up, become frigid and stop having sex altogether which may lead to you having an affair, she having an affair or both of you having an affair. Self control before marriage helps you enjoy sex to the maximum. You are able to delay ejaculation, go on for a long time, and have an excellent orgasm while giving your wife pleasure too. That is why total virginity pays!

5. If you do not suffer premature ejaculation, you may have a serious problem with delayed/retarded ejaculation. A situation where you get an erection for several hours without ejaculation or orgasm. What is the benefit of sex without orgasm? Rough masturbation with your hands kills your ability to feel/enjoy sex with your wife. It is hell for a woman to be under a man who thrusts in for hours unable to ejaculate. How will the woman get pregnant? It's the reason some women are seemingly "barren" and can't talk to anybody out of embarrassment. Thrusting hard for so long leaves the woman sore, frustrated and hating sex altogether. You have so much to lose sexually when you masturbate. Abstaining from this degrading act helps you feel relaxed, confident, have normal sexual intercourse, and enjoy the pleasures that come with sex IN MARRIAGE!

6. You start having sex in the dream with a known or unknown person (demonic entities otherwise known as a spiritual spouse).

7. You feel drained, dirty, empty, useless, and powerless after each act of masturbation.

8. You start getting unsatisfied and want the real thing. You fantasize more about sex and start longing for the real act.

9. You get a warped view of the opposite sex. You see them as sexual objects and start having sex with anything in skirts or trousers - you become promiscuous.

10. You get damaged, hurt, and broken.

These and more are the consequences of masturbation. The damage you and shatter you to pieces! What then should you do with your sexual urge? How do you handle the constant hunger for sex?

1. Avoid all dirty pictures, pornography videos, pictures, and hot, romantic movies, and songs -they are powerful sexual triggers!

2. Avoid friends who say dirty, lewd, and obscene things. Stop all sexy banter with friends and say only things that are pure, holy, needful, and helpful.

3. Get busy with your life, education, and career, there is more to life than sex.

4. Transmute your sexual energy: Channel your sexual energy into something great.

5. Let the word of God dwell in you richly in all wisdom. How can a young person stay on the path of purity? By living according to your word... I have hidden your, word in my heart that I might not sin against, you. Psalm 119:9 - 11.

Masturbation is wrong, bad, demonic, destructive, and sinful. Avoid it and end it with speed if you are deeply involved in it by the grace and deliverance of the power of Jesus Christ.

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WHAT TO DO WHILE WAITING FOR MR. RIGHT

1. ADD VALUE TO YOUR LIFE
My dear ladies, don't be deceived, REAL MEN don't chase after empty women. By empty women, I mean women who have nothing to offer other than giving sex and asking for money. Real men go for women who have added value to themselves.

Of what use is being beautifully empty? A woman may attract a man with her physical beauty, however, she would need more than her beauty to keep him. Nobody wants to marry a liability (this applies to men and women). A liability is like a leech, always sucking (taking) but giving nothing in return. Is that the kind of wife you want to be in your marriage? No, I guess. So, add value to yourself.

HOW DO YOU ADD VALUE TO YOURSELF?
a. Learn a skill: there are so many skills you can learn while you're waiting for your Mr. Right. You can acquire hair making, sewing or catering skills. With little cash, you can make this a reality.

b. Increase your knowledge base: apart from acquiring useful skills, be knowledgeable in different aspects of life. By this I mean READ. It is often said that knowledge is power. Indeed, a woman that is knowledgeable will wield tremendous power among her peers even among the men folk. Somebody said that reading makes a man. I dare say also that reading makes a real woman.

Read so that when Mr. right comes and hears your opinions on issues, he would be captivated and glued to you. Don't be a beautifully empty woman, rather, be a "value added woman"; a woman that the husband will be proud of and make boasts of.

2. PREPARE FOR MARRIAGE
So many women enter into marriage unprepared, one of the reasons a lot of them are leaving it with a speed of light. Preparing for marriage is like preparing for exams. The truth is, if a person does not prepare for exams, the likelihood is that the person will fail.

To have and enjoy a good marriage, it is expedient that you prepare for it. A wise man of God is often quoted to say that " you do not prepare in marriage, rather, you prepare for marriage". While you are waiting, prepare to have a good marriage.

