1) Wedding is just a day but marriage is a lifetime.
2) A stingy man who is single will still be stingy while in marriage.
3) Silence can never be misquoted.
4) If you want what no one has had in their marriage before, then you must do what no one has done in their marriage before.

5) When God wants to bless you, He puts a person in your life. When Satan wants to destroy you, he puts a person in your life. So be careful with the type of person you want to get married to.

6) It is better to be single and alone than to be married to the wrong person, then start wishing you are not married.

7) Avoid a coventious woman, if you want to have a good and great Marriage experience.

The 3 men to avoid are:
a. A hot tempered man.
b. A womanizer.
c. A drunkard.

9) Marrying a comedian does not guarantee a happy marriage.
10) Never be yoked to anyone who will not be yoked to God. It is impossible for you to be happy without God been involved in your life.

11) The 3 words that echo peace in a marriage are:
a. I love you.
b. I am sorry.
c. Thank you.
12. Don't waste your time meditating or dwelling on your singleness.

13) Cohabitation is a recipe for marital failure. Don't cohabitate with him because he promised you Marriage.

14) Deal with anti-marriage dreams, be positive in everything you are thinking about marriage.

15) Avoid Secrets in your marriage, it can destroy it like God destroy wall of Jericho.

16) Marriage without friendship is like a sky without the sun. You must be friends with each...https://allsinglesandmarried..com/2020/09/the-secret-things-nobody-has-told-you.html

Facebook is one of the most popular social network in the world today, millions of people login to Facebook daily.

On daily basis, you don't have accurate information of how many people that has visited your timeline on facebook, some of which are your enemies, some are your friends and well wishers.

There are some things you should never do on facebook just for the happiness of your Marriage or Relationship.

Remember, I'm not in anywhere against facebook because facebook itself would have been a fantastic place to be, if it were to be a planet.

For the sake of your Marriage or Relationship, don't do these things listed her on facebook.

1) Don’t be a friend to your ex on Facebook.
This one is the most common thing people do on facebook. So people have the habit of chatting and commenting on the things that has to do with their ex lover on facebook.
Some of their reasons is that;
a) I always like seeing him in a terrible state in life without me.
b) I’m still angry at him and I want to take it out on him because he treated me bad.
c) I was just trying to see if he has gotten another person after we broke up.
d) I want to make him feel jealous about how beautiful I'm after our break up.

This is very wrong. Sincerely you are hurting yourself when you think you are hurting your ex. Simply because you will lose focus on your new relationship and if you are still single, the memories you guys shared together will make you to start thinking going back to...https://4evertogeda..com/2020/09/7-things-you-should-never-do-on.html

Life is in phases, as a parent, you have works to do in the life of your children now they are still young. In the next stage of their lives, there are limit to what you can do to control them, it is advisable you teach them everything as they grow.

1) Teach them how to be ...https://4evertogeda..com/2020/09/8-things-you-must-not-forget-to-teach.html

Here's the things to to do to revive that fire of love again..

1) Give Each Other Space

For your partner not to so get used to you that your presence doesn't make any much difference to him or her again, for you not choke him or her up with your presence you must learn to give each other space. Take time to be alone as often as possible.

You have a personal goals you want to achieve, take time at times to give them attention. Hang out with your friends, spend the weekend at times in your respective families. Just give each other space, a breathing space.

2. Miss Each Other

It's not all the time you should call, visit, text, or chat Sometimes, make your partner to miss you. Scarcity creates value. Surplus brings down the value of goods.

3. Cover up

As a wife, learn to cover up at times. Leave some things for your husband to imagine. Let him imagine what the size and shape of your body are like. Don't walk around naked all the time. Get varieties of hot stay at home clothes that will drive him nuts. Don't be the type that wears wrapper up and down. You and who is doing that one? This also applies to the husband.

4. Start All Over Again

After you guys have settled down to start marriage proper, start all over again. Date each other again. Court each other again. Woo and toast your wife again. Play hard to get again. Do the stuff you guys use to do while unmarried. Eat out. Hang out. Attend functions together. Go to cinema, beach etc.

5. Spice Up Your Sex Life

Sex doesn't have to be in one location, bedroom nor one position, missionary. Spice it up. Different locations, sitting room, bathroom, passage, dining table, kitchen and different position, doddy, catty, horssy, etc. You know what I'm talking about.

6. Make A Decision To Stick With Your Partner

Like I said before, love is not all about having great feelings, but a decision too. When the feelings are no longer there, that's when you need to make a decision to keep loving. Marriage is an act of the will for any meaningful to happen in it, you must intentional about it.

7. Go On A Vacation If You Can.

Go and experience something new together with your partner. It helps. Vacation doesn't have to be outside the country, it can be in another state within the country. Visit some recreational centers to unwind with your partner.

8. Pray For Fresh Wine In Your Marriage.

People cheats mostly because they're tired of their marriages and partners. Nothing is new again. Nothing excites them. No love, attraction, excitement for their partner again.

