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Romance / Re: "Dont Spoil My Make Up Oo"–Bride Tells Groom On Wedding Day (video) by Allsingles: 8:32pm On Nov 19, 2020
Make is part of so many problems that caused broken marriages but still women are using it to decieve some men.
Shame on all of you.
Romance / Re: Lady Breaks Up With Her Boyfriend After Training Her Through Nursing School (Pix by Allsingles: 4:46pm On Nov 17, 2020
Long ago I have sworn never to train any woman in school, even if is primary school, I will not train her.

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Romance / The 4 Things You Shouldn't Neglect In Your Marriage Or Relationship, If You Want by Allsingles: 12:34pm On Nov 11, 2020
For any marriage or relationship to be awesome, great, enjoyable and also become what you have always desired or dreamt to have, you have to create it by yourself together with the ability and commitment of you and your spouse. Most times we take some things as not important or valid in making our marriage or relationship a good one, the one that will have our taste of friendship with our lover. Neglecting some things out of your marriage or relationship will make you not enjoy the goodness, advantages and benefits that come with those things, and those things you shouldn't neglect in your marriage or relationships if you want to have the tastes of what you have always desired are;

1) Always engage yourselves with loving conversation. Loving conversations such as appreciating your lover for being part of your happiness, how he or she has added value into your life. Admiring the beauty and handsomeness of your spouse, how you always enjoy kissing each other, and that you can't do without hugging him or kissing him a day. These are the types of conversations that will keep the flame of love in your marriage or relationship alive.

2) Daily romantic love messages. Love messages are part of communication which makes marriage and....https://allsinglesandmarried..com/2020/11/the-4-things-you-shouldnt-neglect-in.html
Romance / Men, Be Careful With These Categories Of Women, They Can Render Your Destiny Use by Allsingles: 3:32pm On Nov 03, 2020
Relationships of nowadays for most girls is like opening micro finance bank. You hardly see a Lady without a long list of what she is expecting to enjoy from her boyfriend immediately the relationship is confirmed.

If you as a young man, you don't have a good business or a good paying job which can make you to be spending money on your girlfriend as she wanted it, my brother NO WOMAN will take you serious and....https://allsinglesandmarried..com/2020/10/dear-men-be-careful-of-these-categories.html
Romance / If Your Woman Has These Characters, It Means She's A Cheap Woman. by Allsingles: 12:06pm On Nov 01, 2020
Accurate definition of cheap thing are, something that is always accessable, you can easily get it, it's not stressful to get, you can easily afford to have it without much struggle etc.

A cheap woman is easier identified through her characters and her approach to men, below are some of the things that will proof to you if your woman is cheap or not.


1) Always giving her number to any man that asked for it. You will not even know when it happened and you will also not be there when they start falling in love with each other because it can happen on facebook, twitter or in a whatsapp group chat. So thinking that you guys are always together will not stop her or change anything.

2) When she easily collect gifts from men whether the person is new to her or not. She may be doing this in the name of be social or she....https://allsinglesandmarried..com/2020/10/if-your-woman-has-these-characters-it.html

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Romance / Dear Men, One Wife Should Be Enough For You by Allsingles: 7:52am On Oct 25, 2020
Every now and then I hear a section of single and married men say that they can't be faithful to one wife with the argument that sticking to one woman for a lifetime is like condemning oneself to eating only one diet or delicacy for life. Although that belief sounds funny to the ears, however, it's not really laughable. It's not!

Honestly, many men don't understand what marriage means and its implications. I am never surprised when some men say that anyway. To me, it's simply a sign of ignorance and godlessness.

Marriage is a lifetime commitment to one's spouse. We don't marry to "taste" and "test" other people sexually. Marriage signals or heralds the end of "sexual indiscipline". In fact, according to God's standard, we are supposed to enter marriage in a state of virginity. And those who lost their virginity, well God doesn't throw you away, alright? However, He commands you to lead a godly life in the area of sex henceforth.

