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Romance / Say These Prayers Before Having Sex by Allsingles: 10:35pm On Aug 28, 2020
Lord as I am about to make love to my Woman, please give me the energy that will convert my Penis into a rod that is strong enough to path the fleshy paradise.

Lord, please make her breast my bread of love, so that I will feed on them till I thirst no more.

Father, I know that narrow is the path that leads to haven, as I penetrate, please guide me with your wisdom and understanding.

Your word says that it is not by power nor by might, please give me the wisdom to make love in such a way that she will be satisfied, and I will still wake up for work tomorrow morning.

Lord, you are the one that created her, the truth is that I cannot come and kill myself because I want to satisfy her sexual need. Where my strength fails, please comfort her with your word.

In all, please give me all the skills I need to make her feel loved, complete, and satisfied, in such a way that she will call me her 'lord', just as Sarah called Abraham my 'lord'.

Lord, you said that I should call you in time of need; truth is, I need you in this bed, because as I adore her beauty, my body is already shaking, and I have a feeling that she may want me to last for one hour in bed.
Father lord, remember your son, this is not easy, but with you, I believe that I will succeed.
Thank you for answering my prayers... Amen.
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Romance / Different Attitudes That Can Destroy Your Marriage Or Relationship. by Allsingles: 9:18pm On Aug 28, 2020
1)CHEATING.
The number one attitudes that can destroy your marriage or relationships is cheating. If someone cheats on you, most likely, you are not going to be with that person any longer. This is the most common thing that causes people break up, but it can be taken care of if you and your partner are faithful to each other.

2) NO COMMUNICATION.
When you are in a relationship, you have to actually talk to the person that you are in a relationship with. Bottling up feelings and even pushing everything down isn’t the greatest idea. Typically this leads to resentment and leads to a huge, blow. If you are looking to not repeat this mistake that destroys Marriage or relationships, then make sure you communicate with your partner always.

3) NOT ACKNOWLEDGING ONE ANOTHER.
Sometimes, when you are really deep in the midst of a bad relationship, you don’t even acknowledge one another. You basically are just existing together, without any real communication. If you live together, it’s almost like you are roommates instead of lover.

4) LACK OF INTIMACY.
Now, I am not just talking about love making but I am talking about a true connection. You don't have to just communicate with your partner, but you...https://allsinglesandmarried..com/2020/08/10-different-attitudes-that-can-destroy.html
Romance / The Values Men Really Want To See In A Woman. by Allsingles: 3:03pm On Aug 28, 2020
1. A woman who respects herself and hence, respects him
For men, respect is a huge deal. A woman shows respect for a man when she appreciates and acknowledges what he does for her and when she communicates with him as an adult without eye-rolling, sarcasm, or name-calling.
2. A feminine, self-confident woman
Not a witch with a whip who thinks self-confidence is a synonym of arrogance neither a needy girl who can't make any decisions on her own. Don't confuse being sexy with being feminine, either. If your only goal is to be sexy, you will only attract men who want to have sex with you. A feminine woman is always sexy but a sexy woman is not always feminine.
3. A woman who is playful and kind
This is an authentic woman who isn't afraid of just being herself. We live in a society that is obsessed with uniformity and everybody looking the same. A woman who dares to stand out, and can do it without being disrespectful to others, is attractive.
4. A woman who appreciates him and isn't afraid of telling him so.Men thrive on admiration. Women need to remember this.
5. A happy woman who already has a life of her own that she enjoys.
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Romance / How To Know If You Are Good In Bed. by Allsingles: 12:44pm On Aug 28, 2020
If you are amazing in bed and make her feel things she has rarely felt (that you know her so well you can please her sexually) then she will be much, much more emotional and less in control around you. She won't be thinking rationally she'll be very available and open about how crazy she is for you.

For that, I would ask you to see if these things came across your way:

•Orgasms: Not your’s, hers. Women can orgasm several times while men generally do just once. Hence, it’s all a number game here. If you are making her cum numerous times before releasing yourself, you are good!

•Compliments: Both, during the act and outside the act. Hence, compliments about the act would definitely mean you did something right.

•The talk after the act: I know, we men love to drift to sleep once we are done. However, women on the other hand light up! Hence, that is a good opportunity to have a good talk and find out how the session was for her.

•HER spots: We all have our sexually-active spots. For some it may be neck, for some it may be feet. Since sex is the act of giving pleasure too, you might want to figure out what excites your woman in bed. Having a list of such items with the list of her most erogenous zones will come in handy.

And finally, I love the people who are vocal about their choices and feedback. They make it so easy to understand and improve. If your woman is of the shy types, you can try and start being vocal about the sex related things yourself. This would give her space and encouragement to open up with her side of opinions, which would benefit you too. But remember, do not rush. Take it slow, enjoy the pace.
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Romance / 11 Parts Of A Woman’s Body That Can Turn Her On Sexually by Allsingles: 7:01pm On Aug 27, 2020
Dear man, Knowing the parts of her body that can turn on her on is important if you want to improve the experience in the bedroom.