In time like this, you need to pray for a new wine in your marriage. Father, let the love, attraction, excitement be rekindled again in my marriage! Pray! Let me stop here, in whatever you do, don't over do and don't under do. Too much of everything is not good. In all you do, make your marriage work!
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Dear gentlemen,

MOST of us have acted like Ozo at one point in time in our relationship journey. Stop bashing Ozo because his own was aired on TV.

I have sacrificed a lot and chased one lady to the ends of the earth because of love.

The reality is this if you see a lady that captives your love emotions & the person fits what you have in mind. U will go the extra mile to date & keep that person.
Some ladies can charm you with their looks, voice, body, knowledge, smiles, complexion and even their wealth.

Here's the reality. Once you have the Ozo spirit, you are likely to be depressed, hurt or sad if the person doesn't give you attention or reciprocate the love u are exhibiting.

You see yourself as the best person to date the girl.
You believe that nobody else can love the girl more than you do.
You assume that without u dating her, she will not have a good or even better relationship with another person.
However despite your love quotes, calls, texts, and other genuine display of love, the girl may not feel your vibes.. For absolutely no serious reason. She won't be moved by whatever you are telling her or doing for her. Maybe out of pity not love she might just give you an opportunity to be hanging around her.
Those things you think you are doing to win her heart may actually be a turn off or irrelevant to her.
That's why we question people we have wooed their choices when we see them accepting to date or marry another guy instead of us. You hear:
“How come she said yes to this man?“
What did she in him that I don't posses.

Someone that has said "No" several times to you may end up dating or marrying another person that's not as good looking as you.
That is not as rich as you are.
That is not as educated as you are, etc
That's the freewill we have as humans. The ability to make bizarre choices.

That lady Nyengi, Ozo was running after without giving up, some guys won't bat an eyelid to date.
Other guys will not even beg her twice or thrice if she says no to their proposal.

Similarly, most girls will not say NO to Ozo, if he asked them out the same way he was doing to Nyengi. Life is full of instances like this.

Now over to you :
Remember when you changed your place of worship in order to win that babe ?
Remember when u threw your unfinished cigarette when you saw her coming towards you?
Remember when you had to burrow money in order to fulfill her financial needs or demands..
Remember when you cleaned your apartment, arranged your beddings and clothes just because she said she is coming to see you.
Remember when you ignored some incoming calls just because she was seating near you?
Remember when you faked that you are very rich in order to win her over?

See all those moments you went out of your comfort zone in order to win her heart.. You acted like Ozo without knowing.

Again, the duration Ozo spent on wooing Nyengi. I don't see that as anybody's headache.
Yes we all have our limits. It must not be the same.
Yours might be 2 weeks or a month.
Ozo situation might be so long as he is seeing Nyengi or have the opportunity to communicate with her.

Others might take up to a year before they give up.
Some people have taken 3 years or more in running after a lady.
It depends on whom you after and how badly you want her.
Ozo may be faking or doing those acts genuinely but you and I can't detect that.


Don't laugh or bash Ozo. You are like him or once acted like him The spirit of Ozo can easily manifests in you when you about to start dating someone new. Someone you are yet to sleep with.

She gets up while it is still night;
she provides food for her family
and portions for her female servants.
Proverbs 31:15 NIV

One of the women that came for counselling told me how she almost lost her husband to a strange woman because she was not only a Bad Cook but also lazy to cook!

Her husband likes different types of soup/food instead of the regulars and does not like eating out. He had been complaining about his dear wife's food with love and respect but she ignored it and always gave him excuses until her husband stopped eating at home. This issue almost destroyed their marriage.

Her husband started eating out so that he won't border his wife again. When the woman discovered that she was gradually loosing her dear husband, she adjusted and went straight to a Catering School! She Is Not Only An Irresistible Cook Today But Also A Much Sought After Caterer!

Her husband who had stopped eating at home for over 5 months, repented and started eating at home and the strange woman has been kicked out of their matrimonial home forever. She is a wise woman

There are little things we overlook in marriage that matter a lot. If you don't love cooking or you can't cook as a sister, marriage is not the next thing but cooking training.

If you hate to cook as a single lady, there are so many single guys out there who don't believe a wife should cook. Please find one and get married to him. You can't hate cooking and be getting married to a man who wants a cook

It is not right if your husband and children still visit "mama put" regularly because you are a bad cook or you are too lazy to cook.

Single lady, if the only thing you can cook is white rice and noodles, you need urgent counselling! See me after service today! Go and learn how to prepare good food.

Sister, When you Get Married, Please Know That Your kitchen Is Not "A Prayer Room" It's Where Food Is Prepared & Cooked. Be A Great Cook!

Beauty is not enough to turn an hungry husband to a smiling lover! Because beauty fades but hunger doesn't. Romance, Love, Cat walking, Good grammar, Good grade or Spirituality can not turn an empty big pot to correct Egusi, Ogbono soup, and vegetable soup with pounded yam even if you fast for 7 days:|. Speaking in tongues doesn't turn raw rice to fried rice!

Knowing how to cook good food is not a gift, it is a decision to learn! Anybody can be a good Cook if she is willing.

