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Romance / Re: I Am Addicted To Sex, How Do I Stop? by Allsingles: 5:32pm On May 23, 2020
She can overcome it if she is determined and that is by avoiding pornographic pictures and websites.

Be committed with God, surrender her life to God and accept that she has sinned against God and willing to come back to him.

Stay away to those guys on speed dial whenever she want sex because those guys too is a problem to her since they can't resist her whenever she ask for sex.

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Romance / Re: Men Are The Reasons Ladies Don't Marry On Time by Allsingles: 5:25pm On May 23, 2020
Make it clear that you are advertising yourself for any lady that may have interest in you or you are probably telling us to patronize you base on your profession.
Romance / Re: Exquisite Photos Of Beautiful Muslim Women by Allsingles: 5:16pm On May 23, 2020
How do you know that they are beautiful
Romance / SHE Has Been Cheating FOR 5 YEARS. by Allsingles: 9:48am On May 23, 2020
I WANT A DIVORCE
We have been married for 15 years now and we are blessed with two lovely kids, two girls.

She was everything to me. She is a very affectionate mom to our children and will do anything for her children to be happy.

Permit to say that it was a peaceful marriage until this Easter 2020. She was secretly watching pornography without my consent and knowledge she did, but I always end up finding videos on her computer and smartphone.

I never like the idea of her doing this, I have told her that it hurts me, but still, she could not STOP doing it. This started at the beginning of our marriage. I still loved her, and I knew she loved me a lot too, so I let go even though I'm still wondering why.

I started getting dreams of her with other men for the past 4 years. Recently this led me to check her computer, and I found 40 videos of her and her affair partner. I couldn’t breathe or feel anything inside me for several minutes when I discovered this affair.

Our love life was regular. We had no problems in bed. I have asked for her if she was interested in anyone else other than me, and she said no, that, is only me.

I have as well asked if I was the only man she has been with throughout ber life, and she said yes.

A few times, I have even asked her to go with another man if she was attracted to someone else (this is to be sure if she loves me and still want to be with another man). Just to differentiate between wife and mistress.)

I regularly asked her these questions and asked her to promise me but she made false promises to God and to our children in all of my questions to her.

Even though I don’t want her to be with another man, I still gave her this freedom only because I loved her so much, and I didn’t want her to end up choosing someone else over me, but still, she fooled me.

I am devasted. I’m unable to accept that she’s been lying all the time. Her affair has been going on for five years (2015 – 2019). The videos constantly keep playing in my mind. I’m shivering, crying, and feeling a crushing pain in my heart. I have panic attacks during the night. I’m unable to sleep or eat well enough because of this trauma. It’s been a month now. I haven’t changed a bit. I’m suffering. I’ve shut myself up. I feel dead.

She says that she ended the affair last year because of guilt and regret. She feels sorry and is asking for my forgiveness. She says that he feels disgusted when she thinks about her past. She calls it past already.

She says that she tried to confess several times but didn’t confess because she was afraid that I would divorce her. I’m unable to believe anything she says because she didn’t confess. She still gave me false promises even after I discovered the videos than when I showed her proof, then she agreed. She says she was addicted and couldn’t stop.

She says she enjoyed pleasure from the other man. She assumed that I wouldn’t find it, so she wanted to continue for some time and then stop. She was confident and convinced that she could hide it from me. The truth is that I would not have found out because their contact was never through phone or emails. He was his colleague, so they used a work phone to chat and to plan their meeting.

I have so many questions piled up in my head. I have become angry and violent. I don’t intend or plan to hurt her or call her names, but I always end up slapping her and calling her names whenever I ask her about this. This is not me. I’ve never been like this. I’ve never even raised my voice to her. She and I can’t believe that I can yell this much. Recently she got frustrated with my behavior and hit me back a few times.

I’m unable to forgive as she, didn’t confess, has made false promises, broken our rules and gave my place to another man, I can’t accept that he was better than me on bed. I’m unable to accept that I’m not as good as him, and that has damaged my self-confidence so much.

I will forgive her someday for sure, but reconciliation remains a question mark. Should I continue to live with her for the sake of our innocent children, or should I walk out of this marriage? I don’t want my kids to know about their mother's betrayal even if I divorce.

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Romance / How Many Of These Golden Rules Have You Learnt In Your Life. by Allsingles: 7:52am On May 23, 2020
1) Never sit down on the toilet without checking for tissue paper first.

2) A profit is not real until the money is in your bank account.

3) Never skimp on your bed or footwear.

4) Don’t invest on the stock market what you can’t afford to lose.

5) Acting as a debt Guarantor is stupid; it’s better to either lend the money yourself or just give it to them.

6) 99% of your friends are no such thing. They are acquaintances or work colleagues.

7) Count yourself lucky if you have five real friends.
If it looks too good to be true, it probably is.

cool For men: a woman’s fanny has the pulling power of a team of horses. Don’t let your dick rule your life.

9) For women: the exciting bad boys are called that for a.... https://allsinglesandmarried..com/2020/05/how-many-of-these-golden-rules-have-you.html?m=1
Romance / Am In Trouble After Having Sex With A Virgin by Allsingles: 4:09pm On May 22, 2020
When a virgin has sex for the first time with a man, the fact that the rupture of the hymen causes a flow of blood which spurts on the sex of the man, means that an alliance or a bond has been established between them , and only death can separate them!
Originally, When a man has sex with a virgin girl, he is expected to wash the blood of the hymen and thus bind himself to that girl by a wedding ring�.

Many men and women will not fulfill their destiny because of the one to whom they gave their virginity.
It is because of this irrevocable covenant that God does not want you to lose your virginity before marriage.

When you have sex with your partner, this is your way of saying, "My enemies are now your enemies, and your enemies are now my enemies; My friends are now your friends and your friends are now my friends; I will stay by your side no matter what, I will never leave you and I will never abandon you. I will defend you to death
You now have one flesh, united soul and body! Here is what the Bible tells us:
“1 Corinthians 6:16 ►
“Do you not know that whoever becomes attached to the prostitute is one body with her? For, it is said, the two will become one flesh."

This type of alliance should only be made by those who are legally married. Whenever you have sex with a person, you make a blood pact with that person at the same time.
When God made a covenant with Abraham, it was through circumcision which included a shedding of blood. When God gave Moses the commandments and the covenants, the blood of animals was one of them.
Through sexual sin, body, mind and soul are linked. Everything that is in the man or in the woman enters the life of the woman or of the man. Through sex, you receive all the iniquities of your partner's family in your life and even their ancestral curses because the life of a man is in the blood.

Sexual sin can turn your good and perfect destiny into a bad destiny of doom!