1. Sucking a woman’s fingers can turn her on. Creatively using your tongue can double the passion.

2. Gently running your tongue along a woman’s stomach while also dropping some kisses can turn most women on greatly. The passion increases even more as you move southside (if you know what I mean).

3. Giving her a nice foot massage in a very romantic environment while some good music plays in the background can turn most women on.

4. The palms are very sensitive and are sensual zones for most women. Gently rubbing your index finger against her palm is enough to turn most women on.

5. A woman’s inner thigh is another part of her body that can set a woman on fire. Gently kissing and moving your fingers across her thighs can drive most women crazy.

6. Most men definitely know this. A woman’s breasts and nipples are regions you shouldn’t neglect if you want to drive her crazy. Gently caressing her breast and softly kissing her areola will set most women on fire.

7. Light and gentle kisses on a woman’s neck can drive most women crazy. A woman’s neck is an erogenous zone in a woman’s body that shouldn’t be neglected. Kissing her neck while gently breathing on her neck will do the magic.

8. A woman’s lips can turn her on greatly if properly kissed. The lips are blessed with lots of nerve endings and are an important part of a woman’s body you need to focus on. Running your fingers gently along a woman’s lips can also set her on fire.

9. The small of her back is a very important region in a woman’s body you shouldn’t forget. Gently kissing and massaging the small of her back will turn most women on.

10. A woman’s ear lobe is another sensitive region in a woman’s body. Gently kissing and sucking a woman’s ear lobe is enough to drive most women crazy.

11. A woman’s clitoris is packed with over 8,000 nerve endings and is the pleasure headquarters for women. Gently moving the finger in a circular motion on the clitoris is a good way to start. Adjust the speed according to her excitement levels.
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Romance / Types Of People You Should Never Tolerate In A Relationship Or Marriage. by Allsingles: 5:42am On Aug 25, 2020
It is always important in a relationship to be with someone that has the same mindset with you, if you want the relationship to be successful. There are some kind of people that will make you to regret ever being in a relationship.

Check below the list for the kind of people you shouldn't tolerate in your relationship if you want to have a good and successful relationship or marriage.

1) Someone who can't support your dreams. If you want to have a successful relationship or marriage, you shouldn’t tolerate a lover that always gets jealous of your success and as well doesn’t support your goals for greatness. A good lover will always encourage you to chase your dreams and help you achieve them. He or she will always stand by you, whether in the rain or sunshine. Other than this, don't tolerate it.

2) A lover who always or sometime uses direspectful languages on you.
You should never tolerate someone who uses disrespectful languages on you, if you desire to have a successful relationship or marriage. Your partner should not be fond of calling you names or put you down even during a heated argument. A partner who truly respects you will not use disrespectful languages on you. For example, During argument, your he or she calls you a demon, or a he goat or a she goats, brainless etc. It's abnormal to hear such words from someone who had several times profess love to you. This type of person shouldn't be in a relationship or marriage with you.

3) A lover who doesn’t prioritize you. You deserve someone who can make you feel like a king or queen, or someone who can convince you that you are special and you are the best in the world, if you want to have a successful relationship. A good lover needs to prioritize you over other things that has to do with the relationship. Never tolerate a partner who makes you feel like you can't come first in their lives. Is a clear sign that they are not fully with you in the relationship or marriage and for you to be save from heartache, you should excuse yourself from such person.

4) Someone that doesn't listen to your words. You should not tolerate someone who makes you feel like your opinion doesn’t matter, someone who doesn't value your sense of belonging, someone who doesn't care about your voice, someone who doesn't need your view on anything, always concluding without knowing whether it will hurt you or not.

If you are truly loved and valued too, he or she would listen to you and..https://4evertogeda..com/2020/08/6-types-of-people-you-should-never.html
Romance / My Heart Is Bleeding In Pain, Please Help. by Allsingles: 3:06pm On Aug 24, 2020
I was 24 when started dating as a virgin.
My boyfriend had sex with me after 2 months of dating.

Immediately after then, I met another man and gave in again. Now, I was dating two men at the same time and having sex with the two of them.

Both of them cherished me so much. The first cherished me because he was the one who deflowered me. The second cherished me because he thinks was also the one who deflowered me too.

It wasn't my intention to deceive him though,
having sex with him was my second of having that in life and one thing that cut my attention was that I experience blood flow the day we had fun together, and it wasn't my menstruation period.

I continued in the immorality and wayward lifestyle and after three months, I got pregnant. And i am sure, the second guy was the one who got me pregnant due to the timing.

So, I went to tell him I was pregnant, we both went for test and it was confirmed that I was 9 weeks pregnant. Instantly He told me to get rid of it. This is what I have never experienced in my life, "How dare you tell me such a thing, I don't want to die, just take responsibility, Okay!" he refused to pick my call and I was facing depression due to that and also avoiding the first man.