A man you feed well is a man who cannot get fed up with you! When another woman begins to cook and feed your husband, be ready to lose him because one of the ways to a man’s heart is through good food whether you agree or not!

Be a great cook. Men like good food. You can’t afford not to be a great cook. If you don’t know how to prepare good meals, learn from other women who cook better.

Ask your husband what he wants you to do better in your cooking. Don’t be shy to ask questions.

Cook his food promptly. Serve him in a special way. Treat him like a king. Always eat together.

Don’t allow your housemaid to cook your husband’s food, because a man falls in love with the hand that feeds him. (Proverbs 31:14-15).

Cook delicious and timely meal food for him.

Serve your husband as your king. BeSpecial plates are for your husband not for your pastor or visitors.

Don’t just cook his food alone,serve it specially. Don’t delegate it to someone else, treat him like a VIP.Treat him like a special guest on the dining table.

How Good Are You In The Kitchen? Make sure you don’t fail in your kitchen ministry.

Note: A man should also learn how to prepare good meals too as it is not solely the responsibility of a woman! Almost every woman will appreciate it if her husband prepares a wonderful meal for the family once in a while.
God bless your marriage.
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Dear Single, If It Is Coke and Biscuits You Can Afford On Your Wedding Day, Trust Me, We'll Eat With Love and Still Present You Our Beautiful Gifts. What matters Is The Success Of Your Marriage.

Stop Postponing Your Wedding Day Because Your want a Big Wedding. No One Has Ever Received An Award For Best Wedding. Don't kill Yourself with Unnecessary Expenses!!!

So many couples in their desperation to have a perfect wedding will go to any length, even incur debt. Do not borrow to marry!
There is nothing worse than starting off your married life with debt.

When planning for your wedding, avoid aiming at impressing people. Make your wedding simple and beautiful. Avoid irrational expenses.

Cut off all unnecessary expenses and transfer to your investment. Never borrow money finance your wedding!

Wedding is a maximum of two days while marriage is till death do you part. If you borrow for wedding will you borrow to sustain your marriage? Borrowing to finance your wedding is one of the biggest financial mistakes a couple can make.

If You Don't Have Much, Do The Traditional Wedding, Invite Your Pastor To Bless The Marriage and Quietly Take Your Beloved Wife Home.

Cake is not a must if you can not afford it. I have never seen a marriage that breaks because the cakes they bake for the wedding was not big enough!

Wedding gown or suit can be rented and reception is not compulsory. Its not the cake or your beautiful wedding gown that determines the success of your marriage! Cake can be big, wedding gown maybe large and marriage can still be damaged!

Wedding is just for a day while marriage is for a life time. Do not use a day to destroy your lifetime. Never lay the foundation of your home on debt. It is foolishness!

Even if you have the money and able to spend millions of dollars on your wedding, why don't you plan for the future and invest the money or try to build your own house instead of wasting money on a ceremony that will last for few hours. Be wise!

Never be extravagant. Remember that what happens after the eating, dancing and merriment on your wedding is your own load to bear as a couple. Spend below your means. Avoid show off. Don't seek to impress.
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A vagina is a passage leading from the opening of the vulva to the cervix of the uterus for copulation and childbirth in female mammals. (This includes human being) Taking care of the vagina is very much important than we see it most times, it contribute to our good health, it contribute to our well-being and also help in enjoying our marital lives or relationship.

With these tips stated below on how to keep the vagina clean, sweet and healthy, you will be free from unwanted illness, diseases and infection that may tend to have it's way into your body system through the vagina.

1) Wash your vagina with clean and cold water more than you had previously done in a day. Clean the vagina every time you urinate or after toilet because it smells all the time and no matter how clean or beautiful a lady is the vagina smells, but keeping it clean will make it to smell nice. If there is no water close to you after urinating, you can use tissue paper to do it than not cleaning it at all.

2) Leaving too much hair around the vagina is not a good idea because it can breed fungi or boils easily and during love making with your sweetheart, the hair can cause wound on the man's private organ and which is not advisable to experience. Always make efforts to shave the hair around your vagina to avoid causing bad smell.

3) A lot of women wear one under wear for the whole day or even two days but for a healthy reasons please change your underwear every day. And if you bath 3 times a day, change your underwear 3 times a day, it will keep your vagina clean and healthy and also smell nice too.

4) Dirty underwear can give your vagina a permanent bad smell and a bad taste. Don't forget to wash your pants immediately you remove it from your waist. Wash it immediately and keep it to dry well before wearing it again next time.

5) Dear women, do you know that what you eat affects the taste or the health of your vagina? Avoid eating too much garlic, too much onion in your foods, reduce intake of alcohol, avoid too much of coffee and spicy foods. Eat a lot of fruits especially the ones that are high in natural sugar such as oranges, apples, mangoes, penieapples and please take honey too. They all make your vagina to be healthy, smell nice and attractive to your man.

6) After shaving, you may be having serious irritations. The Vagina doesn't need perfume to smell good so don't spray any kind of perfume on your vagina. Don't use any kind of powder on the vagina just to make it smell nice and attractive to your partner. Wash it clean with water, don't use any kind of soap to wash it to avoid vagina cancer.