Look at it this way. You have an upcoming exam and you are not preparing for it. On the day of the exam, you now pick your dusty books into the examination Hall to start reading while others are busy answering the examination questions. Hear me, by the time you are done reading your notes, the exams would have been over and that's failure.

What am I saying? Buy books on marriage and read. There are many good books on marriage; books that will give you a forestate of what marriage looks like. Learn from those that have and are still waxing strong on that path. You will come across some of the things you have read about in your marriage and with the benefit of the things you have learnt from reading, you will be in a better position to fix the issues without much ado.

3. SERVE GOD
God is the ultimate connector. He knows how to connect people. He is God; He has the hearts of all men in the palm of His hands and turns it anyhow He pleases. Who would have believed that Ruth in the Bible, a Moabitess, would have a wealthy man like Boaz, a Jew, as her husband? However, God did the connection.

Jesus said "...if any man serve me, him will my Father honour", John 12:26. When you serve God, He will honour you with the right spouse. You cannot please God; make Him happy and He will turn His back on you. He is a rewarder of those that diligently pursue Him (Hebrews 11:6).

HOW DO YOU SERVE GOD?
You can serve God in manifold ways. You can dedicate your life to evangelism, that is, taking the gospel of salvation in Christ Jesus to the lost souls on the streets, markets and social media (Facebook, WhatsApp, Instagram, Twitter etc).

You can look for a department in the Church where you attend to serve God with sincerity of heart and purpose. It could be in the Children's church or creche, Choir, Ushering, protocol, library, Sanctuary keeping, etc. You can raise a prayer altar for the Church in your closet.

Think of something you can do for God and give yourself to it. I can assure you from experience that you will see the finger of God rewriting your story before long.

DEAR LADIES
Please, make the best use of your waiting season. It is a season and no season lasts forever. Add value to yourself - acquire useful skills, read wide, prepare for your marriage and serve God with sincerity of heart. God bless you.

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Letter from an aborted child.

Dear Mom,
I have decided to talk to you, to let you know my feelings.
I want to know why you did it. My story is short. I have stayed inside you for only three months. I was very comfortable and warm.
I felt really protected. I know you are a special person because I ate the food you ate. I longed for the day I would see your face. Nine months was a long time to wait but I was determined to wait. I had to be patient. One day I heard you
converse with a man about me, and at some stage you quarreled. The man then offered you some money to get rid of me. I was happy and prayed that this meant that I would at least see you, the only person that I knew in the world; I was wrong. I had almost forgotten the issues until I felt something sharp pierce my tiny ear. I jerked silently and in pain and asked you to protect me. Seconds later, the object came, fiercer than before. My tiny body was cut open, starting from the ears then arms and legs. It was an agonizing experience, my head was then cut off and I
died. It took me a whole hour to die, a whole hour for an innocent three months human being to be murdered. I remember the whole incidence vividly and I keep asking myself;
what I did to deserve that cruel death?
Why me?
Why did you do it to me?
And why was I not given a chance to live?
I know you are having a lot of nightmares. You remain guilty for the beastly act. Please explain to your God why you committed the heinous act. Personally.

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gabbrri:
I am typing this massage because i just escaped a deadly temptation in the hands of my sister inlaw aged 17 yrs .. I am an artisan that closes work 7pm on a daily basis sundays exceptional and you know man gats drink one or two before reaching home , the issue here is that any time i reach for my fridge at night to get water to step down the one or two i always see her sleeping in a tempting position cos she sleeps in the parlour of course i do tell my wife of not being comfortable with her sleeping positions but my talk fall into deaf ears as nothing changes . this morning i saw a very raw p****y right before me wide open like chicken wey aboki display for show glass ready for massive devour, omor na only God save me and her today as my wife is fast asleep... You cant inmagine what happened to my jboy no be small sparking oo because no be me hold the remote control of my thing. My people i am planning on sending her away by morning as i cant take it no more note before i am not a fan of house help... Will i be wrong sending her away?

Keep track, monitor her and when next she opens her pussy like that next time just quietly call your wife to see it by herself and if she did not react against it then declare your intentions of sending her out of your house.