The day the first man came to challenge me, it was a great surprise. He knew I was pregnant and he had gone to see my mum behind me. I stayed away from my mum to my sister place. I saw him together with my mum and came in to my sister place, I couldn't say a word. He begged my sister to forgive him for not doing it the proper way.

He said, he knew I was pregnant almost a month now, and promise to take good care of me and the baby. Right in my mind, I knew he was not the owner of the pregnancy but I was dumb and had some mixture of happiness and sadness at the same time.

Marriage plans started immediately, he married me when I was 7 months pregnant, he was such a wonderful man. As for the owner of the pregnancy, he was no where to be found again. I gave birth to my baby and he look exactly like the owner.

My husband job was doing very very fine. I had another baby, this time around, this one look exactly like my husband. I had another twins for my husband again. Now I am 32 and I had 4 babies.

One day, I saw a message on my phone through Facebook messenger, it was the man that had my first son. He said he wanted to greet me. I blocked him straight away, said to myself my husband must not see that face.

I don't know how he got my number, he called and mentioned his name, I blocked his number. My first born is now 10, how could he be calling now, I don't want to engage him at all.

We finished our building and we moved from Lagos to Ogun state. My husband had his own car, and he had promised to get me a car. He called me one day that I should meet him in Lagos. I didn't know what he was up to. He left home 6am now and this is just 8am, I set out for Lagos around 2pm, I was in the last bus that will take me to the Location at Ikeja.

Behold, the father of my first son tapped my shoulder in the bus. My heart bled! My mind skipped. All I said was; good afternoon sir and kept mute. Few minute the bus stopped. I went my way this man keep following me too. My husband was standing right at the bus stop holding a surprise car key.

Baby, this is your car key and that is your car. I was dump. I looked back and didn't see him again, I began to cry uncontrollably. This amazes my husband and was strange to him. I got over the incidence that day, my excuse was, I was too happy.

Now what should I do, am dying inside me always. I am 35 now and my husband is 40. We are done having children, I don't know what to do, i was planning to confess to my husband but some thing happened, we both listened to a programme on the radio which the story was similar to mine.

My husband called into the program, told the presenter that if he is the one, he will inflict everlasting injury on the lady and divorce her. I was surprised to hear that, I said "Honey, you're a Christian" you don't need to do this, he said "baby, Jesus will understand". I didn't talk much so he does not suspect anything. Am living in constant fear and guilt. I don't know what to do.

Please, my mind is troubled, kindly advice me on BEST way to go about it. God bless you....
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Romance / Should A Lady Propose Marriage To A Man? by Allsingles: 8:06am On Aug 22, 2020
Yesterday, I made a post with a picture of a woman who was kneeling down and asking the man "will you marry me?". I got quite a number of responses of those that supported and opposed such move.

However, this is my response to my yesterday's post on the subject.

TO THE MEN.
Any man who allows a woman to propose marriage to him, has lost his position as a man if he accepts the proposal. He has exchanged his position of headship even before the marriage comes into being. He shouldn't call himself a man again. He has sold his birthright like Esau and exchanged his glory for shame. He should hide his face in shame when the roll call for men is made. It is a disgrace to God's original ordination for him.

TO THE LADIES.
Any lady that proposes marriage to a man has lost her dignity, honour and value. She has traded them on the altar of desperation. She has demonstrated lack of virtue and has lost her sense of worth. She is nothing but a desperate lady seeking for a man's hand in marriage. It is an error by divine and natural order.

God, the creator of the ends of the Earth laid the standard when He said in His word, "He that finds a wife, finds a good thing (Proverbs 18:22). It is for the man to find a wife and not the other way round. A woman is to be found and not her finding a man. All she is to do is to provide an approachable or conducive atmosphere for the man to come to her. Her part is to make herself available for the man to reach her. If she does otherwise, then she will have to continue to play the role of a man in that marriage.

It is a total break down of divine order and enthronement of error for a woman to propose marriage to a man. I am not talking about what trends in the modern world but the order God gave to us as men. God's order cannot be varied by any man and that is where every child of God should stand.

Wherever and whenever this happens, it cannot be of God. Say I said so.
God bless everybody that contributed to the topic richly in Jesus name, amen....https://4evertogeda..com/2020/08/15-characters-you-must-have-if-you-want.html
Romance / Re: [HELP] She Packed My Sperm & Went Inside Bathroom by Allsingles: 2:05am On Aug 22, 2020
You are finished.
Just wait for the results.
Romance / Top Ways To Control Your Sexual Desires, No.2 And 6 Should Be Taken Seriously by Allsingles: 2:00am On Aug 22, 2020
Are you the type that finds it difficult to control your sexual desires and impulses when it arises within us at a very fast pace? Then this is for you. Looking for quick solutions to get rid of them should not be a problem. Although, those solutions might not last long, because it is not possible to control sexual desires through a quick fix, but you need to understand that it requires thorough understanding, a lot of patience, internal stability, and most importantly, a steady commitment.