7) Making love with a real penis, and not with a vibrator, gives you extra vitamins in your body. Do not put anything in your vagina except a natural penis, not matter how you are disturbed with the urge to have sex, don't use vibrator.

Never keep your your panties to wash them weekly or fortnightly or monthly. The dried moisture in your panties from your vagina develops and grows bacteria or fungus over a short period of time which hastens infection, diseases and can easily make your body vulnerable for STI or STDs.

9) Wash your panties daily and dry it in the sun. No matter how ugly they look, you bought them by yourself. At least once in a month, iron them, after drying them under the hot sun, it helps in reducing the chance of breeding bacteria and fungi. You can air-dry your pant and still iron it too. Try it and you will be glad you did.

10) Eat Pineapples. Good amount of it makes your vagina healthy and sweet. Leave the plate to the washer and see him come over and over again. All Singles And Married cares. Enjoy Your VG, care for her, she needs your care and attention. If you do, both you and your partner will enjoy her fullness.
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Penis did not go to school and he doesn't have manners.

Singles, Courtship Is Not A License To KISSING, ROMANCE & SEX Even If It is a day to your wedding!

Any Relationship That is driven by unholy activities is not blessed. It Is Unscriptural To proof your love for a man by giving him sex before your wedding. Many Who Tried It End Up In Shame And Regret. So Many singles have had their dreams, lives and marital destinies shattered due to premarital sex. Don't Join Them!

Premarital sex is not only a sin but also a CURSE! Sex before marriage is not a proof of love! If Sex is a proof of love, prostitutes would have been happily married!

Stop giving sex to hook and keep a man! A man who can't wait till your wedding night is a wrong man for you even if he is a son of your general overseer.

Brothers, stop destroying single ladies ' life with your manhood! Don't Choose To Work For The Devil. Stop Allowing Your Erection To Determine Your Direction. Stop deceiving desperate ladies with promise of marriage in order to use and dump them!

Sexual sin is just a momentary pleasure but you can pay the price for the rest of your life. There is always payback time!

Can you kiss? Dear, Avoid kissing and petting! Petting is the activity of kissing and touching somebody especially in a sexual way. It is dangerous because it arouses strong genital feelings! From kissing, it goes to hugging and then to petting and finally to sex. This is the law of progression. There is a progressive system in sex.

So my dear, keep a limit to your physical intimacy. Don't say it doesn't matter. It may end up becoming a serious matter to your destiny.

Kisses, hugs, touches etc all have the ability to awaken sexual desire. Songs Of Solomon 2:7

Be patient! Patience is one of the fruit of spirit. Wait until your wedding night. By then you can kiss each other until you hear in Jesus name we kiss& quickly take your bride home to kiss for the rest of your life �

Sisters, trust in God! Don't be too desperate to have sex with a man before your wedding night. Don't sell yourself.

A Man who loves you will not toy with your private parts. Do not put yourself in a situation where you have to beg a man to stay at the expense of your dignity slowly walking away. If it's meant for you, you won't have to beg for it. You will never have to sacrifice your dignity for your destiny.

Seek God more than you seek a spouse....as you seek HIM and His kingdom, all things are added to you! Matt 6:33. He will lead you to the right marriage partner for your life.

Scripture: Now concerning the things of which you wrote to me: it is good for a man NOT TO TOUCH A WOMAN! Nevertheless, to avoid fornication, let every man have his own wife and every woman have her own husband. I Cor 7:1-2 KJV

May the Lord give you the grace to please God with your life.
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The average man wants a larger or longer penis, especially given that we live in an era where manliness cannot be separated from sexuality. However I'm sorry to break the news - your penis won't change.
Dear Men, find a way to be happy with your penis size. If you are up to 20, your penis has stopped growing and nothing you do can truly enlarge it.
I know you know about penis pills, creams, stretching exercises, enlargement devices, and penis surgery. However, almost none of it works.
The few approaches that can work often have little benefits and serious side effects, and it can be as serious as erectile dysfunction.
All the penis enlargement tips you see online are unproven... Here is a rundown of some of them:

1. Penis Enlargement Pills, supplements, ointments, and creams:
Medically speaking, all of them are complete nonsense. None of them works. The reason they are still sold is that no one wants to publicly say it didn't work on him because that's like telling everyone he has a small penis.

2. The vacuum pump:
This is a cylinder that sucks out air. You stick your penis in and the resulting vacuum draws extra blood into it, making it seem erect and a little bigger. You then clamp off the penis with a tight ring - like a tourniquet. The effect only lasts as long as you have the ring on. But then using it for more than 20 to 30 minutes can cause tissue damage.

3. Stretching Exercises:
Weights or stretching exercises won't change your penis size and that's because the penis is not a muscle, unlike butt. But urologists say you stand a chance of increasing your penis size by half an inch by hanging weights on a flaccid penis. However, you might have to wear a weight strapped to your penis eight hours a day for about six months. Risks include tearing of the tissue, burst of blood vessels, and other problems.