You see some girls or women who, after sleeping with a man who has a curse, end up with the same curse in their lives. Things don't work for many people because of the kind of people they slept with. Many have been initiated into things that they themselves do not understand because of sex.

Even the world of darkness recognizes that sex is a pact of blood. If you have sex with someone who is part of a sect, you are automatically initiated spiritually and in your dreams you will find yourself taking part in gatherings with strange people/personalities. The dark forces of this sect will begin to influence your life without your knowing it. This has happened to a lot of people.

So be careful who you sleep with because you don't know where your partner's bloodline and spirits come from.

By sex they can steal your crown, steal your throne, snatch your graces, tear your tunic, steal your gold and your silver, change your star, destroy your projects, suck your grace, kill you, bury you alive ...

Many destiny failed because of 5 minutes intercourse due to the fact that energy and spirit were exchanged.
Many have killed their future because of a blood exchange.

NEVER HAVE FUN WITH SEXUALITY
You wonder why everything is bad in your life, bad luck follows you everywhere! why you have repeated nighttime diapers (Visiting a husband or wife at night), you suffer from frigidity, you are bombarded by impure thoughts of a past relationship (fantasy) despite you are with your partner or your partner. Yet you are the cause, you sleep with anyone. Then you accuse someone in the village and others even accuse their family members while you yourself are the author of your curse.

The present world system demands that we struggle so much for little things, that's the devil's system. Immorality and fornication is on the trend now... But We can get the things we desire, without much struggle by partnership with the Holy Spirit...and partnership with God demands that we stay away from the things that defiles our body.(This is a formula... #Crack.it)

Just like we say our boyfriends or girlfriends cheats on us, having sex outside marriage is cheating on Christ. Think about it.

NB: IF YOU PLEASE SHARE THIS PUBLICATION IN SEVERAL GROUPS IN ORDER TO SAVE SEVERAL LIVES, THE ETERNAL WILL BLESS YOU FOR YOUR ACTION. THIS MESSAGE WILL SURELY CONVINCE AT LEAST A SOUL.
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Romance / 24 Traumatizing Words You Should Never Say In Your Marriage. by Allsingles: 10:23am On May 21, 2020
Abuse in its different manifestations is the most destructive tool! It leads to emotional trauma,fear and discomfort!! Its damaging and traumatizing.

Recall that so many marriage today has become a history because one or the both couple mismanaged their words to their spouse.

Below are some examples of words you should not tell your spouse no matter how offended you are by your spouse.

1) I will slap you! This words are disheartening.

2) I will divorce you. This is a threat and can destroy your marriage.

3) "Swine!", "Twerp!" This is disgusting and can kill the respect your spouse has for you.

4) You are hopeless! Don't mention this to your spouse.

5) You are useless! Upon how much love you have professed, you still said this to your spouse? Please don't make any attempts to do say no matter how angry you may be.

6) I blame myself for marrying you. This means you never loved your spouse in the first place which is the reason why you are regretting to have married him or her.

7) You can go to hell! This words can only be said to someone you hate and not to someone you have determined to spend the rest of your life with.

cool You call yourself a man! Demoing your spouse to this level can break his efforts in making you a happy woman and as well can destroy your marriage.

9) I hate you! How can you say such a word to someone you have in many occasions claim to love and as well have made love to.

10) Can't you be like Mr. X or Madam Y? Comparison in marriage is dangerous. Don't compare your spouse to someone else.

11) You are ugly, you are a witch! This are bad words that can negatively affect your... https://allsinglesandmarried..com/2020/05/24-traumatizing-words-you-should-never.html?m=1
Romance / How To Know If A Lady Is A Wife Material And She Is Ready For Marriage. by Allsingles: 8:33pm On May 19, 2020
Are you a bachelor? Are you planning on settling down soon? Are you confused on how to make a proper choice of an ideal woman? Then looking out for a wife material lady is what is best for.

What are these qualities? Here are a list of ways to know a lady is a wife material and she is ready to settle down..

1) A Great Cook: This is one of the primary qualities a man should look out for in a lady is ready to settle down with. A great cook doesn’t just involve making nice dishes, of course it entails being able to clean the kitchen as soon as one finishes cooking.

Food has become one of the greatest priority of individuals in recent times as the popular saying goes “The way to a man’s heart is his stomach”. A great cook should know the proper ingredients to add to a meal as well.

2) God Fearing: this is a striking quality to look out for in a woman you wish to settle down with, God fearing means keeping the commandments of God and of course having a personal relationship with God. A God fearing woman should also be prayerful.

You obviously do not want woman that wouldn’t be able to stand in the gap and pray at odd hours when need arises.

3) Good Management Skills: A wife material lady should have good management skills because there are times things might not be too rosy and even if things are rosy all the time, you do not want a lady that wouldn’t management properly till everything is gone. This doesn’t mean subjecting a wife to poverty by giving her a ridiculous amount to cook.

4) Submissive: It is a popular saying that a woman should always be submissive to the man because the man is the head of the family. It doesn’t matter if she earns more, A wife material lady should always listen to her husband.

5) Humility: A humble woman as a wife is what one should always pray for. It is no longer news how pride goes before a fall, a proud woman can ruin a mans home by attracting things that shouldn’t be to the home. A proud lady will no doubt tell lie just to maintain a standard.

6) Financially Independent: It is very good to settle down with a lady that is financially independent, she would be able to cover some loop holes in the family.