Sex is very sweet. However, as spouses you are the ones to spice up your sex life by making it interesting, sweet, adventurous and romantic to both of you. Sex life shouldn't be boring, tiring or unappealing. It must be something that both of you should always be looking forward to.

There's nothing "sweet" or "sexy" about a married man having sex with different ladies. It's simply a sign of gross sexual irresponsibility and godlessness.

There's nothing sexual that a husband can't get from one wife. One wife has all the variety of "soups" or "delicacies", be it ogbono, onugbo, oha, nsala, eforiro, edikang ikong, ewedu, bongo tchobi, ndole, nkwui, okasi, fried, white or jollof rice, moin-moin, beans, plantains, fufu, eba, semo, etc. If you are looking at sex as a delicacy, then your wife has all the delicacies you like. Just change your mindset and attitude towards her.

I have been married for years. As a man, I also face sexual temptations like every other man out there. But I won't succumb to any of them for anything. My wife is enough, more than enough for me. To enjoy your marriage with your wife alone, you must be contented with her vagina. That's the raw truth many men don't want to come to terms with.

I will be blunt here: no woman is sweeter than the other woman. They all have the same thing. The only difference between your marriage and the marriages of those who are not cheating on their wives is contentment and the fear of God. No man who has the fear of God will be saying that he can't settle for just one woman in marriage. Truth be told: men who go after other women, generally have LUST issues but they won't admit it.

Now, let me stike the balance here:

Dear men, I would like you to know that women have sexual urge also. Don't think that women can't also say that they wish to try other men's penis just as you are always trying other women's vagina out there. Who told you that sexual indiscipline is MALE only? Whether men or women, we all feel the same way. But for the sake of contentment, respect of one's marital vows and most importantly the fear of God, many of those wives won't behave the wrong way. Dear men, please don't take the sexual discipline of your wives for granted. Because if they start doing what you do, please don't blame them. Cheating is wrong no matter who commits it. Cheating husbands should never be excused for their sexual misconduct.

Dear men, please cherish your wives with all your heart. Treat them like the queens they're. Sexual indiscipline is recklessness, wickedness, insensitivity, gross direspect to one's spouse and most importantly, godlessness. Like many men out there, I am proudly a happy married man to one wife. Together with my wife we are happy with ourselves, not because we have everything going on well for us, but because we're satisfied and contented with whom we are and what we have down there. That's the way to be happy in one's marriage.

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Romance / The Benefits Of Kegel Exercise. by Allsingles: 5:47am On Oct 17, 2020
Edited by Doctor. Alozie Ikemsinachi

1: It improves the tubes and body for child bearing.

2: it prevents a woman from losing control of urinating as she grows older.

3: it helps in reduction of backaches.

4: It tightens the vagina and prevents vagina walls from been losed and easy penetration into the vagina.

5: It helps the woman to experience a better sensations and sexual excitement when the penis is inside the vagina

6: It prevents the womb from prolapsing( that is gradually coming lower and out of the of the vagina which is know older women and woman with many children.

7: It will help you reach orgasm regularly and faster.

8: It turns you into a skillful woman in bed as you give your man the best.

9: Kegel exercise helps your vaginal walls from experiencing vagina prolapses and empowers it to receive strength.