4. Penis Enlargement Surgery:
Penis enlargement surgeries are aimed at either widening or lengthening the penis, however these surgeries are almost always futile.
There are no well-studied approaches. No major medical organization approves of these surgeries. It's banned in the U.S and many developed countries.
The side effects of lengthening surgeries are numerous and include infections, nerve damage, reduced sensitivity, and difficulty getting an erection. Perhaps most disturbing, scarring can leave you with a penis that's shorter than what you started with. Widening the penis is even more controversial. Side effects can be unsightly -- a lumpy, bumpy, uneven penis. In simple terms, you don't wanna risk it.
Let me also add that no amount of sex and/or masturbation can increase your penis size.
Be happy with what you have, lose weight if you're obese and stay away from hoes.
PS: you can still have maximal sexual experience with your small dick!

MrBrownJay1:
Comparing marriage with a car is a joke, as we all know there are many failed marriages out there... Many people get married due to factors such as MONEY or PRESSURE (family, religious or social) or DESPERATION (body clock etc) thus no matter how you try fixing these marriage, when they fail, you won't be able to, because THE FOUNDATIONS ARE FUKCED UP....and the best option is to divorce. Unless you have the proper foundation in marriage, there is no point in trying to fix any Union.

- If someone married you for money, and you ain't got money any longer, then there is NOTHING that can be fixed.
- if someone married you because they wanted to copy-copy the Joneses, and realized you were an evil abuser, then there is NOTHING that can be fixed
- if someone married you because of their pastors, but soon realized you are an untrustworthy/disrespectful/unfaithful/deceitful person, then there is NOTHING that can be fixed

Sadly, it's better to be alone than miserable in marriage, with an evil monster as a spouse. better for you (and your possible kids) to free yourself. People who stay married to these evil monsters are just desperate to hang on to nonsense image of happiness that isn't there, while implanting the wrong values into their children's brain... so that these kids can learn the wrong life values and continue the vicious failed circle.

On point

When a lady is love with her man, I mean when she is truly in love with you. It will show up in some ways and that's includes;

1) Her emotions towards you will speak loud about it. It will show up in her phone calls with you, her love messages and her request to always be with you. If your girlfriend is showing up this sign, then she is truly in love with you.

2) Her thought about you, the way she feels whenever she's with you. You will notice the happiness all over her.

3) She will always want to be with you, play with you and even bath with you because she's comfortable being naked with you.

4) She will always motivate and encourage you whenever you are sad for any reason.

5) When she's truly in love with you, she will be praying for you on daily basis because ...https://allsinglesandmarried..com/2020/09/dear-men-if-she-shows-these-10-signs.html

Part 2 is coming when they have gained admission in to the university.

Marriage is an institution ordained by God, and it is not just a child's play, something made for better and for worst. That is the more reason why anyone who makes a wrong decision in marriage will regret it forever. Getting married is a big decision to make. If you choose the right person, you may spend the rest of your life with someone who helps you to learn and grow, giving you the opportunity of living with happiness and fulfillment. If you choose the wrong person, you may think that the whole day of your is example of hellfire.

So when it comes to choosing your life partner, there are some types of people you simply must avoid.

In this article I will be showing you five habits that whenever you notice it in someone who is showing interest in you or someone you are showing interest in, please for your own safety you withdraw from the relationship immediately.

Here are the five habits you should avoid when choosing your spouse.

1) Stay Away From Someone Who Is Narrow-minded.
If you are someone who is open-minded, then it’s very important you find a partner who is also open-minded. Open-minded people in a romantic partnership can support each other in expanding their horizons together. They also forgive faster, than those who are the...https://4evertogeda..com/2020/09/5-types-of-person-you-shouldnt-get.html

Yesterday, I was on bed yesterday thinking about my husband and how grateful I am to my parents for giving my hands in marriage to Him even though I didn't know Him well then, living with Him has been awesome and I'm glad I built our home with Him and our home has been perfect �.
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My Sweetheart provide all my needs for me. Even before I ask at times, He will give me, at times He waits till I ask and tells me that He knows I'll ask but waiting for me to ask.
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Sincerely speaking, there are times I ask, and He won't give me o, when I ask why He'll say "Baby you don't need this I'll give yiu at the right time and trust me anything He says not yet I believe He has a reason for that and I won't argue because I know He wants the best for me.
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There's nothing difficult for my husband to do, He helps me with everything and that makes me lazy but I'm happy that I am because I depend on Him for everything. When my hubby tells me to do something, I don't argue, I do it because I believe He can't mislead me.I consult Him for everything because He's the best consultant?
He teaches me everything, no assignment is hard for Him o I salute His memory.
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The name of that Man you've been asking about that has been the source of my happiness and inspiration is Jesus' Christ who is yours?
I got married to Him when I was a baby when my parents dedicated me to Him and I built that relationship well because it must not scatter o.
Parents who do dedicate the life of your children to? Jesus' or Devil?
Dear brother and sister, after mum and dad dedicated your life to Christ, do you follow Him to know Him the more or you Left Him and got remarried to a strange person?
Christ is waiting for you today so go back to Him.
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Most times when a marriage is in trouble, people tend to see their Marriage as a mistake rather than seeing the mistakes they are making in their marriage. At this point they regret marrying their wife or husband, begin to think of a new partner, imagine marrying their ex or fantasizing a marrriage without issues.