These feelings can sometimes interfere with your daily life and relationships, sometimes in a very damaging way. Finding ways to control your sexual urges may help you improve your quality of life, your relationships, and your efficiency, but it can be challenging to figure out where to start.

For starters, you need to start by distancing yourself from those things that triggers the desires in the first place. Try so hard not to look at images, watch videos, or read stories that are of a sexual nature. When you engage in any of these activities, they cause the multiplication of sexual impulses by tenfold, making it harder to control the desires.

Avoid any eye contact with people of the opposite or same sex (for those that are into that) and avoid touching at all costs. Avoid the company of people or friends that encourage sexuality, even jokingly. You never know when you might agree with them.

From two different studies by Mayo Clinc and Dadabahgwan, this list of tips and tricks we have gathered will help control sexual desires or impulses as soon as they arise:

1. Try so hard to interrupt the link of sexual thoughts as soon as they arise in the mind. You can do this by changing the activity you are doing, changing your focus, thinking about some other work.

2. This point had me cracking but then, I totally agree with it. Picture the human body without skin. It is not a pretty sight. Imagine seeing blood and bones. This practice is done not to create hatred, but to understand and get the real picture of the human body, so that we do not get attracted to it.

3. If you find yourself making make eye contact with anyone who arouses impulses of sexuality within you, you should immediately look away and change the inner visual. Otherwise, the sexual feeling with develop. Therefore, it is best to eradicate it by asking for forgiveness immediately.

4. Leave your environment. You should learn to step away from any environment where you feel it's difficult to control your urges. If you are at home and feeling a compulsion to masturbate, for example, try taking a quick walk to the store or mall. Walk down the road and back. If you can’t leave your current environment, if you’re at work, try talking to another coworker or taking a short break.

5. Imagine the negative consequences of this behavior and make a list of it all. This may help to stave off sexual desires as well. Write down all of the risks and possible consequences of acting on your behavior. Carry the list with you at all times and review it when you experience a sexual desire.

6. And this, try abstain from drugs or alcohol. For those who take alcohol, I’m sure you’d agree with this. Drugs and alcohol can cause you to lose your inhibitions, including your sexual control. Stay far away from parties and scenarios you think might be problematic.

7. Get rid of stress. Sometimes compulsive thoughts tend to creep up on you when you are feeling overwhelmed and stressed (I know this for a fact). If you find this to be true for you with your sexual urges, figure out ways you can live a less stressful life.

8. Keep yourself busy. This helps keep your mind preoccupied and focused on things other than sex. Take up a new hobby or fill your social calendar with activities with friends. Like me, I watch horror movies. Lol!

9. For the spiritual folks, get a spiritual perspective. If you are worried about controlling your sexual urges because of the faith you practice, consider seeking guidance from a spiritual leader in your faith community. Consider talking to your pastors or youth leader in your place of worship.

10. And finally, you should see your doctor. Consider having an exam to rule out any physical problems that may be causing your sexual urges. You might not believe this but sometimes, illness or conditions can upset hormones and can make you feel hypersexual in some way and... https://4evertogeda..com

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Jobs/Vacancies / The Law Of Poverty And The Law Of Wealth. by Allsingles: 3:43pm On Aug 21, 2020
There are 2 types of Laws of Finance:

1) LAW OF POVERTY:
This law states that work alone or work under someone and remain poor for the rest of your life.

95% of people in the world are living under this law.

The people under this law make use of their credentials, they have ego, they seek for job, they have someone called boss, they receive salary which is fixed amount.

S.A.L.A.R.Y
S= Small
A= Amount
L= Limiting
A= And
R= Restricting
Y= You

These people are called the working class. They always look for job.

J.O.B
J= Just
O= Over
B= Broke

2) LAW OF WEALTH:
This law states that work with a team or group of people and remain wealthy forever, it is just 5% of people in the....https://seos4all..com/2020/08/the-law-of-poverty-and-law-of-wealth.html
Romance / 12 Things You Must Know Before Getting Married. by Allsingles: 3:12pm On Aug 21, 2020
Marriage is only for those that are ready for it, mentally, physically, emotionally and spiritually too.

Before you conclude about getting married to your sweetheart, it's very much important that you consider these things and get prepared.

1) No matter how neat and smart your spouse maybe, you should remember that one day he or she, will make use of the toilet and may forget to flush it well. Yes and will see his or her faeces. Does that sound nice? Don't be pushed to move in anger because of what you saw but calmly call his or her attention and let the right thing be done.

2) As much as you both will smell nice to occasions with glamourous apparels, sometimes you may wake up to their bad breaths and body odour too. Your lover can't always smell nice. Have you tried to kiss each other in the morning before brushing your teeth? Do you like the smell and the taste of the kiss's?

3) Your wife during courtship used to wear her best panties to your place and you are always moved with happiness whenever you see her in it. In marriage, believe me you are going to see more of ..https://allsinglesandmarried..com/2020/08/12-things-you-must-know-before-getting.html
Romance / 10 Confirmed Fact About Sex And Why You Should Have Sex Often. by Allsingles: 7:49am On Aug 12, 2020
1 . Having sex relieves headaches. Every time you make love , it releases the tension in the veins of the brain.