7) Neat And Orderly: Above all, a wife material woman should be neat and... https://allsinglesandmarried..com/2020/05/how-to-know-if-lady-is-wife-material.html?m=1
Romance / Sexual Secrets Of Women That Snatch Husband by Allsingles: 1:27pm On May 19, 2020
Lots of women are losing their husbands to strange women out there and most women are yet to know what these men really see in these women that make them to get glued to them despite the facts that they know that these women are more expensive and most are full of sexual transmitted diseases.
Hi wives, you need to know the sexual secrets of these faceless women, sorry they are better than you in the bed, you need to step up to match up with them and beat them in their dirty games. Take your time to read this and get your husband back, these are their secrets:
1) THEY UNDERSTAND THE SEXUAL WEAKNESS OF MEN:
They understand that one of the weaknesses of most men is sex and they make good use of this. Wives are careless about this, instead of using sex to create intimacy with their husbands; they use it to create animosity, anger, bitterness between them and their husbands.
WHAT TO DO:
Use sex as a tool of love to create intimacy in your marriage, don’t use sex to destroy your marriage, use it to build it.
2) THEY KISS LIKE MAD:
In a report, most married men reported that their wives hate kissing; they said it is difficult to get a decent kiss from their wives. Strange women are experts in this area, they use kissing as a weapon.
WHAT TO DO:
Don’t turn kissing to wresting in your marriage, stop been local. Kiss your husband even when he is not expecting it.
3) THEY USE KILLER UNDERWEAR:
A man said he hates to see his wife in panties because according to him, she always looks like a wrestler. Lots of wives are like this, they are fond of wearing pants whose colors are different from their bras, looking like a rainbow, with dirty pants, outdated underwear, bra that looks like tarpaulin, wearing of boxers that is meant for men, wearing of knickers and tying of wrapper to bed. Strange women are creative in this regard they are fond of using neat, sexy panties and bra. They always balance colors under there.
WHAT TO DO:
Wives wake up, fashion starts form under, not from head gear or rope sieve bag, the real fashion is looking sexy when you UnCloth before your husband.
4) THEY USE KILLER NIGHTIE:
Strange women not only wear sexy underwear, they also wear killer nighties. While wives dress to bed and look like a soldier in bed, strange women dress to capture the man even before getting to bed.
WHAT TO DO:
When you are going out, dress up and when you are going to bed, dress down. Dress to capture the imagination of your husband, get very sexy, nasty nightie for your husband’s eyes only. Men are moved by what they see, let your husband she the angel in you.
5) THEY SEE SEX AS A SERIOUS BUSINESS:
You see it as a chore, you see it as dirty, you even wish it is removed from marriage, it never cross your mind. But for these strange ladies, they see sex as a serious business and do everything to keep their clients and customers. They use all marketing strategies, branding, product, packaging, marketing and advertisement.
WHAT TO DO:
Begin to see sex as a serious business, rebrand yourself, repackage yourself because you are the real product.
6) THEY TREAT SEX AS FOOD OF MEN:
Wives are fond of saying “Is it food?” What a foolish statement! It’s not food, it’s more than that, in fact the Bible says it is water (Proverbs 5:15-19). Strange women are aware of the fact that men see sex as food and they serve it hot and better.
WHAT TO DO:
Get into the fray, treat it as the food of your husband. Serve it better than before, never say, “is it food?” again in your life, it is more than that.
7) SEX IS IN THEIR MIND: Babies, house cleaning, cooking, and washing are in the mind of wives; sex is never in their minds, they never think of it, but away women put it in their mind and their body is ready, no wonder they hardly look tired for it.
WHAT TO DO:
At least two or three time a week, put sex in your to-do list, put it in your mind and see how your marriage turns to be.
cool THEY PLAN FOR SEX: Strange women plan for sex the way you plan for your cooking; they look forward to it and carry their catch along in their plans.
WHAT TO DO:
Plan for sex in your marriage; don’t make it your husband’s affairs to plan for sex in your marriage. Let it be part of your schedule.
9) THEY SET TABLE FOR SEX: Strange women do set table for great sex, soft music, blue light, candle light, perfumed bed, velvet bed sheet, sexy outlook, slippery fingers. Do you still wonder why men are running to them?
WHAT TO DO:
Begin to set table for sex in your marriage, be creative, surprise your husband with sexy outlook when he arrives from work. Children are already in bed, you look “Smatching”, the whole house look romantic, soft music, dinner with candle light, hug by the door and kiss on the lips. Who says your husband will not rush home tomorrow.
10) THEY ARE VERY ROMANTIC:
Romance is a strange thing to some women, the away women don’t joke about it, they are experts in this. Whole lots of wives are romantically bankrupt but strange women are professional in it. Men loves romantic women and strange women know this.
WHAT TO DO:
Become romantic, marriage is a love affair, don’t allow motherhood and wifehood destroy your girlish instinct. Be romantic.
11) THEY FLIRT WITH THEIR MEN:
Strange women are not only romantic, they are flirty. They give “come and do” eye contact, if you sit with them on a table they make sure their legs touch yours, they put hands on men’s shoulders and touch men’s legs as they discuss. They greet men with a good smile, they laugh excessively to men’s dry jokes. All these signal immoral men understand perfectly and they quickly go for them.
WORK TO DO:
Get flirty with your husband, hold his hands in the public, place your head on him when in a bus, touch his legs as you talk, sit close to him and sure make your body touches his own, hold him longer when hugging, he is your husband girl, get flirty with him.
12) THE ARE SEDUCTIVE:
Strange women are not only romantic, they are flirty, they are not only flirty, they are seductive. They dress seductively, expose their cleavages, show their panties, wear very tight cloths that shows their pant lines and curves, open their laps for careless men to see what is there. This is what your husband face daily, though he may not get home to tell you what girls in the office are doing to him, you need to know this and get it right at home, with right and what I call holy seduction. This I mean you counter them by seducing your husband regularly, this may keep him to you.
WORK TO DO:
Get seductive with your husband; stop pretending that you hate sex. Work round the house half naked when you are alone with him, bath with bathroom door open when alone with him, go ahead win your husband spirit soul and body.
13) THEY MAKE GREAT USE OF PERFUME:
Strange women use expensive perfumes, they smell nice to attract men.
WORK TO DO: Make sure you smell nice too, men’s sense of smell is very good, take advantage of this, capture your husband.
14) THEY MAKE MEN FEEL WANTED:
Strange women do make men feel wanted, honored and welcome by their attitude, cooperation and involvement in the bedroom. The opposite is the case with wives; they make men look foolish for asking for sex, they make their husbands fight or struggle for it, what a mistake!
WHAT TO DO:
Treat your husband with honor, let him feel wanted, accepted and loved. If he touches you, encourage him and touch him too.
15) THEY USE THEIR BREASTS TO THE MAXIMUM:
Most wives are fond of fighting their husbands for touching their breast, but strange women will never do that, they make good use of this to capture men, they know that most men can be captured by women’s breast, so they dress to show cleavage, half of their breast, they wear clothing that shows their nipples, they go for breast enhancement, they go out bra less, you see the women that are after your husband are very desperate, you can’t afford to be careless.
WHAT TO DO:
Don’t ever fight your husband again for touching your breast, it is not for the baby, the baby is a tenant, it’s for the Daddy, it is not for decoration, make use of it to keep your husband.
16) THEY COOK GREAT MEALS:
Strange women also know how to cook great meal for men before sleeping with them. They know that men love food and if a man loves your food, he is likely going to like your body.
WHAT TO DO:
Never commit your husband meals in to the hands of your maids; you will likely regret this later. Be a great cook if you don’t want to cook your marriage.

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Romance / Re: Finding A Good Man Is Like Finding A Needle In A Haystack by Allsingles: 6:53am On May 18, 2020
You attract who you are and who you are not.
A good woman will only attract a good man and also it will take a wise woman to know a good man.

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Romance / Re: I Finally Broke Up With Her (pictures) by Allsingles: 6:43am On May 18, 2020
When a woman cheat, she will be disowned but when a man cheats, he apologized and he will be accepted back.
Why is it this way?