Some even divorce or remarry and later wish they had remained with their first Spouse, as they find greater trouble in the new spouse. This is because the first marriage was not a mistake, and the mistake has not been discovered yet.

So you can remarry as many times as you like, you will still experience problems in marrriage until you discover the mistakes you are making in your marrriage and correct them.

So divorce or separation is not a solution to consider when you are having problems with your marrriage.

When your car has a flat tyre, you do not abandon it, but change the tyre and move on.

When we have a headache, no matter how excruciating, we do not cut off the head but take care of the headache.

When a bulb blows out in the room we do not change the room or the house, we replace the bulb and light up the room.

When we have challenges at work, we do not refuse to go to work, we go there to solve the problems.

So when marriage has an issue, we don't have to try to change the spouse instead of changing the attitude that is creating the problem.

Most times when we see some couples enjoying their marriages and enjoying each other to the fullest, we admire and cherish them, but the opposite is seen in our own marriage. The reason is that some people have worked on their marriage by paying the necessary price and that is why they are enjoying the fruits of their labour. It is said, “The way you make your bed is the way you will lie on it”.

Your marriage is as good or as sweet as you make it. Some couples, because of the negative things they are seeing in their marriage, accuse each other of being responsible. They point accusing fingers at each other for being responsible. Some even say many bad things about their spouse, even calling him or her names; some think that marrying that man or that woman was a mistake.

It is not so, your marriage was not a mistake, but you are the mistake.

Your habit is the mistake
Your character is the mistake
Your manner, anger, unforgiveness, laziness, lack of love, lack of affection, lack of attention, impatience, bitterness, selfishness, ignorance, stinginess, not being considerate, infidelity and lovelessness are the mistakes.

Talking about bitterness. Some still dream of a marriage with their ex seeing your spouse as a stumbling block. Wake up to the smell of coffee. Be content with your spouse. That behavior is your mistake.

So get up now and build your marriage because it is not a mistake.
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When your husband who usually tap or grab your boobs or your bombom suddenly stops, it is a message every woman must try to decode. Sometimes most women think it is maturity that makes him stop, some can't just relate. But when he stops grabbing and tapping one or more of these could be responsible.

1. You May Have Offended Him. One major weakness of most men is that they are not expressive like women when they are hurt. They can keep mute for years over some unresolved issues. This is time bomb and one of its sign is he stop being playful to you.

2. You May No Longer Be Attractive To Him. This can arise if you no longer look good like you used to or if he is seeing another woman he assumed has better boobs or better backside than you. If you are still sexually attractive, he will tap and grab your boob and backside often. Men are unrepentant grabbers and tappers, if he suddenly stops there must definitely be a reason.

3. If He No Longer Love You. Touching have been proven to be sign of love. In a normal marriage relationship touching gives approval of love and acceptance. So, if he stops touching you like he use to do, check his attitude and the shift in his character, he may have lost his love for you.

4. When You Are Quarreling. Most men may not touch you or grab your boob or your bombom if you are quarrelling.

Surely there may be other reasons for sudden change, a wise woman must not let the change to linger before investigating the cause.

5. If you are always nagging him. Nagging is a sure way a husband can be driven away from every husband. It is better for a man to live in the attic than dwell with a nagging wife

6. If you are always suspecting him. Men tend to stay away if there women cross examine and read all kinds of meaning to them, when they see they are not free with you, they look for where they are free to be themselves without any suspicion

7. If you always complain about his playfulness. A few women who always complain of their husbands playfulness drives the man away.

8. However midlife crises can make him go into himself, especially if he hasn’t broken through in his finances.
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Am grieve in my heart, sex always cause quarrell in our marriage. Anytime I ask for sex from my wife is either she abuse or rain insulte on me before she will succour. I go into marriage to free fornication with different lady and to bear my children legally. I got married to my wife for 1year is only once I have enjoyed sex, am always the one that initial sex, am a young energetic guy that love sex. Anytime I ask my wife sex she first talk heaven and Earth, am stingy, self-centered, am a sex addict, that is it until I die inside sex before I will rest, that sex is not food, that I how which she was fucking around would I have meet the virgina the way it, that she don't want to over use her Virgina. by saying that she has kill my appetite/ drive and the firmness of my dick, so my dick will quitely go back to its shell. No matter the manner I will approach her. If at all she want to have sex she will just like down open leg and just relax and be looking at me no support, if it's possible for her to be reading newspaper she would have be doing it, once I cum(release) she will ask me to come down, if she manage to wait 2rang. She has position me for 1rang for too long that anytime I try to go for 2rang my dick will say stop by CAMING DOWN I can't go further again. My 1rang don't last but my 2rang last longer upto 1hrs. She's naw judging me by my 1rang dat am 1sec man that 1st rang is the main thing nor 2nd rang. She's comparing me to Mr A, dat the children Mr A ve was not done by everyday sex that my own I want it everyday. Once in awhile sex that she do give me 5time a month. All she always say is SHE DON'T LIKE SEX. I have given her my possible reached natural remedies to boost her libido if it her libido that's low yet no change. So I ve concluded is all about mindset and she claimed she love. We re TTC couple and my wife is behavin like this, not that she know her ovulation period,even as I ve thought her hw to calculate it & I also monitor her but yet she won't take dat ovulation period serious She don't like sex & me & like sex, pls what do I do am tired. My wife is the type of woman when she pass you want to look her the second time, if she permitted me everyday sex I will not be tire of her. I can't be Happy in this without self volunteer sex(willingly).
Pls help me how to go about it.