2 . A lot of sex can clear the stuffy nose. Sex is a natural antihistamine . It helps to fight against asthma and spring allergies .

3 . Making love is a spectacular beauty treatment. Scientists have discovered that when a woman has sex , it produces a large amount of estrogen that gives shine and softness to hair.

4 . Sex is one of the safest sports. Make love often strengthens the muscles of male and female body. It’s more enjoyable than swimming 20 laps in the pool and there is not need special shoes!

5 . Make love slowly , smoothly and in a relaxed way reduces the chances of suffering dermatitis, skin rashes and acne . The sweat produced cleanses the pores and makes your skin glow .

6 . Lovemaking can burn all the calories you have accumulated during the romantic dinner before bedtime.

7 . Sex is a divine remedy for depression. It releases endorphins into the bloodstream , creating a state of euphoria and leaving women and men with the feeling of being unique.

8 . Sex is the tranquilizer and muscle relaxant to a safer world . It is a thousand times more effective than Valium .

9 . Sexually active body releases more pheromones. .

10 . Kissing each day will keep you more time away from the dentist . Kissing is an art which makes the cleaner teeth and saliva reduces the amount of acid that causes tooth decay . This prevention eliminates many problems , in addition to offering a breath constantly renewed orgasms......https://4evertogeda..com/2020/08/your-lover-will-definitely-cheat-on-you.html

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Romance / 23 Sex Rules if you want to enjoy sex by Allsingles: 2:38am On Aug 12, 2020
1. Do not have sex with another

2. Do not flirt with another because that is how unfaithfulness begins

3. Do not fake orgasms. Don't lie to me that I am good in bed, give me a chance to do you better to take you there

4. Do not insist on having sex with me if you don't take care of my heart. Sex begins by how you treat me when we have clothes on

5. Do not masturbate yet you have me. Make use of me

6. As you expect me to do stuff on you, do stuff on me too

7. Do not go around telling your friends about our sex life whether it is great or average. Keep it special. Keep it between us

8. Do observe hygiene. Take showers, smell good, get rid of odour, make use of body sprays, do not repeat underwear. Cleanliness adds to the sexiness

9. Have an affair with me. Yes, be naughty, kinky, daring with me

10. Kiss me anytime. You don't need my permission

11. When you want sex, ask from me. Touch me where you know I get fired up. You need it I got it

12. Explore my body. Do not copy paste what you read in magazines on me. I am unique. Study me

13. Send me naughty messages on the phone, when we chat. I like it

14. Do not fuel your lust for another

15. Keep no secrets from me. Affairs thrive on secrets

16. Let me know your close friends, especially those of the opposite gender. Don't get yourself in private and secluded places with them

17. Do not use your phone to entertain improper chats and threats to our marriage bed. Keep our marriage bed honourable

18. Do not go to places where you will get tempted to fall

19. Let us not hide our issues behind sex. There is more to our marriage than sex

20. Tell me what sexual stuff you want me to do for you. Your wish is my command

21. Do not hold back your sexiness or think sex is evil. Give me all your pleasure

22. Dress up for sex. Wear sensual lingerie and attractive underwear

23. Let's not call it sex, let's call it love making. That way, we are reminded it is all about intimacy, not orgasms......https://4evertogeda..com/2020/08/your-lover-will-definitely-cheat-on-you.html

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Romance / Your Lover Will Definitely Cheat On You, If You Don't Take Care Of These Things. by Allsingles: 2:16am On Aug 12, 2020
Just like the headline said, there are some things you must take care of, whether in a relationship or marriage before concluding that you have found that perfect person.

Before you think about getting married with that special someone in your heart, it's important to think about these things because it has a lot to do with the happiness you will have in your marriage.

And if you are married and your lover is cheating on you, these are the major reasons why he or she is cheating on you. Forget about lust and lack of self-control when it comes to cheating, there are major thing that causes cheating.

1) When you are not married to someone who has the same lifestyle with you, definitely there will cheating.

Take for example, your husband likes going to clubs every weekend but you don't, there is possibility that he will cheat on you with so many ladies both in and out of the club. The same applies to the ladies.

2) Libido Drive. It is important to get married with someone who has the same level of libido with you. Getting married with the opposite of this, will encourage your partner to have no other choice but to be secretly getting the...https://4evertogeda..com/2020/08/your-lover-will-definitely-cheat-on-you.html
Romance / The Sweetest Sex At Home by Allsingles: 6:59pm On Aug 07, 2020
"Send me a photo of your nipples" the other
man sent her a message on WhatsApp.
She walked to the bathroom. Locked the
door then strapped down her night dress.
Took a photo of her breasts then sent to the
other man.

"Tomorrow you will get to touch these" she
texted the other man.