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Business / Money Mistakes You Have Always Been Guilty Of That You Must Stop. by Allsingles: 6:37am On May 18, 2020
1) Never you borrow money to pay house rent or for a wedding or for a holiday vacation or for burial of loved ones. Paying back is always regrettable.

2) Never spend money you haven’t received. Don’t even promise someone money based on a... https://seos4all..com/2020/05/money-mistakes-you-have-always-been.html?m=1
Romance / 10 Habits That Can Destroy Your Relationship by Allsingles: 7:10pm On May 17, 2020
Thinking people will stay attracted to you no matter what.

Thinking sex will become secondary over time.

Only doing stuff one person likes.
Lying about small details.
Controlling behavior.

Being snarky with your partner. Being nice really is an aphrodisiac.

However friendly banter is recommeneded and good.

Not showing off your partner. Not complimenting them.

Trying to change your partner. Rather, be attracted to what you actually want in life.

Not doing small stuff for them.
Not being there for them at important events.

Judging them too much for every single small human error. People get tired of competing for love.

Not talking about them with your friends. Keeping them a secret.

Treating them as someone who is not a big part of your life, just a boyfriend or girlfriend.

They should come up in your day to day conversations with other people.

Otherwise, maybe they are not as important to you as you think they are....
https://allsinglesandmarried..com/2020/05/9-ways-on-how-to-make-woman-fall-in.html?m=1
Romance / Some Men Are Very Selfish by Allsingles: 5:48pm On May 17, 2020
Not every man is a husband material.
Some are friendzone materials. Some are boyfriend materials. Some are sex mate materials. Some are baby-papa materials. Some are husband materials. Some are father materials. Marry a man that is a Brother, Husband and Father.
Some of you, get into marriage with men who have no business being married. Marriage is not for everybody. Some men are not wired to function in matrimony. Don't allow marriage desperation or societal pressure to push you into the arms of a man who is not ready or suited for matrimony.
Look around you, most men get married just for the status. Those are the men that marry wives and keep for their mothers and fathers to look after. I have seen men who married wives and travelled out of the country for 5, 6 and even 7 years without coming home to see their wives. I mean what is that?
You shouldn't be theoretically married.
Marriage must be practical. Some men are very selfish. Take this from me, a selfish man can never be a good husband. Matrimony thrives on mutualism. It is a give-and-take situation.
* Don't marry a man because you are pregnant for him.
* Don't marry him because he deflowered you.
* Don't marry him because you are unemployed.
* Don't marry him because you've dated him for long.
* Don't marry him because you invested in him financially.
Marry him because you believe he is worthy of being called your Husband and the father of your unborn kids.
There are men everywhere but Husbands are scarce.
I pray for you who is yet to be married: you will not experience marriage bondage.
For those who feel that you've made a mistake, retrace your steps, and rededicate your marriage to God. He is faithful and ready to help you and He will help you out in Jesus name!
Note : if you are a man reading this post don't make it a gender war. And don't take it personal. This post is for men. I know there are un-wifable women but that's a post for another day.

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Romance / Sex Sweetener And Cure For Vagina Odour by Allsingles: 5:10pm On May 17, 2020
For those who always complain that they don't enjoy sex or don't have urge for sex, low libido, some men say even if a woman stands naked in front of them it means nothing to them, no urge, no anxiety.

Also for those who don't enjoy sex, you are just doing it just to please your partner, no satisfaction at the end of it all, no sweetness, no orgasm.
Here is your solution, prepare this drink and take always, within two weeks your story will change, you will be singing a new song
It is also very good for dryness of the vagina and sweet smell from the vagina.
Ingredients:
_Water mellon
_Cloves powder
_Peak milk
_Honey
_Coconut
×Blend the coconut and remove the shaft
× Add all the other ingredients to the coconut milk and blend
×Place inside a container and refrigerator for some minutes and enjoy
This drink gives you maximum satisfaction for your sex life.

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Romance / Re: Reasons Why So Many Men Options To Be Single. by Allsingles: 1:51pm On May 17, 2020
Staphylococcus:
Who is going to read all this.

Summary please. Its too long and compacted.

Everything I read in the university for 10 years is not even as much as this

grin
You did not go to school ooo
Celebrities / Re: Tiwa Savage: I Might Go Naked In My Next Video by Allsingles: 12:54am On May 17, 2020
Go naked?
Waiting we won see again?

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Romance / Reasons Why So Many Men Options To Be Single. by Allsingles: 12:50am On May 17, 2020
Young men see companion in marriage with accelerated duties and with an extra possibility of monetary loss.

First, look at Whitehead and Popenoe’s studies, which became posted inside the 2002 document of the countrywide Marriage venture. The two drew on discussions they carried out with sixty by no means-married men who came from a spread of nonsecular, ethnic, and own family backgrounds and ranged in age from 25 to 33. Those men said that the primary motive they withstand marriage is that they can revel in many of its advantages without virtually getting married—this is, through cohabitation. Further, they suggested experiencing almost no social pressures to marry; now not from the circle of relatives, now not from pals, and not from the families of the women they live with. They related marriage with a number of increased duties and with a more possibility of economic loss. I can not imagine that such beliefs are much less widespread now.

On a lighter observe, men said that one gain of not marrying became that, if they have been to marry, their lady friend-now-wife might inform them what to do. This may be proof of an inner view that after marriage—but no longer earlier than—their companions have the right to inform them what to do. That is definitely steady with the manner more potent dedication transforms one’s feel of a dating. It’s also a laugh to be given the evidence of marriage’s health benefits for guys. Most scholars count on that a chief cause for those advantages is better halves’ direct have an effect on their husbands’ conduct: “That’s your third beer this night—why don’t you prevent with that?” “You want to go to the physician and.....https://allsinglesandmarried..com/2020/05/reasons-why-so-many-men-options-to-be.html?m=1
Romance / 9 Ways On How To Make A Woman Fall In Love With You. by Allsingles: 8:11am On May 16, 2020
Many professionals have claimed that ladies are greater attracted to guys who could make them snigger or have a remarkable humorousness in contrast to men who are not extra attracted to girls who are humorous.

Women find guys who explicit themselves in very many approaches very appealing as they make conversations interesting and much less interested in guys who are dull and less goofy.

1) Form of hair and beards.
Women locate men with a heavy stubble beard duration as very appealing.

Facial hair correlates now not best with adulthood and masculinity, but additionally with dominance and aggression. An intermediate level of beardedness is most attractive.

2) Respected guys.
Ladies are extra drawn to men who have a sense of pleasure. Women despise men who constantly bow down to anything due to the fact they see them as susceptible and that they seem like cowards.