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Men make lot of these mistakes in bed and it’s really important we always talk about it until these mistakes become a thing of the past.

I had to write about this after a reader sent a message complaining about the mistakes her man keeps making in bed and how he won’t learn.

As a sex Coach I have this listed as mistakes that our men keep making in bed which their women don't like. Therefore sit back let me educate you.

1. QUIET DURING SEX
Most men are guilty of this and most, if not all women don’t enjoy the annoying silence from their man during lovemaking. When you are quiet in bed, you make her wonder if she’s really pleasuring you. Show your woman you enjoy every bit of her while making love to her. stop the silence.

2. CONCLUDING WOMEN LOVE IT ROUGH IN BED
Most men think women always want it hard and rough in bed. This is so wrong. No woman wants to leave the bed in serious pains and in need of medical attention after a rough sex. Though women love it rough sometimes, it’s important she consents to wanting it rough. Even when she says she wants it rough, it’s also important you don’t take it too far.

3. APPLYING FORCE ON THE CLIT
Applying too much force on the clitoris is another common mistake men make. The clitoris is extremely sensitive and you need to go easy with it.

4. NOT BEING SENSITIVE TO HER WANTS
When in bed with your woman, try to be sensitive to her wants. Don’t just pound until you cum. Learn to understand her wants in bed and use it as a guide. It’s important you are sensitive to her wants and not your wants. Before you are want her in your bed think about it his two things, 1: Satisfying her,
2: avoid been selfish.

5. NOT USING THE FINGERS CAREFULLY
Don’t use your fingers like you forgot something inside of her. Your finger isn’t a chewingstick so stop using it as one. It’s really sad to see men finger their spouse with the vigour reserved for lovemaking.
Make sure your fingers are well trimmed and make sure you wash your hands first and lastly, don't pinch the CLITORIS because it's very sensitive and painful when pinched.

6. RUSH pre-intimacy
Rushing pre-intimacy is so wrong. Take it slowly and enjoy every part of your woman, stop acting as if she about to run away. A well-paced pre-intimacy leads to a more fulfilling sex. Take your time and don’t appear too desperate. So take it gently and hardly on her this will help her to reach Orgasms or cloud 8, Enjoy your joystick.

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I have observed that women who marry as virgins or who were not much into pre-marital sex have strong, firm bodies in marriage and old age while ladies who had been heavily involved in premarital sex, abortions and into different guys have a not so good in shape body at old age. While looking good and exercising have their own roles to play, staying off sex till the right time has their own roles!

Sometimes when I see some single ladies wear clothes without bra, I feel like hiding my head in shame! What in the name of God is this? Slippers? So flat? Why? How?

Some cannot walk a trekkable distance without breaking down! Some can't bend, jump, move, stand or do things a normal single lady can do! At almost 40, I still carry 20 litres liquid on both hands with ease, that is 40 litres put together! You can't walk with some singles, they slow you down. Physically, mentally, emotionally they are so very lazy! The body is something else entirely!

Some are ageing very fast! Pre-marital sex, pregnancy and child birth ages you! Please, for God's sake, let your husband marry a youthful body not an old cargo, a beg! The Bible says a man should enjoy the wife of his youth! Give him your youthful body to enjoy!

Please! Don't give out all the juice in your single years and pass the remaining to the faithful guy on the wedding night. Pre-marital sex shows more on the woman than the man, hence focusing more on the women. Men too should watch it please! You can't be "hammering" every woman on the road and bring a second hand body to the marriage! Women too want fresh, well toned, firm body! Anyway, God knows my taste and gave me a man who is in perfect shape in marriage. I don't want a man who will breakdown after ten minutes of exercise, at what age?

Please, let's keep our body till marriage, it pays in the long run. May the Lord grant you understanding. God bless you, cheers!
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As a guy, the method at which you use to chat a lady online matters a lot. You may think that you are making a good conversation with her not knowing you are missing out the target.

But i will give you 5 tips that will make you win a lady's heart to you through online chat.

1) BEGIN A GOOD CONVERSATION. One of the ways you can start chatting a lady online is by creating an atmosphere of a good conservation; To start a conversation many guys use Hi, Hello, Holla, Hey, get me right all this is common in chatting with a lady, but let me show you what to say instead.