She got out of the bathroom smiling then
got inside the bed where her husband was.
Tomorrow she will be going to finally meet
the man she's been flirting with. This man
has promised her great sex, sex out of this
world. She complained to the other man
about how her husband is weak in sex, a
one minute man. This other man promised
to sex her real good.

She was excited. She really wants sex. Good
sex. This other man sent her a picture of his
penis.
She held her phone close, saw the penis
picture.

"Who is that?" Asked her husband.
"It's Karo. She is confirming that we are
going for a kesha at her church tomorrow
night" she told her husband.

It was a lie. She is not going for a kesha
with Karo tomorrow, she is going to meet
up with the other man in a hotel to have
mind blowing sex that no one has to know.
"Let me text her to tell her I will meet her at
six in the evening" she lied to her husband.
"Say hello to her" her innocent husband
said.
"OK" she said.
"That is the biggest penis I have ever seen. I
can't wait for it to slide and cum inside me.
You are making me hot. Keep him warm for
me" she texted the other man.
She placed her fingers between her legs. She
had shaved. Ready for tomorrow's sex.
Her husband started touching her, leaning
towards her to kiss her and make love to
her, his wife.
She pulled away. Denied her husband her
body.
"I am not in the mood" she said.
"I love you" her husband said and turned
the other way and slept.

She felt a sting in her heart.
What is she doing?
She has turned into a liar.
Her marriage is falling apart by her lusting
after another man. How is she to work on
her marriage if she is focusing on the penis
of another man?
She stared at the wall. She couldn't sleep.
So tomorrow after she has mind blowing
sex, what next? This man wants to sex her
even if it means cheating on her husband.
He just wants sex, nothing more. How many
other women is he sexing and sending
pictures of his penis to? If she gets
pregnant, he will not want to be a father.
This other man doesn't even care about her
dreams, her fears, her children, her future,
her relationship with God. All he wants is
her vagina, butt and nipples. He doesn't
bother knowing her heart.

Her husband on the other hand is the
sweetest man in the world. He married her.
Is a great father. He is loving. He supports
her. Strives to make her happy. Thoughtful.
Good looking. His sex may not last long but
he makes her feel loved. She has a good
husband.

She cried. Asked God for forgiveness.
She picked up her phone. Deleted the penis
picture on her phone.

"I can't do this any more. What we have
been doing is wrong. I love my husband. I
will not cheat on him. Do not contact me any
more. I want nothing to do with you" she
texted the other man and blocked his
number so that he can't call or text her.
She switched her phone off.

Removed her night dress.
Took her fingers to her husband's nipples
and started rubbing them.
Her husband woke up.
She took her fingers down his penis.
Removed his penis from his boxer shorts.
He started getting hard.
"I want you" she whispered to his ear.
He got really hard as she stroke his penis.
She sat on him and made love to him.
When she sensed he was about to orgasm,
she stood up and showed to him her
breasts.
She then gently came down on her bed, laid
on her back.
"Make love to me" she requested.
He got up and went on top of her.
They made sweet love.
She made him relax and he lasted longer.
She helped him hold his hardness for longer.
Sweet orgasm, they both had.
That was the sweetest pleasure they have
ever had as husband and wife.
She has never felt that good before. They
had learned each other's body better than
before.
"I love you" she told her husband.
"I love you too" said her husband.
"I really love you. Thankyou for being such
an amazing husband" she added.

"You are in a good mood" her husband said
smiling.
"I am a blessed wife, that's why. I have
decided to stay at home tomorrow night. I
will stay at home and pray with you and our
marriage. Let's have a kesha as husband
and wife" she said.

"I love the sound of that my love" her
husband said.
They kissed and slept peaceful and happy.

The greatest sex is not outside your
marriage, it is at home, with your spouse.
The kind of sex that comes with love, joy,
peace, fulfilment no regrets,and no guilt.
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Romance / Secret Things Ladies Do When They Are Desperate For Marriage. by Allsingles: 2:17pm On Aug 06, 2020
Have you ever thought about the actions of most ladies who are ripe for marriage but are still single? Your girlfriend who is still waiting for your marriage proposal, believe me or not, she has done some things secretly in order to convince you both spiritually and physically that she is the one you must marry.

In order to make you understand better, below are some of the things single ladies do in secret, when they are desperate for marriage.

1) Taking your name to her pastors. It will be hard for your girlfriend to tell you how she had taken your name to her pastors, who will pray for her, who will prophesy to her that you are her husband and you are the only man that her future is tied to. This is not for you to prosper but for you not to have any other woman in mind apart from her, and then finally come and marry her.

2) Your girlfriend will not tell you how she had down fasting and prayers with your name, with red candles in the night, just to convince your spirit into getting married to her. Most times she will remove her clothes while praying these prayers.

3) Taking your name to the shrine. Your girlfriend will never tell you how many times she has taken your name to a shrine. Remember, a shrine simply means; A holy or sacred place wholly dedicated to a specific deity, ancestors, heroes, martyr, saints, or similar figure of awe and respect, at which the said personality is venerated or worshipped.