3) Muscle groups Formation or boldness.
Although girls are more attracted to muscular men however for brief-time period relationships. Many less-muscular guys are concept to be a better fit for long-time period relationships.

Therefore, in case you want to capture a woman's interest you had to build muscle groups and look bold because they discover it that secure to be with you because you can provide protection.

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Romance / Re: 8 Terrible Characters That Possibly Causes Delay In Marriage Among Women by Allsingles: 8:07am On May 16, 2020
Sixfeetbelle:


Aren't you tired of always writing epistles that try to mold women into this perfect femald? Well, if you aren't, we are. Just this once, dedicate this bubbling energy -and gift of writing- to building molds for men too. After all, the society is made up of the two sexes.

Thank you

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Business / How To Get More New Customers For Your Business. by Allsingles: 10:57pm On May 13, 2020
You have successfully built up your business, and also have built up a strong of small client database too. Starting small has its blessings; after all, it allowed you the chance to domesticate a devoted friendship along with your consumers.

By way of now, you have had time to work out any kinks, and also you are convinced that your services or products are virtually satisfactory your commercial enterprise can give your customers.
Since you are eager to make bigger and develop your enterprise. But, growing your customer base is a whole lot less impossible said than accomplished. How do you get more customers in your enterprise and overtake your competitors?

I asked the younger Entrepreneur Council for their input, in addition to Tim Shoemaker, who headed up channel income at here Palo Alto software program.

From marketing methods to higher networking, attempt these secrets, and watch your client base grow quickly more than you expected.

8 ways that will help you on how to develop your buyers base:

1) In relation to your pitch, get from your consolation region.
If you are having hassle increasing your patron base, you will be inadvertently narrowing your focus and with that, lacking the mark with capacity new clients. Should you are pitching your enterprise in an equal way that you constantly have, it’s no wonder that you are having problems achieving new customers.
“go against the grain and oppose expectancies,” recommends Wesley Mathews of high degree marketing.

“promoting is the switch of trust, so in place of counting on a sales pitch you are relaxed with, focus first on building a courting with the ability consumer.”

Establishing accept as true with, says Mathews, is one of the key approaches to reach new customers.

“when you have earned they agree with, you have additionally earned their ear,” he says.

“At that factor, you may begin to teach them on recognizing the superior cost of your product.”

2) Leverage your current network.
Your recent network may be the best place to attain out to, as their proper phrase of the mug will assist develop your customer base.

“I’d authorize that the business develops a foundation group of customers that may make referrals; referrals are strong leads,” says Tim Shoemaker.

“I’d champion that they community as a great deal as possible inside their purpose marketplace. For example, if they are a motorbike mart, then they need to try and be part of as numerous biking-associated companies as viable.”

Entrepreneur Darrah Brustein agrees: “faucet into your immediate network and deduces who is perhaps an outstanding fit to your service or product,” she says.

“It’s extraordinary to consciousness on the lowest placing fruit in the starting, and as well, they are additionally much more plausible to endorse your company to their networks. You have already got mounted accept as true with together with your community, so leverage that.”

3) Build a “courting map”
Tamara Nell of The leading niche recommends building a “relationship map,” so that you can in mold your most influential connections with the regions wherein there may be the best need for your products or services.

This chart will help point you inside the direction of who you want to attain out to, on the way to faucet into ability customer bases.

“After I first started out my company, I created [a relationship chart] and found out a confederate who had the introduction to the consumer but now not the resources to do the paintings,” she says.

“We partnered, and The leading niche becomes based. To nowadays, I continual replace of my courting map, which leads to new opportunities.”

4) Preserve expanding your network.
Even as counting on your existing community to expand your client headquarters is great, you can, in the end, wind up out of new leads. While you locate your self in this situation, you can want to look to increase your network.

“you could have a wonderful concept and an incredible saleable enterprise structure, however in case you no longer have contacts that are perhaps inquisitive about assisting you, it’s impossible to prevail,” says Alfredo Atanacio.

How do you go approximately growing your network?
“Attend networking seminars, or webinars, be a part of groups that has the same interest as you, shape partnerships, and watch your network grow,” he says.
We will get into that a piece more next.

5) Be a speaker at an event or host an enterprise gathering.
You have got a bunch of information in your subject why not get pertained to within the network? This could be by sharing your experience and getting worried about your industry at a neighborhood level, you will have the possibility to develop your connections, in addition to your popularity as a concept chief on your enterprise.

“My first clients came from offering to talk without cost or webinar at business events that I knew my best customers could be attending,” says Natalie MacNeil.

“I started off on a community level, and then I used to be given bigger possibilities that were given me in a cloak of many individuals. That’s how I was given my budding business off the floor.”

6) Explore calls to motion.
On a minor, extra straight away actionable degree, there are plenty of strategies you could take together with your advertising and marketing that may doubtlessly draw in new customers. Add a call to action for each piece of advertising you send out whether or not that be a Facebook publishing, a weekly publication, or through offline advertising techniques.

“After ascertaining advertisement and marketing strategy, you can commence implementing multiple strategies every day,” says Nicole Munoz.

“It is not always sufficient to simply compose a weblog. After it’s written, you have to pull in a call to action that truly states how customers can paintings with you, for example, ‘sign up for my newsletter. Make this a part of all your conversations and networking actions as properly.”

Calls to motion don’t have to be complicated or ask so much from your customers; repeatedly, the expectation is as easy as increasing engagement.

Ask them for their reviews, propose that they tag you with a certain hashtag, or provide a hyperlink so as to join up in your electronic mail updates.

7) Try to provide free trials to new customers.
Any other practical move for obtaining new customers? Offer them an unfastened trial of your commodity.

“free trials are an incredible manner to market, on a report that they attract new customers and garner proper experiments and testimonials,” says entrepreneur Sony West.

“Additionally they encourage you to get extra acknowledgment on new products after which make upgrades in which wanted.”
That sounds super right? However, how do you shift them into substantial go back clients?
“by means of supplying loose trials, you could show them the value of what you need to provide and convert them into paying returning clients later,” says Sony.

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Romance / 12 Primary Reasons Why So Many Ladies Are Still Single Till Today. by Allsingles: 7:48pm On May 13, 2020
It's a completely common and unfortunate state of affairs now to locate singles of marriageable age nonetheless single and searching, even at forty years and above. This affects each ladies and guys, but it is extra time-honored amongst the women.

Below is the primary reason why so many ladies are still single.

1) Because there may be no age at which a person can't get a single girl to marry as long as he is a great profits earner with some first-rate social-financial reputation. But it isn't always equal for girls. At a positive age, a woman will need God's unique intervention to get unmarried guys to method her for marriage.