Please stop all this religiousity whenever an issue of sex is been discussed or mentioned.
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Romance / My Man Said He Is Not Responsible For My Pregnancy, Please Help!! by Allsingles: 6:04pm On Oct 07, 2020
I have been in a relationship for 2 years now and the first year was good but the second years was really bed in the scene that my boyfriend best friend tried to be sleep with me but I refused him and I threatened to tell my guy , then he begged me, he even knelt down begging me that it was a mistake that he didn't mean to get carried away, only to go at my back and tell my guy I seduced him infact ehh It took God's intervention to make things right again but things were never the same again.. last year December I got pregnant for him, he shouted at me and insulted me that am loose to get pregnant at a time like that, so because of the emotional trumer, I had a miscarriage then fast forward to now , I found out am pregnant again and I told him he clearly told me that he is not the one responsible . I thought it was a joke I told him to be serious he told me that being pregnant is the least I could come up with , he acted so cold and inhumane to me , that's pure wickedness .. meanwhile the person is not an illiterate but a graduate that with so much knowledge... I told him that let's break up ... because it's clear that he doesn't love me am in so much pains right now , I don't know what to do, this is the same person I can do anything for , I loved him selflessly, I loved his family as my own... Because they know me... I just can't understand why he will keep doing this to me yet he claims he loves me... Am done with it...
Pls house I need ur advise.
Romance / Names of boys or men you should always avoid by Allsingles: 11:10am On Oct 06, 2020
1 John ( my sister run for your life)
2 Samuel( Dem no de take eye see bress)
3 Daniel (Dem no like school)
4 victor ( Dem like bleaching)
5 Tony ( if you see Dem call police)
6 David (Dem Sabi play girls eeh)
7 Peter (heart breaker avoid Dem)
8 Jerry (porn stars ... always Hot)
9 Emmanuel ( Dem no Sabi toast girls only to play ludo )
10 Friday ( always at snooker junction)
11 Joseph (no credit likes fine girls but always broke)
12 Charles ( Dem Sabi lie, brostitudes)
13 Ben( I advise make u wear mask)
14 ikechukwu( Dem too like girls, )
15 Raphael, Nosa ( double dating girls)
16 Ifeanyichukwu ( always gossipping)
17 promise ( no money for tp always treaking)
18 Bright (Dem no de baf)
19 Stanley,( condom sellers and always on tight gean )
20 Michael, Patrick, Jaypee (lover of sugar mummy)
21 James ( father of lies)
22 Richard ( always giving girls lift and collect their number)
23 Samson, Zaiki ( Dem too like )
24 Kingsley( Dem short and wicked)
25 Timothy (Dem no get respect)
26 Simon ( father of many children)
27 Uche ( na evil spirit Dem be )
28 Mudi ( 2 sec man always drinking agbo jedijedi)
29 Abraham ( Dem too like fine girls)
30 Nelson ( Dem no dey see woman for eye)
31 Marvel ( Alterboys on Sunday and bar man on Saturday for club)
32 Solomon ( Dem too de fear to toast girls)
33 Gabriel ( Dem no get trouble) but Dem be slow poison
34 Kelvin ( Dem too like abortion)
35....Ebuka ( always going off key in choir practice
36..Ugochukwu (k legs Dem no Sabi park trouser well)
37..Chukwudi ( chemist man)
38..Fred, Alvin (registered flirt)
39...Chukwuma, Frank ( Dem always Hot)
40...Emeka (very very very important just avoid them)
41...Onyedika ( talkative)
42....Arinze ( mummy boy)
43... Francis (slow poison)
44...Ndubuisi ... ( Always chewing gum)
45..Chidiebere (they too like woman)
.Somadina,. Chinedu,Osita,,Onyebuchi,.Uchenna,.Somtochukwu,Ikenna, Obinna (this ones they like people's girlfriends and wives)
Romance / Pregnancy, Hallmark Of The Three Trimesters by Allsingles: 3:14pm On Oct 01, 2020
Pregnancy is divided in to three (3) phases, and these are called trimesters. Each have their peculiarities, marked by specific developmental milestones for the unborn babies.

By dividing the pregnancy duration in to trimesters enables easier management of pregnancy concerns, and in the monitoring of expected developments in a growing baby.

First of all, a pregnancy is considered full-term at 40 weeks. However, in some cases babies that are delivered before the end of week 37 are considered premature.

Premature babies are at more increased risks for problems with normal growth and development, this also includes difficulties in breathing and digesting. However, some premature babies however might have no problems at all.

●●●● First Trimester (0 to 13 Weeks)

The first trimester is the most crucial and important in the life of your baby's development. A lot of vital organ development occur at this stage of pregnancy. Expectedly during this period, your baby's body structure and organ systems develop. Unfortunately, most miscarriages and birth defects occur during this period.