A shrine can also mean; A case, box, or....https://4evertogeda..com/2020/08/5-things-ladies-do-in-secret-when-they.html
Romance / If Your Woman Is Doing These Things, Please Marry Her. by Allsingles: 9:19am On Aug 05, 2020
Most times, when a man approach a woman for a relationship, he will look out for so many things and then conclude within himself that the lady is a good woman for marriage.

Wife material is not facially written but can be discovered through the characters of the woman.

If the woman in your life today or the one you will meet tomorrow has these characters listed below, then she's a wife material, she is good for marriage.

1) Any woman who doesn't double date, who doesn't think about what she will only benefit from you but what will benefit the both of you as lovers, marry her because she is one of a kind.

2) A woman who doesn't tell you lies about herself, her background, her future and her sources of income. It's a clear sign that she wants to be with you. Consider taking her home because she is a wife material.

3) A woman who doesn't have the attitude of gossiping with neighbors, don't waste her time to gossip about someone's life challenge. Don't gossip with your name when together with her friends, doesn't brag about what you could not do that other men are doing for their women. It's a clear sign that she is a good woman for marriage.

4) A woman who can financially stand with you, spend her money for your good, not minding what her friends and family will say about it, give her more of your love and marry her because her type is rare.

5) A woman who can stand with you, face financial challenges with you, sacrifice for you either through a business or sponsoring your...https://4evertogeda..com/2020/08/if-your-woman-is-doing-these-things.html

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Romance / How Can We Settle This Matter Now? by Allsingles: 6:59am On Jul 29, 2020
My mother in-inlaw caught me and my husband making love in our bedroom and my hubby was busy licking my private part, in fact she saw everything and when she couldn't continue watching it she shouted "ABOMINATION" that's how we saw that she really caught us,

Since then she don't talk to me again, she don't eat my food or take my cup,
Anytime i cook for the house she will go outside and get food for herself,

Her son is not in support of her at all so yesterday he told her to go back to the village and instantly gave her money which she did today without even weaving me goodbye but this is the woman i loved a lot the truth to be told she never hurts me in anyway before...

But i thinking the incidents she saw hurts her a lot, i wanted to apologize to her but my hubby said i should never do that, bcs anyhow he made love to his wife is none of her mother business

But am not happy in myself at all, I don't no how to get her love back
What if she tell this to the young sibling of mum husband I can't think far...

NOW THE QUESTION IS;
If u are the lady what will u do?
If u are her husband what will u do?

Read more at... https://4evertogeda..com
Romance / I Was 9 Years When My Father Raped Me. by Allsingles: 9:49am On Jul 28, 2020
Read her story.
I am 22 years old. I was just 9 when my biological father raped me and that's how I lost my virginity. This led to my parents divorce and i grew up with trust issues because of that incident.

After secondary school, I learnt how to make beads and bake, I was still an apprentice when I met my boyfriend. I was 19 then, we loved each other so much and I told him everything about me, everything except how I lost my virginity because I felt he'll leave me if I tell him, little did I know that my best friend had eyes for him and she told him everything he needs to know.

Suddenly he started ignoring me, someone that would always call me at least twice everyday, no more texts, he even blocked me on Whatsapp and blacklisted my number. One day I decided to visit him at home just so I'll know what's wrong, I met my best friend there, she was even wearing one of his t shirts, I cried home and later moved on.

Fast forward to 2018, I met this guy who's really into me, I felt happy once again, we started dating after some time and he was just perfect, or so I thought he started talking about marriage and I decided to tell him everything about my past, the day I told him, that was the day he changed completely, he avoided me and not up to 2 weeks later, he started going out with another girl, I was devastated, I went to his boutique just so we can talk about the problem, he gave me the beating of my life in presence of his new girl, I woke up at the hospital.

Someone that would not even let me stress myself before o... I still love this guy, he hasn't even told me it's over between us, but then, I received a call from an international number on New year's day, my ex is now in Germany and he has been apologising for everything he did before he left, now he wants me back.

Please I am confused, should I go back to my ex? or should I wait and hope things get better between my boyfriend and I? Or should I just forget about both of them, please I need your advice.

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Romance / The Hardest Part Of Marriage Nobody Will Tell You. by Allsingles: 10:31pm On Jul 26, 2020
Marriage is sweet especially when you examine it from a far distance of those who have successful marriage or the lovey-dovey of newlywed couples, but when you enter into it, you will discover that what is behind number eight is more than number nine.

Many people prepare so well for the romantic part of marriage especially the wedding, but very few groom themselves for the realities they will face in marriage. Do you know that the hardest part of marriage plays a dominant role in marriage than the romantic part of marriage?

However, what breaks marriage into pieces is not the lack of romance as so many people thought, but what breaks it, is the couple's inability to withstand the hardest part of marriage which comes with romance.

There are some hard things about marriage that nobody has ever told you, but I will share 5 of them with you here now.

1) Staying faithful.
It's easy to abstain from cheating as a singles person if you have not tasted how sweet it is to make love with opposite gender, and it is very difficult to stay faithful in marriage when you are denied the sweetness of love making by your spouse for no good reason.