2) A maximum number of men optioned to marry down their age bracket. So, it's typically disappointing for girls to find out that the guys they have been having a terrific rapport and closeness within their neighborhood, network, workplaces, and college, sidelined them to method more youthful women when such guys are critically geared up for marriage.

So, the unsightly scenario influences women more than guys. Hence, this article is going to address the trouble among girls more, and it'll additionally assist to remedy the trouble of more than one broken courtships.

Whilst we recognize the overall guns for this unpleasant incident, then we will proffer the answer.

The reasons are In extraordinary categories particularly;
1) Personal
2) Parental Negatives
3) Religious (divine & demoniac)
4) Environmental
5) Economic
6) Nonsecular.
Personal negative factors.

To remedy the hassle, begin with the aid of asking your self, "What have I been doing to make a contribution to this problem?"
David made an announcement in the book of Psalm 119:67, he made an honest confession, examine it, "before I used to be afflicted I went astray, but now I have stored thy phrase".

All of the satan does is to take benefit of our faults to afflict us. Allow us to undergo a number of the non-public faults that could purpose a postpone in getting and maintaining a future marriage accomplice and that includes;

1) Bad Self Packing: This addresses fashion. Test your get dressed experience. Many singles don't get dressed nicely. They use religion or spirituality to take pleasure in shabby and unattractive dressing. Holiness isn't always an excuse for roughness and ugliness.

Dress like a modern girl and no longer like yesterday's lady. Dress like an unmarried notice like a married woman. Dress moderately but attractively. Get dressed not to attract play companions, however genuine fanatics.
Package your self nicely and smell nice. Most women wear attire which is incompatible with their body and complexion.

2) Non-public stress: some are too rigid to allow each person to interrupt into their global. They run their lives with certain counterproductive rigid ideas that have placed a "maintain-off-me" tag on themselves. If you experience a marital delay, test out for, and weigh down any romance unfriendly pressure in your life.

3) Perfectionism: Many are inside the valley of unmarried due to the fact they're perfectionists.
They need a down best character. All of us giving them love signals is usually full of faults. The recognition at the faults, they pass over the affection. Such a person needs to understand the fact that they may in no way get an ideal character.

Listen to This; For the entirety, you want to experience, there are constantly positive matters you need to undergo. For example, many human beings constantly leave out the lovely flower called Rose all due to the fact they cognizance of the thorns.

4) Divine Punishment For pleasure And Abuse: Both ladies and men may be behind schedule and battle to get married companions if they may be beneath God's punishment for losing a few God sent suitors within the beyond because of satisfaction and abusive moves. One of the maximum terrible sins that God punishes seriously is a proud appearance (eyes that despise others). Never say no to a suitor out of conceitedness. You could say no with all sincerity and humility, even out of love, but never pass into mockery and scorn. God will humiliate you if you do so. A few not on time singles will exercise patience and long-suffering for God to re-arrange His plan that they disrupted with pride.

5) Parental terrible factors.
Mother and father usually have an effect on, sometimes decide the destinies in their youngsters. The ethical and religious disposition of parents can have an effect on the marital future of a lady. The tremendous individual and photograph of parents can marketplace their youngsters for marriage while the poor can do the opposite for the kids.
Allow us to observe the subsequent parental negative elements that can devalue singles out of the wedding market.

1) Popularized document of a failed marriage or a negative marital performance.

2) Parental terrible person and photo. Humans have concluded that "like mother and father like children".

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Romance / 8 Terrible Characters That Possibly Causes Delay In Marriage Among Women by Allsingles: 12:14pm On May 13, 2020
Marriage is a stunning issue and nicely finished while one is younger a terrific way to have the energy to paintings and train your kids in every place it may be requested, not simply that, marrying at a young age gives the 2 couples the opportunity to percentage their younger age together and their antique age to tell the recollections collectively.

Getting married is one of the maximum satisfaction for any couple especially the ladies, some say that it's for the ultimate piece of a puzzle to make a woman complete as a lady. However, there are some characters that reasons remove or that have been delaying many women from getting married early or maybe the least bit.

Right here are the terrible characters.

1) The Spirit Of Unserious Boyfriend.
The spirit of the boyfriend is that spirit so one can keep scaring away severe suitors. A severe and we are able to mannered suitor can also have the thoughts that you have a boyfriend and he's intending to marry you. He would not need something to break his destiny marriage so he will not need to break a person's relationship. Meanwhile, all he does is take you to celebration, clubs and he in no manner takes any step further to build his own family with you. This evil spirit does now not need prayers, it dreams quitting the relationship.

2) I'm stunning And tough To Get. This spirit will push you to play hard to get for any extreme suitors who come to ask your hand in marriage. You'll want to reveal that you are lovely so that you are not cheap to get. You may make him chase while you for almost 12 months to reveal that he loves you. Clearly, you adore him however you'll need to fake to now not be interested in appearance his reaction. Subsequently, you will in all likelihood want to sincerely take delivery of but he has left, it is past due. To dispose of this spirit, you need to save you pretense, in case you see that it is Godswill, say yes. Marriage isn't constantly about how lengthy the connection goes, however, the love in it.

3) The Spirit Of Engagement Ring.
That is the spirit that keeps you down for years sporting a keep away the from-me curse. A person will engage you for over 10 years without a plan of in the end getting married. A vital suitor will want to make an approach to you but the ring for your hand will chase him decrease again to wherein he came from. To cast away this spirit, get rid of the ring of an Unserious man who engages you without plans of marriage after 2-3 years.

4) The Proud And Over-Holy-Holy Spirit.
That spirit that tells you to usually go domestic right away after provider in order that no man will speak to you, possibly he will meet you within the dream. Earlier than the brother would possibly put together to say good day, you've got lengthy long gone home. That spirit that tells you that each brother that greets you has an evil intention, so do not solve them. That spirit that does not will let you greet brothers except folks that strength wonderful vehicles. That spirit that tells you to be taking walks rapid whenever as though something is pursuing you from the returned. Properly, I do now not understand how you can strong out this spirit o, however, I suppose humility and being moderate could probably assist.

5) The Spirit Of Tribalism And Church Denomination.
That spirit that publicizes you need to marry someone out of your church or tribe. Due to the reality, you belong to the Catholic church, you need to now not marry a person who does no longer attend a Catholic church. You're an Anglican, you cannot marry a Catholic or pentecostal member. That horrific spirit that pronounces you're from the Igbo tribe so you should marry an Igbo person. You trust A Yoruba man cannot marry an Igbo or Hausa woman. This spirit has stored many sure, they entered menopause and are about to retire to the village. To forged out this spirit, you need to save you believing in stupid tribalism beliefs and some mindless church doctrines.