In this trimester, the mother’s body undergoes major changes and these changes often cause a variety of symptoms, including

• nausea,

• fatigue,

• breast tenderness

• and frequent urination.

Although these are common pregnancy symptoms, every woman has a different experience and are wired differently. For example, while some may experience an increased energy level during this period, others may feel very tired and emotional. Also, while some will experience extreme vomiting and nausea, others might just be ok.

●●●● Second Trimester (14 to 26 Weeks)

This phase, starts from 14 weeks and ends by 26 weeks. The is often called the "golden period" because many of the unpleasant effects of early pregnancy disappear in majority of women.

Also during the second trimester, the mother is likely to experience decreased nausea, better sleep patterns and an increased energy level. However, in some women, they may experience a whole new set of symptoms, such as back pain, abdominal pain, leg cramps, constipation and heartburn. In this stage, somewhere between 16 weeks and 20 weeks, you may feel your baby's first fluttering movements. This can vary, it can come before or after this set time.

●●● Third Trimester (27 to 40 Weeks)

Finally, your last journey to bliss BEGINS. This starts from 27 weeks. Most mothers feel so impatient at this phase. Majority are very excited and anxious for the birth of their baby. Some of the physical symptoms you may experience during this period include:

• shortness of breath,

• hemorrhoids ( So called pile)

• urinary incontinence,

• varicose veins

• and sleeping problems.

Good news, many of these symptoms arise from the increase in the size of your womb, which expands from approximately 2 ounces before pregnancy to 2.5 pounds at this stage.
At about 40 weeks, the journey ends with birth of your beautiful bundle of joy!
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Romance / That Type Of Love Messages You Haven't Sent To Your Lover by Allsingles: 2:14pm On Sep 29, 2020
When it comes to expressing your love for your spouse, choosing the right words is the most important thing. It doesn’t matter how much you love someone if you fail to craft the art of picking the right words for your romantic messages, all your efforts to make them realize it will go in vain. Romance is an inevitable part of life and words are the perfect component to make it incredibly rewarding. You do not need a special day like an anniversary or valentine’s day to say how much you love your spouse. Brighten up their day by saying how you feel about them. Because this life is too short not to say ‘I love you’ to that person you so much love.

People treasure a heart-warming love message more than an expensive gift.
So please do not ignore the power of words and jump in the boat to render your affection through words any time anywhere you want. Explore these uniquely crafted romantic messages and pick the right one that you think best for your lover. Send them via text message or social media platforms to make them feel the warmth of your love. Tell them just how much...https://4evertogeda..com/2020/09/romantic-love-messages-that-can-make.html
Health / The 11 Diseases That Can Be Cured Using Lime Juice. by Allsingles: 6:38pm On Sep 27, 2020
A Disease according to the advance learners dictionary is defined as An abnormal condition of a human, animal or plant that causes discomfort.

According to the United States Department of Agriculture (USDA) National Nutrient Database, the juice of one lime that weighs approximately 44 grams (g) contains:

11 calories

3.7 g of carbohydrate

0.74 g of sugar

0.1 g of fiber

0.13 g of protein

Lime, a citrus fruit which is round and green is found in most places in the world. It has some useful medicinal benefits that most people don't know about it till today. We will be learning few of those diseases that lime can cure.

1) CONSTIPATION
The lime juice is of great value in constipation. When taken as the first thing in the morning in a glass of warm water, in chronic cases, it helps remove the disorder by promoting biliary secretion from the liver.

The citric acid in limes has an alkaline reaction in the system. The acid together with mineral salt present in the juice, helps the digestion by assisting in the absorption of fats and alcohol and by neutralizing excessive bile produce by the liver. The juice counteracts the effects of greasy foods and reduces gastric acidity. Its therefore valuable in the treatment of peptic ulcer.