The temptation to be Infidelity in marriage is greater than the temptation to make love with your boyfriend while you are not yet married.
The reason is that you now know how sweet and awesome it is to make love with your partner. Seduction would come from those who are willing to give you or have a fling with you. In some cases, when your spouse becomes cold on love making, there are several others who want to give you a hot and sizzling love making without wasting time if only you can give them go ahead.

You need more discipline to stay faithful in marriage to your spouse emotionally, and the love making part of it, especially in this century where cheating has become a tradition.
If you have not been faithful to your partner especially in love making now that you are single, it will be very difficult for you to master it when you get married.
Marriage doesn't cure promiscuity, but self control does.

2) The Issues of making love to your partner.
It will be wise that you keep yourself pure till marriage, purity in thoughts, action and words. All those who are deceiving you that virginity doesn't help only want to dump you after enjoying your body.

One of the hardest parts about marriage which many cannot stand is on the issue of love making, this is because of lack of self control when the urge comes. One partner may be a novice while the other is a professor in lovemaking; one has a high urge while the other can stay for months without it and still feel normal as if nothing is happening.
Virginity helps you to be self-discipline in love making, it will prevents you from undue and ungodly exposure to love making that could either make you hate it with perfect hatred or make you a ...https://allsinglesandmarried..com/2020/07/the-hardest-part-of-marriage-nobody.html

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Romance / Re: Big Brother Naija: Lilo Shows Off Unshaved Vagina On Tv In Front Of Eric by Allsingles: 11:40am On Jul 26, 2020
tetralogyfallot:
what is d pornography in bbnaija? Bbnaija is highly overrated!

So all vagina exposure and breast exposure is a normal thing that should be showing on the screen of TV?
Romance / Re: Big Brother Naija: Lilo Shows Off Unshaved Vagina On Tv In Front Of Eric by Allsingles: 3:15am On Jul 26, 2020
Through big brother naija, pornography is now legalized in Nigeria.

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Romance / Dear Ladies, Please Take This Serious. by Allsingles: 3:11am On Jul 26, 2020
A man's penis remains the same, whether he has sex with different vaginas of different sizes.
He doesn't even need to do kegels to keep his penis in its original state.
It is strange that you find some women trying to compete with their men using their private parts.
A penis does not lose shape, tightness or looks, but when you abuse your vagina, it eventually does.
You'll start noticing that thing that looks like a liver sticking out and no longer retracting.
Then you will start to fill up with air when you have sex.
Then you will no longer feel certain dicks and only feel huge ones.
Then you won't feel any dick at all.
You will then go around saying so and so has a small dick, forgetting that you have a stadium between your legs and one man can never fill up the whole stadium.
A man and a woman are not built the same.
You can compete with him, but you will be the one who will get finished and not him.
Ladies respect yourself.

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Romance / I'm Lonely, I Need A Man To Can Satisfy Me by Allsingles: 8:43am On Jul 24, 2020
Am a Single Lady of 38, I want a companion, a man of 43yrs upwards that is very playful, matured,neat, romantic, disciplined, financially stable and fears God. A Christian and preferably Yoruba based in Abuja He might be a single dad or divorced it not married man plssssss.
Am very playful,neat, intelligent, disciplined, God fearing and business orientated, Am blessed with a sweet shape and a size 12.
I will be at the comment section.

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Romance / Before You Accept His Marriage Proposal, Think About This. by Allsingles: 8:45am On Jul 17, 2020
Marriage as we all know is a life time journey between a man and woman who love themselves and are willing to live with each other for the rest of their lives.

Accepting to marry him simply means accepting to marry so many thing about him.

Before you accept his marriage proposal, think about the following;

It is very much important to know his family background before accepting his marriage proposal.
Every family has their own way of living, their own believe, both in religion and in traditional believe.

While in courtship, how much do you know his parents, their attitude, the way they approach and....https://allsinglesandmarried..com/2020/07/before-you-accept-his-marriage-proposal.html?m=1.
Romance / What Do Ladies Really Want? by Allsingles: 9:35am On Jul 15, 2020
If you give her sex, she will say
you are after her body;
if you don't give her sex she will
say you are not man
enough.
If you always tell the truth they don't believe you,if you tell lies they trust you.
If you give her money she will call
you a mugu;
If you don't give her money
she will say that you are stingy
and greedy.
If you are very caring she
will take you for granted;
if you are not caring she will say
that you don't love her.
If you always call her she will say
that you are disturbing her;
if you don't call her she will say
that you are cheating on her.
If you dress very well she will call
you a player;
if you don't dress well she will
call you a dirty guy.
If you are quiet she will say that
you are too boring.
If you are not, she will say that
you are too lousy.
Help her in the kitchen she will
say that this man is a woman
wrapper;
if u don't help her in the kitchen
she will say that this man is
using her
as a slave.
WHAT DO U
LADIES REALLY WANT?
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