6)The Spirit of Am adorable and that I want to Marry A wealthy guy.
A few women accept as authentic with that once they're lovely, they need to marry a very rich guy. They consider splendor is what draws rich men. They will be too lovely to go into the residence of a bad guy and construct a higher destiny with him. They choose an already made wealthy man.

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Family / Major causes of miscarriage and how to avoid them. by Allsingles: 6:50pm On May 11, 2020
Rhesus Factor is an antigen that exists on the surface of red blood cells in most people (about 85% of humans). It is also referred to as Rh Factor. People who have the Rh have “positive” (+) blood types, such as A+, O+ or B+ are said to be rhesus Factor positive, while those who have the Rh “negative” (-) blood types, such as A–, O– or AB– are said to be rhesus factor negative . The “+” and “-” in front of the blood group is the Rhesus factor. Generally, we have A+, A–, B+, B–, AB+, AB–, O+ and O–. Rhesus factor is genetic in nature. It is inherited from the parents, emphatically the father.

How does Rhesus Factor cause miscarriage?

If a Rh– woman is impregnated by a man with Rh–, there wouldn’t be any problem. However, if a Rh– woman is impregnated by a man with Rh+, there would be a problem if the baby inherits Rh+ from the father . We have here what is medically called Rhesus Factor Incompatibility. The baby would obviously be Rh+. During child birth, once the baby’s Rh+ comes in contact with the woman Rh- during delivery, the antibodies are immediately activated by the woman’s body’s immune system.

The activated antibodies would see the new Rh+ as foreign body or a threat and consequently they would be at alert to attack and get rid of the foreign body. Unfortunately as such, after this particular child birth, the woman would keep having miscarriages because the activated antibodies would see subsequent Rh+ pregnancies as foreign bodies and would keep fighting and taking them off.

Women with Rh activated antibodies are said to be Rh sensitized and once these antibodies are activated , they can never be deactivated until the woman dies. Rh induced antibodies are activated in a Rh- woman by child birth, abortion, miscarriage and ectopic pregnancy.

If a Rh– woman commits an abortion for a Rh+ man and the antibodies are activated in her system, the woman might end up childless throughout her life except if she later marries another man with with the same Rh–. The possibility of a Rh– woman finding a Rh– man is slim as about 85% of human beings are Rh+. This is a warning to our young girls who commits abortions all in the name of boyfriend-girlfriend relationships.

If you’re a woman with Rh– and your fiance is Rh+, and you haven’t committed abortion for him and you don’t want to leave him, then, you need to take note of the following:

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Romance / 10 Relationship Viruses To Avoid If You Want To Have A Happy Home. by Allsingles: 9:12am On May 11, 2020
At the mention of the word VIRUS today, it brings fear and concern.
In fact, some might even start running for their dear lives. But it's good to
know that there are viruses everywhere.
We must also understand that no matter the type of virus computer virus, biological virus or even relationship virus, it has nothing good to offer. Avoid them at all costs.
All of us have a different vision when it comes to ideal relationships. While some of us look for a support system in a relationship some others want the Hollywood romance out of it. But whatever it is that we deem ideal there are some factors that are important in every relationship.
Here are 10 relationship viruses to avoid if you want to have a happy home.
There could be more but let's try to digest these first.

1) THE VIRUS OF COMPARE AND CONTRAST
The biggest crime you can subject your partner to is his comparison with a colleague, friend, acquaintance, family member or even worse your ex!
Doing so will not only make them feel insignificant and demeaned but will also make them feel as if they are not enough for you.

2) THE VIRUS OF LOOKING MORE AT YOUR PHONE MORE THAN AT YOUR PARTNER’S FACE.
Quality time spent together is the key of a healthy relationship.
Having each other’s company is very important in an attempt to build trust for a long-lasting relationship. Your conversations with your partner should not only be verbal but you should also connect on a mental and spiritual level and to do so it is very important that you commit all your senses to them while in their company.
Constant distractions such as cellphones can be a major turnoff for your partner.
Fidgeting with your phone while you’re in the middle of a conversation with them will irritate them and make them feel unimportant. Now you don’t want your partner to think you love your phone more than them right? That will be cruel.

3) THE VIRUS OF READING BUT NOT RESPONDING TO MESSAGES.
There was a time when lovers would write lengthy letters and wait months at a time for a reply. But now in this age of social media we don’t have the luxury of secrecy.
Not only does the tick on WhatsApp reveal the successful delivery of a message but also turns blue to make sure that the other person knows that you have read it.
A late reply in such a case will directly correspond to the arousal of doubt and suspicion on your partner’s part as they may feel that you are ignoring them. So, it is only wise to reply to your partner’s messages as soon as you get them. In case of being busy inform them but do not leave them hurt with the feeling of being ignored.
Do not give them any opportunity to feel like they don’t belong to your list of priorities. Do not hide your received receipt’ and last seen’.

4) THE VIRUS OF LOOKING TOO MUCH.
Your eyes made you feel connected with your partner right? Well the same eyes can halt your connection forever if they are not kept in check. While checking other people out in the presence of your partner might raise suspicions about your interest, checking others out in their absence will definitely raise suspicions about your loyalty.
The worst scenario is you getting caught ogling another guy/girl in public as it will surely cause trust issues and discomfort between the both of you.
It will also cause your partner to feel insecure and will damage your relationship. It will only be natural for them to think that if you are acting out this way in their presence then what in God’s name have you been doing in their absence.

5) THE VIRUS OF BROWSING THE PHONE OF YOUR PARTNER WITHOUT PERMISSION.
DO NOT I repeat DO NOT do this if you want your relationship to grow.
Such behavior will definitely cause trust issues and is one of the main reasons of present day breakup. Always keep in mind that you never own anybody no matter how close you are to them. They might be your partner but that does not entitle you to invade their personal space and probe into their stuff.
Learning to respect your partner’s privacy is of utmost importance. If you have any issue with your partner, have a face to face talk and confront them. But do not go behind their back. In such a scenario you lose either way.
If they are loyal, you lose their trust and also the guilt of betrayal is likely to haunt you in the future and if they are cheating on, then of course you have lost their faith.

6)THE VIRUS OF BEING A CONTROL FREAK.
Trying to control your partner is not fair.
Relationships are not meant for control.
Relationships are supposed to be based on equality and should not tilt more towards one partner more than the other. Remember that your partner is a grown up independent individual who has complete autonomy to take the decisions of his/her life.
You may suggest or advice but you can never exert or force them into anything. It is only childish and immature to assume that you have the right to dominate them.
Telling them to talk, walk, dress or think a certain way is not your place. If you do this or plan on doing this then you are definitely pushing your partner to run into someone else’s arms.