2) COMMON COLD.
lime is ideal in all type of fever and cold if taken with diluted vitamin C or coconut water. Rich lime juice increases resistance, reduces toxicity and...https://4evertogeda..com/2020/09/the-11-diseases-that-can-be-cured-using.html
Romance / Dear Ladies, Any Man Who Truly Loves You Will Not Ask You To Get Pregnant First by Allsingles: 1:24pm On Sep 27, 2020
If a man truly love you, he would not want you to:

1) Be pregnant for him before he will go on with the Marriage rites. He wants you to get pregnant for him first before the Marriage things are done on your head because he doesn't love you, he doesn't value your love for him, he doesn't trust you that you have not damage your womb in the cause of one abortion or the other.

He also doesn't want to hear that you are not fertile as a woman, maybe because of one infection or the other, or because of diseases which may prevent you from giving him a child.

2) A man who truly loves you will not insists that you must stay with him before he can go ahead with the marriage the rites. He doesn't trust your closeness with other men in the street. He wants to be sure that you are not cheating on him with multiple boyfriends. If he loves you and trust you, he will not insists you stay with him in his apartment until Marriage.

Marriage as we all know is for better and for worst, that includes whether childless or not. A man who truly love you, knows very well that pregnancy before marriage is not okay so he will not want to do it with you. A man who truly love you will believe you when you told him that you have not done any abortion and you are also free from any disease or infection that is capable of preventing you from getting pregnant for him after wedding. He will not be insists that you must cohabitate with him before he can go on with the Marriage rites.
These are not the rules of true love.

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Nairaland / General / The Major Things That Can Make You To Commit Suicide by Allsingles: 1:46am On Sep 27, 2020
It is very difficult to believe what can actually make a friend, a colleague, a family member, someone's spouse or a celebrity to think of taking his or her life through suicide. It is also difficult most times to see a clear signs in the behavior or actions of the person that shows he or she is thinking about committing suicide.

There are so many factors that can make someone to take the decision that it is preferable to commit suicide than for him to keep on facing the Challenge, these factors includes:

1) Traumatic experience. Someone who have had traumatic experience in his or her life due to domestic abuse, childhood sexual rape, physical and mental assault, etc. Has a greater risk of suicide, this can take place even after many years of the experience.

2) Chronic pain and illness. When someone is suffering from a chronic pain or illness and think there is no hope for that illness to be cured medically or spiritually. Suicide to this type of person is a way of deciding not to be suffering from the illness, a way to stop being a burden to his family and friends who want to help him get cured.
Chronic pain which also can cause anxiety and...https://4evertogeda..com/2020/09/the-major-causes-of-suicide-nobody-has.html
Romance / Check Out The List Of Things You Must Not Tell Your Wife If You Want A Peaceful by Allsingles: 12:36pm On Sep 26, 2020
There are things you must not allow your mouth to reveal just for the sake of your Marriage, just for you not to destroy your marriage by yourself. Avoid These things, keep them to yourself and for yourself if you want to have a peaceful home.

1) Don't tell her how another woman admired you in the street. She will start monitoring your movement and she is willing to fight with that person that wants to snatch her husband from her. Save her the stress and the disgrace too.

2) Don't Tell her how you assisted another woman financially. This will make her to start thinking that...https://allsinglesandmarried..com/2020/09/check-out-list-of-things-you-must-not.html
Romance / Use These Tricks To Confirm If Your Woman Is Cheating On You With Another Man by Allsingles: 11:30pm On Sep 25, 2020
Cheating has from the beginning of marriage being a deadly virus that has destroyed so many Relationship and Marriage. It has made so many men to train and father a child that he is not biologically related with. So many has committed suicide because their wives cheated on them, so many had also done unthinkable by murdering their wives because of cheating.

Gone are those days when you use unknown phone to call your woman or create a fake facebook account or send your friend to test your woman if she truly love you. These are all old school thinking, it doesn't work anymore and still cheating is on a high degree.