"What's up wonderful "

"How are you today"

2) ASK A GOOD QUESTION.
When chatting with a lady ask a good question. For example, you just start by saying You look "hot or irresistible" that will make the lady sees you as someone who is after her for love making, rather say you look beautiful or I love your Pics/Smile. The next thing she will do is to respond back to...https://allsinglesandmarried..com/2020/09/5-conversation-tips-that-makes-lady-to.html

For a female human being to be classified as a woman is not all about physical appearance but by mental, Spiritual and emotional appearance or maturity.

When a woman speaks her desire and want from a man, it's always difference from what a girl will choose as her desire or want from a man.

Below are the different between a girl and woman desires and want from a man.

1) A Girl looks for a rich men because most of her desire are how to take care of herself right now but a woman looks for caring, romantic and loving men who can take care of her emotional needs as well as loving her too.

2) A Girl measures her man's worth by the size of his present pockets, but a woman measures her man by his level of wisdom, his thoughts, his capacity and abilities to handle both internal and external challenges and his Relationship with God.

That's why you will hear most women when looking for a husband, telling you that she wants a God fearing man as her husband. That's The thought of a woman.

3) A Girl ends relationships by giving unimaginable excuses but a woman has patience, hoping that everything will fall back in place. Is only a woman that believe that she will be able to change the bad attitudes of her husband into a good one but a girl doesn't think that way, instead, she will end the marriage.

4) A Girl thinks about the present, a woman think about the future. A girl wants the money now so can buy leggings and brazilian hair but a woman will be interested to know if you have investment, if you have a business, if you have a good job, if you have a house of your own etc. A woman just want to know if the future is bright for you guys.

5) A Girl likes to see many guys running after her but a woman knows the law of demand "cheap things have high patronage". A woman always want to create value for herself, she wants to have standard, she wants to have class, men approaches her because of her worth and not just about her beauty.

6) A girl takes her relationship outside such as discussing her relationship with her friends. A woman keeps secret things secret. No matter what happens between her and her husband, third-party will not hear about it.

7) A Girl demands for money to buy make-up, airtime, transport fare etc. But a Woman demands for money to make plans. A woman will tell you her plan for business, her plan for career. The type of business she can do and make money. A woman knows how to save money, wether in the bank or by using a savings box, that's a woman for you.

A Girl gets hurt by one man and make other men pay for it. A woman knows that all men aren't the same. A woman believe that Mr. A can not be like Mr. B or Mr G.

9) A girl is learning, obtaining experience, thinking about life challenges and how to navigate it but a woman knows more of these things.

Her experience in relationship had made her to know that true love exist. She knows how to take care of a man when he's angry. She knows how to romance a man a make him weak on bedroom.

She knows how to cook, how to keep a man clean, how to win the heart of the man she loved and how to make the man have more interest in her.

A woman knows how to keep more than two men in a relationship and none of them will know about it but a girl can not.

10) A girl can pressure you into Marriage but a woman will make you pay for her bride price by doing things that will make you to conclude that she's the best woman in the world.

11) A girl will brag or verbally express to you that her parents has money but a woman will make you feel the money, she will make you taste the money, she will make you enjoy the money, you would like to marry her because there is money.

12) A Woman can go any length just to make sure you get married to her but a girl doesn't have that time. Her conclusion is that another man will come her way and this contribute to the reason why there are much single mothers today.

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One of the biggest mistakes people make in marriage is to believe that marriage will heal or fix their deep inner pain. In many cases, marriage will only make the pain greater and more unbearable.

Many married people are on daily basis regretting and cursing their marriages. If you are single, please take note of these reasons why people marry wrong persons and end their marriages in bitter separations or live to endure it.

1) YOU FOCUS MORE ON CHEMISTRY THAN ON THE CHARACTERS. Never marry someone just because you are in love with him or her. Falling in love is a state of temporary psychosis. It is the “delusion of fusion.” Identify the specific character traits you want to see in your spouse and know clearly how to be part of it. Background checks are essential, be careful to check out the family. People from warm and loving homes will most likely be emotionally healthy people.

Chemistry means there is physical and sexual attraction.
Compatibility: Looking for sameness: same backgrounds, culture, language, interests, politics etc. Temperament types are important to know too.

2) YOU EXPECT HIM OR HER TO CHANGE AFTER YOU ARE MARRIED. The question you must ask is, “Can I live with this person the way he is now and be happy with him?”

Principle: Never marry potential. This implies bad potential. He’s a chronic smoker and drunkard and says he will change for you. This is bad potential. If he doesn't change you will resent him.

3) YOU DON'T UNDERSTAND THE FUNDAMENTAL NEEDS OF MEN AND WOMEN.
This is all about making sure the male-female energies are in sync. Men and women each have one core emotional need. Men want to be respected. Women want to be cherished, which means they want to be protected, provided for, and guided. The ultimate prerequisite for a man to get married is that..https://4evertogeda..com/2020/08/8-reasons-why-you-may-end-up-marrying.html