7) THE VIRUS OF BRINGING UP THEIR PAST.
There is always a reason why someone’s past is their past and not the present. Usually it is hard for people to recreate the past without feeling the agony or pain that comes with it.
If it’s a healthy past then sure it’s never bad to have a little trip down the happy old times but if it’s something that might make them feel uncomfortable then you should know better. Do not dig up negative feelings and bring up fights and issues you’ve had in the past.

cool THE VIRUS OF JEALOUSY. This is destined to eat away your relationship and render it hollow.
Jealousy besides being a horrible feeling is slow poisoning that will definitely leave you nowhere.
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Romance / Re: Can You Go Into A Blood Covenant With A Guy Or A Lady? (photos) by Allsingles: 9:07am On May 11, 2020
Old fashion.
Do you know that most of the people who did this covenant are not married to each other?
Some later realized that they are not compatible.
Romance / Re: See what these Girls did to this man(Adult pics) by Allsingles: 11:01pm On May 10, 2020
You that's following them, where are you following them to if not hellfire.

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Romance / See What A Woman Said About Men And Sex, by Allsingles: 12:53pm On May 10, 2020
Believe it or not women find it difficult to understand the reason why men love sex.
* If they want to help you, they will demand for sex.
* If they say they love you, they want sex.
* You mistakenly sleep over, they want sex.
* They want to borrow money from you, they want sex.
* They want to give you a job, they want sex.
* They want to give you a pass in your exams, they want sex.
First of all, you need to understand the system of men. They didn't ask for that because they didn't create themselves.
Do you know that 95% of healthy men wake up with an erection? Did they bargain for that? No!
Do you know that the penis has a mind of its own?
A man could be reading his Bible and his penis will just stand.
A man can be sleeping and wakes up with an erection.
A man could be sleeping, once you start rubbing the penis, it stands even when he is still asleep.
Have you ever asked yourself why men are not on periods, cramps or any bad moods? That's how God created them.
A man is naturally always ready for sex. Rub a man on his head, he already thinks you want sex.
Wink at him, he's already seeing you naked.
Wave at a man walking with his wife, he will loose focus.
This is nothing spiritual. It's not about, "ln Jesus Name or Holy Ghost Fire ooo".
That's why real churches do not allow ladies with short dresses to sit in front, because they will confuse the Pastor.
Men did not manufacture the high libido by themselves.
We are all created in God's image. The only man that overcame the sexual urge according to the good book was Jesus Christ. Joseph's own was that, he didn't just ran away, he fled!! Jesus is God and on top of that, He was very careful not to include a woman among His disciples.
So many great men have fallen because of sex. Do you think they wanted to?
Soldiers in the war front will develop the urge for sex. To show you how bad it is, so many soldiers were killed during Biafra war because a woman lured them inside bush.
David in the scriptures sent a woman's husband to the war front when he saw a woman washing outside. He was later told that it is the wife of his faithful servant who he has sent to war. He took the woman and had sex with her.
Do I need to tell you about Sampson?
Solomon and other Bible characters?
It only takes the grace of God and some level of discipline and maturity to curtail this animalistic instinct.
The way the man's body reacts to the sexual urge is not the same as a woman's body reacts to it.
How many great women have you heard messed up because of a dick? Few, or even non.
So next time a man misbehaves because of sex, don't see him as an animal. They are just responding to nature.
Don't be like, "I've lost the respect I had for you, "I thought you were responsible, so this was what you wanted?"
A 17 year old girl can make your father lose focus and collect the money meant for your school fees.
I pray you read this post with realistic understanding.
Men should also understand that it is not all erection that is meant for sex. They should learn to control their urge.
Men are wonderfully created, but
CONTROL YOURSELVES, OH YE MEN!!!

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Romance / Fundamental Reasons Of Delay In Marrige For Single Women Especially In Africa by Allsingles: 12:17pm On May 10, 2020
Women at the age of 18-24 years continually entice serious guys who are fully prepared to marry them, but at this age most of our ladies/sisters by no means want to pay attention anything about marriage.
I’m too young for that
Who cares about marriage
I’m centered on my books
I need to accumulate a few money first
Marriage is complete of problems
Those are a number of few statements girls speak of at their adolescents age.
But those ladies will be having serious and series of s8x courting with small boys of their age, because at that age, they constantly have excessive rate of boys, guys and men coming for them, but they may favor to choose those boys as opposed to the real men who need to marry them. They may be still younger to marry proper, however they're no longer younger to have s3x with boys.

No trouble, God is watching you
At age of 25-27, mother and father will begin asking them the following questions;
How some distance?
Don’t you've got any individual yet ?
Are you not planning to get married ?
Are you seeing that all your pals are becoming married ?
Don’t you already know you are becoming old?
However thoughts you, dad and mom best see the out of doors in their daughters, now not understanding there's not anything left inner.
With some of these questions with the aid of her personal mother and father, she will be able to now be thinking and asking herself such things as: My associates are marrying,
Does it suggest am vintage sufficient to marry?
Hmmm, how must i go about it
My boyfriends aren't critical approximately asking my hand in marriage
They're no longer even prepared to marry yet
Nicely, God is aware of the best. I accept as true with in God.
See oooh…!, she has began placing her blame on God. “God’s time is the excellent” good enough, I agree for argument sake.
At age 27-30 they now begin looking for guys to marry not boys to have s3x and play with again.
They may begin seeking out serious dating with the intention to cause marriage, however alas, at this age of 27-30 not all men could be asking their hand in marriage.
You'll see them forcing themselves to marry a man who don’t need to marry them. Please we beg you, go away us by myself.
No unmarried man at age 27-30 will like to marry a lady of 30-35. Now you listen the sisters say age does no longer depend.

My sister, it subjects a lot.
Consider buying a rotten tomato for $10 and your buddy buys a clean one for $7. Yes, that’s the way it looks like in marriage too.
Keep in mind you rejected guys due to the fact you observed you have been too younger. What makes you believe you studied your old age does no longer rely to us?
That’s why a few guys go returned to their villages to locate young female to marry whilst the town ones are not critical approximately marriage and those which can be severe appear to be vintage for them.
At age 30-35, her friends will ask her:
Why are you no longer married yet via this age of yours?

Is it not getting too past due for you ?
You'll listen her asking you some silly questions like…
Are you God?
Or do you want to marry me?
Is it a criminal offense to be single at 30 or 35?
Did I see a person willing to marry me however I refused?
God knows the high-quality for anyone please.
At age 30-35 they will begin praying like by no means before, shifting from one church to any other. If she’s a Muslim, she can start praying night time prayers, fasting and dressing modestly.
In case you ask her for dating, she might burst out to mention
My brother, I’m now not like them.
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