If you want to confirm if your woman is cheating on you with her secret lover, don't get mad with her whenever you suspect something is going on. Don't emotionally make her insecure, don't question her movements, don't search her phone either.

These are the best tricks.
1) Make friend with her best friend. Do you know that your wife's best friend knows everything about you and your wife's Marriage? Including how you make love to...https://4evertogeda..com/2020/09/dear-men-use-these-tricks-to-confirm-if.html
Romance / The Relationship Blame Game, You Need To Read This. by Allsingles: 11:07pm On Sep 24, 2020
I have had the opportunity to interact and counsel so many people on the subject of marriage and relationship and one of the things I have discovered people do is what I call the blame game.

I have also seen this regularly when I post here.

What is the relationship blame game?

This is the act of blaming the opposite gender for marital or relationship failure.

When i set out time to talk to women about having a good relationship, they always blame men and when I now go to speak to the men they blame, the men turn back to blame the women.

This goes on and on and it has really done more harm than good. In fact, I have never seen the good it did. Its negative effect has destroyed lots of relationships.

This is part of what societal influence has caused and it is sad i must say.

We need to understand that no matter how much we play the blame game nobody will win. Women will never agree they cheat more and men will never agree they cheat more so what's the point of this back and front argument and blame?

See listen,

If it's for cheating, men cheat, women cheat.

If it's for being stubborn men are stubborn, women are stubborn.

If it's for being disrespectful, men can be disrespectful, women can be disrespectful and

If it's even for pride both men and women got pride.

At the rate this is been done nobody can truly tell because all we have is an estimated percentage of what you see around you.

Cheating is a Human thing not gender-specific.

Every wrong thing you could mention is a human thing and a personal decision to do them or not.

The difference is that some people have chosen to have sense and exempt themselves from that random human that cheats, lies, or becomes violent.

I am not gonna be a part of this blame game because i know there are awesome men and women out there and with God's help and through my confessions i will be meeting these awesome human and leave those that are looking for which gender to blame to continue in their blame game.

You will mostly attract your confession. If you keep blaming the opposite gender you will almost never meet anyone that is different.

I know I am among the godly and faithful guys out there, I am an exception to whatever negativity any lady want to say men are guilty of and I know that if I am this way then there is a lady out there that is different from the rest, she is virtuous and faithful.

Because I am a man of Job 29 I must attract a woman of Proverb 31.

So if you know you are different then there is another opposite gender that knows he/she is different.

Many of you have never ever experienced a failed relationship before, some have never even been in a relationship before yet you go about blaming the other gender for being the cause for failed relationships and marriage. Who did this to you?

You have recruited other's negative confession and it has become your reality. You are busy learning from those who have made their failed relationship a standard and go about preaching it.

The problem is that you have listened to more of the failed relationship stories more than the ones succeeding.

If there are 10 failed relationships or marriages out there then there are 30 successful ones. Wait, even if there are no successful marriages why don't you do all you can to make yours the first.

This blame game has to stop if you really want a relationship that lasts. You got to be responsible for your words, actions, your thoughts, and meditations. What you allow into your heart determines what you will get.

So instead of blaming the opposite gender, why not take it upon yourself to be different, to do all you can, and believe God to connect you with someone worth the preparation and time you have invested in building yourself up spiritually, intellectually, emotionally, etc.

You have to first work on yourself to be the right person then you are likely going to meet the right person for you. Consciously avoid making comments like it's the men, or it's the women.

Avoid generalization. Yes, we know some men and some women are bad. But the point is to avoid blaming the other gender.

There are bad people out there both male and female and there are good people out there too. You will most times attract your kind.

As for me, My home will be blessed and my wife to be where ever she is right now building herself will bring more blessings to our home and we will enjoy our union because it will be heaven on earth.

My wife can never be my problem like you out there blaming women because she is entering our home with plenty of favor from the lord.

The lord attached a special kinda favor on her and that is what she will bring along while coming because she is different from the rest.
Now choose what to do.

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